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Printablevainandy said: I can't stand them and don't listen to their bullshit about they are straight. They think as long as they get sucked and don't suck that they are straight. When they tell me that, I get them to the point of orgasm, stop, and tell them to suck me off if they want me to finish. Nine times out of ten they will do it. Yeah, that's real straight behavior alright. I don't fool with them at all anymore except very rarely. On the rare occassion that I do, I tell them to keep their fucking mouth shut and don't spoil it by talking.  | |
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Meh, I've tried it - it wasn't for me. It re-affirmed my sexuality in fact.  | |
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meow85 said: The motivation is the deciding factor, not the action. In other words, it's not what you do, it's what you really want that decides who you are.
That's very true. All masturbation could be considered a homosexual act because you're allowing a hand of the same gender to touch your genitals (even if it's your own). However, it's the desire in your mind which determines your sexual orientation, regardless of the actual physical stimulus. | |
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Justin1972UK said: meow85 said: The motivation is the deciding factor, not the action. In other words, it's not what you do, it's what you really want that decides who you are.
That's very true. All masturbation could be considered a homosexual act because you're allowing a hand of the same gender to touch your genitals (even if it's your own). However, it's the desire in your mind which determines your sexual orientation, regardless of the actual physical stimulus. 
I love you, Justin, but maybe that's stretching it a bit...  | |
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onenitealone said: Justin1972UK said: That's very true. All masturbation could be considered a homosexual act because you're allowing a hand of the same gender to touch your genitals (even if it's your own). However, it's the desire in your mind which determines your sexual orientation, regardless of the actual physical stimulus.
I love you, Justin, but maybe that's stretching it a bit... "Stretching", "yanking"... It's all so gay! | |
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Justin1972UK said: onenitealone said:
I love you, Justin, but maybe that's stretching it a bit... "Stretching", "yanking"... It's all so gay!
As soon as I typed that, I thought 
I'm not going into this - mainly because I don't have any stories to tell unfortunately  - but I seem to run into a lot of bi-curious blokes these days. I think there's a few reasons as to why it happens but it's an interesting thing to observe. | |
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onenitealone said: I seem to run into a lot of bi-curious blokes these days.
I think there's a few reasons as to why it happens but it's an interesting thing to observe. I automatically assume that all men are bisexual. It makes life more interesting. | |
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meow85 said: 6sixx6 said: No such animal. You are either Gay or not Gay.
Bullshit. There's a great big middle ground many of us occupy comfortably. You need to get out more. You must be kidding. Any man with another man is gay. Music.............is the THANG! | |
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Justin1972UK said: onenitealone said: I seem to run into a lot of bi-curious blokes these days.
I think there's a few reasons as to why it happens but it's an interesting thing to observe. I automatically assume that all men are bisexual. It makes life more interesting.
If only. 
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Spookymuffin said: Meh, I've tried it - it wasn't for me. It re-affirmed my sexuality in fact.
see? experimentation is very common. i've had sex with women. it was okay, but not really my thing. i've had vegetarian platters before, doesn't mean i am no longer a carnivore. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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sextonseven said: What's the percentage of straight women that have experimented?
  "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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Am I the only one who finds it funny that this work was published in the Annals of Internal Medcine.
(Purile sense of humour, but then I am British) Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: As incredibly appealing as it sounds to be having sex with straight guys, the few occasions that I have, they have been major head cases and that kinda ruins the fun
But are they *really* straight? Or just convincing themselves that they were?And be among her cloudy trophies hung. | |
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Spookymuffin said: Meh, I've tried it - it wasn't for me. It re-affirmed my sexuality in fact.
You were into it; I remember.  | |
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pinkgirl93 said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: As incredibly appealing as it sounds to be having sex with straight guys, the few occasions that I have, they have been major head cases and that kinda ruins the fun
But are they *really* straight? Or just convincing themselves that they were?i'm not supa, but i can give you an answer from experience. back in junior high and high school, i was all about sleeping with all the straight boys i could, including a lot of my closest male friends, most of whom have never had sexual contact with a guy before or since. nowdays, they're almost all married, and their wives even know about it. it was just experimentation and a good time a long time ago. one is getting married in november, and i am even one of the groomsmen, and his wife knows. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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cborgman said: back in junior high and high school, i was all about sleeping with all the straight boys i could, including a lot of my closest male friends, most of whom have never had sexual contact with a guy before or since. nowdays, they're almost all married, and their wives even know about it. it was just experimentation and a good time a long time ago.
one is getting married in november, and i am even one of the groomsmen, and his wife knows. Exactly the same as me. It's not like it's ever discussed at length - but it has been in the past. | |
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although, it bears mentioning that most of the straight men i have slept with don't reciprocate. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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There's 3 separate things going on:
Straight men who experiment a few times. Bisexual men. Gay men who don't/won't come out and just be gay (downlow). I don't know which is most frequent, though. lol. |
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Dewrede said: If a man has sex with another man he can't be straight
Yeah, he can. As others have stated, an act doesn't make you gay or straight. It's not what you do, but who you are. A person doesn't suddenly gain a sexual identity once they have sex. It's there all along, whether we act on it or not. Or even against what we normally would. We're not straight until proven gay, or vice versa. A person could remain celibate their entire lives and still identify as gay, straight or bisexual. It's all about sexual attraction, partnership and love, not what you do with your penis or vagina. |
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CarrieMpls said: There's 3 separate things going on:
Straight men who experiment a few times. Bisexual men. Gay men who don't/won't come out and just be gay (downlow). I don't know which is most frequent, though. lol. CarrieMpls said: Dewrede said: If a man has sex with another man he can't be straight
Yeah, he can. As others have stated, an act doesn't make you gay or straight. It's not what you do, but who you are. A person doesn't suddenly gain a sexual identity once they have sex. It's there all along, whether we act on it or not. Or even against what we normally would. We're not straight until proven gay, or vice versa. A person could remain celibate their entire lives and still identify as gay, straight or bisexual. It's all about sexual attraction, partnership and love, not what you do with your penis or vagina. exactly Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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CarrieMpls said: Dewrede said: If a man has sex with another man he can't be straight
Yeah, he can. As others have stated, an act doesn't make you gay or straight. It's not what you do, but who you are. A person doesn't suddenly gain a sexual identity once they have sex. It's there all along, whether we act on it or not. Or even against what we normally would. We're not straight until proven gay, or vice versa. A person could remain celibate their entire lives and still identify as gay, straight or bisexual. It's all about sexual attraction, partnership and love, not what you do with your penis or vagina. No , a straight guy would never wanna have sex with a man | |
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CarrieMpls said: Dewrede said: If a man has sex with another man he can't be straight
Yeah, he can. As others have stated, an act doesn't make you gay or straight. It's not what you do, but who you are. A person doesn't suddenly gain a sexual identity once they have sex. It's there all along, whether we act on it or not. Or even against what we normally would. We're not straight until proven gay, or vice versa. A person could remain celibate their entire lives and still identify as gay, straight or bisexual. It's all about sexual attraction, partnership and love, not what you do with your penis or vagina. Sounds more like confusion to me. Music.............is the THANG! | |
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kidelrich said: Spookymuffin said: Meh, I've tried it - it wasn't for me. It re-affirmed my sexuality in fact.
You were into it; I remember. You're the reason I'm straight. You...hurt me. | |
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Spookymuffin said: kidelrich said: You were into it; I remember. You're the reason I'm straight. You...hurt me. I thought those were screams of ectsasy. It's so hard to tell with you. | |
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CarrieMpls said: Dewrede said: If a man has sex with another man he can't be straight
Yeah, he can. As others have stated, an act doesn't make you gay or straight. It's not what you do, but who you are. A person doesn't suddenly gain a sexual identity once they have sex. It's there all along, whether we act on it or not. Or even against what we normally would. We're not straight until proven gay, or vice versa. A person could remain celibate their entire lives and still identify as gay, straight or bisexual. It's all about sexual attraction, partnership and love, not what you do with your penis or vagina. THANK YOU, Carrie! I still identify as gay even though I've been with a couple of guys in my lifetime. I even made out with a male friend last year and have occasional crushes on men who are sexy to me for one reason or another. I'm attracted to sexiness, intelligence, confidence, funny and kind people...not just genitals! But I'm a lesbian because I prefer women. I prefer looking at them, I prefer them as sex partners, I prefer them as companions, and when I do settle down next with a partner, I want her to be a woman. It has very little to do with whether or not I've been with 2 men and 1,000 women.  The Normal Whores Club | |
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kidelrich said: Spookymuffin said: You're the reason I'm straight. You...hurt me. I thought those were screams of ectsasy. It's so hard to tell with you. I wasn't even hard.  | |
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Spookymuffin said: kidelrich said: I thought those were screams of ectsasy. It's so hard to tell with you. I wasn't even hard to penetrate. No, that's true. You weren't. | |
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kidelrich said: Spookymuffin said: I wasn't even hard to penetrate. No, that's true. You weren't. That god for poppers is all I can say. | |
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minneapolisgenius said: sextonseven said: What's the percentage of straight women that have experimented?
I'm guessing 50%. | |
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sextonseven said: minneapolisgenius said:
I'm guessing 50%. Take it from The Mistress - it's definitely higher.  The Normal Whores Club | |
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