JustErin said:

Not really. I've told you this before, but people act like there aren't conventions(you can call them rules if you want). Needy guys aren't seen as attractive by girls.

JustErin said:

Amen...no games please.

Sweeny79 said:

Read my responses, sweeny.

kidelrich said:

I was completely honest in my response.

kidelrich said:

How many people need to tell you this before you believe it's the truth?

kidelrich said:

Ok, I know now that you think I'm being dishonest when I respond.

Yes, women don't like needy guys, but I don't see calling the next day as needy at all. I see it as interested.

Calling every single day after making first contact would be needy. Calling 5x a day is needy.

applekisses said:

As was I...needy isn't when you call or when you don't it's how you act when you are actually talking to her.

I usually know whether or not I'm gonna call the chick back within the first 3 minutes of the blow-job.

JustErin said:

Go call the bitch Ian!

Illustrator said:

JustErin said:

Exactly.

JustErin said:

You're generalizing here, Erin.

kidelrich said:

Did you not say that we were not being honest? How is that generalizing??

JustErin said:

I said, in this instance, most of the people weren't being honest about what a girl would think. I didn't say "every" time you commented, which is definitely what you implied.

kidelrich said:

Got it. You just think I am lying in regards to this.

Well, I am a girl, so is Sweeny and Applekisses. We are telling you what we think. You can choose to not believe it if you please.

Anyway, I hope when ever you choose to call the chick feels it was the appropriate time to call and all goes the way you want it to.

I think Erin, Apples, and I...along with a few others were very honest in our responses. Why whould we lie? What would we hve to gain? Just because we didn't tell you what you wanted to hear doesn't mean we are concealing the truth in anyway.

Yes women do not like clingy men...but I gather that most if not all women would love it if a guy we liked enough to give our number to, would call us the next day and say something like " Hey... I've just been thinking about you all day and I just wanted to say Hi...maybe we can grap some coffee or dinner soon?"

Most women would melt.

Now stop being a fucktard and call her.

JustErin said:

JustErin said:

yup

Sweeny79 said:

You know how to talk to a guy. Guy's like that. Maybe I'm being honest. Maybe not.

Sweeny79 said:

Haven't we had discussions about how the girls I meet aren't like you or Erin. How many times have we gone through this?

kidelrich said:

Dude I just got home from work....what are you on about?

Sweeny79 said:

Your homework assignment is to read all the responses to this thread. Then you will know, grasshoppa.
[Edited 9/6/06 13:43pm]

kidelrich said:

You wanna play games...go ahead play games...but never expect anything but games in return my friend.

Like Erin said...hope it works out for ya.

kidelrich said:

I mean about me being able to talk to guys...not about your romantic drama.

Sweeny79 said:

Again, read my responses to this thread. Don't assume.

It's on flames!

kidelrich said:

Dude you have the thickest skull I've ever seen...but whatever

Sweeny79 said:

Nope. Erin agreed with me way up top.

kidelrich said:

No she didn't you fool...she gave in and backed away...she didn't agree.

kidelrich said:

In all fairness Ian, you have no idea what this girl is really like. If you did, you wouldn't have needed to make this thread.

I believe that it's you that should stop assuming because at this point you know nothing about how she would react.

Just do what you feel is right, and see what happens. That's all you can really do.