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Reply #60 posted 02/13/11 3:42pm

nursev

DoffieParker said:

if prince did ban them i wouldn't blame him! who wants an aging ex gawping while u getting cozy with new fluff?

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Reply #61 posted 02/13/11 3:50pm

DoffieParker

nursev said:

DoffieParker said:

if prince did ban them i wouldn't blame him! who wants an aging ex gawping while u getting cozy with new fluff?

nod highfive

lol plus no bad vibes to penetrate beyond the velvet rope.. in2 the inner sanctum!

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Reply #62 posted 02/13/11 4:00pm

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HatrinaHaterwitz said:

WaterInYourBath said:

Yeah, that's what I posted at first. nod

As I recall it, the whole show wasn't about Prince. shrug

But I don't see any reason why Mani shouldn't have sat through the part where he received a Lifetime Achievement Award, anyway. She was a fan of the man for years before she married him and she WAS married to him.

Personally, I think it would have been tacky and childish for her to get up and leave during that part and everybody up in here would have clowned like hell had she done so.

They're supposed to adults and they do happen to associate within some of the same circles. Because they are divorced, doesn't mean they have avoid each other like the plague.

If she was at a Kingdom Hall, would Prince have her thrown out before he entered?

Hey, you know I understand what you're saying. lol I'm only pondering from her point of view, not Prince's.

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Reply #63 posted 02/13/11 4:06pm

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errant said:

Yeah.

It was pretty tacky of Eric and Mani to show up at the BET Awards last year when Prince was getting his lifetime achievement tribute or whatever it was.

True.

I'm on Prince's side with this one. It seems like it wasn't an amicable breakup, and her showing up with her new man at an event Prince is an actual part of is tacky. Mani always struck me as that homely, boring groupie who struck gold anyways.

[Edited 2/13/11 16:27pm]



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Reply #64 posted 02/13/11 4:12pm

Maytiana

Well it's not like he owned the Grammys or the BET awards. rolleyes

And if we're calling people names, can I be Mani's sister because she's beautiful. lol

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Reply #65 posted 02/13/11 4:16pm

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DoffieParker said:

if prince did ban them i wouldn't blame him! who wants an aging ex gawping while u getting cozy with new fluff?

Wow.

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Reply #66 posted 02/13/11 5:28pm

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I hope this isn't true. So what if Eric and Manuela are in the same room with Prince. That would be an complete act of immaturity on Prince's part. He's too damn old to act like that. Eric didn't steal Manuela from him. So there shouldn't be any animosity, unless Prince wants Manuela back and she rejected him for Eric. I don't think that's the case, either. Besides, Prince probably brought a date, anyway. He wouldn't have the time or need to focus on anyone else in attendence.

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Reply #67 posted 02/13/11 5:46pm

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mimi02 said:

I hope this isn't true. So what if Eric and Manuela are in the same room with Prince. That would be an complete act of immaturity on Prince's part. He's too damn old to act like that. Eric didn't steal Manuela from him. So there shouldn't be any animosity, unless Prince wants Manuela back and she rejected him for Eric. I don't think that's the case, either. Besides, Prince probably brought a date, anyway. He wouldn't have the time or need to focus on anyone else in attendence.

EXACTLY! clapping

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Reply #68 posted 02/13/11 5:51pm

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I hear Eric Benet has a new line of coasters out. Also, if you happen to put one in the CD player it has music on it too!

When eye go 2 a Prince concert or related event it's all heart up in the house but when eye log onto this site and the miasma of bitchiness is completely overwhelming!
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Reply #69 posted 02/13/11 6:08pm

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HonestMan13 said:

I hear Eric Benet has a new line of coasters out. Also, if you happen to put one in the CD player it has music on it too!

Like those 20Ten coasters, I've heard not so much about?

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Reply #70 posted 02/13/11 7:17pm

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Y'all are really going in hard on wat a gossip mag. said lol

I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh
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Reply #71 posted 02/13/11 7:20pm

irinact

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[Edited 2/13/11 19:23pm]

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Reply #72 posted 02/13/11 7:20pm

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"Page Six" is gossip (and the NY Post is run by bigoted assholes).. but.. I'm wondering if Michelle_Ebanks @ Essence made that call - why/how would Prince have that much pull for an pre-Grammy party he's not hosting (Essence) or sponsoring (Lincoln)?

Prince disinvites ex's fiance

http://www.nypost.com/p/p...pDxFzmRmVL
Last Updated: 2:40 AM, February 13, 2011

Posted: 1:49 AM, February 13, 2011

Comments: 2

Prince shut R&B crooner Eric Benet out of the Essence Black Women in Music pre-Grammy event in Hollywood because Benet is engaged to his ex-wife, Manuela Testolini, sources told Page Six.

The event Tuesday night at Playhouse in Hollywood honored Grammy-nominated singer Janelle Monae. Benet, who was married to Halle Berry, was disinvited once Prince was expected as a special guest. Organizers believed it was because Prince didn't want to be in the company of his ex.

Prince married Testolini, an entrepreneur who also used to work for his charities, in 2001, after he divorced his first wife, backup dancer Mayte Garcia.

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The "Purple Rain" rocker and Testolini were married for five years until she filed for divorce in 2006. At the time, Prince's lawyer, Patrick Cousins, told People magazine: "This isn't something that he wanted . . . He didn't countersue. He is just trying to get it resolved."

Benet was married to Berry from 2001 to 2003, but the couple split amid rumors he cheated on the Oscar-winning actress, which he later denied. Testolini started dating Benet in 2008, and in November, Benet proposed to her by singing a song he'd written, "Never Want to Live Without You."

Twice-married Prince has been linked to a series of women over the years, including Kim Basinger, Madonna and Carmen Electra. His first wife, Garcia, described him in a 2006 interview as "a bit controlling." He has most recently been linked to ballerina Misty Copeland, who performs in his shows.

Others at the Essence magazine event included Sean "Diddy" Combs -- also reportedly cold-shouldered by Prince, who seemed unfriendly when Combs went to shake his hand -- Cee Lo Green and Joy Bryant. Monae performed four songs at the event, including her hit "Tightrope" with OutKast rapper Big Boi.

Reps for Prince, Benet and Essence all declined to comment.

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Bob Brown 5:28 am
How did this midget pantywaist ever get our attention in the first place.
His voice sounds like a cranky baby.

Well let's keep in mind that the NY Post is owned by Rupert Murdoch ( yep the same dude who owns Fox Propaganda Machine). So let's not take it all 2 literally.cool

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Reply #73 posted 02/13/11 7:23pm

irinact

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Genesia said:

Thanks for stopping by, Mani's mom! wave

Thanks for the giggle giggle , Genesia.

I don't know how old some people in here, but would be nice if kids were not allowed here, too childish to hate some beautiful women you personally do not know, or suspect some people of being their fam. or friends. Crazy.....

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Reply #74 posted 02/13/11 7:27pm

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irinact said:

rubymoon53 said:

Thanks for the giggle giggle , Genesia.

I don't know how old some people in here, but would be nice if kids were not allowed here, too childish to hate some beautiful women you personally do not know, or suspect some people of being their fam. or friends. Crazy.....

Wow - nobody's called me a kid in...geez...at least 35 years. touched

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Reply #75 posted 02/13/11 7:38pm

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mimi02 said:

I hope this isn't true. So what if Eric and Manuela are in the same room with Prince. That would be an complete act of immaturity on Prince's part. He's too damn old to act like that. Eric didn't steal Manuela from him. So there shouldn't be any animosity, unless Prince wants Manuela back and she rejected him for Eric. I don't think that's the case, either. Besides, Prince probably brought a date, anyway. He wouldn't have the time or need to focus on anyone else in attendence.

L.O.L. lol

"You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup...Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend." - Bruce Lee
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Reply #76 posted 02/13/11 7:41pm

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HatrinaHaterwitz said:

HonestMan13 said:

I hear Eric Benet has a new line of coasters out. Also, if you happen to put one in the CD player it has music on it too!

Like those 20Ten coasters, I've heard not so much about?

You knew the name of them though so you must have heard something about them! You just a big ole closet Prince fan hoarding all that new material, taking a hit of Laydown when nobody is around! Admit it!

When eye go 2 a Prince concert or related event it's all heart up in the house but when eye log onto this site and the miasma of bitchiness is completely overwhelming!
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Reply #77 posted 02/13/11 7:58pm

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HonestMan13 said:

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

Like those 20Ten coasters, I've heard not so much about?

You knew the name of them though so you must have heard something about them! You just a big ole closet Prince fan hoarding all that new material, taking a hit of Laydown when nobody is around! Admit it!

The only reason I know the name of it, is because I come here. Though, unless there is a song on it called 20Ten, I couldn't name a song on it to save my life. lol

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Reply #78 posted 02/13/11 8:27pm

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I seriously doubt that NY Post story is true.

As far as Mani appearing at the BET awards, I can totally see her going just so P could see her with Eric. She can go wherever she likes but why bother?

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Reply #79 posted 02/13/11 9:28pm

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babynoz said:

I seriously doubt that NY Post story is true.

As far as Mani appearing at the BET awards, I can totally see her going just so P could see her with Eric. She can go wherever she likes but why bother?

Because her new man is also a Black Entertainer and it is a good idea for him to appear at such events with whomever he's dating, perhaps? Contrary to fam beliefs, the world does not actually revolve around Prince. Not even the world of his exs.

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Reply #80 posted 02/13/11 9:55pm

mimi02

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

babynoz said:

I seriously doubt that NY Post story is true.

As far as Mani appearing at the BET awards, I can totally see her going just so P could see her with Eric. She can go wherever she likes but why bother?

Because her new man is also a Black Entertainer and it is a good idea for him to appear at such events with whomever he's dating, perhaps? Contrary to fam beliefs, the world does not actually revolve around Prince. Not even the world of his exs.

I thought that too, until, I joined here and read some of these comments. It like some orgers believe that sun rises and set in accordance to Prince's wishes. Don't get me wrong, I consider Prince one of the best, but GOTDAMN folks. Dude doesn't have that much pull.

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Reply #81 posted 02/13/11 10:13pm

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Alright, here are my thoughts after reading the article and the comments on this thread lol

First, I have to chuckle a bit at the "...Prince married Testolini, an entrepreneur who also used to work for his charities, in 2001, after he divorced his first wife..." Oh my, how lofty! I've read similar descriptions of Mani before and it always makes me wonder how much of an "entrepreneur" she'd be now without being connected to Prince and to his bank account. lol Although, to give credit where credit is due, she did show dedication and vision when she up and moved all the way to Minnesota to realize her fantasy of snagging Prince, so perhaps she does have it in her to have accomplished something (?) on her own even had she not become Mrs. Nelson.

As for the article and what it alleges: I think Prince is a good person but I also think he's not perfect and he appears (to me) to have shown a propensity to be a bit immature sometimes involving relationships. So yeah, I would totally believe he'd do what this article claims (not saying the article is truth, just saying I could see it being true). HOWEVER, I don't think him doing something like that necessarily proves a passionate burning resentment on Prince's part towards Mani and Eric either. Some may disagree, but Prince seems to me to be the type to sometimes indulge in power plays when an opportunity arises, and for not much greater reason than to show the person/s he has 'more power' than they. What I mean is I dont' think he's so torn up and angry that he stays up nights scheming and plotting revenge against anybody, or fuming about what happened in the past - in this case, with Mani and by extension, Eric - but hey if a chance happened to present itself that allowed him to annoy them as a couple and indirectly stick it to Mani, I believe he might take advantage of that opportunity, smirk for a moment about it, and then move on and not even think of it again. lol

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Reply #82 posted 02/13/11 10:33pm

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HatrinaHaterwitz said:

HonestMan13 said:

I hear Eric Benet has a new line of coasters out. Also, if you happen to put one in the CD player it has music on it too!

Like those 20Ten coasters, I've heard not so much about?

Perfect, perfect, PERFECT comeback, Hatrina. And 100% true, and that's what makes it so funny!

God, these people kill me! So now, Eric and Mani have to plan their schedules around Prince? Bullshit! If BET invited Eric and a date last year, then place the damn blame on them, and even they ain't thinkin' about Prince's ol' ass!

And for those that say the breakup wasn't amicable and she broke up with him, have you ever thought that maybe she caught him basically being himself, "cheating" around?? He was hot and heavy there for a minute with that Lisa chick from Panama and was just getting a little cozy with Tamar, as well. It could be she wanted to leave after finding this BS out, and he was like, "Naw baby, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it. It just slipped in. 100 times. Everytime I saw them....it happens, ya know??!! Can't you forgive an old-school manwhore, for old time sake?"

Remember he ALWAYS likes to paint himself the victim (listen to the lyrics of all of his "Why you do me so cold?" tracks throughout his career), especially when it was his ass who did everything wrong!

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Reply #83 posted 02/13/11 10:45pm

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alexnvrmnd777 said:

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

Like those 20Ten coasters, I've heard not so much about?

Perfect, perfect, PERFECT comeback, Hatrina. And 100% true, and that's what makes it so funny!

God, these people kill me! So now, Eric and Mani have to plan their schedules around Prince? Bullshit! If BET invited Eric and a date last year, then place the damn blame on them, and even they ain't thinkin' about Prince's ol' ass!

And for those that say the breakup wasn't amicable and she broke up with him, have you ever thought that maybe she caught him basically being himself, "cheating" around?? He was hot and heavy there for a minute with that Lisa chick from Panama and was just getting a little cozy with Tamar, as well. It could be she wanted to leave after finding this BS out, and he was like, "Naw baby, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it. It just slipped in. 100 times. Everytime I saw them....it happens, ya know??!! Can't you forgive an old-school manwhore, for old time sake?"

Remember he ALWAYS likes to paint himself the victim (listen to the lyrics of all of his "Why you do me so cold?" tracks throughout his career), especially when it was his ass who did everything wrong!

Only a few of us are aware of that. lol

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Reply #84 posted 02/13/11 10:51pm

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alexnvrmnd777 said:

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

Like those 20Ten coasters, I've heard not so much about?

Perfect, perfect, PERFECT comeback, Hatrina. And 100% true, and that's what makes it so funny!

God, these people kill me! So now, Eric and Mani have to plan their schedules around Prince? Bullshit! If BET invited Eric and a date last year, then place the damn blame on them, and even they ain't thinkin' about Prince's ol' ass!

And for those that say the breakup wasn't amicable and she broke up with him, have you ever thought that maybe she caught him basically being himself, "cheating" around?? He was hot and heavy there for a minute with that Lisa chick from Panama and was just getting a little cozy with Tamar, as well. It could be she wanted to leave after finding this BS out, and he was like, "Naw baby, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it. It just slipped in. 100 times. Everytime I saw them....it happens, ya know??!! Can't you forgive an old-school manwhore, for old time sake?"

Remember he ALWAYS likes to paint himself the victim (listen to the lyrics of all of his "Why you do me so cold?" tracks throughout his career), especially when it was his ass who did everything wrong!

Thank you...thank you....thank you....

I'm so glad to see not every one on here suffers from ADD when it comes to Prince indiscretions.

That's why he likes them soo young.........

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Reply #85 posted 02/13/11 11:20pm

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#TEAMPRINCE

Eff an Eric Benet. Ain't nobody thinking about him and his cheating ass. Who marries a man who's admitted to having a sex addiction?

Someone say sex addiction? Goin' to buy my wedding dress right now. Man with a healthy sex addiction will give you lots of good sex. Sex in the cookie box, sex up yo butt cheeks, oh how the cream will flow...

'Til the phone bills start comin' in and 'Ol Eric is calling those damn sex/chat lines til 3 in the mornin'! What, you want me to do what?? Sex with what?? I thought you said 'doggy style' Eric! Son'ova beyotch ! I can feel Halle's pain already... eek

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Reply #86 posted 02/13/11 11:28pm

p4life

i think this is all a bunch of bull ..don't believe everything u read in the media

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Reply #87 posted 02/13/11 11:32pm

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tabloid nonsense

To Sir, with Love
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Reply #88 posted 02/13/11 11:53pm

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DoffieParker said:

nursev said:

nod highfive

lol plus no bad vibes to penetrate beyond the velvet rope.. in2 the inner sanctum!

Maybe he should ask Janet about penetrating the velvet rope...she has a whole album about it...

"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato

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Reply #89 posted 02/14/11 1:04am

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My father hates my stepfather yet my daughter's father in law and step father in law are best mates. They go on fishing trips together and all sorts.

I guess some people are just lucky the way things turn out. Very difficult for there to be no animosity when people's hearts get broken.

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