You're welcome.

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Speaking of hormonies. . . . . lol for the morning:

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http://www.youtube.com/wa...WispEM3900

OMG, the latest. Ran across it online:

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http://okmagazine.com/mee...-a-friend/

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Check out "when is it the right time to sleep with someone?"

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Her answer: 3 or 4 dates. She goes on to say, if you wanna just have sex (one night stand), then whatever. Oh yea, and you're supposed to get to know someone's morals. In 3 or 4 dates you know someone and their morals? Scary.

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OK, I've been out of the dating scene a LONG WHILE but even back then, there's no way. I must be seriously old fashioned.

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Hopefully, young teens aren't reading this advice. YIKES.

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GoldenParachute said:

She is dumb. I really liked Mayte until she started talking.

Tempest said:

I was never a fan of hers so no loss here.

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Just for the record, Prince is not responsible for stunting Mayte's growth. In other words, hooking up with him. She is very, very immature and that's not his fault or problem. It's hers. I was more mature at 10 years of age than she is right now at 40 years of age. That's no lie and no thanks to my parents (or lack thereof). We are only responsible for ourselves and our own growth regardless of what goes on in our lives. We make our own choices in life. Other people are not responsible for that. It lands squarely in our own laps.

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Mayte was spoiled rotten, immature & a PITA LONG before Prince got on the scene and she still is. Trust me when I say that. I wasn't born yesterday or even the day before.

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True that sister!

Tempest said:

OMG, the latest. Ran across it online:

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http://okmagazine.com/mee...-a-friend/

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Check out "when is it the right time to sleep with someone?"

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Her answer: 3 or 4 dates. She goes on to say, if you wanna just have sex (one night stand), then whatever. Oh yea, and you're supposed to get to know someone's morals. In 3 or 4 dates you know someone and their morals? Scary.

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OK, I've been out of the dating scene a LONG WHILE but even back then, there's no way. I must be seriously old fashioned.

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Hopefully, young teens aren't reading this advice. YIKES.

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MY biggest question is.. WHY is some one who has dated VERY little in the last 15 years giving "love/dating" advise? I heard about this and thought it was VERY strange??? Hmmm???

Orionforever said:

Well, there's new "love advice" for anyone who wants to check it out:

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http://okmagazine.com/mee...-on-dates/

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I nearly split a gut reading the answer to "How do you handle paying at the beginning of a relationship?". Once again, it's all about beauty, nails, hair & lookin' cute! Obviously, she's under the impression that looks are everything in life.

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God forbid! Don't open your wallets ladies! She advises to "Hold strong to your wallet." It's all about how you're lookin'!

Cyn said:

Orionforever said:

MY biggest question is.. WHY is some one who has dated VERY little in the last 15 years giving "love/dating" advise? I heard about this and thought it was VERY strange??? Hmmm???

You supposed to be her friend recently.. Very strange the way you talk about her. Like everyone on earth, mayte has good and bad sides. Why always sers the bad ones. I m not all agree with her, but i don't think she's the badest One, or the worst.

I was Nellys Friend and a so/so friend of Mayte's.. but they showed their TRUE colors to me when they both turned on me for a stupid innocent comment that I didn't think was a huge deal..

That is the problem with people now days..

they use other people lke disposable razors.. get tired of them.. and throw them away..

FRIENDS LISTEN to Friends.. they don't scream and hollar at them and then hang up the phone SOO imature..

Tempest said:

Well, there's new "love advice" for anyone who wants to check it out:

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http://okmagazine.com/mee...-on-dates/

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I nearly split a gut reading the answer to "How do you handle paying at the beginning of a relationship?". Once again, it's all about beauty, nails, hair & lookin' cute! Obviously, she's under the impression that looks are everything in life.

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God forbid! Don't open your wallets ladies! She advises to "Hold strong to your wallet." It's all about how you're lookin'!

Hey Tempest.. People who are Shallow and not good decent fun caring people tend to worry MORE about their outside appearance .. because they are trying So hard to hide the horrible person inside.. In alot of cases. its the average.. or below average looking folks who are the kindest and most caring about other people...

Orionforever said:

Hey Tempest.. People who are Shallow and not good decent fun caring people tend to worry MORE about their outside appearance .. because they are trying So hard to hide the horrible person inside.. In alot of cases. its the average.. or below average looking folks who are the kindest and most caring about other people...

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Agreed. That tends to be the case.

artist76 said:

On the topic of her boob job, she mentioned that it was because she needed it after having a baby. Nicole gave this excuse - she's had 5 babies and breast fed, and it made her sad to look at her boobies after that, so she did it for herself. But Mayte? She's had one and she was in her early 20s, when the body bounces back really well. I've had 3 babies, and after the first, I didn't find my breasts much "damaged" (and it took me nothing to get slim again). And she didn't even breast feed, I assume (and that part is sad, I know, I feel for her about that). I just find her whole "baby" excuse very suspect. If you just want to have bigger boobies, just say so without apology or excuse - many women do. And they don't blame it on some pregnancy/baby.

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That's a bunch of bologna that it was because of the baby. Please. She wanted bigger boobs (period). She honestly believes that it will improve her sex life.

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According to the show, she originally got enhanced 10 years ago (or so) which was around the time of Tommy Lee, or just after TL (I think). She probably saw all the huge knockers he's bedded and decided that's what all guys want. Pamela was probably an inspiration for that decision. Mayte decided to get knockers many years ago. It was something she cooked up in her own head and something SHE WANTED. This is definitely NOT a case of baggy boob syndrome. It was purely for larger boobs without a doubt.

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Superfan1984 said:

Ummm.... On tonight's show when Jessica wanted Mayte to come upstairs to talk (and wasn't physically threatening her in any way) Mayte said to Drea, something to the effect of , "I will not go up there and be her punching bag. I will fight back. You know me, I've been through that before and I will kick her ass."??????The comment was ill placed and made no sense. I don't mean to be grasping at straws here, but was she referring to Prince? Surely she was not trying to let us know that he hit her was she? I know some people will attack me for suggesting this but it was an odd statement and didn't fit what was going on at the time and felt like a passive aggressive way to tell the audience something. ??anyone notice this?

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Weird. I didn't watch yesterday's episode. I'll be sure to watch it online tomorrow when it comes out.

OK, had a chance to watch the last episode.

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Honestly, I don't know who or what she was talking about. However, I don't think anyone took the comments as if there were referring to Prince. I didn't. I think she was just blowing steam (as usual).

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IMO, Mayte could have handled that whole Jessica thing so differently (in the bar). It was obvious that Jessica was very upset about Mayte's comments regarding Playboy and Mayte made those comments when Jessica was already upset about Josie at the time. It would have been so much easier to not get into a shouting & swearing match with her in the bar. Mayte even raised her hands like she was ready for a physical fight (cat like / scratch position in anger along with angry faces) and I think the ladies were genuinely concerned that she was going to hit Jessica or start throwing things.

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It's obvious that Jessica is not proud of her Playboy deal. She regrets it now. So, how about a different approach like taking the high road? Jessica comes to you in the bar and wants to talk about it cuz she's really upset about the comments you made. Instead of getting defensive and lashing back at her, how about putting your arm around your friend, tell her you didn't mean to offend, tell her you're sorry for the comment and give her a hug. It was obvious to me that Jessica really needed some affirmation at that point. She needed a friend to come along side her and encourage her about being a good mother, a hard worker & provider for her child etc. It was really, really obvious to me that's what she needed. In fact, it was obvious to me in the room before they even went to the bar. Instead, Mayte just got got defensive and got back in her face and let her have it. She can never just humble herself and try to make things right. I'm not saying that Jessica couldn't have handled it differently too because she could have. However, Jessica really, really needed to be comforted. That was clear to me. Jessica even used body language by squatting on the ground (looking up at Mayte rather than looking down on her) as a means to communicate submission and her desire to make things right. I picked up on the submissive posturing right away. Whether her body language was done consciously or subconsciously, it was evident she was looking for support. As a friend, it's just not worth getting into all that drama and lashing back when someone is clearly in need of a little affirmation, love & understanding.

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Also, I thought it was strange when Jessica was crying in the room about being alone to raise Josie and not having any child support that Mayte piped up and said, "Neither do I!" like making a comparison between the two. It's like comparing apples to oranges. Jessica had a child with Jose Canseco. Jose has been a deadbeat father (from what I gather on the show). Besides no child support, he hasn't been a father to Jose (he's rarely around). Mayte doesn't have that issue. She CHOSE to have a child on her own and doesn't have to deal with any of that other BS that Jessica & Josie have had to deal with in that regard. In addition, Jessica hasn't had parents or relatives doding on her and constantly available as a personal babysitting service like Mayte does. She's been on her own (her and Josie). So, IMO, it was inappropriate to make a comparison at that point. Once again, what she should have done, is just give her friend support (not compare).

Superfan1984 said:

So I guess there's no 'Desperate Ex-wives' tonight. I just started watching it too. Guess I'll go watch my other show, Keeping up with the Kardashians tonight then.

I like Nicole too, hope it goes well for her.

Since I don't think anyone in GD likes KUWTK, I'm gonna post my comments here. A reality show is a reality show, whatever.

Tonight's episode was about Kim being pregnant and harrassed by the paparazi. I was wondering just what she does that makes people like her so much and the paparazi to go crazy/stalking her? Watching the show she seems like a normal person, nothing special. So why all the craziness?

I also wonder if the girls on 'Desperate Ex-Wives' get this same kind of attention or if they will since they are on a reality show?

I guess time will tell if the Desperate Exes is coming back.

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I've never watched the Kardashians. I don't understand all the commotion around them either. It's strange to me cuz I don't find them very interesting. It's the same way with Paris Hilton. I don't get all that attention either (as a personality). The only other 2 reality shows that I really like / liked and have watched are Joan Rivers (Joan & Melissa: Joan Knows Best) & Gene Simmons Family Jewels.

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It would drive me crazy having paparazzi around me all the time. I know some people thrive on all that attention but it would drive me nuts. I love my privacy. Always have.

Superfan1984 said:

It doesn't seem that the Hollywood Exes get the same paparazzi as the Kardashians but I could be wrong. But, just by judging on all the hubub on here for the Ex's show (which basically only consists of me and Tempest ) it doesn't seem to be getting so much attention. I also never hear about the show on any entertainment shows. I've never seen Entertainment Tonight or any of those shows mention the Exes whereas the Kardashians are everywhere. But, I love Jessica too! I wish them all well, really but Jessica, Nicole and now Shameika , are my favorites

I don't think Shameika will be there next year though. Or maybe she will, what do I know? They don't show her at the introduction of the show, yet? I thought she was just guest starring.

I still don't know what the Kardashians are famous for and why did Ryan Seacrest start the show in the first place. It can't be because of Bruce Jenner since the show is not named after him but the girls who sit around all day.

Tempest said:

I guess time will tell if the Desperate Exes is coming back.

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I've never watched the Kardashians. I don't understand all the commotion around them either. It's strange to me cuz I don't find them very interesting. It's the same way with Paris Hilton. I don't get all that attention either (as a personality). The only other 2 reality shows that I really like / liked and have watched are Joan Rivers (Joan & Melissa: Joan Knows Best) & Gene Simmons Family Jewels.

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It would drive me crazy having paparazzi around me all the time. I know some people thrive on all that attention but it would drive me nuts. I love my privacy. Always have.

I won't be sad if it doesn't come back. It was kind of boring and irritating when they fought. It's just so stupid.

Now Gene Simmons Family Jewels I liked. It was too funny how Gene always got himself into trouble, like when he locked himself on the roof while trying to set rat traps. He's just so dopey that he's kind of lovable for a man who made a living as a big scary rock star. And his family is also adorable. Wonder what happened to that show?

Another reality show that I enjoy is T.I. and Tiny the family hustle. I do not even know who T.I. was but apparently he's a famous rapper but I like him and his family. All the little ones. He seems to be a good father with them.

Yeah, back to the Kardashians, I still don't understand all the excitement around them either. But since there isn't much else to watch on tv, I might keep watching. That's funny though, unlike the other reality shows I watch/watched, I don't get that same feeling of being inside of a nice family.

wildgoldenhoney said:

Tempest said:

I guess time will tell if the Desperate Exes is coming back.

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I've never watched the Kardashians. I don't understand all the commotion around them either. It's strange to me cuz I don't find them very interesting. It's the same way with Paris Hilton. I don't get all that attention either (as a personality). The only other 2 reality shows that I really like / liked and have watched are Joan Rivers (Joan & Melissa: Joan Knows Best) & Gene Simmons Family Jewels.

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It would drive me crazy having paparazzi around me all the time. I know some people thrive on all that attention but it would drive me nuts. I love my privacy. Always have.

I won't be sad if it doesn't come back. It was kind of boring and irritating when they fought. It's just so stupid.

Now Gene Simmons Family Jewels I liked. It was too funny how Gene always got himself into trouble, like when he locked himself on the roof while trying to set rat traps. He's just so dopey that he's kind of lovable for a man who made a living as a big scary rock star. And his family is also adorable. Wonder what happened to that show?

Another reality show that I enjoy is T.I. and Tiny the family hustle. I do not even know who T.I. was but apparently he's a famous rapper but I like him and his family. All the little ones. He seems to be a good father with them.

Yeah, back to the Kardashians, I still don't understand all the excitement around them either. But since there isn't much else to watch on tv, I might keep watching. That's funny though, unlike the other reality shows I watch/watched, I don't get that same feeling of being inside of a nice family.

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Regarding Gene Simmons, I thought there were a lot of good episodes. I agree that he's lovable. I also appreciated all his kooky business ideas. He seems very driven (business wise) & is consumed with making money. He was always coming up with funny business ideas like the bikini carwash. What a hoot! Shannon liked to spend it as fast as he made it too (loves to shop). She and her sister were always going shopping. I agree, the family was great.

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I was never a KISS fan so it was kind of interesting how I stumbled across Family Jewels. I happened to tune in one day just for fun and after that, I was hooked.

I think the reason the Kardashians don't seem very interesting to me is because they do sit around all day.

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