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Thread started 10/30/08 11:55pm

mimi2

Update! Denise Matthews-the book can be ordered now!

OK so Denise just updated her site again. Apparently the book is ready to be ordered now. She has this artistic/kind of scary intro thing too lol

Go check it out biggrin


http://www.blameitonvanity.com/
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Reply #1 posted 10/31/08 3:25am

dustysgirl

I don't know...I'm a vorocious reader and have actually read some Christian books, and those two paragraphs seemed confusing.

I don't understand why she doesn't update her official website denisematthews.com with this book info or even a link. I'm just not sure about all of it.

Two years ago, she said she changed the name of the book to Black Box, now it's back to Blame it on Vanity.
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Reply #2 posted 10/31/08 3:33am

xenophobia2002

why not update in this thread :

http://prince.org/msg/5/281474
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Reply #3 posted 10/31/08 1:06pm

WaterInYourBat
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mimi2 said:

She can write very well-very descriptive, and she uses lots of metaphors. I once remember seeing an interview with her when she was Vanity and she said she never graduated from high school, but at least in her post-Vanity days, her vocabulary is quite advanced smile



One word: Editor(s). LOL.

I will never believe celebrities release books without proper proofreading and/or enhancement by experienced writers/editors.
"You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup...Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend." - Bruce Lee
"Water can nourish me, but water can also carry me. Water has magic laws." - JCVD
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Reply #4 posted 11/01/08 8:45am

jimmiev1967

PLAIN MONEY-HUNGRY!!!!!
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Reply #5 posted 11/01/08 9:38am

allienicolefen

i emailed her about it and she said it will be out in december or january
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Reply #6 posted 11/01/08 11:44pm

ToraToraDreams

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Jesus Christ, she writes like a teenager pretending to sound deep. And with all the shit she's been through...she should be able to write about it more naturally.
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Reply #7 posted 11/02/08 9:41am

simm0061

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ToraToraDreams said:

Jesus Christ, she writes like a teenager pretending to sound deep. And with all the shit she's been through...she should be able to write about it more naturally.

Amen. nod It reads like a she entered a once lucid page of text into an online thesaurus to generate something that would make her sound more clever or profound. eek Instead she just comes across as a bit of a flake...
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Reply #8 posted 11/02/08 9:57am

sexxydancer

I think she'z nutz.nuts I wouldn't waste my money on this-unless there'z a pic of Prince in it. wink
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Reply #9 posted 11/02/08 4:24pm

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God gave her beauty, talent and maybe ? brains....?

All she does is take drugs, sleep around and now write a book to shock everyone.. It does not impress me.

Sorry she deserves an F-
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Reply #10 posted 11/02/08 6:28pm

violetblues

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Reply #11 posted 11/02/08 7:43pm

LizaWoman08

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pplrain said:

God gave her beauty, talent and maybe ? brains....?

All she does is take drugs, sleep around and now write a book to shock everyone.. It does not impress me.

Sorry she deserves an F-


Wait im confused, didn't she become a christian now so wouldn't she stop doing drugs and sleeping around??
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Reply #12 posted 11/03/08 8:42am

mamabeafan

LizaWoman08 said:

pplrain said:

God gave her beauty, talent and maybe ? brains....?

All she does is take drugs, sleep around and now write a book to shock everyone.. It does not impress me.

Sorry she deserves an F-


Wait im confused, didn't she become a christian now so wouldn't she stop doing drugs and sleeping around??

Unfortunately I know people who call themselves Christians and still sleep around and do drugs. Sad but true that most so called Christians I've met are hypocrites in one way or another!
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Reply #13 posted 11/03/08 7:04pm

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mamabeafan said:

LizaWoman08 said:



Wait im confused, didn't she become a christian now so wouldn't she stop doing drugs and sleeping around??

Unfortunately I know people who call themselves Christians and still sleep around and do drugs. Sad but true that most so called Christians I've met are hypocrites in one way or another!


Shes seems sincere though, I mean she has an entire ministry now.
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Reply #14 posted 11/04/08 2:53am

SoulAlive

The book has a beautiful cover love but I don't know if I want to read it.I'm gonna wait and see what you guys say about it.
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Reply #15 posted 11/04/08 5:37pm

kiddo

She writes and speaks like she's still hittin' da pipe!
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Reply #16 posted 11/04/08 6:10pm

IdentityCrisis

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kiddo said:

She writes and speaks like she's still hittin' da pipe!


Damn you! falloff
Let's have a Menage a Trois!
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Reply #17 posted 11/04/08 11:52pm

kimrachell

i'm actually curious to read her book. wink
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Reply #18 posted 11/06/08 12:01am

BobbyPin

That small writing sample gavemea headache.She said a whole lotofnothing!
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Reply #19 posted 11/08/08 8:48am

ddsummer

IdentityCrisis said:

kiddo said:

She writes and speaks like she's still hittin' da pipe!


Damn you! falloff



Leave her alone!.....
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Reply #20 posted 11/15/08 12:27pm

DesireeNevermi
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mamabeafan said:

LizaWoman08 said:



Wait im confused, didn't she become a christian now so wouldn't she stop doing drugs and sleeping around??

Unfortunately I know people who call themselves Christians and still sleep around and do drugs. Sad but true that most so called Christians I've met are hypocrites in one way or another!



omg wow, i actually agree with and cosign that post! but hopefully Denise is true to her faith and christian values unlike some others. She looks beautiful on that cover...almost a cross between Lena Horne and Sophia Loren.
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Reply #21 posted 11/18/08 8:49pm

sunlite

We're not the judge. Bless her for turning her life around and finding peace. Whether you care for her book or not.
Release Yourself
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Reply #22 posted 11/19/08 9:11am

GodsloveisTrue

Let me just say... @ be a Christian does mean you are perfect,I guess one gets this from so called Christians. If perfection was a qualification,,,sadly none of us would obtain the spirit....that is for sure. It is by "grace" we are saved children of God. And another thing just saying is just the start of a long journey of ridicule and trials.

Being saved is a "personal" experience.

Denise is a woman who has been to hell and back...and let me tell you the only way you can get back is walking with Jesus.

I don't know why people make religion so dam hard...and it pisses me off that when someone claims to be having a relationship with God and his son..people say the most stupiest stuff. If someone is doing better...does it matter? and if they say it was through God would it be better if they said, through my girlfreind or best friend? Maybe it would be more believable.



Here is a question:

Have you had your plus sign today? Better yet, have you dusted off your bible today?

Who is your savior and God, and what has he done for you lately?

Peace & Grace
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Reply #23 posted 11/19/08 6:38pm

kiddo

I have a personal relationship with my lord and savior, Snuffleupagus.
He saved me from a life of sin.
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Reply #24 posted 11/19/08 6:43pm

GodsloveisTrue

kiddo said:

I have a personal relationship with my lord and savior, Snuffleupagus.
He saved me from a life of sin.


Snuffleupagus?
Seseame Street? I don't know rather to be offened or praised, however I started to sing the song...(giggles) you care to join in?

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Reply #25 posted 11/19/08 6:54pm

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GodsloveisTrue said:

Let me just say... @ be a Christian does mean you are perfect,I guess one gets this from so called Christians. If perfection was a qualification,,,sadly none of us would obtain the spirit....that is for sure. It is by "grace" we are saved children of God. And another thing just saying is just the start of a long journey of ridicule and trials.

Being saved is a "personal" experience.

Denise is a woman who has been to hell and back...and let me tell you the only way you can get back is walking with Jesus.

I don't know why people make religion so dam hard...and it pisses me off that when someone claims to be having a relationship with God and his son..people say the most stupiest stuff. If someone is doing better...does it matter? and if they say it was through God would it be better if they said, through my girlfreind or best friend? Maybe it would be more believable.



Here is a question:

Have you had your plus sign today? Better yet, have you dusted off your bible today?

Who is your savior and God, and what has he done for you lately?

Peace & Grace


Jesus said, "If the world hates u know that they hated me first"
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Reply #26 posted 12/03/08 11:12pm

mimi2

See my first post-the book is out now and the site has been updated.
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Reply #27 posted 12/04/08 1:18am

BlaqueKnight

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mamabeafan said:

LizaWoman08 said:



Wait im confused, didn't she become a christian now so wouldn't she stop doing drugs and sleeping around??

Unfortunately I know people who call themselves Christians and still sleep around and do drugs. Sad but true that most so called Christians I've met are hypocrites in one way or another!

I know Christians who had messed up lives and turned themselves around for the better. Let's not paint everyone with a broad brush.
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Reply #28 posted 12/05/08 12:01am

VanityFair

Imagine being trapped on a tour bus for months on end with a man who's supposed to be your boyfriend/faithful who's hooking up with other girls left and right IN FRONT OF YOU and then having to go out and smile & perform every night. Imagine that same man cutting you off from many of your old friends and monitoring your every move, as if he owned you. And jeez... never mind the pain of the abandonment or abuse she went through growing up.

Denise cleaned herself up and has done well over the past decade.
I'm proud of her and she deserves some f*ing RESPECT for what she's done.
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Reply #29 posted 12/06/08 11:08pm

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VanityFair said:

Imagine being trapped on a tour bus for months on end with a man who's supposed to be your boyfriend/faithful who's hooking up with other girls left and right IN FRONT OF YOU and then having to go out and smile & perform every night. Imagine that same man cutting you off from many of your old friends and monitoring your every move, as if he owned you. And jeez... never mind the pain of the abandonment or abuse she went through growing up.

Denise cleaned herself up and has done well over the past decade.
I'm proud of her and she deserves some f*ing RESPECT for what she's done.
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I agree with you 100% VanityFair with your comment and excellent reasoning. Vanity is writing this book, although she has been redeemed through the Blood of Christ and is saved, Vanity feels this book is a chapter in her life that needs to be told. This book could possibly help other young girls who may have had or are having a life similar to what she went through. It's easy to look at Vanity as this girl who simply took drugs, slept around and then writes a book about it, but no no no no no, it's no that simple.
Vanity went through a lot in her childhood, with Prince and with her own personal demons. We cannot compare Vanity's Christian walk with other christians who may have been unsuccessful in their Christian walk. True there are Christians who are hypocrits, but there are also Muslims, or people who subscribe to Judaism or Hinduism who have bouts with double standards.People of all faiths at one time or another backslide.

She has cleaned herself up, God has accepted, cleansed, and saved her years ago, and she lives to please God now, not man. For those that don't comprehend the enormous change that being saved has on an individual would take her as a nuts, but she's not nuts, she is a Child Of God and for those who think otherwise need to stop judging because one day we will all be judged by the Good Lord.
So let's get ourselves right, check and seek your own salvation with fear and trembling.....if you don't think Vanity now Denise Matthews is on the up and up then don't buy the book. If someone makes a comment challenging her Christian status well then that's not their place for them to do, that is God's. Let's stop playing God and humble ourselves, and be happy for this Sister in Christ. She is a new creature. Like VanityFair stated, Vanity now Denise Matthews derserves all of the respect in the world.Who has the right to be so critical, judgemental and the ruling authority of what is good, bad, normal, abnormal, conservative or whatever?? Again, great post VanityFair and Denise Matthews I salute you! Tell your story with pride and dignity for you do have people who respect you for who you are and the wonderful person you have become!
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