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Reply #60 posted 06/06/08 12:30am

Flo6

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Yes, I have followed that discussion about the rules too, although I didn't directly comment on it. I'm not really versed enough in online social networks management to have a clear idea of how to set up those rules, but I agree that there should be a fixed set of them and that they should be applied fairly.

As for being hypersensitive... I think Prince once said in an interview that his skin was too thick now to worry about negative comments about him.
I tend to see this as a kind of ideal... but it's tough I admit.






Stymie said:

Flo6 said:

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I'll risk unpopularity [or worse?] to post this:

I got the point about the rules and that this is not a free speech site, but to answer more generally about the initial mention of bad vibes and negativity engendered by racist and the like comments on the Org: I wonder what exactly we are achieving by banning unpleasant, offensive or critical speech, by protecting ourselves behind what seems an increasing amount of cushioned walls...

Does it make us 'better' human beings? More tolerant of other opinions/people? More secure in our ability to cope with and respond rationally and without fear to such hurtful speech? Does it make us more mature?

I have a feeling that many people would like to 'clean' the Org. But I just wonder if in our little cocoon of purist, 'acceptable', pre-fabricated positivity, we don't end up discriminating against a whole lot of people and views.

On another note: I realize that race, religion, politics,.. are all burning hot and sensitive topics, but I also have a feeling that these days, we [people generally, not just Orgers] are becoming offended increasingly easily. This is just an impression of mine about the world generally. The news are replete with cases of people complaining and retaliating because of various real or perceived offenses to their identity, culture, religion, etc.
What does this say about us, about our maturity and self-esteem if they can be so easily shaken? ['easily' meaning for ex. a comment in an online space.]

I'm just wondering if relaxing a little, taking ourselves a little less seriously would not make this planet [and the Org] a more peaceful place...

And to go back to Insatiable's comment: I totally agree that the online world is no different than the offline one, and that both 'good' and 'bad' people can be found in both.
I'd be the first to say that I can be hypersensitive. I feel things way too deeply but I think my main beef is not so much that there are racists here but more that the rules are not being followed by all involved. You shouldn't be able to punish one person for something and not punish the other. But, in listening to Insatiable and Mach and Cinnie and Ben, the fight has left me.
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Reply #61 posted 06/06/08 5:49pm

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Whew! It's amazing how a little "break" calms things down.....Maybe when things get rambunctious, the site takes time off.....??? idea
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Reply #62 posted 06/08/08 9:51pm

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i find it ironic the man who built the site spends less time here than the rest of us.
You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
authentic power is service- Pope Francis
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Reply #63 posted 06/09/08 1:21pm

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ehuffnsd said:

i find it ironic the man who built the site spends less time here than the rest of us.


eek OMG I just see that I am mentioned in your signature biggrin .
With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A....
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Reply #64 posted 06/11/08 3:03am

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True indeed ive only signed up 4 the org in feb. 08' & ive caught on right away.
follow the leader follow the leader
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