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Thread started 06/21/12 5:50pm

SeventeenDayze

Jealous White Girls?

There's absolutely no racist intention with what I am about to write but I am seriously curious about something and hoping that I get your candid responses on this subject...

The other day, I was in a conversation with a few girls. One of whom was a white chick, about age 30, who said that she only dates black men. I've noticed that somtimes this girl makes comments referring to black people as "we" which really threw me for a loop.

After hearing some of her remarks, I was like, "It's easier for white girls to get a black boyfriend than it is for black women". Without hestitation, she responded with, "It's easier for black girls to get white boyfriends than it is for white girls". Every bone in my body knows that's a lie, but I wonder why she said it that way.

Was she offended that I, a black woman (real one) pointed out the fact that an overwhelming number of black guys date white women? Why would she be offended by that?

Another white girl in the conversation, about late 20s, also said that she was dating a black guy who mostly only dated white girls. A part of me wondered if these girls were trying to bring this up in a lame attempt to make me and the other black girl "jealous".

Do white girls who only date black men have a jealousy of black women or something? Are they jealous of black women who date white men?

I don't hate black men at all but in the last several years haven't dated a black guy because I've lost interest. The attraction isn't the same (of course, I still love Denzel, Blair Underwood, etc.) but in my everyday life I'm mostly into white guys at this stage. But, I don't do this to make my parents angry or to make white girls jealous. So, what gives? Are white girls jealous of black women or something?

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Reply #1 posted 06/21/12 5:58pm

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This will automatically be moved to P&R.

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Reply #2 posted 06/21/12 6:13pm

Stymie

Oh my god. When I thought your threads could get more stupid. disbelief
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Reply #3 posted 06/21/12 6:14pm

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Stymie said:

Oh my god. When I thought your threads could get more stupid. disbelief

Wow. lol

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Reply #4 posted 06/21/12 6:21pm

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smoothcriminal12 said:



Stymie said:


Oh my god. When I thought your threads could get more stupid. disbelief

Wow. lol


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Reply #5 posted 06/21/12 6:22pm

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Stymie said:

Oh my god. When I thought your threads could get more stupid. disbelief

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Reply #6 posted 06/21/12 6:22pm

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Stymie said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Wow. lol

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Reply #7 posted 06/21/12 6:24pm

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smoothcriminal12 said:



Stymie said:


smoothcriminal12 said:


Wow. lol



Hi pumpkin. wave

wave How are you? biggrin


I'm good. Still digging your posts. biggrin
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Reply #8 posted 06/21/12 6:24pm

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If the title was "Jealous Black Girls" [written by a Caucasian person] people would be enraged lol

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Reply #9 posted 06/21/12 6:24pm

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Stymie said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

wave How are you? biggrin

I'm good. Still digging your posts. biggrin

Thanks! I haven't seen you around much. I need to come down here more often. lol

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Reply #10 posted 06/21/12 6:25pm

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Tittypants said:

If the title was "Jealous Black Girls" people would be enraged lol

Well the reaction hasn't been nice so far. lol

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Reply #11 posted 06/21/12 6:26pm

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smoothcriminal12 said:

Tittypants said:

If the title was "Jealous Black Girls" people would be enraged lol

Well the reaction hasn't been nice so far. lol

I see. lol

الحيوان النادلة ((((|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|̲̅̅=̲̅̅|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|)))) ...AND THAT'S THE WAY THE "TITTY" MILKS IT!
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Reply #12 posted 06/21/12 6:35pm

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smoothcriminal12 said:

Tittypants said:

If the title was "Jealous Black Girls" people would be enraged lol

Well the reaction hasn't been nice so far. lol

So, I went out of my way to tactfully ask a sincere question about race/dating etc. only to get berated for doing such....yeah and racism is over? Seriously? It's a question about something that I have wondered about but don't go around asking random white people on the street to share their thoughts...

If some of you think my posts are stupid, why did you bother to come here?

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Reply #13 posted 06/21/12 6:40pm

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SeventeenDayze said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Well the reaction hasn't been nice so far. lol

So, I went out of my way to tactfully ask a sincere question about race/dating etc. only to get berated for doing such....yeah and racism is over? Seriously? It's a question about something that I have wondered about but don't go around asking random white people on the street to share their thoughts...

If some of you think my posts are stupid, why did you bother to come here?

I didn't say your thread was stupid @ all. I'm just noticing the title....

الحيوان النادلة ((((|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|̲̅̅=̲̅̅|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|)))) ...AND THAT'S THE WAY THE "TITTY" MILKS IT!
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Reply #14 posted 06/21/12 6:43pm

Stymie

To tell you how stupid your topic is. Tactfully? Gtfohwtbs.

You make assumptions and generalizations about a group of people. Why didn't you just ask the women you were speaking to?
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Reply #15 posted 06/21/12 6:45pm

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Stymie said:

To tell you how stupid your topic is. Tactfully? Gtfohwtbs. You make assumptions and generalizations about a group of people. Why didn't you just ask the women you were speaking to?

Ouch. lol

الحيوان النادلة ((((|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|̲̅̅=̲̅̅|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|)))) ...AND THAT'S THE WAY THE "TITTY" MILKS IT!
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Reply #16 posted 06/21/12 6:48pm

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What a fucked up thread. neutral

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Reply #17 posted 06/21/12 6:48pm

Stymie

Oh and your stats are bullshit. White people mainly date white people and black people mainly date black people.

You know what she said was a lie but she was to believe that what you said isn't?
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Reply #18 posted 06/21/12 6:50pm

Stymie

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

What a fucked up thread. neutral






It is and I let it piss me off.

Race relations surely will not be strengthened on bullshittery and dumbassery.
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Reply #19 posted 06/21/12 6:52pm

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Stymie said:

Oh and your stats are bullshit. White people mainly date white people and black people mainly date black people. You know what she said was a lie but she was to believe that what you said isn't?

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Reply #20 posted 06/21/12 6:55pm

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Awww, you were doing so well.

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Reply #21 posted 06/21/12 6:57pm

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ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

What a fucked up thread. neutral

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Reply #22 posted 06/21/12 6:59pm

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I think she responded with that inaccurate retort because, it seems, she was offended by how your initial comment made it sound like she's not special. lol So she tried to do the same thing to you, LOL.

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Reply #23 posted 06/21/12 7:06pm

SeventeenDayze

So for those of you who seem to have a problem with this thread, are you a white woman? Just curious. Why aren't the other threads about "self-hating" blacks not met with such venom and it's perfectly okay to make sweeping generalizations based on stats?

Go ahead, I'll wait biggrin

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Reply #24 posted 06/21/12 7:10pm

Shanti0608

Oh goodness me.

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Reply #25 posted 06/21/12 7:11pm

morningsong

Oooooh this is about self-hating black people. I thought this was about jealous white girls. Damn, how'd I make that mistake.

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Reply #26 posted 06/21/12 7:13pm

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SeventeenDayze said:

So for those of you who seem to have a problem with this thread, are you a white woman? Just curious. Why aren't the other threads about "self-hating" blacks not met with such venom and it's perfectly okay to make sweeping generalizations based on stats?

Go ahead, I'll wait biggrin

This makes no sense...what "stats" do you have? ...Your 2 white friends?

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Reply #27 posted 06/21/12 7:13pm

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SeventeenDayze said:

So for those of you who seem to have a problem with this thread, are you a white woman? Just curious. Why aren't the other threads about "self-hating" blacks not met with such venom and it's perfectly okay to make sweeping generalizations based on stats?

Go ahead, I'll wait biggrin

Hey, I'm a mixed black guy, & I must say...I'm kind of offended by this.

الحيوان النادلة ((((|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|̲̅̅=̲̅̅|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|)))) ...AND THAT'S THE WAY THE "TITTY" MILKS IT!
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Reply #28 posted 06/21/12 7:13pm

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Reply #29 posted 06/21/12 7:14pm

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Hmm...sounds like you felt the need to offend her. It sounds like you were thinking and saying she's a slut, and white girls dating black guys are loose. It means black girls are more difficult for black guys to handle. This is what she may have thought!

However, since she was using the word "we", maybe she wasn#t offended at all, and wanted to say race is no big deal, cause she says she sees lotta black guys with white guys. Maybe you are the jealous one?

I don't know how old you are, but this convo you had with her has nothing to do with race. Women are always jealous of other women regardless of their race, age etc...so this kinda small talks really means nothing!

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