Is Church the Right Place to Find a Partner?

Has anyone every tried "connecting" with you at Church?

Is Church even the right place to make a "connection".

If you do connect at Church what happens if the relationship fails?

If you're single, do you go to Church in the hopes of meetinig that special someone? And if so, are you scoping out the surroundings during the sermon or hanging back at the end of the service to see who's there?

If you met someone at Church did you both stop going?

It can be the right place but I wouldn't look there. I don't expect people who go to church to be any better than people who don't go.

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Vendetta1 said:

sweething said:

It didn't work for Bristol Palin

I think no because everybody there is playing a role.

How many Church Girls have you met that said over the phone: "Oh that's nasty. I don't do that."

Then when you get with 'em they take the bass out of your voice.

"Damn Baby! Where did you learn THAT?"

Do different than a gay disco?

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My experience has been that there are young boys or old men... at least at the church I go to.

I actually wouldn't want someone from the church, because it seems like EVERYONE knows your business, and I'm not trying to date a congregation.
Plus, sometimes church is the place where you go to feel better. I wouldn't want a bad/failed relationship to take that away from me.

"...She's got electric boots, a mohair suit- You know I read it in a magazine ..." {Bennie & the Jets}

Vendetta1 said:

noimageatall said:

Vendetta1 said:

It can be the right place but I wouldn't look there. I don't expect people who go to church to be any better than people who don't go.

And there it is. I met my husband at the Kingdom Hall (actually an assembly) and he beat the crap out of me on a regular basis. Club or church...all the same to me.

Meet someone in the library or bookstore, a protest rally for equal rights or helping the homeless, or volunteering at a food bank. At least you know they can read, they aren't sexist, and their heart is in the right place.

God DAMN there are a lot of dumb motherfuckers walking around! - George Carlin
Stalkerwomen of the world unite in delusion!!!!!

Vendetta1 said:

noimageatall said:

And there it is. I met my husband at the Kingdom Hall (actually an assembly) and he beat the crap out of me on a regular basis. Club or church...all the same to me.

Meet someone in the library or bookstore, a protest rally for equal rights or helping the homeless, or volunteering at a food bank. At least you know they can read, they aren't sexist, and their heart is in the right place.

Or on the Org.

noimageatall said:

Vendetta1 said:

Or on the Org.

God DAMN there are a lot of dumb motherfuckers walking around! - George Carlin
Stalkerwomen of the world unite in delusion!!!!!

Vendetta1 said:

japanrocks said:

uPtoWnNY said:

LightOfArt said:

It didn't work for Bristol Palin

carlcranshaw said:

realm said:

RodeoSchro said:

chocolate1 said:

My experience has been that there are young boys or old men... at least at the church I go to.

I actually wouldn't want someone from the church, because it seems like EVERYONE knows your business, and I'm not trying to date a congregation.
Plus, sometimes church is the place where you go to feel better. I wouldn't want a bad/failed relationship to take that away from me.

noimageatall said:

Vendetta1 said:

It can be the right place but I wouldn't look there. I don't expect people who go to church to be any better than people who don't go.

And there it is. I met my husband at the Kingdom Hall (actually an assembly) and he beat the crap out of me on a regular basis. Club or church...all the same to me.

Meet someone in the library or bookstore, a protest rally for equal rights or helping the homeless, or volunteering at a food bank. At least you know they can read, they aren't sexist, and their heart is in the right place.

Vendetta1 said:

noimageatall said:

And there it is. I met my husband at the Kingdom Hall (actually an assembly) and he beat the crap out of me on a regular basis. Club or church...all the same to me.

Meet someone in the library or bookstore, a protest rally for equal rights or helping the homeless, or volunteering at a food bank. At least you know they can read, they aren't sexist, and their heart is in the right place.

Or on the Org.

Vendetta1 said:

noimageatall said:

Okay, it works for some people.

I overheard some guys Sunday and I'm pretty sure they were talking about me -- the gist of the conversation was like...who was going to approach me and while that might sound flattering it wasn't...it was like I was the last slice of cherry pie in the pan and they were flipping a coin to see who was going to get it. Arrggghh! Yes, this was just after church service.


Which brings up the next question:

Is it better to be chosen or is it better to do the choosing?

sweething said:

noimageatall said:

sweething said:

I overheard some guys Sunday and I'm pretty sure they were talking about me -- the gist of the conversation was like...who was going to approach me and while that might sound flattering it wasn't...it was like I was the last slice of cherry pie in the pan and they were flipping a coin to see who was going to get it. Arrggghh! Yes, this was just after church service.


Which brings up the next question:

Is it better to be chosen or is it better to do the choosing?

Not better to be chosen if they act like YOU don't have a choice in the matter.

sweething said:

noimageatall said:

Not better to be chosen if they act like YOU don't have a choice in the matter.

Exactly, that's my point; the whole "someones got to get her(him)...'cant have her(him) coming to church by herself" attitude.

I know they mean well, but...help, I can't breath.

O.K. its really not that serious, but dang!

As long as it's not from your church. I think it's easier or better if you meet somebody who attends a different church. So if it doesn't work out, there's no awkwardness of worshipping at the same place. Even tho church folks may talk, I think it also reduces the focus a little more when there's a mystery of not knowing the other person.

sweething said:

japanrocks said:

church is great

met my 1st and 2nd wives there

Should I ask? Are you a polygamist or are you working on your 3rd?