Dating for atheist/agnostic

My woman grew up in one those crazy ass Holy families (dysfunctional prototypes) no concept of nothing but
constant church and Evans family type strife, you know the types the unworthy and terrified of success crowd, yet alledgedly wanted life in abundance, everybody holy but aint
nothing but illegitimate children. I didnt brow beat her at all, just gave her time to see brainwashing and
control through fear for what it is then I
watched and allowed her to fail...then I hurt her feelings and told her

"You want to know why you over re-inforce things that you claim to believe are true? Simply cause
you really dont believe which makes no sense but are in deep denial about it. Start being honest
with your damn self and see things not how you wish but how they are."

Religion can be the crutch for the unanswered and painful...but sometimes the lunacy is indeed passed down...because typically the black culture doesnt believe in utilizing
mental health professionals or their fees thereof (unqualified clergy is their choice and cheap way out), so in my womans case her mother and Grandmother are only separated
by 14 years, which would make the MAN who fathered my woman's mother a Pedophile at best...fast forward a girl with no father will create a father
figure somehow ...and in this case JESUS or Rev whoever, so the Q's/A's that should take place to heal all of these severe wounds and mental issues to move forward
never does, and through all of the illegitimacy everybody pretends to be immaculately conceived.

purplemansionFL said: