banks said:

why everyone keep saying 5 she has 6 kids by Rohan ( he only denied that kid because he was already hooked up with his current fiance when he got Lauryn pregnant )

Call Maury!

MadamGoodnight said:

banks said:

why everyone keep saying 5 she has 6 kids by Rohan ( he only denied that kid because he was already hooked up with his current fiance when he got Lauryn pregnant )

Call Maury!

Because Rohan is an idiot.

smoothcriminal12 said:

nursev said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Watch what you say.

Sorry ur offended, but it is what it is. Hate it or love it. I lived it for ten years and what I saw and know is that seeing women as sex objects is apart of the culture. The young and old men think like that. Yes Jamaican culture is great, but that sex thing or mentality they have about is just the way it is. Just stating what I lived.

Are you sure it's that general though? I only heard that certain Rastas did it, I don't know if it's overall in "Jamaican culture".

Timmy84 said:

nursev said:

Timmy84 said:

Are you sure it's that general though? I only heard that certain Rastas did it, I don't know if it's overall in "Jamaican culture".

Let me put it this way, my ex has four kids and three baby mamas. He never took time with the three boys only the last girl. My son is the third child. Even the way some of the younger women dress is purely sexual. And yes like every other culture not everybodys mind set is like that, but the majority of the men are that way. Every one I've ever met was. Folks can be offended, but I'm speaking from my own experience.

But American men, European men, Asian men, etc., ALL men from all countries do the same thing (in general). Jamaican culture? And I'm American but let's be real here.

Timmy84 said:

nursev said:

Timmy84 said: Let me put it this way, my ex has four kids and three baby mamas. He never took time with the three boys only the last girl. My son is the third child. Even the way some of the younger women dress is purely sexual. And yes like every other culture not everybodys mind set is like that, but the majority of the men are that way. Every one I've ever met was. Folks can be offended, but I'm speaking from my own experience.

But American men, European men, Asian men, etc., ALL men from all countries do the same thing (in general). Jamaican culture? And I'm American but let's be real here.

All i can say to this is a hard dick has no soul

I feel bad for nurse, and i have heard from people some Jamaican men can do that. People i know of all colors have cheated on there lovers, had sex with someone who is married sex with a best friend's girlfriend or boyfriend. It's a huge wts mess....

And nowaday's i hear people say, ''oh i don't shun them for messing with a married man it's not my business as the bible say's''

FUCK ALL THAT

Gunsnhalen said:

Timmy84 said:

But American men, European men, Asian men, etc., ALL men from all countries do the same thing (in general). Jamaican culture? And I'm American but let's be real here.

All i can say to this is a hard dick has no soul

I feel bad for nurse, and i have heard from people some Jamaican men can do that. People i know of all colors have cheated on there lovers, had sex with someone who is married sex with a best friend's girlfriend or boyfriend. It's a huge wts mess....

And nowaday's i hear people say, ''oh i don't shun them for messing with a married man it's not my business as the bible say's''

FUCK ALL THAT

Folks who usually say this just rather be ignorant to the fucked up shit that is usually what happens when it's found out someone is dating a married man and then having children with said married man.

Rohan is a scrub supermo, but if #6 had a prayer of being his, he'da claimed it. Those Marleys are obsessed w/ Nesta's descendants and would never deny one if they thought it had the tiniest chance of being a Marley.

Keep in mind that Rohan was raised primarily by Miss Ciddy Booker (his grandmother) and Rita was very involved there too. Rita is VERY involved w/ all of Bob's kids and his sons honor her like she's their mother, even if she isn't. Both of those women have/had very diff values about "outside kids" than many people. IMHO, if Rita thought the 6th were Rohan's, she'da claimed it even if HE didn't.

Those Marleys have their own way of rollin y'all.

nursev said:

Timmy84 said:

Are you sure it's that general though? I only heard that certain Rastas did it, I don't know if it's overall in "Jamaican culture".

Let me put it this way, my ex has four kids and three baby mamas. He never took time with the three boys only the last girl. My son is the third child. Even the way some of the younger women dress is purely sexual. And yes like every other culture not everybodys mind set is like that, but the majority of the men are that way. Every one I've ever met was. Folks can be offended, but I'm speaking from my own experience.

*I* hear ya! It's no coinky dink that the term "babymama/babymother" and "babydaddy/babyfather" is an import from the Caribbean. So too were the things most boldly sexual in hip hop. They were imports from da dancehall (and even then we are VERY conservative compared to the original). IOW, "slackness" is very real....they ain't just talkin' on records!

Tho I'm Black American, Caribbean culture interests me. What you're saying is very much apart of the cultural landscape on many of the islands, esp Jamaica.

If anybody doubts what nursev is saying, go to YT and look up "passa passa" That's how tons of Jamaicans of all classes get down every weekend!

[Edited 5/16/12 13:35pm]

Maybe it's easy to see what happened to Lauryn; She couldn't live up to her image. Her songs were really smart, but in her real life she couldn't even resist a married man or fight the temptation to have kids with him out of wedlock. Now she put that image out to the world and she was being praised for it.

Plus 4-5-6 kids is enough to drive any sane person crazy, just sayin...

CynicKill said:

Maybe it's easy to see what happened to Lauryn; She couldn't live up to her image. Her songs were really smart, but in her real life she couldn't even resist a married man or fight the temptation to have kids with him out of wedlock. Now she put that image out to the world and she was being praised for it.

Plus 4-5-6 kids is enough to drive any sane person crazy, just sayin...

She had about three kids when they started branded her crazy and that was right before she did that Unplugged special.

brooksie said:

Timmy84 said:

nursev said:

Timmy84 said:

But American men, European men, Asian men, etc., ALL men from all countries do the same thing (in general). Jamaican culture? And I'm American but let's be real here.

Timmy why I gotta take you there Lemme just say for those who doubt me YOU HAVEN'T FUCKED until you fuck a Jamaican dude or chick try it then you'll know Nursey ain't bullshiting I didn't wanna say it

Timmy84 said:

CynicKill said:

Maybe it's easy to see what happened to Lauryn; She couldn't live up to her image. Her songs were really smart, but in her real life she couldn't even resist a married man or fight the temptation to have kids with him out of wedlock. Now she put that image out to the world and she was being praised for it.

I remember an interview where she admitted that she couldn't live up to the image she created.In the song "Doo Wop (That Thing)",she's giving all this good advice to young women,but it's advice that she herself wasn't following.

nursev said:

Shit I was dickmatized for ten years behind that nucca til Nursey woke up and saw the light bills still had to be paid and I had one child(that's all Imma say with that) unlike Lauryn's stupid ass-who the fuck in their right mind has six kids nowadays?

LOL well glad your here with us and your not dickmatized anymore...

SoulAlive said:

CynicKill said:

Maybe it's easy to see what happened to Lauryn; She couldn't live up to her image. Her songs were really smart, but in her real life she couldn't even resist a married man or fight the temptation to have kids with him out of wedlock. Now she put that image out to the world and she was being praised for it.

I remember an interview where she admitted that she couldn't live up to the image she created.In the song "Doo Wop (That Thing)",she's giving all this good advice to young women,but it's advice that she herself wasn't following.

I still feel empowered by her music and although she has her shortcomings in her personal life I still love her and find her to be inspiring. No one is perfect and just because she got caught up doesnt mean those things she sung about she didnt feel I believe her when she sung Doo Wop she herself just got caught up. Men are womanizers and are users and just wana fuck. She probably thought the relationship was going to go somewhere.

mjscarousal said:

SoulAlive said:

I remember an interview where she admitted that she couldn't live up to the image she created.In the song "Doo Wop (That Thing)",she's giving all this good advice to young women,but it's advice that she herself wasn't following.

I still feel empowered by her music and although she has her shortcomings in her personal life I still love her and find her to be inspiring. No one is perfect and just because she got caught up doesnt mean those things she sung about she didnt feel I believe her when she sung Doo Wop she herself just got caught up. Men are womanizers and are users and just wana fuck. She probably thought the relationship was going to go somewhere.

this!!!

I can't really describe it, but even with that one album Lauryn made such an impact on me. Luckilly she has some amazing accoustic stuff avaliable unreleased on youtube & the unplugged album.

When Lauryn wrote & sang i believed that shit , Lauryn could sound intimadting when raping & than go to this angelic voice. So it's like she would rap & preach to you, than would pull the feelings on ya

mjscarousal said:

hold on, he ain't married YET....

Nursev...naughty girl, you got a time out for that one. Now go sit in the corner!>>>>>>>

That said, I too am glad you're back from Magical Dick Island. It's a fun place to visit, but...

I'm amazed at how controversial this is over that The Alley. Folks are losing their durn minds. Well as errant said, they ain't married YET.

I wish artists understood that their true fans and fans of music in general can separate them from their music. The image stuff is just out there for teenyboppers and other gullible people to draw them into buying, but the people who are interested in the music/message tend to go deeper than this, IMHO.

I've seen too many music people crash and burn trying to live up to some fake image that it just burns me up.

brooksie said:

I wish artists understood that their true fans and fans of music in general can separate them from their music. The image stuff is just out there for teenyboppers and other gullible people to draw them into buying, but the people who are interested in the music/message tend to go deeper than this, IMHO.

I've seen too many music people crash and burn trying to live up to some fake image that it just burns me up.

brooksie said:

nursev said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Watch what you say.

Sorry ur offended, but it is what it is. Hate it or love it. I lived it for ten years and what I saw and know is that seeing women as sex objects is apart of the culture. The young and old men think like that. Yes Jamaican culture is great, but that sex thing or mentality they have about is just the way it is. Just stating what I lived.

So you're applying your experience to every single one of us?