I think El might even have a sex addiction. Damn, getting hard on stage while you're working?! I gotta see those YT vids. Can't believe...damn.
Drugs and alchohol supposedly stimulate that same part of the brain where sexual excitement occurs which is why a lot of druggies and alchies are some damned hos.
Of course, getting laid at a young age doesn't help with self-restraint and self-respect. Honestly, El probably would phuck anybody at this point. Only thing gonna keep him from gettin' his freak on is prostrate cancer.
Side note:
How come the relationship between Nona Gaye and Chico DeBarge failed? I heard he wanted to get into rehab but she wanted to keep using or some shit. Kind of like a reverse Bobby and Whitney without the spit in the face.
El def has a sex addiction in addition to all his others. I don't know if his drug(s) of choice suppress or enhance his sex drive...cuz some do one thing and other something else. The chances that he was molested are very high from what I can see and that too has its effects, esp. if he was very young, it was frequent, and over a long period of time. Tommy made clear that all the De Barges get down like that. Most of his older brothers have very young kids...say 3-4 years old, so nothing's stopped them yet.
On a lighter note, I'll dig up some pics and stuff but here's a youtube for ya.
It takes no rocket science to know that EL has a sex addiction Dude has 13 children by DIFFERENT women!!!!!!! He still fine though but damn El use a condom or make sure the broad is on birth control but nevermind they probably would lie, thats probably what happened in those cases
I also think all of that sexin' with different women is, in a subconscious way, a means for El to feel safe and in control. Consider that if you've grown up around violence, sex abuse, and have to deal with issues as a biracial child then you might not feel safe, wanted, and in control of your own person and life. With these women telling him they loved him and would do whatever for him and dropping the panties so easily, maybe that made El feel like everything was within his power. Sex can be power just like money and knowledge and class. I think that for men, just like women sometimes, they use sex not only for gratification but to just feel worthy on some level.
I dunno if that makes sense or not. Just putting my psych hat on for a minute.
I'M NOT SAYING YOU'RE UGLY. YOU JUST HAVE BAD LUCK WHEN IT COMES TO MIRRORS AND SUNLIGHT! RIP Dick Clark, Whitney Houston, Don Cornelius, Heavy D, and Donna Summer.
I also think all of that sexin' with different women is, in a subconscious way, a means for El to feel safe and in control. Consider that if you've grown up around violence, sex abuse, and have to deal with issues as a biracial child then you might not feel safe, wanted, and in control of your own person and life. With these women telling him they loved him and would do whatever for him and dropping the panties so easily, maybe that made El feel like everything was within his power. Sex can be power just like money and knowledge and class. I think that for men, just like women sometimes, they use sex not only for gratification but to just feel worthy on some level.
I dunno if that makes sense or not. Just putting my psych hat on for a minute.
Seems like all the DeBarge men have had that urge...
I also think all of that sexin' with different women is, in a subconscious way, a means for El to feel safe and in control. Consider that if you've grown up around violence, sex abuse, and have to deal with issues as a biracial child then you might not feel safe, wanted, and in control of your own person and life. With these women telling him they loved him and would do whatever for him and dropping the panties so easily, maybe that made El feel like everything was within his power. Sex can be power just like money and knowledge and class. I think that for men, just like women sometimes, they use sex not only for gratification but to just feel worthy on some level.
I dunno if that makes sense or not. Just putting my psych hat on for a minute.
Thats a very interesting point and it does make sense. To be really really honest Im exactly sad that El hasnt found someone by now. He seems like a really really sweet guy and his fine as hell. It doesnt make any sense to me why he hasnt found someone besides the drug problem which was and is a MAJOR problem why someone wouldnt want to be with him. I guess women are not putting up with that mess and I dont blame them. I would think he would have at least found someone willing to love him enough to lead him in the right direction. I dunno. Hopefully he finds someone.
I'll admit, I'da been amazed and amused if Whitney had broke it off like that. I mean she was an expert on THAT subject, right?! I'd been takin' notes.
De Barge never performed much live back in the day, but if they had WOWZERS! Eldra has a tendency to "pop wood" when he's performing certain songs and even when he ain't. I've seen pics and a few youtubes where he's clearly VERY excited! Imagine a 50 year old man who just pops a boner like that?! Dayum!
There's a vid where he talks about putting some woman's panties on his head!
He started getting sexual after De Barge broke up. I guess he thought putting it out there a bit would help his image mature. De Barge under Bobby was def more mature and sexy, but El just decided to wave his freak flag proudly. Of course, he was merely telling some of the truth. I have to say that he's an incredibly sensual man....he doesn't do the usual rapper bit, but it's more about sheer pleasure than mere sex. It's not the usual bump and grind w/ ole Eldra....and that makes it hot for me!
EL is what we call an OG... he knows how to talk to the ladies and get em... His still swagged up but his not triflin with it... Youngins needs to take NOTES...
Yup...that cat's had mad game from way back. How else did he knock up some old woman at 14?! He's def got "macadossious" words like he said in "Slide" and knows how to use them.
Yeah, he was w/ Chili for at least a hot minute...lucky thing! He's since divorced Monique too, BTW.
EL is what we call an OG... he knows how to talk to the ladies and get em... His still swagged up but his not triflin with it... Youngins needs to take NOTES...
Yup...that cat's had mad game from way back. How else did he knock up some old woman at 14?! He's def got "macadossious" words like he said in "Slide" and knows how to use them.
Yeah, he was w/ Chili for at least a hot minute...lucky thing! He's since divorced Monique too, BTW.
I exactly think they look cute together awww .... damn Chilli
Monique There is ONLY one Monique I know .... Which one?
I also think all of that sexin' with different women is, in a subconscious way, a means for El to feel safe and in control. Consider that if you've grown up around violence, sex abuse, and have to deal with issues as a biracial child then you might not feel safe, wanted, and in control of your own person and life. With these women telling him they loved him and would do whatever for him and dropping the panties so easily, maybe that made El feel like everything was within his power. Sex can be power just like money and knowledge and class. I think that for men, just like women sometimes, they use sex not only for gratification but to just feel worthy on some level.
I dunno if that makes sense or not. Just putting my psych hat on for a minute.
It makes perfect sense. Add to it all the religious repression that this guy has had/felt over the years. Here you have a crazy hypersexed incest laden sitch in your home and all over outside in the 60s-70s, but then you get the hardcore church bit too? I can imagine how confused and repressed he's must have felt over the years.
It's almost like he's seeking to somehow deal w/ the extreme hypocisy of his past by going the other direction a la William Blake. If nothing else, El is an extremely complex and intelligent man even if he does dumnb shit sometimes!
Yup...that cat's had mad game from way back. How else did he knock up some old woman at 14?! He's def got "macadossious" words like he said in "Slide" and knows how to use them.
Yeah, he was w/ Chili for at least a hot minute...lucky thing! He's since divorced Monique too, BTW.
I exactly think they look cute together awww .... damn Chilli
Monique There is ONLY one Monique I know .... Which one?
His ex Monique De Barge...not the fat comic! These aren't the best pics of her...she's gorgeous.
EL is what we call an OG... he knows how to talk to the ladies and get em... His still swagged up but his not triflin with it... Youngins needs to take NOTES...
Yup...that cat's had mad game from way back. How else did he knock up some old woman at 14?! He's def got "macadossious" words like he said in "Slide" and knows how to use them.
Yeah, he was w/ Chili for at least a hot minute...lucky thing! He's since divorced Monique too, BTW.
Chilli also briefly dated Prince..
will ALWAYS think of like a "ACT OF GOD"! N another realm. mean of all people who might of been aliens or angels.if found out that wasn't of this earth, would not have been that surprised. R.I.P.
Yup...that cat's had mad game from way back. How else did he knock up some old woman at 14?! He's def got "macadossious" words like he said in "Slide" and knows how to use them.
Yeah, he was w/ Chili for at least a hot minute...lucky thing! He's since divorced Monique too, BTW.
El def has a sex addiction in addition to all his others. I don't know if his drug(s) of choice suppress or enhance his sex drive...cuz some do one thing and other something else. The chances that he was molested are very high from what I can see and that too has its effects, esp. if he was very young, it was frequent, and over a long period of time. Tommy made clear that all the De Barges get down like that. Most of his older brothers have very young kids...say 3-4 years old, so nothing's stopped them yet.
On a lighter note, I'll dig up some pics and stuff but here's a youtube for ya.
It takes no rocket science to know that EL has a sex addiction Dude has 13 children by DIFFERENT women!!!!!!! He still fine though but damn El use a condom or make sure the broad is on birth control but nevermind they probably would lie, thats probably what happened in those cases
You get both the smooth and classic Errol Flynn thing and the Detroit thug all in one pic. Not a bad combo eh? Check out those hands....rough! This man is sheer danger when it comes to anything involving sex or love I'd bet!
Solid production by Keith Crouch, who performed and/or produced after "In The Storm" on albums of Jody Watley, Lalah Hathaway, Nona Gaye, Rahsaan Patterson, etc...
You get both the smooth and classic Errol Flynn thing and the Detroit thug all in one pic. Not a bad combo eh? Check out those hands....rough! This man is sheer danger when it comes to anything involving sex or love I'd bet!
I also think all of that sexin' with different women is, in a subconscious way, a means for El to feel safe and in control. Consider that if you've grown up around violence, sex abuse, and have to deal with issues as a biracial child then you might not feel safe, wanted, and in control of your own person and life. With these women telling him they loved him and would do whatever for him and dropping the panties so easily, maybe that made El feel like everything was within his power. Sex can be power just like money and knowledge and class. I think that for men, just like women sometimes, they use sex not only for gratification but to just feel worthy on some level.
I dunno if that makes sense or not. Just putting my psych hat on for a minute.
Thats a very interesting point and it does make sense. To be really really honest Im exactly sad that El hasnt found someone by now. He seems like a really really sweet guy and his fine as hell. It doesnt make any sense to me why he hasnt found someone besides the drug problem which was and is a MAJOR problem why someone wouldnt want to be with him. I guess women are not putting up with that mess and I dont blame them. I would think he would have at least found someone willing to love him enough to lead him in the right direction. I dunno. Hopefully he finds someone.
I wish he would have found someone too but that damn drug problem is too big to fight. It changes people and who on earth can deal with a split personality?
Plus, in light of current statistics, most women aren't williing to take the chance of bedding a hardcore druggie and even the ones that might chance with El aren't going to stick around and watch him self-destruct or heaven forbid, abuse them and their children. El hath fallen into the "friends" pile. Po thang!
Dare I say it....the only chick that can handle him is one that got the same damn problems.
I'M NOT SAYING YOU'RE UGLY. YOU JUST HAVE BAD LUCK WHEN IT COMES TO MIRRORS AND SUNLIGHT! RIP Dick Clark, Whitney Houston, Don Cornelius, Heavy D, and Donna Summer.
Thats a very interesting point and it does make sense. To be really really honest Im exactly sad that El hasnt found someone by now. He seems like a really really sweet guy and his fine as hell. It doesnt make any sense to me why he hasnt found someone besides the drug problem which was and is a MAJOR problem why someone wouldnt want to be with him. I guess women are not putting up with that mess and I dont blame them. I would think he would have at least found someone willing to love him enough to lead him in the right direction. I dunno. Hopefully he finds someone.
I wish he would have found someone too but that damn drug problem is too big to fight. It changes people and who on earth can deal with a split personality?
Plus, in light of current statistics, most women aren't williing to take the chance of bedding a hardcore druggie and even the ones that might chance with El aren't going to stick around and watch him self-destruct or heaven forbid, abuse them and their children. El hath fallen into the "friends" pile. Po thang!
Dare I say it....the only chick that can handle him is one that got the same damn problems.
Don't forget to add his 80-11 kids, crazy siblings, babymamas, tribelike extended family, and probably most daunting of all...MamaD! All of these men come w/ their mama as a package deal. No wife, gf, baby mama, gay lover, etc...will escape dealing w/ MamaD in her mix.
IOW, this guy is WORK but may be worth it to someone. Worse people than him have found someone willing to deal.
I wish he would have found someone too but that damn drug problem is too big to fight. It changes people and who on earth can deal with a split personality?
Plus, in light of current statistics, most women aren't williing to take the chance of bedding a hardcore druggie and even the ones that might chance with El aren't going to stick around and watch him self-destruct or heaven forbid, abuse them and their children. El hath fallen into the "friends" pile. Po thang!
Dare I say it....the only chick that can handle him is one that got the same damn problems.
Don't forget to add his 80-11 kids, crazy siblings, babymamas, tribelike extended family, and probably most daunting of all...MamaD! All of these men come w/ their mama as a package deal. No wife, gf, baby mama, gay lover, etc...will escape dealing w/ MamaD in her mix.
IOW, this guy is WORK but may be worth it to someone. Worse people than him have found someone willing to deal.
@ tribelike extended family. aw shit!
I'M NOT SAYING YOU'RE UGLY. YOU JUST HAVE BAD LUCK WHEN IT COMES TO MIRRORS AND SUNLIGHT! RIP Dick Clark, Whitney Houston, Don Cornelius, Heavy D, and Donna Summer.
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Imagine a 50 year old man who just pops a boner like that?! Dayum! 
helluva man 
will ALWAYS think of 
like a "ACT OF GOD"! N another realm. 
Like his old enough to be my father 
@ tribelike extended family. aw shit!