SCNDLS said:

Timmy84 said:

Anything with genitals that got you attached makes you whipped to do dumb shit like that.

Not to mention supporting they broke ass. Thank the Lawd I ain't neva came across that kinda dick. And it it's out there I don't want no parts of it.

It's like what is up with genitalia that makes anyone wanna support someone? I will NEVER understand that. And I rather choose not to.

wow she really needs to get herself together. She needs to remember that she's a mother and her daughter needs her.

it's such a shame her life is so chaotic

SCNDLS said:

Fantasia, 25, first met 30-year-old Antwaun Cook, a hunky former college football player from Charlotte, N.C., while he was working at his T-Mobile store in August — and the attraction was instant.

Of course the attraction was instant - $$$$$$$$$$$$$

What a disaster this chick is.

SCNDLS said:

Star Magazine reported on the affair last November. Check out that ghastly "Cook" tattoo on her shoulder. Who would do that shit less than 3 months after meeting a married man???

American Idol winner Fantasia Barrino is dating a married father of two who left his wife and young children to move in with her, Star has learned.

Fantasia, 25, first met 30-year-old Antwaun Cook, a hunky former college football player from Charlotte, N.C., while he was working at his T-Mobile store in August — and the attraction was instant.

By mid-September, the insider says, Antwaun, who also works as a real estate agent, dumped his teacher wife and their sons, ages 4 and 1, and moved into Fantasia's $1.3 million mansion in Charlotte's ritzy suburb of Piper Glen.

“I’m not going to deny that the word ‘homewrecker’ is floating around,” a friend of the singer tells Star.

And adding fuel to the fire: Fantasia has tattooed Antwaun's last name on her left shoulder to match one he has, says the friend. “She got it to honor her man!"

Now THAT^ was just stupid on her part AND his part.

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funkycat00 said:

I still don't get what the hell she was doing here.

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Timmy84 said:

I wonder if she even knew she could get charged for what she did.

I don't think she knew.

I'm sure the wifey's hubby probably has been playing around with others.

I wish Fantasia well She needs some counselling and legal representation.

^^ Sweet lawd Jesus got to her that's what!

funkycat00 said:

^^ Sweet lawd Jesus got to her that's what!

Damn I forgot this was when she and Coko of SWV and, I believe, Faith Evans did some kind of tribute to the Clark Sisters lol

Timmy84 said:

funkycat00 said:

I still don't get what the hell she was doing here.

Overemoting on stage or rebuking the devil. Take your pick!

KCOOLMUZIQ said:

daPrettyman said:

Why does one part of me say this is a publicity stunt to promote her new album?

Here is the full statement: From Fantasia's people:

Fantasia has always been an open book. Honesty, self-respect, and personal responsibility are values she wears proudly.

Fantasia believed Mr. Cook when he told her he was not happy in his marriage and his heart was not in it. She believed him when he told her he and Mrs. Cook separated in the late summer of 2009. She believed Mr. Cook when he told her he lived elsewhere.

He even took her there. One of Mr. Cook’s most redeeming qualities was his complete devotion to his children. Fantasia fell in love with Mr. Cook and believed that he loved her.

Fantasia and Mr. Cook dated on and off for about eleven months. The pressure of the constant media attention was hard on their relationship. Fantasia gave inconsistent interviews about the status of her relationship with Mr. Cook because sometimes they were on and sometimes they were off.

When they were on, they spent most of their time together when she was not traveling with work.
Fantasia read Mrs. Cook’s Complaint against Mr. Cook for the first time yesterday. She knows some of the allegations in Mrs. Cook’s complaint are totally false. There are others she strongly doubts. There is plenty she does not know.

Fantasia is heartbroken and is sorry for any pain she may have caused.

Yesterday, she was totally overwhelmed by the lawsuit and the media attention. Last night, Fantasia was hospitalized. She took an overdose of aspirin and a sleep aid.

Her injuries are not life threatening. She was dehydrated and exhausted at the time. Fantasia is stable now. She will be released from the hospital soon. Fantasia is a fighter and a survivor. This is not the hardest thing Fantasia has endured.

Fantasia will be stronger, smarter, and better for it. Her work has always inspired her and served as a source of strength. Her new album, “Back To Me,” will be released on August 24th.

It does seem like the perfect publicity stunt since her album is coming out soon. Also the second season of her reality show is currently being taped....lol

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I was in the military and retired after 20 yrs I don't know any faithful people for the most part but if this guy is separated that DOES NOT MEAN AVAILABLE OR SINGLE.

I hope she's ok. She gets hated on but the girl can sannnngggg. especially gospel. do what god called u to do girl.

Timmy84 said:

daPrettyman said:

Charged for taking an overdose?

No for adultery.

http://prince.org/msg/8/341856

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Almost no one gets charged for adultry. I know that it used to be on the books in some states, but it is hardly ever inforced....AND when it is in forced, it is the cheating spouse that can be sued for adultry. i dont think anyone walking this earth has bee incarcerated.

Timmy84 said:

This must also be about that alleged sex tape too.

Yeah, that's what I was thinking.

TD3 said:

Never say what you wouldn't do. More like I hope I wouldn't if given those circumstances . . . you are less likely to find yourself caught up. I'll leave it at that.

Definitely agree. A person can have morals and say, "well I'd never fall for a married person"...but you really don't know that until the situation presents itself. I'm sure it didn't start out with her searching for a married man to date. Usually, women meet men, they tell them some cockamamie story about how unhappy they are in their marriage, or that they were too young when they got married, or he only married the wife because of the kids or that they are separated and the only thing left to do is to put the ink on the papers. With that being said, women believe, then it's okay to just go out for a date or two until the divorce is official...next thing you know, feelings get involved and once that happens, then it's found out that the man really isn't separated and had no intentions whatsoever of dissolving their marriage. With that in mind, some women blindly keep on going with the shananigans because they believe they are in love...that is until they start getting phone calls from the wife, or start noticing scratches from car keys on their car...or in this case, learn that they are getting sued by the wife. And I'm not condoning Fantasia's behavior, I'm just saying, it's more easier to get caught up in things that you never thought you would get caught up in until you are tested in that situation. I bet Fantasia woke up one morning wondering how the hell she got herself in the mess she's in...tried to go to sleep and accidentally took more pills than she realized.

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luv4u said:

Timmy84 said:

I wonder if she even knew she could get charged for what she did.

I don't think she knew.

I'm sure the wifey's hubby probably has been playing around with others.

I wish Fantasia well She needs some counselling and legal representation.

Timmy84 said:

funkycat00 said:

I still don't get what the hell she was doing here.

[Edited 8/10/10 23:32pm]

Bad coke?

uPtoWnNY said:

Timmy84 said:

I still don't get what the hell she was doing here.

[Edited 8/10/10 23:32pm]

Bad coke?

Naw. That was her reaction when she found out wifey is suing her!

Seriously though. The wife is just trying to get paid and to humiliate Fantasia. Don't see this gonig very far. If this was just some round-the-way girl, wifey would be in kick-ass mode instead of pay-up mode. Or perhaps she wouldn't even care. In any event, if she had any self-respect, she'd dump all his shit at Fantasia's house and tell her she can have his sorry, broke ass. See how long the relationship would last then. I just don't understand how women fall for that "I'm separated, but the marriage is over," bullshit. If the mofoh is separated, HE'S STILL FRIGGIN MARRIED, LADIES! Don't even trip with the hope that he'll get his divorce and marry yo ignant ass. If he cheats on his wife, he'll cheat on you, too! And I ain't going for the "Oh, sometimes you don't know the man is married." Bullshit again. If you're seriously contemplating hooking up with a man, find out all you can about him, even if it means hiring an investigator or doing one of those do-it-yourself onliine background checks. This should be something a wealthy woman would do without hesitation. Hell, in today's economy, erverybody's trying to get paid!

daPrettyman said:

Why does one part of me say this is a publicity stunt to promote her new album?

the extent people go to try and slay somebody

Shyra said:

I just don't understand how women fall for that "I'm separated, but the marriage is over," bullshit. If the mofoh is separated, HE'S STILL FRIGGIN MARRIED, LADIES! Don't even trip with the hope that he'll get his divorce and marry yo ignant ass. If he cheats on his wife, he'll cheat on you, too! And I ain't going for the "Oh, sometimes you don't know the man is married." Bullshit again. If you're seriously contemplating hooking up with a man, find out all you can about him, even if it means hiring an investigator or doing one of those do-it-yourself onliine background checks. This should be something a wealthy woman would do without hesitation. Hell, in today's economy, erverybody's trying to get paid!

I just don't get it. Are these women that desperate for companionship? Seen it so many times, good women with their own shit hooking up with low-class men. Sad.

The stuff about background(credit) checks is right on the money. And I recommend it for BOTH sexes. If my cousin did that before he got married, he would have saved himself thousands of dollars. His wife brought debt to the marriage he didn't know about - fucked him over big time.

Identity said:

daPrettyman said:

Why does one part of me say this is a publicity stunt to promote her new album?

I don't think she's trying to draw sympathy from the public in order to boost CD sales, but rather she was driven to suicide by the recent home wrecker label.

That's true.

It still makes me wonder what will come out in this case. Either she doesn't want to face embarassment of what may come out, or she is at a really low place in her life.

I know there are so many rumors out there, but I hope she gets better.

daingermouz said:

I hope she's ok. She gets hated on but the girl can sannnngggg. especially gospel. do what god called u to do girl.

Agreed!!

Shyra said:

uPtoWnNY said:

Bad coke?

Naw. That was her reaction when she found out wifey is suing her!

Seriously though. The wife is just trying to get paid and to humiliate Fantasia. Don't see this gonig very far. If this was just some round-the-way girl, wifey would be in kick-ass mode instead of pay-up mode. Or perhaps she wouldn't even care. In any event, if she had any self-respect, she'd dump all his shit at Fantasia's house and tell her she can have his sorry, broke ass. See how long the relationship would last then. I just don't understand how women fall for that "I'm separated, but the marriage is over," bullshit. If the mofoh is separated, HE'S STILL FRIGGIN MARRIED, LADIES! Don't even trip with the hope that he'll get his divorce and marry yo ignant ass. If he cheats on his wife, he'll cheat on you, too! And I ain't going for the "Oh, sometimes you don't know the man is married." Bullshit again. If you're seriously contemplating hooking up with a man, find out all you can about him, even if it means hiring an investigator or doing one of those do-it-yourself onliine background checks. This should be something a wealthy woman would do without hesitation. Hell, in today's economy, erverybody's trying to get paid!

Know a female in this same situation. She's been dealing with this for 6 years.

Now within the last year she's got a baby out of the deal and the baby's father is

still spending more time with his other family than her and basically she's still the

second choice when he feels like it. Family and friend have been done trying to

school her. His i'm getting a divorce story is still 6 years and running.

uPtoWnNY said:

Shyra said:

I just don't understand how women fall for that "I'm separated, but the marriage is over," bullshit. If the mofoh is separated, HE'S STILL FRIGGIN MARRIED, LADIES! Don't even trip with the hope that he'll get his divorce and marry yo ignant ass. If he cheats on his wife, he'll cheat on you, too! And I ain't going for the "Oh, sometimes you don't know the man is married." Bullshit again. If you're seriously contemplating hooking up with a man, find out all you can about him, even if it means hiring an investigator or doing one of those do-it-yourself onliine background checks. This should be something a wealthy woman would do without hesitation. Hell, in today's economy, erverybody's trying to get paid!

I just don't get it. Are these women that desperate for companionship? Seen it so many times, good women with their own shit hooking up with low-class men. Sad.

The stuff about background(credit) checks is right on the money. And I recommend it for BOTH sexes. If my cousin did that before he got married, he would have saved himself thousands of dollars. His wife brought debt to the marriage he didn't know about - fucked him over big time.

And prenups, don't forget the prenups!

SCNDLS said:

uPtoWnNY said:

I just don't get it. Are these women that desperate for companionship? Seen it so many times, good women with their own shit hooking up with low-class men. Sad.

The stuff about background(credit) checks is right on the money. And I recommend it for BOTH sexes. If my cousin did that before he got married, he would have saved himself thousands of dollars. His wife brought debt to the marriage he didn't know about - fucked him over big time.

And prenups, don't forget the prenups!

We want prenups, we want prenups...yeah.

A lot of you should be ashamed of yourselves. She doesn't deserve people being nasty about her. I hope she gets the help she needs and recovers.

PurpleRain2010 said:

A lot of you should be ashamed of yourselves. She doesn't deserve people being nasty about her. I hope she gets the help she needs and recovers.

You're definitely new here.

Trust me this is mild compared to a lot of shit that's said here.

daingermouz said:

I was in the military and retired after 20 yrs I don't know any faithful people for the most part but if this guy is separated that DOES NOT MEAN AVAILABLE OR SINGLE.

I hope she's ok. She gets hated on but the girl can sannnngggg. especially gospel. do what god called u to do girl.

THIS!

phunkdaddy said:

PurpleRain2010 said:

A lot of you should be ashamed of yourselves. She doesn't deserve people being nasty about her. I hope she gets the help she needs and recovers.

You're definitely new here.

Trust me this is mild compared to a lot of shit that's said here.

Exactly. This is the Org. If you want nicey-nice, go to the Oprah website. Nothing's sacred here, and that's the way it should be.

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PurpleRain2010 said:

A lot of you should be ashamed of yourselves. She doesn't deserve people being nasty about her. I hope she gets the help she needs and recovers.

How is speaking the TRUTH being nasty??? Either check your sensitive sweater at the door or reconsider the threads you post on cuz we will go IN on some celebrity's foolish behavior.

who is that woman?