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Printablescriptgirl said: I am a Debarge fan and I try to concentrate on the POSITIVE. I don't go into sordid details about their alleged sexual history and I am not on this thread always bringing up slanderous details. That is all you ever do. And your opinion of their alleged sexual proclivities is just that-it is not fact, just rumors you are spreading. I did not create this thread, the mods did and if you would get your facts straight FOR ONCE, you would know that!
Chico said that about Duckie in an article in Sister to Sister in 1998. I don't have a link for it. I have the article. Whatever you hate most of their music and I took the time to read the threads from 07 when it was first created and you are on here with your nasty behavior badgering everybody that makes a comment you disagree with. You also have posted under another name to keep this thread going until somebody called you out for being obsessed with the Debarges! Flimdenoir or whateva name you used back then. You just told somebody else that google is your friend. That is what you are doing as well and you can't prove your INFO to be the TRUTH either. If Chico was that close to Duckie I don't believe he would put her on blast about overdosing of Crack, and he's a heroine and crack addict himself. Do you history on the Debarges and stop sugar coating everything! You don't know who I am or if I even know the Debarges or not. Do your research before you keep blasting other peoples comments. You see the other person supplied a link about El and his girlfriend gettin into it in the 9's magazine. You need to start supplying links since you constantly badger everybody else!!!! The message you are about to hear are not meant for transmission. Should ONLY be accessed in the privacy of your mind. Words are so intense so if you dare to listen.Take off your clothes and meet me between the lines.  | |
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The Debarge Family in younger days
Robert Sr 
Etterlene 
Bunny 
El 
James 
Chico  [Edited 5/19/09 23:55pm] "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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how old is she there? she looks like a kid. that's the mother right? | |
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I do NOT hate the music of the Debarges. THere are certain songs I don't like.CHico said what he said as a fact. He was not putting Duckie on blast. You are the one who si putting people on blast, by your slandrerous comments. If you knew Debarge, you would not put their personal business in the street like that. A good person or friend of the family wouldn't do that.
Desiree, all the information I have I give you. If I don't state anything else, that is because I don't know anything more info. You can always find out information for yourself. James sings this track [Edited 5/19/09 16:54pm] "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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DesireeNevermind said: link please?
goodness gracious they are prolific breeders. She ain't got no links to give go read all her past notes...Saying Monique and Tracey are related and that Monique and El wasn't really married. It will be confusing cause she's listed under the Filmdenoir name...Go back and read these message threads. Her attitude is terrible to people. The message you are about to hear are not meant for transmission. Should ONLY be accessed in the privacy of your mind. Words are so intense so if you dare to listen.Take off your clothes and meet me between the lines. | |
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It is not "ain't got" it is "does not have".
I said Monique and Tracy looked enough alike to be related. That is all I said. This thread was NOT created in 2007. It was created a few months ago. GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT. [Edited 5/19/09 16:57pm] [Edited 5/19/09 17:01pm] "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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scriptgirl said: It is not "ain't got" it is "does not have". Your grammar skills are awful.
I said Monique and Tracy looked enough alike to be related. That is all I said. This thread was NOT created in 2007. It was created a few months ago. GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT. [Edited 5/19/09 16:57pm] You said EL and his whole family is off you dislike Mama Debarge calling the whole clan crazy. Somebody checked you back in the threads about being gossipy now you trying to call me out...and everybody else! Trying to tell us what we can't or can talk about that shit is crazy. Family members are the main ones to put your business in the street. Just go back and read the comments she's making about the Debarges they are negative as hell. You sugarcoats everything but the pictures are great. She eats shit and breaths the Debarges and that is NOT healthy! That is mentally unstable. Im convince you are an Obsessed wanna be fan...The Debarges are not role models by a longshot and they should be portrayed in the true light and not just gray areas. They jacked up their life with drugs and you are in denial. The Debarges need to help themselves. They don't get my sympathy card at all. No matter how many pics you post the fact still remains they are TRUE JUNKIES! Family member or not...ya heard! I will not uphold anybody in their wrong. The message you are about to hear are not meant for transmission. Should ONLY be accessed in the privacy of your mind. Words are so intense so if you dare to listen.Take off your clothes and meet me between the lines. | |
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You know what ladies? We need to take it down... way down a couple of notches. It ain't all that serious, it's amazing we've made to DeBarge Part 2 and only recently we've run into drama. Why is this? As I've mentioned before our org Moderator has already admonish a certain someone for this sillyness?
With all the great material supplied by scriptgirl and shango, lets enjoy, debate even about the music and SPEAK of what we know. Lord knows many in the DeBarge Family have shared their joys, heartaches, and mistakes of late. Peace. | |
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I have sympathy for them because of their rough childhood be the child abuse rumors true or untrue. There was some pain, heartache and broken family drama and couple that with the high pressures and expectations of the entertainment industry, its no wonder they had drug problems. they were just kids so i can have sympathy for them. but the unwillingness to kick the drug habit and all those associated with drugs is really fucked up. so my sympathy only goes so far.
i do love the pics in this thread and the back stories. I stopped feeling Debarge after The Last Dragon move. Can't remember why I fell off the wagon. I missed a lot of great music it seems. Thx for the infor ev1.  | |
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Picked up this album a couple of weeks ago. I didn't dislike it but I wasn't a crazy about "FREE" album when Chico dropped it. After hearing several cuts on Pandora, I've changed my mind, I like it.
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I don't think they are unwilling to kick drugs. they are addicts. There IS a difference. "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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scriptgirl said: I don't think they are unwilling to kick drugs. they are addicts. There IS a difference.
I too use to think the same thing, damn if you are tired and it's F-in-up your life just quite! Sadly, it's not that easy after speaking with doctors who deal with addiction and how the brain is rewired. It takes many attempts and even so some people aren't able to walk away. Years ago: I have a friend who's a recovering alcoholic, at the time he was two years into his sobriety, I ordered a beer took 3 swallows and didn't want anymore. He shook his head, I felt guilty and was about apologize for drinking infront of him. He said, "No, that's not the issue; I marvel at your ablity to enjoy a drink and leave it. I've never not finished off a glass, a bottle, a 6/12 pack of beer, a fifth or a gallon of whiskey. However much I had infront of me I would drink it up even though everytime I'd lie to myself and say I'm only going to have a shot, a beer, or a glass of wine." | |
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DesireeNevermind said: how old is she there? she looks like a kid. that's the mother right?
Yeah, she looks about 15, 16 in that photo. | |
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They are some addicts looking for their next fix. They fell off so bad nobody was checking for them until Unsung aired their dirty laundry out. Why argue over some addicts that enjoy drugs. Drugs are not easy to kick but at least try to enter the door of a rehab. Just because you have a bad childhood you don't have to turn to drugs. After a while nobody will care about the Debarges story and it will die down. I am not sure what's wrong, but it's probably your fault! | |
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I'll just add this. Bunny and Randy have stated in Unsung that some family-members are in denial, so with that said, it's not the complete family who is avoiding their problems and troubles of the past and present.
No, a bad childhood doesn't have to be a reason to turn to drugs, but in this case they did, with Bobby as one of the first and the tragic passing which the family had to face in his final hours. Bobby had a very lost soul, as was told in Unsung. He sometimes wandered the streets for days. Every person in the world reacts differently to situations of their past, so there's no rule how one should act due to the way how they were raised. And as for their staying-power. A few classic songs of Debarge have left a strong mark in the musicbiz and have inspired a number of recent artists, so yeah, that's why their place in the music history is relevant. And there's a new genereration of talent in the family which is a good thing. We as outsiders can assume, judge, talk hood till we're blue in the face. Bottomline is that it's up to the family to eventually face and solve their problems, and there's nothing we can or should do about it. People are not perfect and make mistakes. Let's just hope for the best in their future , or for any family in the world facing deep problems, because punching them any further in the ground is a waste of energy. | |
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Bless you Shango.
Less hope U-Tube & Warner Music Group can resolve their issues soon so we can upload El's solo work he did with WMG. I love both of these songs. 
http://www.youtube.com/wa...88_-e_UX9Q I had to change the "Cross My Heart" because the first video didn't have the the begining of the song.... 40 secounds that I love. It's this little things that don't appear to a big deal that makes El a gifted arranger. [Edited 5/20/09 21:58pm] | |
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TD3 said: Bless you Shango.
 Keep on keepin on. Great songs you posted. | |
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Shango said: I'll just add this. Bunny and Randy have stated in Unsung that some family-members are in denial, so with that said, it's not the complete family who is avoiding their problems and troubles of the past and present.
No, a bad childhood doesn't have to be a reason to turn to drugs, but in this case they did, with Bobby as one of the first and the tragic passing which the family had to face in his final hours. Bobby had a very lost soul, as was told in Unsung. He sometimes wandered the streets for days. Every person in the world reacts differently to situations of their past, so there's no rule how one should act due to the way how they were raised. And as for their staying-power. A few classic songs of Debarge have left a strong mark in the musicbiz and have inspired a number of recent artists, so yeah, that's why their place in the music history is relevant. And there's a new genereration of talent in the family which is a good thing. We as outsiders can assume, judge, talk hood till we're blue in the face. Bottomline is that it's up to the family to eventually face and solve their problems, and there's nothing we can or should do about it. People are not perfect and make mistakes. Let's just hope for the best in their future , or for any family in the world facing deep problems, because punching them any further in the ground is a waste of energy. Bunny was strung out so bad on drugs CPS took her kids, she just recently got them back now that she is sober. The message you are about to hear are not meant for transmission. Should ONLY be accessed in the privacy of your mind. Words are so intense so if you dare to listen.Take off your clothes and meet me between the lines. | |
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Chic35 said: Shango said: I'll just add this. Bunny and Randy have stated in Unsung that some family-members are in denial, so with that said, it's not the complete family who is avoiding their problems and troubles of the past and present.
No, a bad childhood doesn't have to be a reason to turn to drugs, but in this case they did, with Bobby as one of the first and the tragic passing which the family had to face in his final hours. Bobby had a very lost soul, as was told in Unsung. He sometimes wandered the streets for days. Every person in the world reacts differently to situations of their past, so there's no rule how one should act due to the way how they were raised. And as for their staying-power. A few classic songs of Debarge have left a strong mark in the musicbiz and have inspired a number of recent artists, so yeah, that's why their place in the music history is relevant. And there's a new genereration of talent in the family which is a good thing. We as outsiders can assume, judge, talk hood till we're blue in the face. Bottomline is that it's up to the family to eventually face and solve their problems, and there's nothing we can or should do about it. People are not perfect and make mistakes. Let's just hope for the best in their future , or for any family in the world facing deep problems, because punching them any further in the ground is a waste of energy. Bunny was strung out so bad on drugs CPS took her kids, she just recently got them back now that she is sober. sorry about that post above but wow I never heard that one [Edited 5/21/09 3:25am] | |
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Chic35 said: Shango said: I'll just add this. Bunny and Randy have stated in Unsung that some family-members are in denial, so with that said, it's not the complete family who is avoiding their problems and troubles of the past and present.
No, a bad childhood doesn't have to be a reason to turn to drugs, but in this case they did, with Bobby as one of the first and the tragic passing which the family had to face in his final hours. Bobby had a very lost soul, as was told in Unsung. He sometimes wandered the streets for days. Every person in the world reacts differently to situations of their past, so there's no rule how one should act due to the way how they were raised. And as for their staying-power. A few classic songs of Debarge have left a strong mark in the musicbiz and have inspired a number of recent artists, so yeah, that's why their place in the music history is relevant. And there's a new genereration of talent in the family which is a good thing. We as outsiders can assume, judge, talk hood till we're blue in the face. Bottomline is that it's up to the family to eventually face and solve their problems, and there's nothing we can or should do about it. People are not perfect and make mistakes. Let's just hope for the best in their future , or for any family in the world facing deep problems, because punching them any further in the ground is a waste of energy. Bunny was strung out so bad on drugs CPS took her kids, she just recently got them back now that she is sober. | |
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Bunny's kids are adults who all have children, so that story is not true-how on earth would an adult mother just regain custody of her ADULT kids? [Edited 5/21/09 7:49am] "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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scriptgirl said: Bunny's kids are adults who all have children, so that story is not true-how on earth would an adult mother just regain custody of her ADULT kids?
Yea, Bunny's a grandmother now isn't she?  | |
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2 of Bunny's daughters-they don't look like kids to me.
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well shit i wish Boris Kdojoe and Bill Gates would co-adopt me.  | |
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[Let's keep the posts somewhat believable, please. Rumor posts are not cool, as some people are trying to use this thread as a informational tool to find out what the family's been up to. Stop the BS posts, and stick to the facts, please.  - June7] |
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moderatorHey,Bunny has a 10-11 year old son that is not grown named Daniel and another daughter not listed in that pic above. Keep in mind Bunny was strung out bad on drugs just like the other Debarges, it could be some truth to that! I am not sure what's wrong, but it's probably your fault! | |
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Note what it says above about rumor posts! "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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Chic35 said: scriptgirl said: I am a Debarge fan and I try to concentrate on the POSITIVE. I don't go into sordid details about their alleged sexual history and I am not on this thread always bringing up slanderous details. That is all you ever do. And your opinion of their alleged sexual proclivities is just that-it is not fact, just rumors you are spreading. I did not create this thread, the mods did and if you would get your facts straight FOR ONCE, you would know that!
Chico said that about Duckie in an article in Sister to Sister in 1998. I don't have a link for it. I have the article. Whatever you hate most of their music and I took the time to read the threads from 07 when it was first created and you are on here with your nasty behavior badgering everybody that makes a comment you disagree with. You also have posted under another name to keep this thread going until somebody called you out for being obsessed with the Debarges! Flimdenoir or whateva name you used back then. You just told somebody else that google is your friend. That is what you are doing as well and you can't prove your INFO to be the TRUTH either. If Chico was that close to Duckie I don't believe he would put her on blast about overdosing of Crack, and he's a heroine and crack addict himself. Do you history on the Debarges and stop sugar coating everything! You don't know who I am or if I even know the Debarges or not. Do your research before you keep blasting other peoples comments. You see the other person supplied a link about El and his girlfriend gettin into it in the 9's magazine. You need to start supplying links since you constantly badger everybody else!!!! | |
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