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Reply #60 posted 07/14/08 11:13am

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I got a big ol yawn from reading that.

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Reply #61 posted 07/14/08 11:36am

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I almost didn't read this 'cos I thought it would be boring, but I'm glad I did, since it's a great laugh. My favourite bit was that last email he sent her. "I gave up my life to help make you the evil queen you are today. Fifteen years listening to your bitching, egotistical rantings, mediocre talent and a lack of taste that would stun the ages." falloff clapping Ha! Ha! Ha!!

The thing is though, these extracts tell us NOTHING about Madonna we didn't already know. Her hypocrisy and egotism is hardly news. For instance what he said about her not practising the tenets of Kaballah, but just using it as a weapon has been obvious from the start. I didn't need Chris to tell me that. I recall an incident in 2003 where she was humiliating one of her employees in the presence of an interviewer. The interviewer said it showed that she was a long way away from what she preaches about the Kaballah. It gives her a feeling of superiority to be one of "the select few". There is nothing selfless about her interest in Kaballah. It's the ultimate ego trip.
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Still, these extracts gave me a good laugh. I have to say though, it is TERRIBLY WRITTEN! Poor writing skills must run in the family.

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Co-Sign so far he is not saying anything anyone could not figure out on their own. I find it interesting that all of the Maddonna fans her defending her and down on gossip books like this when a lot of you think some of the books written about P are the shit. A particular one by a certain lawyer come to mind.
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Reply #62 posted 07/14/08 12:38pm

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Co-Sign so far he is not saying anything anyone could not figure out on their own. I find it interesting that all of the Maddonna fans her defending her and down on gossip books like this when a lot of you think some of the books written about P are the shit. A particular one by a certain lawyer come to mind.


I'm more of a casual fan of Prince and his 80's work. So I am not aware of any tell all books that have been written about him and so I haven't praised them. I don't really care about an artist's personal life that much. It seems to me the media always focuses on Madonna's personal life and her alleged horrible bitchy personality. Look at all the press her brother's book is getting. For the most part, I don't think the media has focused very much on Prince's personal life or what he's like as a person. If anyone did dish dirt on Prince for the money like Madonna's brother is doing, I certainly wouldn't support that.
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Reply #63 posted 07/14/08 12:45pm

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Every complaint he had about her was about money. It seemed to me he didn't care about his sister as a person but just about her money and fame and what he could take from her.
He claimed she had only mediocre talent. I'd like to know why he continued to work for someone whose talent he didn't respect.
I think he's jealous of her relationship with Guy because he's not the #1 person in her life anymore. I think Guy is your average straight guy. He doesn't really have that much in common with gay people and maybe doesn't understand them because he's a man's man who like to go to pubs and such. But I really don't think Guy is a hateful person who goes around attacking gay people. In fact, Chris in the book said when he first met Guy he was friendly.



Ummmmm. I am a gay man who likes hanging out in sports bars . . . . . I'm sure there are plenty, it's just that in a sports bar there are other things to talk about.
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Reply #64 posted 07/14/08 12:48pm

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midnightmover said:

I almost didn't read this 'cos I thought it would be boring, but I'm glad I did, since it's a great laugh. My favourite bit was that last email he sent her. "I gave up my life to help make you the evil queen you are today. Fifteen years listening to your bitching, egotistical rantings, mediocre talent and a lack of taste that would stun the ages." falloff clapping Ha! Ha! Ha!!

The thing is though, these extracts tell us NOTHING about Madonna we didn't already know. Her hypocrisy and egotism is hardly news. For instance what he said about her not practising the tenets of Kaballah, but just using it as a weapon has been obvious from the start. I didn't need Chris to tell me that. I recall an incident in 2003 where she was humiliating one of her employees in the presence of an interviewer. The interviewer said it showed that she was a long way away from what she preaches about the Kaballah. It gives her a feeling of superiority to be one of "the select few". There is nothing selfless about her interest in Kaballah. It's the ultimate ego trip.

Still, these extracts gave me a good laugh. I have to say though, it is TERRIBLY WRITTEN! Poor writing skills must run in the family.


Uh-oh. I love to read and I cannot stand bad writing. J.K. Rowlings last two books were the last bad writing I forced myself to go through.
Not sure I could do it here.
Thanx for the warning.
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Reply #65 posted 07/14/08 12:50pm

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I think if there was any major dirt we'd have heard it by now. Itll mostly be him relaying stories that highlight various traits in her personality we've all known about for years. Her selfish, ruthless, cuntish streak. Im most interested to hear about her drug taking - as Id always assumed she was pretty straight in this area.



Did you really?
I've always assumed she did as soon as she hit NYC.
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Reply #66 posted 07/14/08 1:42pm

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laurarichardson said:

midnightmover said:

I almost didn't read this 'cos I thought it would be boring, but I'm glad I did, since it's a great laugh. My favourite bit was that last email he sent her. "I gave up my life to help make you the evil queen you are today. Fifteen years listening to your bitching, egotistical rantings, mediocre talent and a lack of taste that would stun the ages." falloff clapping Ha! Ha! Ha!!

The thing is though, these extracts tell us NOTHING about Madonna we didn't already know. Her hypocrisy and egotism is hardly news. For instance what he said about her not practising the tenets of Kaballah, but just using it as a weapon has been obvious from the start. I didn't need Chris to tell me that. I recall an incident in 2003 where she was humiliating one of her employees in the presence of an interviewer. The interviewer said it showed that she was a long way away from what she preaches about the Kaballah. It gives her a feeling of superiority to be one of "the select few". There is nothing selfless about her interest in Kaballah. It's the ultimate ego trip.
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Still, these extracts gave me a good laugh. I have to say though, it is TERRIBLY WRITTEN! Poor writing skills must run in the family.

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Co-Sign so far he is not saying anything anyone could not figure out on their own. I find it interesting that all of the Maddonna fans her defending her and down on gossip books like this when a lot of you think some of the books written about P are the shit. A particular one by a certain lawyer come to mind.

Preach Laura cause that's the damn truth right there. nod
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Reply #67 posted 07/14/08 2:12pm

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laurarichardson said:


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Co-Sign so far he is not saying anything anyone could not figure out on their own. I find it interesting that all of the Maddonna fans her defending her and down on gossip books like this when a lot of you think some of the books written about P are the shit. A particular one by a certain lawyer come to mind.

Preach Laura cause that's the damn truth right there. nod

Really? Who in this thread that's "defending Madonna" said books about Prince "are the shit?"
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Reply #68 posted 07/14/08 4:52pm

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RipHer2Shreds said:

purplecam said:


Preach Laura cause that's the damn truth right there. nod

Really? Who in this thread that's "defending Madonna" said books about Prince "are the shit?"


No one at all. I always defend Madonna, but I didn't even know there were any tell all books about Prince. What did they say about him?
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Reply #69 posted 07/14/08 5:18pm

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superspaceboy said:

I got a big ol yawn from reading that.


I kinda did too. It's got that feel of a book that was badly ghostwritten. The subject talks to the ghostwriter, who transcribes it, the lawyers vet it and muck it up even more, and the editor just wants to sell books and doesn't do his/her job very well. It creates a very stilted, distanced reading experience.
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Reply #70 posted 07/15/08 3:02am

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RipHer2Shreds said:

purplecam said:


Preach Laura cause that's the damn truth right there. nod

Really? Who in this thread that's "defending Madonna" said books about Prince "are the shit?"

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Maybe you need to go back to the begining of the thread. Some people think Chris is ungratful,greedy and a big old dope head at least some people think that not all.

In addtion, while no one in this thread has said anything about Prince. I know many people on this board picked up some of the books on P because they have been discussed many times on this board.

No one on those threads had a problem with complete strangers and former employees gossiping about P but Maddonna's brother is full of shit.

I would beliveve something a family member had to say before former employees.
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Reply #71 posted 07/15/08 5:49am

RipHer2Shreds

laurarichardson said:

RipHer2Shreds said:


Really? Who in this thread that's "defending Madonna" said books about Prince "are the shit?"

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Maybe you need to go back to the begining of the thread. Some people think Chris is ungratful,greedy and a big old dope head at least some people think that not all.

In addtion, while no one in this thread has said anything about Prince. I know many people on this board picked up some of the books on P because they have been discussed many times on this board.

No one on those threads had a problem with complete strangers and former employees gossiping about P but Maddonna's brother is full of shit.

I would beliveve something a family member had to say before former employees.

I don't think anyone here doubts that there's some validity to what he's saying. The motivation behind the book is greed, and it's written to fuel his drug and alcohol addiction. His employer - Madonna, his sister - fired him, and now he has no dough. Everyone knows Madonna's a conniving and controlling, so nothing he's writing is news to anybody. There's clearly an agenda behind what he's writing. Why else sell out your sister? I don't think anybody in this thread is defending Madonna, but clearly in the snippet he comes across as bitter.

And he can't write for shit, not even with the help of another writer. lol

But your argument that her fans are defending her and "a lot of you think some of the books written about P are the shit" (meaning the fans who are supposedly defending her) has no validity. I'm sure people were scooping up whatever Prince book you're referring to, but it doesn't hold water in your argument about this book. Two separate things.
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Reply #72 posted 07/15/08 5:56am

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can you download it somewhere????
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Reply #73 posted 07/15/08 7:00am

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RipHer2Shreds said:

laurarichardson said:


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Maybe you need to go back to the begining of the thread. Some people think Chris is ungratful,greedy and a big old dope head at least some people think that not all.

In addtion, while no one in this thread has said anything about Prince. I know many people on this board picked up some of the books on P because they have been discussed many times on this board.

No one on those threads had a problem with complete strangers and former employees gossiping about P but Maddonna's brother is full of shit.

I would beliveve something a family member had to say before former employees.

I don't think anyone here doubts that there's some validity to what he's saying. The motivation behind the book is greed, and it's written to fuel his drug and alcohol addiction. His employer - Madonna, his sister - fired him, and now he has no dough. Everyone knows Madonna's a conniving and controlling, so nothing he's writing is news to anybody. There's clearly an agenda behind what he's writing. Why else sell out your sister? I don't think anybody in this thread is defending Madonna, but clearly in the snippet he comes across as bitter.

And he can't write for shit, not even with the help of another writer. lol

But your argument that her fans are defending her and "a lot of you think some of the books written about P are the shit" (meaning the fans who are supposedly defending her) has no validity. I'm sure people were scooping up whatever Prince book you're referring to, but it doesn't hold water in your argument about this book. Two separate things.

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We will have to agree to disagree. lol
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Reply #74 posted 07/15/08 10:00am

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Genesia said:

Why does he write in present tense? Man, that is annoying. I can't imagine reading an entire book like that - and I can't believe his editor didn't make him fix it.


I kinda appreciate that! Puts you in the moment of the story.


Pretty much. It's standard practice to make it more alive, involving the reader in what's going on.

Newspaper article--sure put everything in past tense.
Memoir--much, much better in the present, in the Now.
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Reply #75 posted 07/15/08 10:12am

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Matronik said:

Once in London, I follow instructions and go to Moss Bros on Regent Street to rent my tuxedo. It's pure polyester, and when I slide the jacket on, it burns my fingers.

The shop assistant presents me with the rental bill. 'Put it on Guy's bill,' I say, and walk out.


source: http://www.mailonsunday.c...-life.html



Oh good grief.

It burns his fingers.

And he wouldn't even pay the price of his own tuxedo rental? That's very cheap by anyone's standards.

Madonna must be livid, after all her protecting her privacy about the details of her wedding and the confidentiality agreements, then her brother goes and spills the beans all over the place..

I'm def getting this book on the way home!!
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Reply #76 posted 07/15/08 10:54am

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can you download it anywhere allready??
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Reply #77 posted 07/15/08 11:22am

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Maybe you need to go back to the begining of the thread. Some people think Chris is ungratful,greedy and a big old dope head at least some people think that not all.

In addtion, while no one in this thread has said anything about Prince. I know many people on this board picked up some of the books on P because they have been discussed many times on this board.

No one on those threads had a problem with complete strangers and former employees gossiping about P but Maddonna's brother is full of shit.

I would beliveve something a family member had to say before former employees.


I've defended Madonna on here but I've never said one word about any book about Prince. In fact, I didn't even know there were tell all books written about Prince by his former employees. But if I knew about them, I'd be 100% against them. I'm against the very idea of a tell all book gossiping about someone's personal life. I think it's sleazy and a cheap way to cash in instead of doing something creative and talented in your own right.
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Reply #78 posted 07/15/08 12:15pm

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Glindathegood said:

laurarichardson said:

Maybe you need to go back to the begining of the thread. Some people think Chris is ungratful,greedy and a big old dope head at least some people think that not all.

In addtion, while no one in this thread has said anything about Prince. I know many people on this board picked up some of the books on P because they have been discussed many times on this board.

No one on those threads had a problem with complete strangers and former employees gossiping about P but Maddonna's brother is full of shit.

I would beliveve something a family member had to say before former employees.


I've defended Madonna on here but I've never said one word about any book about Prince. In fact, I didn't even know there were tell all books written about Prince by his former employees. But if I knew about them, I'd be 100% against them. I'm against the very idea of a tell all book gossiping about someone's personal life. I think it's sleazy and a cheap way to cash in instead of doing something creative and talented in your own right.

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I'd be 100% against them. Good because you would be in the minority on this board when those P books were published people on this board were salivating
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Reply #79 posted 07/15/08 12:41pm

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I like tell all-books. What was written in the Prince ones??
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Reply #80 posted 07/15/08 1:39pm

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Barbara07 said:

Matronik said:

Once in London, I follow instructions and go to Moss Bros on Regent Street to rent my tuxedo. It's pure polyester, and when I slide the jacket on, it burns my fingers.

The shop assistant presents me with the rental bill. 'Put it on Guy's bill,' I say, and walk out.


source: http://www.mailonsunday.c...-life.html



Oh good grief.

It burns his fingers.

And he wouldn't even pay the price of his own tuxedo rental? That's very cheap by anyone's standards.

Madonna must be livid, after all her protecting her privacy about the details of her wedding and the confidentiality agreements, then her brother goes and spills the beans all over the place..

I'm def getting this book on the way home!!



As much as I enjoy her at this particular stage of her life, you know what? Fuck Madonna.

I don't believe he should have paid his own rental. That's her own fault for blurring the boundaries between his business responsibilities and his familial responsibilities. Paying that rental was the least she could do. She shafted him enough financially as it is. I don't care if they were siblings or not, or perhaps that was the problem to begin with. I can think of a zillion scenarios where powerful clients for whatever reason, use the fuck out of their employees and are always leaving them in the lurch, so I have no sympathy for Madge in this. I understand this was a wedding and a family member, and yes the lines are pretty muddled because of personal history. But having the NERVE to shaft someone on a job with an amount due on an invoice, then pay the balance with a fucking airplane TICKET? And not even give the person the choice what the ticket is for and what destination? What the fuck is THAT? That doesn't even REMOTELY happen in the professional world. Clients get SUED for that kind of shit. The idea someone would do that to a FAMILY MEMBER only adds insult to injury

To begin with you do not pay an invoice with anything but DOUGH, unless there are trade conditions previously agreed upon by both parties, period. Second, the fact that she coerced him into going to that wedding in the in any event, I don't see why she would try to pass the rental bill off on him, simply out of principle...otherwise, being that she closed an invoice by making him attend that wedding, it's almost like he was in attendance as an employee instead of a sibling. The way I see it is that if you settle an account giving the person you hired no choice for remittance other than to attend one of your events, then I'm sorry, but you've basically just put them "on the clock" ...and news-fa-LASH...in the fine and creative arts, when you are on the clock, and you have to go to a "location" to perform your duties, from the moment you step outside of the fucking door, en route, get to the gig, do your time, and get back to your front door, THIS IS ON THE CLIENT's DIME, except for incidentals.

...and don't give me that bullshit that he should have been more understanding because that's his sister. There was nothing sisterly about the way she settled her bill for the services he rendered. I'm with Laura and SCNDLS on this one, I don't think the man's criticism of his sister is completely unwarranted..

...that's still ma girl, though wink...and yes I think the book would actually make good beach reading...although I'll be waiting until I can get it used on Amazon lol
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Reply #81 posted 07/15/08 1:46pm

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Reply #82 posted 07/15/08 1:49pm

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Ottensen said:

Barbara07 said:




Oh good grief.

It burns his fingers.

And he wouldn't even pay the price of his own tuxedo rental? That's very cheap by anyone's standards.

Madonna must be livid, after all her protecting her privacy about the details of her wedding and the confidentiality agreements, then her brother goes and spills the beans all over the place..

I'm def getting this book on the way home!!



As much as I enjoy her at this particular stage of her life, you know what? Fuck Madonna.

I don't believe he should have paid his own rental. That's her own fault for blurring the boundaries between his business responsibilities and his familial responsibilities. Paying that rental was the least she could do. She shafted him enough financially as it is. I don't care if they were siblings or not, or perhaps that was the problem to begin with. I can think of a zillion scenarios where powerful clients for whatever reason, use the fuck out of their employees and are always leaving them in the lurch, so I have no sympathy for Madge in this. I understand this was a wedding and a family member, and yes the lines are pretty muddled because of personal history. But having the NERVE to shaft someone on a job with an amount due on an invoice, then pay the balance with a fucking airplane TICKET? And not even give the person the choice what the ticket is for and what destination? What the fuck is THAT? That doesn't even REMOTELY happen in the professional world. Clients get SUED for that kind of shit. The idea someone would do that to a FAMILY MEMBER only adds insult to injury

To begin with you do not pay an invoice with anything but DOUGH, unless there are trade conditions previously agreed upon by both parties, period. Second, the fact that she coerced him into going to that wedding in the in any event, I don't see why she would try to pass the rental bill off on him, simply out of principle...otherwise, being that she closed an invoice by making him attend that wedding, it's almost like he was in attendance as an employee instead of a sibling. The way I see it is that if you settle an account giving the person you hired no choice for remittance other than to attend one of your events, then I'm sorry, but you've basically just put them "on the clock" ...and news-fa-LASH...in the fine and creative arts, when you are on the clock, and you have to go to a "location" to perform your duties, from the moment you step outside of the fucking door, en route, get to the gig, do your time, and get back to your front door, THIS IS ON THE CLIENT's DIME, except for incidentals.

...and don't give me that bullshit that he should have been more understanding because that's his sister. There was nothing sisterly about the way she settled her bill for the services he rendered. I'm with Laura and SCNDLS on this one, I don't think the man's criticism of his sister is completely unwarranted..

...that's still ma girl, though wink...and yes I think the book would actually make good beach reading...although I'll be waiting until I can get it used on Amazon lol

clapping You're absolutely right. I'm an independent consultant and there's no way that a client could pull a stunt like this. If he has a drug problem that she doesn't want to subsidize, fine, don't hire him to work for you. But lack of professionalism aside. the fact that she did this to a family member and has hundreds of millions of dollars is the killin' part to me. disbelief But that's aight, cuz you reap what you sow.
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Reply #83 posted 07/15/08 1:51pm

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Ottensen said:

Barbara07 said:




Oh good grief.

It burns his fingers.

And he wouldn't even pay the price of his own tuxedo rental? That's very cheap by anyone's standards.

Madonna must be livid, after all her protecting her privacy about the details of her wedding and the confidentiality agreements, then her brother goes and spills the beans all over the place..

I'm def getting this book on the way home!!



As much as I enjoy her at this particular stage of her life, you know what? Fuck Madonna.

I don't believe he should have paid his own rental. That's her own fault for blurring the boundaries between his business responsibilities and his familial responsibilities. Paying that rental was the least she could do. She shafted him enough financially as it is. I don't care if they were siblings or not, or perhaps that was the problem to begin with. I can think of a zillion scenarios where powerful clients for whatever reason, use the fuck out of their employees and are always leaving them in the lurch, so I have no sympathy for Madge in this. I understand this was a wedding and a family member, and yes the lines are pretty muddled because of personal history. But having the NERVE to shaft someone on a job with an amount due on an invoice, then pay the balance with a fucking airplane TICKET? And not even give the person the choice what the ticket is for and what destination? What the fuck is THAT? That doesn't even REMOTELY happen in the professional world. Clients get SUED for that kind of shit. The idea someone would do that to a FAMILY MEMBER only adds insult to injury

To begin with you do not pay an invoice with anything but DOUGH, unless there are trade conditions previously agreed upon by both parties, period. Second, the fact that she coerced him into going to that wedding in the in any event, I don't see why she would try to pass the rental bill off on him, simply out of principle...otherwise, being that she closed an invoice by making him attend that wedding, it's almost like he was in attendance as an employee instead of a sibling. The way I see it is that if you settle an account giving the person you hired no choice for remittance other than to attend one of your events, then I'm sorry, but you've basically just put them "on the clock" ...and news-fa-LASH...in the fine and creative arts, when you are on the clock, and you have to go to a "location" to perform your duties, from the moment you step outside of the fucking door, en route, get to the gig, do your time, and get back to your front door, THIS IS ON THE CLIENT's DIME, except for incidentals.

...and don't give me that bullshit that he should have been more understanding because that's his sister. There was nothing sisterly about the way she settled her bill for the services he rendered. I'm with Laura and SCNDLS on this one, I don't think the man's criticism of his sister is completely unwarranted..

...that's still ma girl, though wink...and yes I think the book would actually make good beach reading...although I'll be waiting until I can get it used on Amazon lol

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Reply #84 posted 07/15/08 1:58pm

VoicesCarry

ehuffnsd said:

Ottensen said:




As much as I enjoy her at this particular stage of her life, you know what? Fuck Madonna.

I don't believe he should have paid his own rental. That's her own fault for blurring the boundaries between his business responsibilities and his familial responsibilities. Paying that rental was the least she could do. She shafted him enough financially as it is. I don't care if they were siblings or not, or perhaps that was the problem to begin with. I can think of a zillion scenarios where powerful clients for whatever reason, use the fuck out of their employees and are always leaving them in the lurch, so I have no sympathy for Madge in this. I understand this was a wedding and a family member, and yes the lines are pretty muddled because of personal history. But having the NERVE to shaft someone on a job with an amount due on an invoice, then pay the balance with a fucking airplane TICKET? And not even give the person the choice what the ticket is for and what destination? What the fuck is THAT? That doesn't even REMOTELY happen in the professional world. Clients get SUED for that kind of shit. The idea someone would do that to a FAMILY MEMBER only adds insult to injury

To begin with you do not pay an invoice with anything but DOUGH, unless there are trade conditions previously agreed upon by both parties, period. Second, the fact that she coerced him into going to that wedding in the in any event, I don't see why she would try to pass the rental bill off on him, simply out of principle...otherwise, being that she closed an invoice by making him attend that wedding, it's almost like he was in attendance as an employee instead of a sibling. The way I see it is that if you settle an account giving the person you hired no choice for remittance other than to attend one of your events, then I'm sorry, but you've basically just put them "on the clock" ...and news-fa-LASH...in the fine and creative arts, when you are on the clock, and you have to go to a "location" to perform your duties, from the moment you step outside of the fucking door, en route, get to the gig, do your time, and get back to your front door, THIS IS ON THE CLIENT's DIME, except for incidentals.

...and don't give me that bullshit that he should have been more understanding because that's his sister. There was nothing sisterly about the way she settled her bill for the services he rendered. I'm with Laura and SCNDLS on this one, I don't think the man's criticism of his sister is completely unwarranted..

...that's still ma girl, though wink...and yes I think the book would actually make good beach reading...although I'll be waiting until I can get it used on Amazon lol

Family business are rarely ran like normal cooperations.


Madonna should be professional.

When we hire someone for an event, we pay all costs associated with that event, i.e. tux rental, courier, parking, etc.
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Reply #85 posted 07/15/08 2:05pm

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VoicesCarry said:

ehuffnsd said:


Family business are rarely ran like normal cooperations.


Madonna should be professional.

When we hire someone for an event, we pay all costs associated with that event, i.e. tux rental, courier, parking, etc.

nod Unless you're Starr Jones, but that's another thread. disbelief
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Reply #86 posted 07/15/08 2:05pm

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VoicesCarry said:

ehuffnsd said:


Family business are rarely ran like normal cooperations.


Madonna should be professional.

When we hire someone for an event, we pay all costs associated with that event, i.e. tux rental, courier, parking, etc.

i have a feeling she is to everyone but her brother, sadly.
You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
authentic power is service- Pope Francis
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Reply #87 posted 07/15/08 2:22pm

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As much as I enjoy her at this particular stage of her life, you know what? Fuck Madonna.

I don't believe he should have paid his own rental. That's her own fault for blurring the boundaries between his business responsibilities and his familial responsibilities. Paying that rental was the least she could do. She shafted him enough financially as it is. I don't care if they were siblings or not, or perhaps that was the problem to begin with. I can think of a zillion scenarios where powerful clients for whatever reason, use the fuck out of their employees and are always leaving them in the lurch, so I have no sympathy for Madge in this. I understand this was a wedding and a family member, and yes the lines are pretty muddled because of personal history. But having the NERVE to shaft someone on a job with an amount due on an invoice, then pay the balance with a fucking airplane TICKET? And not even give the person the choice what the ticket is for and what destination? What the fuck is THAT? That doesn't even REMOTELY happen in the professional world. Clients get SUED for that kind of shit. The idea someone would do that to a FAMILY MEMBER only adds insult to injury

To begin with you do not pay an invoice with anything but DOUGH, unless there are trade conditions previously agreed upon by both parties, period. Second, the fact that she coerced him into going to that wedding in the in any event, I don't see why she would try to pass the rental bill off on him, simply out of principle...otherwise, being that she closed an invoice by making him attend that wedding, it's almost like he was in attendance as an employee instead of a sibling. The way I see it is that if you settle an account giving the person you hired no choice for remittance other than to attend one of your events, then I'm sorry, but you've basically just put them "on the clock" ...and news-fa-LASH...in the fine and creative arts, when you are on the clock, and you have to go to a "location" to perform your duties, from the moment you step outside of the fucking door, en route, get to the gig, do your time, and get back to your front door, THIS IS ON THE CLIENT's DIME, except for incidentals.

...and don't give me that bullshit that he should have been more understanding because that's his sister. There was nothing sisterly about the way she settled her bill for the services he rendered. I'm with Laura and SCNDLS on this one, I don't think the man's criticism of his sister is completely unwarranted..

...that's still ma girl, though wink...and yes I think the book would actually make good beach reading...although I'll be waiting until I can get it used on Amazon lol

Family business are rarely ran like normal cooperations.


Maybe in YOUR universe, partner wink. However, I've seen families work together in fashion, music, design, and production with nothing less than the utmost professionalism involved. I'm not saying that some families don't get it right, but I do think the term "rarely" is a stretch confused . That being said, this isn't even about a family business per say, this is about Madonna being a client (be it as a home owner in need of interior design, or as the sole proprietor of her OWN business needing whatever else), and her brother as a sub-contractor who rendered services and didn't get paid.

... and if she's not trying to run her metaphorical "family business" professionally as corporations do, then by the same token she should be the last person attempting to bill a tux rental to her brother for a wedding he wouldn't have come to had she not forced him.

I'll say it again, fuck Madonna. Although that's still ma girl evillol
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Reply #88 posted 07/15/08 2:23pm

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VoicesCarry said:



Madonna should be professional.

When we hire someone for an event, we pay all costs associated with that event, i.e. tux rental, courier, parking, etc.

nod Unless you're Starr Jones, but that's another thread. disbelief



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Reply #89 posted 07/15/08 2:26pm

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Ottensen said:

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Family business are rarely ran like normal cooperations.


Maybe in YOUR universe, partner wink. However, I've seen families work together in fashion, music, design, and production with nothing less than the utmost professionalism involved. I'm not saying that some families don't get it right, but I do think the term "rarely" is a stretch confused . That being said, this isn't even about a family business per say, this is about Madonna being a client (be it as a home owner in need of interior design, or as the sole proprietor of her OWN business needing whatever else), and her brother as a sub-contractor who rendered services and didn't get paid.

... and if she's not trying to run her metaphorical "family business" professionally as corporations do, then by the same token she should be the last person attempting to bill a tux rental to her brother for a wedding he wouldn't have come to had she not forced him.

I'll say it again, fuck Madonna. Although that's still ma girl evillol

some of my mom's family owns various commerical farms, mostly her cousins on her mother's side, and most of them aren't treated the same as their employees. for instance they don't have to follow the same child labor laws when their own children are involved.
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