i keep getting my sexual predators mixed up

I doubt it because there was no piss found on the bus.

vainandy said:

No Piss or shit since he likes eating ass

i'm too tough for that...

When he tosses salad, I wonder what kind of dressing he prefers...oil and vinegar or blue cheese?

vainandy said:

I think he tells you in Sex In The Kitchen.

vainandy said:

syrup

The only rumor their was about Bow Wow being raped was after his 1st album was released. There was a rumor going around that on the set of that video he did with Jagged Edge, one of his bodyguard raped him. But that of course was bullshit.

Melt with you...that is truly disgusting!
-referring to the pictures of blood on a sheet.

Anyways...commenting on ppl in the limelight...being asked if their gay (all the time)...that should tell you something (lol).
Of course there's a difference...but if I were on T.V., I'd come out with it...because there is no way on god's green earth, I will live my life in a box for others to be content!

Ppl I meet, know I'm gay, maybe not right away, but definitely if they become a friend, they will certainly know...because I won't make up lies or pretend I have a girlfriend when I have a boyfriend...and I'm not ashamed of who I am and my mate.
I'm perfectly fine with it and so is my family, so I could give a rats ass what other have to say.
If I were a celebrity, eventually I would state that I am in a same sex relationship...and by the way, I am working in a field where alot of ppl know me and even more will know me...its called "radio" and I won't allow my sexual orientation to over-ride my career...because it has nothing to do with that, but if ever asked...I will confirm it with no hesitation.

Because I'm man enough to admit it and still be the masculine, sports and hip hop lovin duded that I am.

OnionJuice said:

Y dont all cats just come out of the closet!!!

NPD313 said:

bravo for being "naturally open" with your lifestyle, but when you get a record contract or your first photo shoot, don't expect you and your significant other to be posing together on the cover of any magazine other than "Advocate" or "Out"--unfortunately, mainstream America and the Black community don't work that way. if it did, there wouldn't be so many people running around on the DL, right?

Hotlegs said:

aigght, we can shoot this one down

from UrbanLegends.com
Claim: Teen rapper Lil' Bow Wow was raped by his bodyguard or limousine driver.
Status: False.

Example: [Collected on the Internet, 2001]


I heard a rumor that young rapper lil bow wow's bodyguard raped him up the butt, and bow wow had to get stitches in his bum.



Variations:


The rumor generally concludes with the news that Lil' Bow Wow had to have a certain number of stitches (which varies wildly from telling to telling) to repair the damage done during the rape. That an anal assault might not necessitate such repairs is given little, if any, consideration -- the nature of the story demands that tangible physical harm had to have been inflicted. While the emotional damage done by a rape might be difficult to fully appreciate, evident physical harm is at least measurable; this detail helps to make the attack all the more horrific by making the extent of the harm easier to grasp.

The rapist is either Lil' Bow Wow's bodyguard or driver. In none of the tellings is the man named -- only his function as a member of the star's retinue is described.

Some less-circulated versions mention that the young star is also robbed of his jewelery and has his head shaved by his assailant. Possibly the jewelery theft motif is spurred by knowledge that Lil' Bow Wow wears a diamond-encrusted Mickey Mouse pendant that he treasures, a gift from his mentor and producer Jermaine Dupri. An earlier rumor featuring this youngster had him beaten and robbed of his pendant by a gang of toughs.
Origins: It's
hard to ascertain where a river begins, but this rumor has been documented as being in circulation as far back as 26 February 2001. It has subsequently appeared many times with very few shifts having taken place in the basic story: The raped rapper is always Lil' Bow Wow, the rapist is always the bodyguard or driver, and almost always the youngster is said to have received a specified number of stitches (the number varying from one telling to the next). Only one additional noteworthy detail appeared in an isolated subsequent telling, the news that "Snoop Dogg has a hit out on the limo driver." (Apparently a concerned brother rapper would not think to turn the matter of a sexual assault on a minor over to the police when he can just order the guy murdered.)

Did such an assault take place? We have to believe it did not because nothing of this nature appeared in the news, and the media is not overly squeamish about reporting such matters. Moreover, a rumor of this nature fits all too well one of the two main types of harmful tales routinely aimed at those deemed too good to be true. Success breeds envy, and where genuine cause for criticism or pity cannot be found, cause will be invented.

Lil' Bow Wow is the stage name taken by Shad Moss, a kid who began rapping when he was five. It was at the tender age of six that he climbed on stage at a Snoop Dogg concert and amazed the hardened West Coast pros with his amazing rhyming talent. Snoop promptly gave "Kid Gangsta" (as Moss then called himself) his new name and signed Bow Wow for the rest of the Chronic Tour.

The 14-year-old Moss has since struck out on his own as a solo artist: His "Beware of Dog" debut went double platinum, and he is currently headlining his first major U.S. tour. The youngster is blessed with good looks and boundless talent, but what sets him apart from so many other artists is the blameless life he leads. He goes to school, and from all appearances works at being a regular kid. He does not seem overly full of himself or to have been much touched by the gangsta lifestyle he's been exposed to. He's remained a likeable young man in a world that should have turned him into a pint-sized hooligan.

That much wealth, talent, youth, and fame draws envy as well as admiration, because another person's wild success is often viewed as threatening. Usually the green-eyed monster can be somewhat mollified by a bit of gossip about one of the celebrity's foibles. But what to do when there are no obvious foibles, nothing that can be pointed to as a particular failing of that person, a shortcoming that a lesser achiever might take comfort in decrying?

In the world of gossip, squeaky-clean overachievers will generally get tagged with one of two types of rumors. The first can be described as sour graping and will be expressed as "Ah, he's not so wonderful -- I hear he beats his mother" (or takes drugs, or is rampantly racist, or is miserable to the people around him, or whatever). The slander will be of a nature designed to undermine the positive image of the famed one by portraying him as an awful person skulking behind a carefully maintained, completely false public image.

The second sort of rumor -- the kind Lil' Bow Wow has been made the subject of here -- will portray the blameless one as the victim of an awful turn of events. It's hard to continue to feel envious of someone else's success when you've the comfort of knowing that person was put through the wringer. "I guess I'm better off being me," says the rumor. "I wouldn't want all that fame and fortune if it also brought me that."

Lil' Bow Wow's meteoric rise would make him the target of envy. An additional factor beyond the acclaim accorded his debut album would have been the announcement that the then-13-year-old rapper would appear with Madonna in the opening act of the Grammys awards show on 21 February 2001. That could have been not the straw, but the laurel that broke the camel's back. Someone somewhere might well have deemed it one plaudit too many.

Yet a rumor, no matter how begun, does not get very far unless others are willing to further it. Lil' Bow Wow's violation was received by many as a vindication of their non-rapper, non-famous lifestyles. Spreading such a tale made them feel better about themselves. Yes, the rumor was shocking, but it's true appeal rested on its "punishment for being too famous and successful" theme.

We like to see our heroes succeed. We just don't like to see them succeed too well.

Barbara "best mind your succeed and cues" Mikkelson

meow85 said:

double co-sign

meltwithu said:

Hey, I said supposedly.

PAPAROBBIE said:

THANK YOU! This chick has NO clue at all.

meltwithu said:

PurpleRighteous1 said:

yep. poor me. guess i been bamboozled. how am i ever gonna sleep tonight?

BlaqueKnight said:

That's what I'm sayin' (on the initial thread)...

meltwithu said:[quote]

OnionJuice said:

I watched most of the DL eisode of Oprah and that DL is some serious shit. Isn't HIV/AIDs the largets killer of African American women, mostly I'm sure do to the DL! That has got to end and now!

paisleypark4 said:

:cough:Hags!:cough:

Stymie said:

There's just so much ignorance on this thread alone, that it's hard to ignore.

VinnyM27 said:

of course oprah's gonna have that slant--it's a woman's show, for God's sake! men have been jumping the fences on their wives/girlfriends since there were cavemen--this "phenomenon" did not miraculously appear in the fall of 2002 out of nowhere. women abuse drugs just as much as men, sharing dirty needles and participating in risky behavior at an equal rate--therefore, they get it just as bad, if not worse. doesn't matter how you get it, but folks need to slow down on pinning the woes of the black community on some catch phrase shit. that guy on oprah looked about as "straight" as little richard, and he was trying to sell a book.

I saw that episode last week and it pissed me off because, once again, the show was not totally realistic. I could take Oprah and her cameras to a gay club in my area and she could see the real deal. Of course, the cameras would have to be hidden though because those assholes would never agree to be filmed.

She would need to have the cameras on the outside of the club hidden in the parking lot. Don't go on the inside because most of them don't go inside for fear that they will be seen. A great deal of them continuously drive around, make the block, and circle the parking lot like vultures. Oprah could catch some hardcore thugs with hidden cameras....the type of guys that the world would never suspect of fooling around.

Also, she had professional men on the show. Women are going to watch this and say "Well I can tell by looking at him that he fools around....and he talks so proper....MY man is hard, rugged, and hates gays". Hardcore thugs are the main ones that need to be busted out, not only because they are the biggest gay bashers, but because their women would never suspect them because of the way they look and act. It's like an orgasm to me when I see one of those fuckers busted out.

Can't stand Tigga. He's one of the most annoying radio personalities ever.

pkidwell said:

Agreed. But not even he deserves to be slandered.

I hate all of these pseudo-street on-air personalities that overcompensate for their mainstream status by "slanging" all the time.

Big Tigga, the new tool on 106 and Park, and Sway are Hall of Fame fakers.

SassyBritches said:

Just swallow a whole bottle of sleeping pills.

namepeace said:

forreally though.

OnionJuice said:

only if you serve them to me, sweetface.

OnionJuice said:

This guy, who makes assumptions (judges) people on the basis of names, is going to be a lawyer. May the lord of all the heaven and earth have mercy on the 'hood.