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Reply #90 posted 04/22/04 10:39am

morningsong

chiltonmusic said:

When did the new race of not fully black start? This is news to me and quite frankly it is news to this country. Historically if you black mixed with anything you were still considerd black. I guess with the advent fo Mariah Carey and Tiger Woods this became a non issue with the pop loving crowd.
I say all that to say this. It is unfair to write off Prince's affair with Vanity and Susan with the statement that 'they are not fully black.' That is foolish and until recently has never done anyone with any black heratige any good. Honestly are we supposed to look at Vanity as white now? What about Halle Berry and Alicia Keys? All of those women would tell you in a heartbeat that they are black and actually they have every chance that they have gotten. See when you have mixed ancestry life can be very confusing. Not really for you but for everyone else around you. I am not bi racial but I am close. My mom on the other hand is a healthy mix of Italian and Panamanian and looks white. In a heart beat she will tell you that she is black. Now if you want to discuss heratige she will tell you that, but for the quick answer she is black. That is how I view Vanity, Susan etc.
Also I believe Mani is Itallian right? If that is the case then depending where her family is from (and from the looks of it I will say southern Italy) Mani like many Italians probably has an dark African bloodline in her.
Peace


Obviously you haven't been deep into your american history concerning "blacks", there was a time when there was a separation according to skin color, hence the word "colored" reserved for those of mixed origins prior to the Civil War, in some states those of "colored" descent were considered on the higher ring of the totem pole over "blacks". Ever heard of the "paper bag" theory, a whole highly successful community was built around that theory, after seeing pictures of P's parents, I have to wonder was he raised with that theory too, perhaps it was big part of his upbringing. Since the 60s being colored was a bad thing , perhaps because of its historical connections, that's when we were all known as black, but the lasting affects still lingers in our communities today. Noting that most of the women he has been seriously involved with tend to look like him, regardless of their racial origins, it seems to still lingers in him too. Makes sense to me, now if he looked like Wesley Snipes...well...too much to say about that. It would be nice if we lived in a perfect world where all was equal, but it ain't, so we all deal with it the best we know how, including P and IMHO I think he's handling it very well, better than most. I for one can appreciate that.
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Reply #91 posted 04/22/04 10:48am

laylow03

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WOW! WOW! WOW!!!! You really hit it on the nail here. As a black woman and a die-hard true to life Prince fam, let me just say that I agree with you 100%%%%!!!! I have always been bothered by the fact that Prince doesn't seem to showcase black women much throughout his career. Yet, whenever it's brought up, people say that race doesn't matter. But race DOES matter!! It will always matter as long as this is NOT a colorblind society. Yes, I don't see white men racing out to date or marry black women...not like black men chase after light-skinned, white and other non-black women. [However, I must say that many black women, including myself have been hit on my white men.] And it is true that many successful black men prefer light, white or non-black women; that's just how it is. It is ironic that with all the support black women give to P, he doesn't seem to me to be very appreciative of them as far as the women he chooses to have romantic relations with. Now, does that mean that he has a color problem? I don't know. We all know the rumors about black women that he's been associated with, but that's just it: they're all rumors, but the white women he's been romantically involved with we know all about. Just strange, really...


I agree completely with your responses but I take issue with one point, that being:
"I have always been bothered by the fact that Prince doesn't seem to showcase black women much throughout his career."

Now this is not true. Let's be clear. Prince may not be kickin' it romantically with the darker sisters but one thing is certain, when it comes to "showcasing black women" with real talent he's always done that. Just look at Cat Glover, Bonnie Boyer, Kat Dyson, Rosie Gaines, Jevetta Steele, etc. Prince has always had sisters with real skills in his bands and on his records. Now when he wants some arm candy he sho will go with the "exotic" beauty. But he ain't that crazy. He knows that when it's time to put in some real work he can count on a sista to get it done and well!

For me, one of the best things about the Emancipation period was that he had Kat Dyson, a dark sister, rocking braids playing guitar in NPG. Whaaaaat??? That was mad cool and earned him more of my respect (if that's possible).

Furthermore, this whole light-skin vs. dark-skin shit is very trivial. What's more important to me is that he has always, consistently featured women in his groups in ways that no other rock/funk/r&b/any other genre group ever has before or since. Before Sheila E., could any of you imagine a woman as physically beautiful as her killing some drums the way she does. She was the best thing on that sorry-ass Divas special on VH1.

From Wendy & Lisa, Sheila, Kat, Candy, to Rhonda, to me Prince has always proven his respect and admiration of ALL women regardless of COLOR in the most important way, by putting them on a stage with him which tells the world that these chicks are sooo superbad in their own right that they deserve to be on a stage with Prince. That's much more meaningful and significant to me and lots of little girls who want to play music than who he's sleeping with.


When I said "showcase" I meant in a romantic sense. Obviously P has had some of the baddest black female talents that ever lived. I'm not talking about that; I am speaking more of in a romantic relationship thing. As for the light-skinned, dark-skinned issue, it STILL is very much of an issue...yes, in this day and age, black people still have yet to conquer this slavery-old demon. However, it's not just a problem that black Americans have; it's all over the world. Ever visit India, Brazil, even Cuba. Everyone has a problem with race and skin color, not just us. It is FAR from a trivial issue...it's still very relevant in many communities of color...along with the good hair/bad hair/nappy hair issue. [I'm a living witness to that.]
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Reply #92 posted 04/22/04 11:00am

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morningsong said:

chiltonmusic said:

When did the new race of not fully black start? This is news to me and quite frankly it is news to this country. Historically if you black mixed with anything you were still considerd black. I guess with the advent fo Mariah Carey and Tiger Woods this became a non issue with the pop loving crowd.
I say all that to say this. It is unfair to write off Prince's affair with Vanity and Susan with the statement that 'they are not fully black.' That is foolish and until recently has never done anyone with any black heratige any good. Honestly are we supposed to look at Vanity as white now? What about Halle Berry and Alicia Keys? All of those women would tell you in a heartbeat that they are black and actually they have every chance that they have gotten. See when you have mixed ancestry life can be very confusing. Not really for you but for everyone else around you. I am not bi racial but I am close. My mom on the other hand is a healthy mix of Italian and Panamanian and looks white. In a heart beat she will tell you that she is black. Now if you want to discuss heratige she will tell you that, but for the quick answer she is black. That is how I view Vanity, Susan etc.
Also I believe Mani is Itallian right? If that is the case then depending where her family is from (and from the looks of it I will say southern Italy) Mani like many Italians probably has an dark African bloodline in her.
Peace


Obviously you haven't been deep into your american history concerning "blacks", there was a time when there was a separation according to skin color, hence the word "colored" reserved for those of mixed origins prior to the Civil War, in some states those of "colored" descent were considered on the higher ring of the totem pole over "blacks". Ever heard of the "paper bag" theory, a whole highly successful community was built around that theory, after seeing pictures of P's parents, I have to wonder was he raised with that theory too, perhaps it was big part of his upbringing. Since the 60s being colored was a bad thing , perhaps because of its historical connections, that's when we were all known as black, but the lasting affects still lingers in our communities today. Noting that most of the women he has been seriously involved with tend to look like him, regardless of their racial origins, it seems to still lingers in him too. Makes sense to me, now if he looked like Wesley Snipes...well...too much to say about that. It would be nice if we lived in a perfect world where all was equal, but it ain't, so we all deal with it the best we know how, including P and IMHO I think he's handling it very well, better than most. I for one can appreciate that.


You brought up some great points. What i think the previous poster was getting at is that we all need to try our best to not fall into the same traps as those that came before us. Those are and have always been divide and conquer tactics. Unfortunately, it is still a lingering issue within the black community. Dark and light skinned black women have many commonalities and many different experiences, but they are still considered black in the United States. One that I am not sure if we can resolve anytime soo. I also agree that P is handling it better than most. Though I am not convinced that certain things have ever been a major issue with him, it is not improbable. Many of us have gone through it on either side of the issue at some point. I think what is more important is not if he has dated a certain type of black woman, but rather would he really if he met the right one? If a dark skinned sista were to say "P said I'm too dark", then I think this would be a bigger issue". Right now, all of us are going off of certain things when we don't really know the truth.
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Reply #93 posted 04/22/04 11:45am

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SCNDLS said:



I agree completely with your responses but I take issue with one point, that being:
"I have always been bothered by the fact that Prince doesn't seem to showcase black women much throughout his career."

Now this is not true. Let's be clear. Prince may not be kickin' it romantically with the darker sisters but one thing is certain, when it comes to "showcasing black women" with real talent he's always done that. Just look at Cat Glover, Bonnie Boyer, Kat Dyson, Rosie Gaines, Jevetta Steele, etc. Prince has always had sisters with real skills in his bands and on his records. Now when he wants some arm candy he sho will go with the "exotic" beauty. But he ain't that crazy. He knows that when it's time to put in some real work he can count on a sista to get it done and well!

For me, one of the best things about the Emancipation period was that he had Kat Dyson, a dark sister, rocking braids playing guitar in NPG. Whaaaaat??? That was mad cool and earned him more of my respect (if that's possible).

Furthermore, this whole light-skin vs. dark-skin shit is very trivial. What's more important to me is that he has always, consistently featured women in his groups in ways that no other rock/funk/r&b/any other genre group ever has before or since. Before Sheila E., could any of you imagine a woman as physically beautiful as her killing some drums the way she does. She was the best thing on that sorry-ass Divas special on VH1.

From Wendy & Lisa, Sheila, Kat, Candy, to Rhonda, to me Prince has always proven his respect and admiration of ALL women regardless of COLOR in the most important way, by putting them on a stage with him which tells the world that these chicks are sooo superbad in their own right that they deserve to be on a stage with Prince. That's much more meaningful and significant to me and lots of little girls who want to play music than who he's sleeping with.


When I said "showcase" I meant in a romantic sense. Obviously P has had some of the baddest black female talents that ever lived. I'm not talking about that; I am speaking more of in a romantic relationship thing. As for the light-skinned, dark-skinned issue, it STILL is very much of an issue...yes, in this day and age, black people still have yet to conquer this slavery-old demon. However, it's not just a problem that black Americans have; it's all over the world. Ever visit India, Brazil, even Cuba. Everyone has a problem with race and skin color, not just us. It is FAR from a trivial issue...it's still very relevant in many communities of color...along with the good hair/bad hair/nappy hair issue. [I'm a living witness to that.]


I agree that the light-skin vs. dark-skin thing is still very much an issue for black folks and America in general (look at how Halle is easily acceptable as a standard for beauty). But I think it's kind of trivial to make assumptions/judgments regarding Prince's love life and aesthetic preferences in women. Does it really matter??? Ain't it about the music, after all?

If Prince were to marry Alek Wek (the supermodel from Africa) next week would that change/alter/impact this issue in the black community? Some how, I doubt it.

I'm not offended by, or even care about, Prince's romantic choices. That's his thing. I'd be more concerned if he did or said something degrading sisters ala Wesley Snipes. Which to my knowledge, Prince has not done.

As for other cultures being colorstruck, that is true to some degree. But I've found, being a black Latina myself, that these cultures are often more concerned with a person's place in the caste/class system rather than the shade of their skin.
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Reply #94 posted 04/22/04 11:52am

JasmineFire

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goat2004 said:

Black women care, LOL[/color]



falloff You're quite right, man. I remember that being a topic of convo with some sisters during the 1980s AND 1990s.

And, shucks, Nona's the only OBVIOUSLY black woman who seems to make the list of familiar Prince girlfriends. Everyone else was either "exotic" or lighter, rendering Nona as much a deviation as the oft-mocked and blond Kim Basinger.

i think that prince dates women who look like him. he's a light guy so he dates light girls, no matter what their "background" is.

think about it, vanity: looks like prince, mayte: looks like prince, mani: looks like prince, the list goes on.

So i wouldn't say that it's so much of prince not liking darker women as much as it's prince liking women who look like a female form of him. If prince was darker, the women would be darker.

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Reply #95 posted 04/22/04 11:57am

JasmineFire

SCNDLS said:

If Prince were to marry Alek Wek (the supermodel from Africa) next week...

That would be wicked funny 'cuase you know he'd come up to her knees or some shit. talk about opposites! he probably spend more time on his hair, too. giggle



she is stunning though.
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Reply #96 posted 04/22/04 11:59am

laylow03

SCNDLS said:

laylow03 said:



When I said "showcase" I meant in a romantic sense. Obviously P has had some of the baddest black female talents that ever lived. I'm not talking about that; I am speaking more of in a romantic relationship thing. As for the light-skinned, dark-skinned issue, it STILL is very much of an issue...yes, in this day and age, black people still have yet to conquer this slavery-old demon. However, it's not just a problem that black Americans have; it's all over the world. Ever visit India, Brazil, even Cuba. Everyone has a problem with race and skin color, not just us. It is FAR from a trivial issue...it's still very relevant in many communities of color...along with the good hair/bad hair/nappy hair issue. [I'm a living witness to that.]


I agree that the light-skin vs. dark-skin thing is still very much an issue for black folks and America in general (look at how Halle is easily acceptable as a standard for beauty). But I think it's kind of trivial to make assumptions/judgments regarding Prince's love life and aesthetic preferences in women. Does it really matter??? Ain't it about the music, after all?

If Prince were to marry Alek Wek (the supermodel from Africa) next week would that change/alter/impact this issue in the black community? Some how, I doubt it.

I'm not offended by, or even care about, Prince's romantic choices. That's his thing. I'd be more concerned if he did or said something degrading sisters ala Wesley Snipes. Which to my knowledge, Prince has not done.

As for other cultures being colorstruck, that is true to some degree. But I've found, being a black Latina myself, that these cultures are often more concerned with a person's place in the caste/class system rather than the shade of their skin.


You're aboslutely, 100% right!!! It's all about the music at the end of the day. Still, it's interesting to muse about these banalities every once in a while...LOL! lol
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Reply #97 posted 04/22/04 12:31pm

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JasmineFire said:

SCNDLS said:

If Prince were to marry Alek Wek (the supermodel from Africa) next week...

That would be wicked funny 'cuase you know he'd come up to her knees or some shit. talk about opposites! he probably spend more time on his hair, too. giggle



she is stunning though.


Thanks for pic. I think she's very striking too. I love to see her on the catwalk, she owns it when she walks.
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Reply #98 posted 04/22/04 12:36pm

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You're aboslutely, 100% right!!! It's all about the music at the end of the day. Still, it's interesting to muse about these banalities every once in a while...LOL! lol


Now, let's talk about something really important and relevant that will change the world. Like, what the hell was Mayte thinking when she hooked up with Tommy Lee. Geez, talk about sloppy, nasty-ass seconds, thirds, etc.! disbelief
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Reply #99 posted 04/22/04 12:39pm

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ArdeoTheMerciless said:

fredericdoug said:

I was watching "Access Hollywood" today and they were interviewing the newly unjailed Bobby Brown and he said he was interested in getting back into music and would like Prince's help. Lastly, he said, "I want Prince's help because we went to Patterson together and that Prince would know what he was talking about". What is this Patterson? A high school? Did anybody else see this. It will probably re-air early Sat or Monday in some areas.


Patterson is a maximum security prison in Alabama...prince was jailed in '77 for prostitution and racketeering....thats where he met Bobby, and prison is where her learned how 2 hit those high notes.


OMFG! Prince was in jail at one time? Is this for real or are you yanking our chain? omfg
RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you.
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Reply #100 posted 04/22/04 12:39pm

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bobby brown wanting prince's help?....

can you say"NARCOTICS ANONYMOUS?"


and as far as whitney goes....

"CODEPENDENTS ANONYMOUS FOR HER!"


call reading talk to the hand headlp shocked
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Reply #101 posted 04/22/04 12:45pm

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Racketeering: One who obtains money by an illegal enterprise usually involving intimidation.

hmmm
RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you.
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Reply #102 posted 04/22/04 1:08pm

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morningsong said:

chiltonmusic said:

When did the new race of not fully black start? This is news to me and quite frankly it is news to this country. Historically if you black mixed with anything you were still considerd black. I guess with the advent fo Mariah Carey and Tiger Woods this became a non issue with the pop loving crowd.
I say all that to say this. It is unfair to write off Prince's affair with Vanity and Susan with the statement that 'they are not fully black.' That is foolish and until recently has never done anyone with any black heratige any good. Honestly are we supposed to look at Vanity as white now? What about Halle Berry and Alicia Keys? All of those women would tell you in a heartbeat that they are black and actually they have every chance that they have gotten. See when you have mixed ancestry life can be very confusing. Not really for you but for everyone else around you. I am not bi racial but I am close. My mom on the other hand is a healthy mix of Italian and Panamanian and looks white. In a heart beat she will tell you that she is black. Now if you want to discuss heratige she will tell you that, but for the quick answer she is black. That is how I view Vanity, Susan etc.
Also I believe Mani is Itallian right? If that is the case then depending where her family is from (and from the looks of it I will say southern Italy) Mani like many Italians probably has an dark African bloodline in her.
Peace


Obviously you haven't been deep into your american history concerning "blacks", there was a time when there was a separation according to skin color, hence the word "colored" reserved for those of mixed origins prior to the Civil War, in some states those of "colored" descent were considered on the higher ring of the totem pole over "blacks". Ever heard of the "paper bag" theory, a whole highly successful community was built around that theory, after seeing pictures of P's parents, I have to wonder was he raised with that theory too, perhaps it was big part of his upbringing. Since the 60s being colored was a bad thing , perhaps because of its historical connections, that's when we were all known as black, but the lasting affects still lingers in our communities today. Noting that most of the women he has been seriously involved with tend to look like him, regardless of their racial origins, it seems to still lingers in him too. Makes sense to me, now if he looked like Wesley Snipes...well...too much to say about that. It would be nice if we lived in a perfect world where all was equal, but it ain't, so we all deal with it the best we know how, including P and IMHO I think he's handling it very well, better than most. I for one can appreciate that.


Yes actually I have delved deep into american history where blacks are concerned. Never before in history has there been as obvious a push to seperate blacks of mixed heratige from other african americans like that of what we see to day. As you stated even if you were a higher rung on the ladder you still weren't white and you were still expected to keep your place among the blacks. Granted there were light skinned communities and the whole 9 but ask yourself how long did that little trend last? Eventually the lighter skinned black folks realized they were catching the same hell as the darker ones and that the power would be in numbers. In the past and even at the begining of Princes career no one was saying Vanity wasn't black, or that he wasn't and they sure weren't trying to pull that shit with Susan. That is something that has been a very recent happening. Granted while most black colleges were built for bi racial slave children. That was only so that they would be educated and they would deal with the Dark blacks more closely than the white folks would. There was very little assention based on skin color. Also the whole house vs. field. Anyone living in the 2004 and you still fall for the "which slave had it better which slave would I have been argument." Is a fool. A slave is a slave. Still I don't mean to disagree with your point "this is nothing new" is what I believe you were saying. My point it that to me it seems elevated. So that even if you were 'colored' you were still a N----r. Where as today it seems as though people almost expect you not to claim to be black if you have other things floating around. You see what I am saying
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Reply #103 posted 04/22/04 9:55pm

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wacky giggle
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Reply #104 posted 04/22/04 10:09pm

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wacky giggle

Do you truly not understand what I am saying or you just think the whole topic is nuts?
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