What Prince song are these lyric to? I can't remember for the life of me.

You can't find it because those are not lyrics from a Prince song. Google for proof.
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He used to talk a lot about leaders and followers on the One Nite Alone tour, so he may have said it there.

NorthC said:

He used to talk a lot about leaders and followers on the One Nite Alone tour, so he may have said it there.

yeah but during ONA he was more like "what's better, to be a leader of a follower?" and the girl in
the audience would be like "a leader" and prince would say "wrong answer"

to the next girl he'd say "is it better to be a leader of a follower?" and naturally, she would then say
"follower" to which prince would reply 'well follow me then' and bring her onto the stage.

iirc, that is.

I think you're referring to Family Name, from TRC album.