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Reply #60 posted 03/24/18 10:00am

luvsexy4all

why asume if somethings about sex ..its automatically profane?

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Reply #61 posted 03/24/18 10:44am

purplefam99

udo said:



purplefam99 said:


When he gets a friend whom he can share it with all of a sudden it’s the friends Fault.

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It is.


Because we know Prince's relgigious materials from e.g. Lovesexy.


We know his ways of saying, doing, etc.


And then comes this other person which changes all of that into more extreme, restrictive religious outings.


It did not change for the better after the otehr person became involved.


So it is their fault.


And yes, it did show another Prince weakness.




Not blaming others for your choices is kinda parenting 101. To blame LG for P’s actions Is like Prince blaming his womanizing on his father. That only goes so far. Influence perhaps but blame, no. It is not Larry’s Fault that the music changed and it didn’t suit you.
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Reply #62 posted 03/24/18 10:53am

purplefam99

purplerabbithole said:

Speculating here.....It was not hollow. It was messy and probably messier than it needed to be. Real life mixed in with delusion, art, imagination, some paranoia. I don't think he liked drama. I think he didn't know how to deal with the confusing aspects of life (and most particularly his life) without throwing himself into his imagination and compartmentalizing himself. Weirdly he created more drama (mostly as a habit) in an attempt to avoid facing harder and more painful truths. I don't think he lacked feeling or sensitivity. He lacked the ability to deal with the myriad of thoughts and conflicted feelings in his head. Also, I think he was raised (culturally and in other ways) to not admit his vulnerabilty...this made it hard to fix what was hurting. Music was both his expression of himself and his escape. Yes, he watched lots of tv. I like that Lala stated that PRince used to cry in movies. I do that all the time. I dont know about you but I am the type of person who feels like she connects with the cashier she has a five minute conversation with. I like people, I am forgiving, I love my family but I suck at keeping in touch with friends from my past and taking friendly interaction into full-fledged friendships. I can be talkative and comfortable in controlled settings (I am a teacher) but I am deep down rather shy. I am literally nervous about calling my cousin (whom I never had a bad interaction with but whom I havent talked to in ten years) even though she told me on facebook to give her a call. Maybe I am seeing that in him.







purplefam99 said:




purplerabbithole said:


Maybe he was just afraid of the test results and jinxing the second pregnancy, Also, he was not full=fledged JW yet so maybe his spiritual beliefs were a hybrid at the time. Mayte hopefully did what was best for her because it was her body carrying that baby. Eventually it sounds like she did. Not saying the father does not have a voice but a bad pregnancy affects the woman's health obviously--not the man's.



i also would not go so far as to call his personal life hollow but it was limited, stunted and wrapped around his work and a degree of delusion and his imagination. its like his life consisted of a series of bonding moments with his lovers, mentorees, pen pals (Tamron, Neal) and employees that at times were loving and friendly (even momentarily open) but never materialized into longterm relationships. Probably the reason why different associates define friendship differently where Prince was concerned. A degree of affection and even momentary mutual understanding but not enough true sympatico understanding, unconditional loyality or longterm intimacy to be defined as traditional friendship. Hollow-no, a bit stunted--yes. The man spread himself way too thin and compartmentalized his personal life to protect himself from perceived possible harms and support his musical obsessions. I used to be cynical about the need for psychaitry for people who werent seriously mentally ill (schizophrenics etc) but Prince has convinced me otherwise. Therapy might have helped him.




[Edited 3/22/18 9:51am]


[Edited 3/22/18 9:54am]



i will say this and i'll admit it maybe totally unfair. but i think he lived in a soap opera world. the drama, the love, the outcomes. i really think he was making a lot of music, living a fantasy and watching more tv than we think or he admitted too. the stunted description you describes makes


me really think this. i think it was an ultimate escape, tv and movies for him.




[Edited 3/22/18 18:35pm]



Yes rabbit, I’m speculating too. It is true the situation of life is messy.
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Reply #63 posted 03/24/18 11:51am

anangellooksdo
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purplerabbithole said:

I agree. He tried so hard to rise above his loss but he avoided truely facing the loss. However, I would not call it a facade. He never lies about his son dying. I think he sincerely thought he could will himself into happiness and spiritual re-unification with the soul of his dead son. (the interviewer points out that he said he was happy about 30 times in the interview--probably not just to protect his privacy but to also convince himself.)He was deluded. For a while, it probably did get him through, but unfortunately, its like throwing a bandaid on a seeping wound while avoiding a doctor's examination of the injury.--it will stop the bleeding for a little while but eventually you will bleed through regardless and are ill-equipped to fix it.. Healing means dealing directly with the problem. I don't think thatparticular spiritual belief would have been bad had he first gone through the painful but essential process of understanding/facing the psychological devastation of the loss and getting the support and he and his wife truely needed. Spirituality to deal with loss is not necessarily a bad thing but it cant substitute for real psychological and theraputic support. I wonder where P's parents were through this devastating moment in his life.





Strive said:


This interview is a little sadder once you read Mayte's book and see that this is just a facade introduced by Larry Graham. He was the one pushing Prince to the idea that absolute faith would make things turn out alright and that unshakable faith in Christ would be rewarded. The last part of the interview kinda confirms that when he goes "I think, yes, I know I'm happy. I have all I need."



[Edited 3/18/18 21:13pm]



As long as he cried, and I believe he did, he probably healed as much as he could. Spirituality includes psychology and is the best healing there is.
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Reply #64 posted 03/24/18 11:54am

anangellooksdo
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Strive said:

This interview is a little sadder once you read Mayte's book and see that this is just a facade introduced by Larry Graham. He was the one pushing Prince to the idea that absolute faith would make things turn out alright and that unshakable faith in Christ would be rewarded. The last part of the interview kinda confirms that when he goes "I think, yes, I know I'm happy. I have all I need."



I think he was trying to be positive. I dig what he was doing. He tried. And he succeeded in time.
He was not without his traumas. None of us are.
It is possible that being in the solution about it rather than the depression saved his life.
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Reply #65 posted 03/24/18 11:56am

anangellooksdo
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DonRants said:

A lot of Prince fans like to blame Larry Graham for Prince's conversion to Jehovah's Witness. Nothing is further from the truth. Prince was raised 7th day Adventist and his mom had made the conversion years earlier and wished the same for him. Larry was only able to "convert" Prince because he had already been searching.



AMEN.
I credit LG with being Prince’s me fir and helping to save his life.
God decides these things when we seek.
God chooses what we find, what He knows we need.
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Reply #66 posted 03/24/18 11:58am

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Vashtix said:



Strive said:




Genesia said:




How do you know that it wasn't?




Mayte never being able to conceive, two failed marriages and dying alone in an elevator doesn't really seem like he was rewarded on this Earth for his faith. Let's hope he was rewarded in the next.



Not to offend but I think Prince was rewarded on earth. He is still being discussed and revered as a great man, a genius, and for his beauty. Prince was so much more than a lover or casanova . He was able to help so many people and understood his celebrity and money allowed him the opportunity to help others in ways some others could not .


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Never met him but from reading of him after his death and listening to his music and reading his lyrics he was a deeply spiritual man so his reward on earth goes way deeper than the avg person. I think he got what it really means to be rewarded and he had that and will have that til the end of time. His legend is growing. His music will be what is important and how he changed pop culture and how he truly helped others at least I am hoping that will be the focus.




Vashtix.
SO beautifully written.
You made me cry.
You get it.
YES! The rewards are what we feel on the inside, and who we can help.
It’s a kind of peace that can exist with any other feeling, even grief.
Prince was SO close to god.
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Reply #67 posted 03/24/18 8:58pm

udo

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purplefam99 said:

To blame LG for P’s actions Is like Prince blaming his womanizing on his father.

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Prince was corrupted beyond repair and you try to see that in black and white?

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That only goes so far. Influence perhaps but blame, no. It is not Larry’s Fault that the music changed and it didn’t suit you.

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It is too simplistic of a view whatever you are projecting here.

That other man did not simply go past Prince's door and try to convince him.

No, he abused the friendship they had to push his faith onto Prince.

That is a much different situation from the everyday situation of not answering the door bell when that other person rings.

Pills and thrills and daffodils will kill... If you don't believe me or don't get it, I don't have time to try to convince you, sorry.
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Reply #68 posted 03/24/18 11:28pm

DonRants

purplefam99 said I agree with you Don. I can’t believe the power some give Larry in regards to P making his own mind up. He was always super religious as you say so this was not new. We have been listening to the Gospel according to Prince from jump, but When he gets a friend whom he can share it with all of a sudden it’s the friends Fault. People just didn’t like that Prince was done being and playing the vague game and that left them with no choice but to see that they had been jamming with God all along and Prince was the culprit to bring them to the pulpit all along. Imo.

I love the way you stated that. I remember as a kid listening to the Controversy album. I could not believe he had songs like "Sexuality" and "Jack U Off"...then had the entire "Lord's Prayer" during "Controversy". Prince was definitely selling sex hard ..but he was also shoveling a lot of Judeo-Christianity at you at the same time. But it was a cultish form of Christianity....one that said sex is ok and Prince was the cult's messianic leader. As in "I would Die for You"..where he flat out blasphemes: "I am your Messiah." I think that's what most people who resent Prince's conversion hate... now he he tells them: "I am not your messiah, Jesus is." Their cult leader who use to tell them to "let your body be free"...now tells them to wait until marriage. They don't want to hear that.

[Edited 3/25/18 7:34am]

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Reply #69 posted 03/25/18 12:10am

DonRants

Lets make Prince answer for himself. In the famous Larry King interview. 1) Right around the 4 minute mark..Prince states "I had to decide between fame and my spiritual well-being and I chose my spiritual well-being." He is talking about his name change, but I think its says volumes about his other unstated decisions. 2)At the 15:00 to the 16:30 starting with the question : "Where does your Inspiration come from?..Prince answers a lot of the questions raised in this thread. He states "My inspiration comes from God" and "I have always believed in God." among other things. On a side note, I have always disliked Larry referring to Mohammad Ali's conversion to Islam as "a false belief." That is not for him, or anyone else, to decide.
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Reply #70 posted 03/25/18 12:28am

DonRants

udo said:

purplefam99 said:

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Prince was corrupted beyond repair and you try to see that in black and white?

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That only goes so far. Influence perhaps but blame, no. It is not Larry’s Fault that the music changed and it didn’t suit you.

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It is too simplistic of a view whatever you are projecting here.

That other man did not simply go past Prince's door and try to convince him.

No, he abused the friendship they had to push his faith onto Prince.

That is a much different situation from the everyday situation of not answering the door bell when that other person rings.

Udo, that is not how Jehovahs Witnesses operate. They do not "abuse their friendships." They study and share and let you decide. They spend a lot of time reading, memorizing and studying the bible. In most conversations with people of other faiths, the JWs will be the most knowledgeable person (on biblical matters) present. They can usually find chapter and verse from the bible to support their beliefs. Therefore they are very confident in presenting those beliefs, but they do not force you to accept them. It is always up to the new person if they want to accept it or not. Their (JWs) view is:"This is The Truth!" if you want it join, if not then go...its up to you. Prince choose it. He was not abused or pushed by Larry...I am positive of that.
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Reply #71 posted 03/25/18 6:08am

udo

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DonRants said:

udo said:

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It is too simplistic of a view whatever you are projecting here.

That other man did not simply go past Prince's door and try to convince him.

No, he abused the friendship they had to push his faith onto Prince.

That is a much different situation from the everyday situation of not answering the door bell when that other person rings.

Udo, that is not how Jehovahs Witnesses operate. They do not "abuse their friendships."

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So they did not branwash Prince into doing things he did differently before if he did them at all?

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I cannot discuss the Christian faith with anyone because they cannot explain Galathians 2, the relations to the foundation of the Catholic church and the question of what the faith really should be.

(in short: I think all christian churches are bult on a sand castle hidden in Galathians 2)

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So why would a studied man like Prince do as he did? This can't be by any other mans as via brainwashing, group coercion, etc. Why else would he from time to time behave like his 'old' self while on stage?

Pills and thrills and daffodils will kill... If you don't believe me or don't get it, I don't have time to try to convince you, sorry.
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Reply #72 posted 03/25/18 6:50am

bonatoc

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Genesia said:

Strive said:

Mayte never being able to conceive, two failed marriages and dying alone in an elevator doesn't really seem like he was rewarded on this Earth for his faith. Let's hope he was rewarded in the next.


Everyone goes through trials and troubles in their lives. Those who have faith believe it is that that helps them survive the bad times. Prince's faith brought him a kind of peace he might not have been able to achieve without it.

We all die. And when we do - even if we are surrounded by loved ones - it is a solitary activity.


Like masturbation?
Sorry, I keep hearing the sex in every sentence.

I think Prince has been rewarded beyond any measure. It would have been great if he had scored on every aspect of his life, but this is a myth: life's a bitch for everyone at some point.

It's tempting to believe in some celestial mechanics balance, that would send you a bill for all the happiness felt, under the form of tragedies. We look for a meaning to events.

Yes Strive, these seems pretty hard, but try to jump into Prince's suit, imagine receiving the energy and love of thousand of people like a blast, and the feeling you get from it provokes incredible things in you, splits in repetition are effortless, and inspired soloes fly from your hands.
It's very fulfilling to hear an audience clap you beyond politeness. It's a joy to see even a single person in the audience that gets what you are trying to convey as a performer.

I can't even begin to imagine the moments of joy and ecstasy Prince went through, all his life, on stage or in the studio. Living as a musician, or from any other art, is a privilege, not because it's easier (quite the contrary), but because of the feedback you get from your work. And performing live is even better, because you can see it on the faces in real time, you can hear thousands of feet thumping like Thunder all through the night, shaking the building, the oh-wee-oh chants, dozens of rows jumping up and down in unison.

He had a Good Life.




[Edited 3/25/18 6:55am]

The Colors R brighter, the Bond is much tighter
No Child's a failure
Until the Blue Sailboat sails him away from his dreams
Don't Ever Lose, Don't Ever Lose
Don't Ever Lose Your Dreams
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Reply #73 posted 03/25/18 8:29am

babynoz

TheDigitalGardener said:

anangellooksdown said:

What happened to him at 27? That would’ve been 1985. He was beginning the Lovesexy Tour in August of that year.

Nope. Lovesexy tour began mid 1988.



Yep, in "85 There was ATWIAD.....how are people forgetting that? lol

Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
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Reply #74 posted 03/25/18 8:30am

DonRants

udo said:

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Prince was corrupted beyond repair and you try to see that in black and white?

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Udo, I will give you a response to your last post..but first I have one question...1) What do you mean Prince was "Corrupted beyond repair?" And you seem to suggest it was by his father. Can you please clarify.
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Reply #75 posted 03/25/18 9:03am

babynoz

DonRants said:

206Michelle said:

His mom was Baptist.

Really. Please share one source which supports that his mom was Baptist. I have seen several sources which state his parents were 7th Day Adventist...a faith that is very similar to JW. As a matter of fact, the founder of Jehovah's Witnesses was a 7th Day Adventist before leaving to start his own church.

[Edited 3/20/18 0:19am]



Prince's mother was never a Witness. Tyka confirmed it in a radio interview during the time she released her book. Of course it's impossible to find now because it's buried in all of the interviews she had done since he passed. I used to post it every time the claim was made.

There was also a lady here who was JW that said the same thing back when they used to post on the org frequently.

Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
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Reply #76 posted 03/25/18 9:07am

babynoz

206Michelle said:

DonRants said:

You do not have to be a member of a church to have your funeral or obituary there. The following article states clearly that his parents were 7thDay adventist, a point I have seen repeated many times. But wheter they were or not is not the point, the main point is Prince was super-religious before Larry and was searching for something. He would not have been open to Larry Graham if he wasn't. Prince always was his own man. But fans, act as if Larry brainwashed him....there is enough evidence to suggest otherwise.

https://www.billboard.com...tness-life

The fact that Mattie Della Shaw Baker’s funeral took place at a Baptist Church is pretty strong evidence that she was not a Jehovah’s Witness. If she was a practicing JW, her funeral would have taken place at a Kingdom Hall or another location, excluding a church of another Christian denomination, because my understanding is a funeral at a non-JW congregation would not be permissible for a JW. [Edited 3/22/18 21:02pm] [Edited 3/22/18 21:03pm]



Correct.


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Reply #77 posted 03/25/18 9:10am

babynoz

Strive said:

This interview is a little sadder once you read Mayte's book and see that this is just a facade introduced by Larry Graham. He was the one pushing Prince to the idea that absolute faith would make things turn out alright and that unshakable faith in Christ would be rewarded. The last part of the interview kinda confirms that when he goes "I think, yes, I know I'm happy. I have all I need."



Propaganda aside it was actually George Benson who first spoke to Prince about the Witness faith, not LG.


So much misinformation in this thread it ain't even funny.

Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
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Reply #78 posted 03/25/18 9:30am

babynoz

Getting back on topic, (sorry), Prince is correct that most people choose to focus on his more salacious subject matter. People seldom discuss Prince songs that contain deeply profound and/or deeply spiritual content.

I can't count the number of times I've read that "he should go back to cursing" or "what is he talking about" or "he must be crazy". disbelief

Prince was far from crazy.

Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
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Reply #79 posted 03/26/18 7:49pm

purplefam99

DonRants said:



purplefam99 said I agree with you Don. I can’t believe the power some give Larry in regards to P making his own mind up. He was always super religious as you say so this was not new. We have been listening to the Gospel according to Prince from jump, but When he gets a friend whom he can share it with all of a sudden it’s the friends Fault. People just didn’t like that Prince was done being and playing the vague game and that left them with no choice but to see that they had been jamming with God all along and Prince was the culprit to bring them to the pulpit all along. Imo.




I love the way you stated that. I remember as a kid listening to the Controversy album. I could not believe he had songs like "Sexuality" and "Jack U Off"...then had the entire "Lord's Prayer" during "Controversy". Prince was definitely selling sex hard ..but he was also shoveling a lot of Judeo-Christianity at you at the same time. But it was a cultish form of Christianity....one that said sex is ok and Prince was the cult's messianic leader. As in "I would Die for You"..where he flat out blasphemes: "I am your Messiah." I think that's what most people who resent Prince's conversion hate... now he he tells them: "I am not your messiah, Jesus is." Their cult leader who use to tell them to "let your body be free"...now tells them to wait until marriage. They don't want to hear that.


[Edited 3/25/18 7:34am]



True.

I can see where he gained momentum in his following based largely due to
Sex. They should be mad at the cult leader for the agenda change, not LG.
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Reply #80 posted 03/26/18 8:31pm

Vashtix

anangellooksdown said:

Vashtix said:

Not to offend but I think Prince was rewarded on earth. He is still being discussed and revered as a great man, a genius, and for his beauty. Prince was so much more than a lover or casanova . He was able to help so many people and understood his celebrity and money allowed him the opportunity to help others in ways some others could not .

.

Never met him but from reading of him after his death and listening to his music and reading his lyrics he was a deeply spiritual man so his reward on earth goes way deeper than the avg person. I think he got what it really means to be rewarded and he had that and will have that til the end of time. His legend is growing. His music will be what is important and how he changed pop culture and how he truly helped others at least I am hoping that will be the focus.

Vashtix. SO beautifully written. You made me cry. You get it. YES! The rewards are what we feel on the inside, and who we can help. It’s a kind of peace that can exist with any other feeling, even grief. Prince was SO close to god.

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