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Thread started 09/11/16 9:25pm

rainbowchild

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How do u celebrate ur own birthday now that Prince is gone?

My birthday is coming up and while I used 2 look 4ward 2 it (even though Prince doesn't celebrate his own birthday), it makes me sad knowing my childhood musical idol is gone and playing his songs on my birthday, which I normally do, is tinged with sadness. The last time I saw him in concert was around my birthday 4 years ago and it was the best birthday present I got and had been looking forward 2 doing it again if he was performing in my area like he did, coincidentally then, but now it will never happen again. sad
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Reply #1 posted 09/11/16 11:43pm

Linda1974

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The Same as P did, I dont do Birthdays lol Then you don't age.....

Forever in My Life....
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Reply #2 posted 09/12/16 2:33am

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The day that we stop counting, we'll live as long as a tree!! wink
I honestly can't answer your question....it's tough. Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday. Try and make it special. heart wildsign
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Reply #3 posted 09/12/16 2:39am

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I stopped counting birthdays after I turned 18 some odd years ago lol but this birthday (which is the same month as His) I just felt empty & lost... Even after all of this time I refuse to accept it.

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Reply #4 posted 09/12/16 7:13am

roxy831

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OMG hmph! I woke up on my birthday, and the FIRST thing that came to mind was this is the FIRST birthday without him on this earth. The rest of the day just felt like another day. My family took me out and I received nice things, but really, I just was going through the motions. sad

Welcome home class. We've come a long way. - RIP Prince
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Reply #5 posted 09/12/16 8:02am

rainbowchild

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roxy831 said:

OMG hmph! I woke up on my birthday, and the FIRST thing that came to mind was this is the FIRST birthday without him on this earth. The rest of the day just felt like another day. My family took me out and I received nice things, but really, I just was going through the motions. sad



Indeed. I used to check for news regularly especially here at the Org as to Prince's whereabouts as I go through my daily life just knowing he's somewhere but now that he's gone I felt like I lost a dear friend. I plan on having some drinks with friends on my birthday in Prince's memory.
"Just like the sun, the Rainbow Children rise."



"We had fun, didn't we?"
-Prince (1958-2016) 4ever in my life
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Reply #6 posted 09/12/16 8:07am

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rainbowchild said:

roxy831 said:

OMG hmph! I woke up on my birthday, and the FIRST thing that came to mind was this is the FIRST birthday without him on this earth. The rest of the day just felt like another day. My family took me out and I received nice things, but really, I just was going through the motions. sad

Indeed. I used to check for news regularly especially here at the Org as to Prince's whereabouts as I go through my daily life just knowing he's somewhere but now that he's gone I felt like I lost a dear friend. I plan on having some drinks with friends on my birthday in Prince's memory.

hug Try to have a happy one. P's no longer in pain and he left so much for us all. pat

Welcome home class. We've come a long way. - RIP Prince
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Reply #7 posted 09/12/16 8:21am

derico13

My birthday was april 17th..... so i guess i have one year or less to figure this out.

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Reply #8 posted 09/12/16 12:18pm

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I acknowledge my age.
I started spending my birthdays differently about 8 or 9 years ago when I stopped making everything about me anymore.
I spend some extra time with God thanking Him for another year, but that's about it. I'm just grateful.
I realize that isn't how most people see things, and it took a lot of ego deflating for me to get to that, and a little pain.
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Reply #9 posted 09/12/16 12:38pm

rainbowchild

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roxy831 said:



rainbowchild said:


roxy831 said:

OMG hmph! I woke up on my birthday, and the FIRST thing that came to mind was this is the FIRST birthday without him on this earth. The rest of the day just felt like another day. My family took me out and I received nice things, but really, I just was going through the motions. sad



Indeed. I used to check for news regularly especially here at the Org as to Prince's whereabouts as I go through my daily life just knowing he's somewhere but now that he's gone I felt like I lost a dear friend. I plan on having some drinks with friends on my birthday in Prince's memory.

hug Try to have a happy one. P's no longer in pain and he left so much for us all. pat



Thanks! I will! And ur right, Prince had given us sooo much over the years with memories 2 last a lifetime and I'm grateful 4 that! Wish we knew he was in pain all these years so we could have been there 4 him as he has been 4 us. He has given us so much with his gift of music. Thank u Prince! I'll celebrate my birthdays from here on thanking him 4 his generosity with his time and talent! Cheers! cool
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Reply #10 posted 09/12/16 12:38pm

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My birthday was 8 days after he passed, talk about a worst early bday present... confused

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Reply #11 posted 09/12/16 1:21pm

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joeycocopuffs said:

My birthday was 8 days after he passed, talk about a worst early bday present... confused

grouphug That's brutal sad Here, have a hug hug . The ebb and flow of grief is a mutha, but atleast we got eachotha...(yeah, I just came up with that...lol).

Welcome home class. We've come a long way. - RIP Prince
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Reply #12 posted 09/12/16 2:18pm

Guitarhero

My birthday is 30th of April and i did not celebrate it this year. It was too soon after sad There was absolutely nothing to be cheerful about on my birthday. I will be glad to see the back of 2016. My next birthday i will just play his music and have some friends round and celebrate Prince.

[Edited 9/12/16 14:20pm]

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Reply #13 posted 09/12/16 2:30pm

roxy831

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Guitarhero said:

My birthday is 30th of April and i did not celebrate it this year. It was too soon after sad There was absolutely nothing to be cheerful about on my birthday. I will be glad to see the back of 2016. My next birthday i will just play his music and have some friends round and celebrate Prince.

[Edited 9/12/16 14:20pm]

pat sad sigh

Welcome home class. We've come a long way. - RIP Prince
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Reply #14 posted 09/12/16 2:42pm

Genesia

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Same as I always have. Life goes on.

We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves.
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Reply #15 posted 09/12/16 2:49pm

MrSquiggle

My birthday is April 5th, the party got put off until the 22nd which was the night he died here in Australia. I went to bed at around 8pm at my own party, I was too sad to talk to anyone. It was horrible.

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Reply #16 posted 09/12/16 3:00pm

1contessa

My family was never into celebrating birthdays, so needless to say that I grew up that way also. I don't celebrate my birthday, and even though my family likes to do the cake, gift thing, I always ask them not to make a big deal out of my birthday because it really makes me uncomfortable. I just like the day to go quietly by. Therefore, it makes no difference that Prince is gone, because I never did anything special while he was here, not for his birthday or mine.

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Reply #17 posted 09/12/16 3:14pm

Serious

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My birthday is over for 15 minutes now and that Prince isn't alive anymore made me realize how quickly it can all be over and how I am getting old even more and how much my life has changed since I got into his music back in 1984.

With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A....
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Reply #18 posted 09/12/16 4:35pm

eightiesbrat

My birthday is on Christmas, so for Prince, that would be two things to avoid celebrating in one day. lol Mine will be the same as always since I will be with family and we'll all be doing what we do every year on that day.

I hope that when your birthday comes, it ends up being a happy one despite the sad thoughts. smile

We all want the stuff that's found in our wildest dreams. . .
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Reply #19 posted 09/12/16 4:47pm

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roxy831 said:

joeycocopuffs said:

My birthday was 8 days after he passed, talk about a worst early bday present... confused

grouphug That's brutal sad Here, have a hug hug . The ebb and flow of grief is a mutha, but atleast we got eachotha...(yeah, I just came up with that...lol).

awe <3

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Reply #20 posted 09/12/16 4:53pm

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MrSquiggle said:

My birthday is April 5th, the party got put off until the 22nd which was the night he died here in Australia. I went to bed at around 8pm at my own party, I was too sad to talk to anyone. It was horrible.




Bummer. I'm sorry 2 hear that. sad
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Reply #21 posted 09/12/16 4:58pm

Gohi

Hang out with friends and eat delicious food, same as before! Prince's passing did not impact my birthday this year and I doubt it will in the future, to be honest.

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Reply #22 posted 09/12/16 5:32pm

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rainbowchild said:

My birthday is coming up and while I used 2 look 4ward 2 it (even though Prince doesn't celebrate his own birthday), it makes me sad knowing my childhood musical idol is gone and playing his songs on my birthday, which I normally do, is tinged with sadness. The last time I saw him in concert was around my birthday 4 years ago and it was the best birthday present I got and had been looking forward 2 doing it again if he was performing in my area like he did, coincidentally then, but now it will never happen again. sad

I understand what u r talking about. For over 30 years I have associated Prince with my birthday (which is June 11). I would always associate June with Prince (now kind of sad because of the song as well as his passing), and I would make sure Prince was playing from June 1 on. I would of course celebrate with his music even more on June 7. On my birthday, I would play Prince exclusively. I even remember a few birthdays back in the day where I would go on the hunt to local record stores and pay way too much for a Prince boot. This year, I still listened and celebrated Prince in June and even more so on his birthday and mine. It will still be a tradition for me (though it was painful at times this past June). I still have my sad and tearful moments, but I feel truely blessed by "knowing him" through his music and by the countless gifts he has left behind for us!

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Reply #23 posted 09/12/16 8:13pm

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bobgeorge77 said:

I understand what u r talking about. For over 30 years I have associated Prince with my birthday (which is June 11). I would always associate June with Prince (now kind of sad because of the song as well as his passing), and I would make sure Prince was playing from June 1 on. I would of course celebrate with his music even more on June 7. On my birthday, I would play Prince exclusively. I even remember a few birthdays back in the day where I would go on the hunt to local record stores and pay way too much for a Prince boot. This year, I still listened and celebrated Prince in June and even more so on his birthday and mine. It will still be a tradition for me (though it was painful at times this past June). I still have my sad and tearful moments, but I feel truely blessed by "knowing him" through his music and by the countless gifts he has left behind for us!

bobgeorge: Do u know I would make sure to take that week off as a vacation almost every year, even during years I didn't even pay attention to P? eek OMG, that man was an underground river in my life and I didn't know the extent until he passed! smh....even took it off this year, especially since....

Welcome home class. We've come a long way. - RIP Prince
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Reply #24 posted 09/12/16 8:23pm

leslievette

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Mine is in 2 months. I always start my day listening to some of my favorite songs by my favorite artists (mostly P), so I'm not sure how cheerful I'll be this year. I can't even imagine really celebrating this year

From now on, 4 U I shall be wild 💜
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Reply #25 posted 09/12/16 8:27pm

nursev

Nursey has always listened to Prince on my birthday since I was 9 years old. Aint nothing changed razz I'll be 45 in January if Gods willing and I'll listen to P then too heart

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Reply #26 posted 09/12/16 8:29pm

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My birthdays never really involved Prince, but this year I briefly considered the fact that Prince's birthday would've happened the day after mine. It was a bit sobering.

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Reply #27 posted 09/12/16 8:29pm

nursev

My thing is this...I was blessed to live when Prince lived and for that Im grateful. I will always listen to his music for the rest of my life. He is gone, but his gift still remains and thats a beautiful thing wink

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Reply #28 posted 09/12/16 8:29pm

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I feel a song comin' on yaw'll. Won't you join me? https://www.youtube.com/w...rkEDe6Ljqs

"Nightshift"

Marvin, he was a friend of mine
And he could sing a song
His heart in every line
Marvin sang of the joy and pain
He opened up our minds
And I still can hear him say
Aw talk to me so you can see
What's going on
Say you will sing your songs
Forevermore (evermore)

Gonna be some sweet sounds
Coming down on the nightshift
I bet you're singing proud
Oh I bet you'll pull a crowd
Gonna be a long night
It's gonna be all right
On the nightshift
Oh you found another home
I know you're not alone
On the nightshift

Jackie (Jackie), hey what'you doing now
It seems like yesterday
When we were working out
Jackie (Jackie, oh) you set
The world on fire
You came and gifted us
Your love it lifted us
Higher and higher
Keep it up and
We'll be there
At your side
Oh say you will sing
Your songs forevermore (evermore)

Gonna be some sweet sounds
Coming down on the nightshift
I bet you're singing proud
Oh I bet you'll pull a crowd
Gonna be a long night
It's gonna be all right
On the nightshift
Oh you found another home
I know you're not alone
On the nightshift

Gonna miss your sweet voice
That soulful voice
On the nightshift
We all remember you
Ooh the songs are coming through
At the end of a long day
It's gonna be okay
On the nightshift
You found another home
I know you're not alone
On the nightshift

Welcome home class. We've come a long way. - RIP Prince
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Reply #29 posted 09/12/16 8:30pm

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My birthdays never really involved Prince, but this year I briefly considered the fact that Prince's birthday would've happened the day after mine. It was a bit sobering.

Smooth how old are you now? eek

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