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Thread started 06/03/16 6:08am

destinyc1

What Would You Do?

Now that we sadly know some of the things that we now know ask yourself 'What would you of done' esp knowing the results. Because its been said there's NO WAY he was going through this and the ones around him didn't know sad His brother said he had a prob for 25 years.Many of you said NO thats not true he lived a CLEAN LIFE,CLEAN LIVING.Ok i think at first i would of done my job and minded my own business.But,as time went by and seen what was happening 2 months ago i can honestly say i would of said to him LOOK FIRE ME IF YOU WANT BUT,IM GOING TO HAVE MY SAY.INSTEAD OF TRYING TO PROVE TO THE WORLD THAT YOUR OK YOU NEED THE BETTY FORD REHAB DOWN THE ST.There is no shame in needing help the shame is in not seeking it.I get that it started from the pain but,your now addicted and your going to die.I refuse to sit and watch you die....100% SURE I WOULD OF BEEN LET GO But,i would of had a convo with his friend/slash head people and would of saidto them Look here get him help NOW or he is a gone.If he dies i will tell the world that YOU knew but,was afraid to say anything and now he is gone.

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Reply #1 posted 06/03/16 6:16am

jimmy3121

destinyc1 said:

Now that we sadly know some of the things that we now know ask yourself 'What would you of done' esp knowing the results. Because its been said there's NO WAY he was going through this and the ones around him didn't know sad His brother said he had a prob for 25 years.Many of you said NO thats not true he lived a CLEAN LIFE,CLEAN LIVING.Ok i think at first i would of done my job and minded my own business.But,as time went by and seen what was happening 2 months ago i can honestly say i would of said to him LOOK FIRE ME IF YOU WANT BUT,IM GOING TO HAVE MY SAY.INSTEAD OF TRYING TO PROVE TO THE WORLD THAT YOUR OK YOU NEED THE BETTY FORD REHAB DOWN THE ST.There is no shame in needing help the shame is in not seeking it.I get that it started from the pain but,your now addicted and your going to die.I refuse to sit and watch you die....100% SURE I WOULD OF BEEN LET GO But,i would of had a convo with his friend/slash head people and would of saidto them Look here get him help NOW or he is a gone.If he dies i will tell the world that YOU knew but,was afraid to say anything and now he is gone.

It is easy for you to say that from where you are- not so easy though being there & that includes the Elvis folks that was even easier to see.

In this world most folks just do not get involved- do you see a bum rush of interest on this site to get Prince Music more out there say on Sirius Radio 24/7? Local Radio petitions for a 2 hour show? No.

It is all the same concept- folks don't stand up and get involved- you say you would but you were not there so it is all hypathetical blah blah.

Recently I saw on the news a man beating a woman down badly in the street in Philadelphia....all watching just recording on there phones- not one person stepped in.

So all of your talk in what you would have done can be taken with a grain of salt.

Face Down.

Dead Like Elvis.

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Reply #2 posted 06/03/16 8:14am

destinyc1

Hi jimmy how are ya? Actually i have.My line of work im around everyone from 2chains-tim mcgraw but,thanks....A friend of mine was on a pill a few years back and got addicted the pill was called tramadol sp and i knew she was taken a ton of them a day.But,i thought thats not one of those controlled pills so maybe its nothing.But,then one day she was crying and out of control jimmy i had to call the police.He came and i said maybe its nothing but,i have to help her.She said i aint going and your no friend.After age 18 you cant make them go and the cop said hey if you dont go i will lock you up he really couldn't but,she believed him and went.Somehow she convinced hershey medical center that its no prob.They gave her the darn pills back.NOW HERE IS WHAT GOT HER TO GO.The cop knew she had a script but,she had a 30 day supply in her container which going by the date she should of only had 4 left.So he knew she was buying them on the st.Her insurance only allowed her to stay for two weeks.But,she is on the road to recovery.Hates me sad But,at least she got help.And now that pill is a controlled substance.The person is a known celeb but,who cares.Sometimes its a cry for help.I get the pill thing though .Four years ago i was hitby a deer and at the emergency room they gave me muscle relaxants relaxers? And boy oh boy i felt great.And its weird but,i swear it made me concentrate more and come up with good thoughts and idea's for a fashion show.Once my supply ran out that was it.And thats how it goes.They're feel good pills.So my only point is that yes,people have real pain and it starts off that way.Another friends son had what prince had but,somehow it was laced with something more and he fell over dead.19 years old cool They said he took one hit and said 'what was in this?And died.

[Edited 6/3/16 8:17am]

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Reply #3 posted 06/03/16 8:24am

destinyc1

https://www.youtube.com/w...g_G-NeSmW0 Please if you know someone going through this right now reach out and get them help today.

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Reply #4 posted 06/03/16 9:02am

RiotPaisley

They say if an addict hates you you are doing something right.

You really can't force anyone to get help. They sometimes have to hit bottom before they seek help. It's hard to do, but sometimes you just have to walk away. You can say hey, I found this great rehab facility, I can help you pay for it or there is some sort of "scholarship" to go but ultimately they have to decide to go. If addicts are forced into rehab before they are ready to take responsibility, it's a wasted trip and they just go through the motions of sobriety and the minute they get out they use again. That is often times how people OD and die because they go an use like the my did before and it kills them.

I've been there a few times and it just is what it is. If you have a hard time with it there are lots of support groups for friends and family of addicts. I think about my friend everyday and I hope she's alright but I couldn't handle being flat out lied to all the time about stuff she didn't even need to lie about.
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Reply #5 posted 06/03/16 9:54am

terrig

I work in/have worked in celebrity service for many years. I've had to draw a line in the sand a few times and lost thousands of dollars because of it. I was instrumental in getting a few famous people helped. Thats all I can say.

Better that than be party to something that could take down my life too. While I'm angry at everyone around Prince, he also put their lives in jeopardy too. He had alot of rank amateurs around him because he could control them and/or they had no professional protocol to guide them.

Theres not a much worse position to be in really for anyone involved.



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Reply #6 posted 06/03/16 10:24am

purplethunder3
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Woulda, shoulda, coulda. Useless. neutral

"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato

https://youtu.be/CVwv9LZMah0
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Reply #7 posted 06/03/16 12:53pm

destinyc1

terrig said:

I work in/have worked in celebrity service for many years. I've had to draw a line in the sand a few times and lost thousands of dollars because of it. I was instrumental in getting a few famous people helped. Thats all I can say.

Better that than be party to something that could take down my life too. While I'm angry at everyone around Prince, he also put their lives in jeopardy too. He had alot of rank amateurs around him because he could control them and/or they had no professional protocol to guide them.

Theres not a much worse position to be in really for anyone involved.



Amen to that.And when they start showing up late or a no show and hold up production we start knowing something isn't right.Mostly all of them have the same pattern.

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Reply #8 posted 06/10/16 10:25am

destinyc1

jimmy3121 said:

destinyc1 said:

Now that we sadly know some of the things that we now know ask yourself 'What would you of done' esp knowing the results. Because its been said there's NO WAY he was going through this and the ones around him didn't know sad His brother said he had a prob for 25 years.Many of you said NO thats not true he lived a CLEAN LIFE,CLEAN LIVING.Ok i think at first i would of done my job and minded my own business.But,as time went by and seen what was happening 2 months ago i can honestly say i would of said to him LOOK FIRE ME IF YOU WANT BUT,IM GOING TO HAVE MY SAY.INSTEAD OF TRYING TO PROVE TO THE WORLD THAT YOUR OK YOU NEED THE BETTY FORD REHAB DOWN THE ST.There is no shame in needing help the shame is in not seeking it.I get that it started from the pain but,your now addicted and your going to die.I refuse to sit and watch you die....100% SURE I WOULD OF BEEN LET GO But,i would of had a convo with his friend/slash head people and would of saidto them Look here get him help NOW or he is a gone.If he dies i will tell the world that YOU knew but,was afraid to say anything and now he is gone.

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