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Thread started 05/06/16 2:01am

GirlBrother

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Happy 29th Birthday, If I Was Your Girlfriend

Released on May 6th, 1987.

I can remember the first time I heard the single on the radio, and thinking WTF?

I didn't actually own the album until Christmas 1987.

My cousin Geoffrey, gleefully told me that he'd heard the song before me. Geoffrey said that Prince was singing "like a woman" and wanted to be some man's girlfriend, because he was obviously "a bender." lol

And... I always heard the song like that too. I didn't realise until years after, that the song was about wanting to be as close to his female lover, as she is to her girl-friends.

If only he'd put a hyphen in the word "girlfriend." It would have been so much more apparent. lol

But, that's the genius of the song, I guess. The ambiguity of the lyrics with that sped-up gender-fucked Camille vocal...

My favourite Prince songs change as often as my socks, but I'll always consider this his opus. I could listen to it on repeat for a day and never get bored.

Happy birthday If I Was Your Girlfriend. Don't burn your eyebrows when you blow-out your birthday cake candles, you old bitch! lol
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Reply #1 posted 05/06/16 2:35am

Elvie

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Love this song.. In my top favourite for sure!

29 years.. jeeze! smile
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Reply #2 posted 05/06/16 3:11am

skipthecharade
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Such a great track, indeed in my top 5 favourites!

Some articles recently mentioned incorrect that Camille was his female alter ago, in that case your cousin would have been right.

But that's not the case, and the lyrics of IIWYG are pretty clear as well:

"If I was your girlfriend, would you remember
To tell me all the things you forgot when I was your man?
Hey hey, when I was your man"

By the way, tomorrow is the 30th birthday of another classic single release Mountains. (well actually the 12" is more of a classic and that was released a bit later) smile


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Reply #3 posted 05/06/16 3:22am

BoraBora



To me the best ever P's song.

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Reply #4 posted 05/06/16 3:37am

TheW00denLeg

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I love this song. One of the first I ever heard. Phenomenal drum sounds. I never understood why everybody said it was a mistake to release it as a single. The mistake was to not shoot a proper video for it. This live cut from the SOTT movie didnĀ“t do the song justice at all.

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Reply #5 posted 05/06/16 5:03am

Wolfie87

TheW00denLeg said:

I never understood why everybody said it was a mistake to release it as a single. The mistake was to not shoot a proper video for it.

Fucking preach! worship

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Reply #6 posted 05/06/16 5:15am

DoItAllNight4U

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I often change favorite Prince songs too and get so tired of hearing some that I never want to listen to them but If I Was Ur Girlfriend always gets love from me. I always hear the genius and emotion in it every time. I have loved the song ever since I heard it. It appealed to me because it was "weird" and "different" to me as a 12 year old then, but now I understand the true meaning behind it.

It's funny to think that our very own Prince started this social and gender awareness and justice thing before everyone else now.

"I was here in the beginning and I'll be here forever more"
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Reply #7 posted 05/06/16 5:17am

GirlBrother

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skipthecharades said:

By the way, tomorrow is the 30th birthday of another classic single release Mountains. (well actually the 12" is more of a classic and that was released a bit later) smile


I'm gonna play that loud tomorrow!
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Reply #8 posted 05/06/16 5:37am

airth

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It's a song that defies description. It's unlike anything else ever recorded. Even though his voice is altered, I've always felt it's one of his most truthful songs. The lyrics and their delivery are simply sublime.

I wonder what Susannah thought about the song at the time, and how she feels about it now.

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Reply #9 posted 05/06/16 7:36am

dandan

in my opinion this is his greatest piece of work. Just absolute genius perfection. Everything about it, the lyrics, the arrangement, the delivery, the protection, the concept. Absolutely fucking love it haha (excuse the language)
I got two sides... and they're both friends.
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Reply #10 posted 05/06/16 8:03am

JudasLChrist

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In my top 3 Prince songs.

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Reply #11 posted 05/06/16 8:18am

ivey0126

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This is the first song I ever listened to by Prince. I literally had no idea what I was listening to but my Husband (then boyfriend) is a huge Prince fan and dedicated it to me. He basically had to walk me through the song. When I finally got it and realized just how beautiful the song was , I realized I would never hear anything like that again. That song will always be one of my favorites. It started my love affair with Prince.

Happy Birthday IIWYGF!

(Also just realized this song is only 2 year younger than me, I missed out on so much! sad )

How beautiful do the words have 2 be
Before they conquer every heart?
How will U know if I'm even in the right key
If U make me stop before I start?
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Reply #12 posted 05/06/16 9:10am

mightycow

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this song was clever, emotional and sincere. it's great how he describes the fine line between love and possessiveness. one of his top 5 songs for me

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Reply #13 posted 05/06/16 9:44am

KenGloria

Would you come to me if somebody hurt you even if that somebody was me?
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