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Thread started 04/23/16 10:10am

siim

All alone in Paisley Park?

I can feel signs of getting a bit mad in my mourning.
There's two things, two puzzling questions that are driving me crazy.

First. Why he was all alone in Paisley Park? I've read that he used to spend time alone there, and it was surprising - no security, no chefs, no assistants? How long has it been like that way? Cant picture him heading to fridge to make a sandwich to himself while he is working in studio... So is that really common that he was mostly all alone in that large place? Or was it something common recently?

And the other thing. He was riding his bicycle on Saturday! Less than 24 hours after he was hospitalized and told by doctors to stay in hospital...!? Cant believe it... So did he ride to Electric Fetus? As he told that he bought "Talking Book" from there... How far is Electric Fetus from Paisley Park? And why he wouldnt go by car...

Uhh..

I'm not waiting clear and straight answers... Probably nobody has them. Except how faR is Electric Fetus from Paisley Park... I just needed to get out my frustrating questions...

Love you all!
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Reply #1 posted 04/23/16 10:17am

anudha

it's natural to feel this way when someone we loved has passed. I feel your frustration. hugs.

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Reply #2 posted 04/23/16 10:26am

lrn36

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It was his home which happened to be the place he worked. His staff left to go to their own homes. That's probably why they tried to contact him in the morning to see if he needed anyone to come in to help him in the stduio. I was surprised to hear that Prince often went out on his own to go shopping or run errands and no one in the community would bother him. It's good to know he wasn't living the life of a recluse.

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Reply #3 posted 04/23/16 10:32am

DMSR54

I know it is sad he was alone but in some respects i felt grateful that he was in his home his space.... It would feel worse to me if he had been in some random hotel or traveling etc. He was in his earthly home and now he is in his heavenly home
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Reply #4 posted 04/23/16 10:43am

FormerlyAsKnow
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Electric Fetus is some distance! Just checked maps and its a 30 min drive. I am at a loss, who knows what happened. We all await answers.

I am surprised given his health scare he was alone, but I don't find it odd he was there alone any other time.

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Reply #5 posted 04/23/16 10:47am

OnlyNDaUsa

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I have been holding on to that too... he was alone... I hope he was not in pain or scared. I know he always said he was not scared of death. but it is not the death but the dying...



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Reply #6 posted 04/23/16 10:47am

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I've been wondering the same thing...Normally I wouldn't question him being alone at Paisley Park but considering his recent health concerns it seems weird that nobody was with him?...I really don't want to be harsh on any of the people working for him because we don't know the entire situation but I wouldn't have let him out of my sight.

[Edited 4/23/16 10:48am]

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Reply #7 posted 04/23/16 10:54am

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Well, in a way, we all die alone. It sounds likes he went pretty fast so I don't know what comfort could have been provided to him. I would imagine he probably would prefer to go fast then to have a long and drawn out death.

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Reply #8 posted 04/23/16 11:12am

Miles

PurpleColossus said:

I've been wondering the same thing...Normally I wouldn't question him being alone at Paisley Park but considering his recent health concerns it seems weird that nobody was with him?...I really don't want to be harsh on any of the people working for him because we don't know the entire situation but I wouldn't have let him out of my sight.

[Edited 4/23/16 10:48am]

I agree with all the points so far, but what employee would say 'No' to Prince, especially an employee refusing to leave Prince's own property/ home when he presumably wanted to be alone? How long would they remain an employee there??

Of course, it is human nature to wonder these things and it is a horrible thought that he was completely alone, with no one to even hold his hand. Having said that, people pass alone all the time, sadly, due to their personal circumstances living alone or just happen to be on their own when their end comes.



Maybe some of them actually preferred their passing to occur completely privately, I can see why some might think that. Not saying this was what happened in this case. But at least, as another post said, he was 'at home', not in some damn anonymous hotel room, or even worse, on stage in front of cameras and people videoing the damn thing on their phones.



So, maybe there is some comfort to be gained from that.



For all we know, he had just left the studio, feeling on fire after laying down some killer guitar solo on a new track when he was struck. The dude just couldn't stop, after all. He could have been excited/ joyful. Any extremes of exertion or emotion can cause consequences on a person's body, especially if they are already frail.

[Edited 4/23/16 11:15am]

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Reply #9 posted 04/23/16 11:21am

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Miles said:

PurpleColossus said:

I've been wondering the same thing...Normally I wouldn't question him being alone at Paisley Park but considering his recent health concerns it seems weird that nobody was with him?...I really don't want to be harsh on any of the people working for him because we don't know the entire situation but I wouldn't have let him out of my sight.

[Edited 4/23/16 10:48am]

I agree with all the points so far, but what employee would say 'No' to Prince, especially an employee refusing to leave Prince's own property/ home when he presumably wanted to be alone? How long would they remain an employee there??

Of course, it is human nature to wonder these things and it is a horrible thought that he was completely alone, with no one to even hold his hand. Having said that, people pass alone all the time, sadly, due to their personal circumstances living alone or just happen to be on their own when their end comes.



Maybe some of them actually preferred their passing to occur completely privately, I can see why some might think that. Not saying this was what happened in this case. But at least, as another post said, he was 'at home', not in some damn anonymous hotel room, or even worse, on stage in front of cameras and people videoing the damn thing on their phones.



So, maybe there is some comfort to be gained from that.



For all we know, he had just left the studio, feeling on fire after laying down some killer guitar solo on a new track when he was struck. The dude just couldn't stop, after all. He could have been excited/ joyful. Any extremes of exertion or emotion can cause consequences on a person's body, especially if they are already frail.

[Edited 4/23/16 11:15am]

This thought comforts me immensely; the thought that he went out doing what he loved to do in the place he loved the most.

"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato

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Reply #10 posted 04/23/16 11:34am

camilleisfunky

was he alive when found by paramedics at 9.43am?

"Olson said that Prince, who was fully clothed when he was found unresponsive, died less than half an hour after he was discovered by staff despite paramedics' efforts to resuscitate him."

"Sheriff Olson confirmed that officers did not use heroin rescue drug Narcan at the scene."

Is the above true? it comes from the dailymail.

I don't know how I am ever going to get over this...can't even verbalize my pain, sadness and frustration...

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Reply #11 posted 04/23/16 11:48am

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camilleisfunky said:

was he alive when found by paramedics at 9.43am?

"Olson said that Prince, who was fully clothed when he was found unresponsive, died less than half an hour after he was discovered by staff despite paramedics' efforts to resuscitate him."

"Sheriff Olson confirmed that officers did not use heroin rescue drug Narcan at the scene."

Is the above true? it comes from the dailymail.

I don't know how I am ever going to get over this...can't even verbalize my pain, sadness and frustration...

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.u...z46fxtHbOO
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I don't think he would've been. Staff apparently couldn't get hold of him so returned to check on him and hence he was found. It's all speculation and its absolutely horrible to think of every scenario. I'd like to think he went peacefully in no pain.

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Reply #12 posted 04/23/16 11:59am

nursev

camilleisfunky said:

was he alive when found by paramedics at 9.43am?

"Olson said that Prince, who was fully clothed when he was found unresponsive, died less than half an hour after he was discovered by staff despite paramedics' efforts to resuscitate him."

"Sheriff Olson confirmed that officers did not use heroin rescue drug Narcan at the scene."

Is the above true? it comes from the dailymail.

I don't know how I am ever going to get over this...can't even verbalize my pain, sadness and frustration...

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.u...z46fxtHbOO
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He was DOA. It took them less then 20 minutes to pronounce him dead. That is probably how long it took them to get into PP good. I've been a nurse 20 years and for them to get there and do cpr on him in a full effort takes some time. I dont know how big PP is but I hear its huge. Plus those folks gave them problems with the address. All this just feels so wrong.

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Reply #13 posted 04/23/16 12:00pm

nursev

The fact that he was alone when he died will forever cause me heart ache. I hate that sad I know we all must die alone, but not like that.

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Reply #14 posted 04/23/16 12:05pm

PurpleColossus

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Miles said:

I agree with all the points so far, but what employee would say 'No' to Prince, especially an employee refusing to leave Prince's own property/ home when he presumably wanted to be alone? How long would they remain an employee there??

Of course, it is human nature to wonder these things and it is a horrible thought that he was completely alone, with no one to even hold his hand. Having said that, people pass alone all the time, sadly, due to their personal circumstances living alone or just happen to be on their own when their end comes.

Maybe some of them actually preferred their passing to occur completely privately, I can see why some might think that. Not saying this was what happened in this case. But at least, as another post said, he was 'at home', not in some damn anonymous hotel room, or even worse, on stage in front of cameras and people videoing the damn thing on their phones.

So, maybe there is some comfort to be gained from that.

For all we know, he had just left the studio, feeling on fire after laying down some killer guitar solo on a new track when he was struck. The dude just couldn't stop, after all. He could have been excited/ joyful. Any extremes of exertion or emotion can cause consequences on a person's body, especially if they are already frail.

[Edited 4/23/16 11:15am]

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I agree with you, it would have been very hard to say no to Prince...But Prince was not a reckless guy, if he was not feeling well and was recently in the hospital, he surely wouldn't push everyone way like that? He always took care of himself, he was a music veteran...

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Before hearing about this bad flu/hospitalized I would have never thought he couldn't be alone at Paisley, it just seems the circumstances had to change to make sure he's ok. Maybe hiring a private doctor to stick around the Park for a few months?....I know it was probably all up to Prince, but I think the staff should have insisted, maybe they did?...I suppose we'll find out soon enough sigh

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Reply #15 posted 04/23/16 12:13pm

phoenixrising

I too can't believe that he didn't have anyone around him. Especially if he wasn't feeling 100% and went to the ER.
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Reply #16 posted 04/23/16 12:14pm

nursev

phoenixrising said:

I too can't believe that he didn't have anyone around him. Especially if he wasn't feeling 100% and went to the ER.

exactly....no family, staff. Nobody sad

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Reply #17 posted 04/23/16 12:14pm

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Where is Carrie?

All you others say Hell Yea!! woot!
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Reply #18 posted 04/23/16 12:16pm

piemel

I wonder who the 'aquintance' was that dropped Prince off that day at PP

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Reply #19 posted 04/23/16 12:16pm

nursev

Just the possibility of him being in that elevator maybe 13 hours is so hurtful. Words cannot describe what that does to me.

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Reply #20 posted 04/23/16 12:21pm

Scotsman1999

So many questions and speculation. The thought of him dying alone isn't nice, but I agree that on stage would have just been the worst. Small mercies and all that..

I do wonder why the person who phoned it in didn't know the address. Did she have brain freeze? Was she just a recent visitor? Seems odd to me.

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Reply #21 posted 04/23/16 12:26pm

piemel

Scotsman1999 said:

So many questions and speculation. The thought of him dying alone isn't nice, but I agree that on stage would have just been the worst. Small mercies and all that..

I do wonder why the person who phoned it in didn't know the address. Did she have brain freeze? Was she just a recent visitor? Seems odd to me.

There are plenty of places where I work or go to see shows or whatever for which I dont know the address. Its PP... the only big studio complex for a few hundred miles....

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Reply #22 posted 04/23/16 12:34pm

camilleisfunky

I'm sure there are cameras in PP, so maybe there's one in that elevator as well? Don't get me wrong, I don't want to watch it, but for investigators to see...

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Reply #23 posted 04/23/16 12:36pm

nursev

camilleisfunky said:

I'm sure there are cameras in PP, so maybe there's one in that elevator as well? Don't get me wrong, I don't want to watch it, but for investigators to see...

hopefully so

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Reply #24 posted 04/23/16 1:12pm

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Scotsman1999 said:

So many questions and speculation. The thought of him dying alone isn't nice, but I agree that on stage would have just been the worst. Small mercies and all that..

I do wonder why the person who phoned it in didn't know the address. Did she have brain freeze? Was she just a recent visitor? Seems odd to me.

Geez. It's Paisley Park in Minneapolis. Presumably everyone from there knows where that is. I wonder why that operator made such a fuss about the address, hit Google and you have it. And once people, who work there, know where it is, the address becomes irrelevant.

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Reply #25 posted 04/23/16 1:23pm

SoulAlive

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He was DOA. It took them less then 20 minutes to pronounce him dead. That is probably how long it took them to get into PP good. I've been a nurse 20 years and for them to get there and do cpr on him in a full effort takes some time. I dont know how big PP is but I hear its huge. Plus those folks gave them problems with the address. All this just feels so wrong.

I listened to the 911 call and I think it's really stange how the guy at PP didn't even know the address (or city!) that he was in hmmm I've never been to Paisley Park before but even I know the address!

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Reply #26 posted 04/23/16 1:23pm

BanishedBrian

PatrickS77 said:

Scotsman1999 said:

So many questions and speculation. The thought of him dying alone isn't nice, but I agree that on stage would have just been the worst. Small mercies and all that..

I do wonder why the person who phoned it in didn't know the address. Did she have brain freeze? Was she just a recent visitor? Seems odd to me.

Geez. It's Paisley Park in Minneapolis. Presumably everyone from there knows where that is. I wonder why that operator made such a fuss about the address, hit Google and you have it. And once people, who work there, know where it is, the address becomes irrelevant.

The caller said he was at Prince's house. The dispatcher didn't initially understand he meant PP. Once he said he was at PP, the dispatcher said they didn't need the address.

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Reply #27 posted 04/23/16 1:25pm

nursev

SoulAlive said:

nursev said:

He was DOA. It took them less then 20 minutes to pronounce him dead. That is probably how long it took them to get into PP good. I've been a nurse 20 years and for them to get there and do cpr on him in a full effort takes some time. I dont know how big PP is but I hear its huge. Plus those folks gave them problems with the address. All this just feels so wrong.

I listened to the 911 call and I think it's really stange how the guy at PP didn't even know the address (or city!) that he was in hmmm I've never been to Paisley Park before but even I know the address!

just sad....maybe he was in shock, but times like these minutes count sad

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Reply #28 posted 04/23/16 1:25pm

SoulAlive

Scotsman1999 said:

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I do wonder why the person who phoned it in didn't know the address. Did she have brain freeze? Was she just a recent visitor? Seems odd to me.

I think it was a 'he' but yeah,it's strange how he wouldn't know the address of a buliding that he was in!

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Reply #29 posted 04/23/16 1:25pm

SoulAlive

nursev said:

SoulAlive said:

I listened to the 911 call and I think it's really stange how the guy at PP didn't even know the address (or city!) that he was in hmmm I've never been to Paisley Park before but even I know the address!

just sad....maybe he was in shock, but times like these minutes count sad

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