If there is a insult against a memeber of this community, it should be reported so it can be snipped or that person can be banned or whatever the case may be. I don't consider what anyone does here to be bullying. Defending oneself by loweirng oneself to that person's level is not a good idea. It will just keep going and going. The best thing to do is to ignore that person or persons. This place would be so much better if people didn't care so much about what others think about their opinions. For instance, Graffiti Bridge is my favorite Prince album. Do I give two pumps and a stroke about what anyone else here thinks about that? No. I don't even care what my real life best friend thinks about that. * There are comments made about how some negative people have no lives or that people can't understand why those people come here. I do not and will not ever understand why people care. Why is there such an emotional investment over someone none of us know personally? | |
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are u refering to me with your Trevyer .. if so you are way off .. as I said in my other post .. I don't attack anyone .. and neither do any of the other "negative haters" .. we get attacked by the so called "positive" people and then in turn retaliate and unleash a hellish fury of intelligent critique as well as whatever namecalling right back at those who name called us. get it?
u start it we finish it .. just like that .. but make no mistake .. its the "positive" people who do the attacking first .. we just dish it right back when it happens .. so maybe all these "positive" people should re think their efforts to get us to leave the org .
and also .. none of us haterz are "mad" .. usually just having fun and being honest about the music .. the only thing that gets us mad is being attacked cuz then we have to waste our time defending ourselves and proving what hypocrites all the "positive" attackers are
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All the postive people are the hypocrites , you start , we will finish it , How childish is that statement. And all the haterz are all hard done by, it seems you lot are very sensitive, more than anybody. JESSSSSSSSSSSSSS Your not afraid to say it how it is and i wont't be to ,. i will stand my ground , like you haterz do. And i get this org now , all the hatez are correct and all the positive people are wrong , right o [Edited 8/31/14 11:22am] [Edited 8/31/14 11:23am] [Edited 8/31/14 11:25am] | |
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Uhh...no. If I were saying that, I'd have said just that but I didn't. I merely took the example you posted and showed how it wasn't the way you seemed to have taken it. Which is a perfect example of what tends to happen here a whole lot. Y'all take stuff and read way more into it than there is and then fly all off into the stratosphere with your responses, based on whatever it is that ran through your imaginations. [Edited 8/31/14 13:58pm] I knew from the start that I loved you with all my heart. | |
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* It's a question about common decency. I have never called anybody a name on this site, yet I've seen it done by both sides but mostly by people who state that Prince hasn't moved them in a number of years. (Now, until the mods are willing to waste their time with an empirical study, we'll just have to agree to disagree which side does it more.) Also, it's not an issue of bullying as I never used that term, and it's certainaly not a question of having "an emotional investment over someone none of us know personally." Though I could say the same about people who have spent the past five, ten, fifteen, or twenty years ranting about how terrible Prince's work is and how lame the people who like them are. Why won't anyone tell me why it doesn't make more sense for them to simply find someone else that moves them? Is it because they are overly emotionally invested? It seems to me like they are the ones with the excessive emotional investment since they can't stop bemoaning how much they are bothered by Prince's recent output and those that like it. And just like you don't understand my position, I don't understand yours. So, we'll just agree to disagree and move on. | |
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But I do understand your position, I just don't agree with it. | |
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* Yes, I was referring to you, and I'm not way off. On several occasions rather than just discuss what you don't like about the music, you have questioned and attacked people's tastes, intelligence, and sanity for liking Prince's production over the past ten years or so. Yes, you say what you don't like about the music, but you also include personal attacks of Prince and the people who like it. (On the other hand, I have published more than 100 analyses of books, films, music, and I have never attacked the artist or the people who like the art no matter how poorly crafted I think the art is. In fact, after my first year of publishing, I refused to write reviews/analyses about works that I think are poorly crafted because I think that time is better served giving readers examples of well-crafted art rather than bemoaning what I dislike. But, that's just me.) However, the next round of posts will be me saying that you have attacked people and you saying you haven't so why bother. All I would like to know is what's the point of spending ten years or so bemoaning that you don't like something? I just hope that when it gets to a point that I am no longer moved by Prince's work that I will be able to find someone else who moves me rather than spending time bemoaning that I no longer like Prince's work. Again, I no longer eat at restaurants that I don't like, and I don't continue chasing women that I don't like. So, I don't see the point of spending ten years or so engaging something that I don't like. But, hey, to each his own. | |
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* Very good. | |
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* In the example I used, Bart is attacking people that like something he doesn't like. Anyone saying Bart has never attacked people on this site is like saying it doesn't rain during spring. It's not about taking things and running with it. Several people on this site have a long history of attacking people for liking what they don't like. Now, we can spend the next few posts saying "Yes they do", "No, they don't" but why bother. I've made my point. I'm good. | |
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Actually you haven't made your point though because Bart was not attacking people that like something that he doesn't like in the example you used nor has anyone said that he has never done so, so where you're getting that from, I don't know. But hey, you're good. I knew from the start that I loved you with all my heart. | |
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At the end of the day, we are all Prince fans and we all deserve to be here. Prince just isnt very good anymore and his fanbase is split and divided which leads to a lot of the heated discussions being discussed here. Who really wants a sanitised org anyway? How boring and uninteresting it would be if everyone had the same views and there were no arguments and mud slinging. I dont know about anyone else, but I check out the org at work to help break up the office monotony and I like the slagging matches, they keep me entertained. . I never went on the NPGMC message boards because of the united sycophantic nature of them. In the same way I wouldnt join a "I hate Prince" message board either. I like that there are differeing views on the org and I like that I can sit back and read those views whilst still having an opinion of my own. . Whatever anyone says on here, we all know at the end of the month we will have the new albums in our hands or on our computer (legally or illigally) because we desperately want to hear the new music. We will then divide and split over time into different camps, those that like, those that dont and those that think it is just average (once again). And life will go on, insults will fly and I will enjoy watching it all pan out. . In the meantime, I will stick to my opinion that despite TRC and 3121, Prince has released a lot of rubbish in the 21st century. That is my opinion and I am sticking to it (cue fam responses informing me to leave and find another artist to like). | |
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We are all fams , some Prince fams , some hate fams , some bart fams etc. | |
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I have my account for nearly 10 years now, and while I probably won't delete it, I only use it twice a year or so these days and mainly visit prince.org as a source of Prince info now. I don't mind criticism at all, and I actually enjoy the critical take that experienced long-term fans such as NouveauDance or vainandy (just to name two) have on Prince's more recent output. But the overall atmosphere on the org is ruined for me! Seriously: if someone used to be a Prince fan and now claims to dislike every single song (!) that Prince has released post-TGE, then this person either has an agenda rather than an opinion or is musically uneducated. | |
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Rebeljuice said: Prince just isnt very good anymore You don't like what he's doing anymore. That doesn't mean it "isn't very good." There is a difference. | |
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Correct. Thanks for pointing that out. There is a danger that some people who would read my comment may believe it to be entirely factual and, based on that comment, never listen to Prince again, but I doubt they are allowed out in public without their doctor. | |
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People have talked about seperating The Org, by kinds of fans/orgers. So I picture that as a room full of people happy with Prince. Then, the other, a room full of people happy with each other. Will Ben do it for all of us? I'm fine with it. What? | |
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yet another thread hating on the haters...............hell, there are more threads by anti-haters than haters!! | |
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I've noticed something in the org: in many cases people who have something positive to say say it once and move on while people who have critical statements will post numerous times on a thread. A critical poster is usually a more persistent poster. Not saying this is a good thing or a bad thing. I know myself I will say something critical and then wait for someone to react so I can jump back in. When I say something positive I'm not going to go back and keep repeating myself. So the critical remarks are always going to out weigh the complementary comments. | |
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I was going to read this thread but... waaaayyyyy too many words! | |
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Look Prince started all this hater thing off when he was The Artist or Symbol or Squiggle or somethin'.
[Edited 9/7/14 17:55pm] [Edited 9/7/14 17:58pm] “I don't believe anything, but I have many suspicions.”
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