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Reply #60 posted 02/07/14 12:22pm

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laurarichardson said:

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He shot back with something he believed was probably wrong. Just like being a whore is wrong

I'm a dude, I know lots of guys have no issues with lesbians, but I know of too many stories of lesbians bashed or sexually verbally assaulted for being lesbian. When guys realize that the fantasy is not a reality that they can't have sex with the 2 women, then it turns to revulsion

----- So it was okay for Wendy to call him a whore and be up in his business. Do really think he would have said nothing back? I can tell you that had no chance of happening. As far as Wendy if you cannot take it do not dish it out. I also highly doubt he would bash or assault a women for just being a lesbians. I would take a wild guess that he wishes he was one after all he as associated with plenty of woman who go both ways( by associate I mean in a sexual way).

Well from my understanding that came as the result of Prince hurting Susannah, cheating.

So most siblings would get angry.

He still called her that based on some premise that being lesbian is wrong.

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I'm not saying Prince is out and out a homophobe, but he has his issues there.

He's had his issues with sleeping around too and regrets

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Reply #61 posted 02/07/14 4:14pm

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OldFriends4Sale said:

laurarichardson said:

----- So it was okay for Wendy to call him a whore and be up in his business. Do really think he would have said nothing back? I can tell you that had no chance of happening. As far as Wendy if you cannot take it do not dish it out. I also highly doubt he would bash or assault a women for just being a lesbians. I would take a wild guess that he wishes he was one after all he as associated with plenty of woman who go both ways( by associate I mean in a sexual way).

Well from my understanding that came as the result of Prince hurting Susannah, cheating.

So most siblings would get angry.

He still called her that based on some premise that being lesbian is wrong.

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I'm not saying Prince is out and out a homophobe, but he has his issues there.

He's had his issues with sleeping around too and regrets

Was it really any of Wendy's business. Her sister seems intelligent she knew what she was getting into and if she did not she found out soon enough. Susan needed to make decision not Wendy. P was her boss and she was stepping way over the line. He snapped back her to say who are you to talk about my personal business. He has no more issue with homosexuals than anyone else as most people work and play with gays every day and her not out to burn anyone at the stake but you do not get a free pass just like everyone else. Every creed, sex and lifestyle have been put down and told off.

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Reply #62 posted 02/07/14 6:37pm

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laurarichardson said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

Well from my understanding that came as the result of Prince hurting Susannah, cheating.

So most siblings would get angry.

He still called her that based on some premise that being lesbian is wrong.

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I'm not saying Prince is out and out a homophobe, but he has his issues there.

He's had his issues with sleeping around too and regrets

Was it really any of Wendy's business. Her sister seems intelligent she knew what she was getting into and if she did not she found out soon enough. Susan needed to make decision not Wendy. P was her boss and she was stepping way over the line. He snapped back her to say who are you to talk about my personal business. He has no more issue with homosexuals than anyone else as most people work and play with gays every day and her not out to burn anyone at the stake but you do not get a free pass just like everyone else. Every creed, sex and lifestyle have been put down and told off.

Yeah it was her business, she introduced them. They obviously got over it.

If you move a woman into your house and everyone knows there was some kind of engagement. Then certain changes are expected.

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Reply #63 posted 02/08/14 9:38am

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laurarichardson said:

Straight guys like looking at naked women they do not want to look at naked dudes ( or at least the private parts). I know this because over the years I have asked a lot of guys about this hyprocracy and they just do not see it this way.

Oh, well, if the very people who are being hypocritical don't see their own hypocrisy, then clearly it doesn't exist. That's entirely logical. rolleyes

It's not about whether or not straight guys "want to look at naked dudes (or at least the private parts)." Of course that wouldn't be sexually arousing to them. Duh.

But if they have an issue with gay men sleeping with each other while at the same time finding it hot when women do the same thing, then yes, that's hypocrisy, whether or not they (or you) see it that way.

Posts like this are kind of depressing because I tend to think that the world has come such a long way in terms of accepting something as normal as homosexuality, and then all you nutters come out of the woodwork and prove me wrong.

No confusion, no tears. No enemies, no fear. No sorrow, no pain. No ball, no chain.

Sex is not love. Love is not sex. Putting words in other people's mouths will only get you elected.

Need more sleep than coke or methamphetamine.
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Reply #64 posted 02/08/14 10:08am

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OldFriends4Sale said:

Well from my understanding that came as the result of Prince hurting Susannah, cheating.

So most siblings would get angry.

He still called her that based on some premise that being lesbian is wrong.

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I'm not saying Prince is out and out a homophobe, but he has his issues there.

He's had his issues with sleeping around too and regrets

I definitely agree. In the heat of anger Wendy called Prince a whore. So what? He is (or was). Prince retorted and said something he knew would hurt her. That's usually what happens in an overheated argument. I also think that on some level he has issues with homosexuality. Although, being the typical "talking out of both sides of the mouth" type of person that he is, I doubt he would have any issues watching two lesbians have sex. Hell, he'd join in.

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Reply #65 posted 02/08/14 10:42am

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I get the feeling from some that because I find gay male sex gross,that I also think gay males r gross in entirety.

A person will tell u their sexuality doesn't define them as a whole...but when sexuality recievs a negative stand...they take it as a stand against them as a whole. This a little more clarifies what my earlier post said...which was a mischarterization.
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Reply #66 posted 02/08/14 11:05am

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BobGeorge909 said:

I get the feeling from some that because I find gay male sex gross, this I also think gay males r goes in entirety. A person will tell u their sexuality doesn't define them as a whole...but when sexuality recievs a negative stand...they take it as a stand against them as a whole. This a little more clarifies what my earlier post said...which was a mischarterization.

Finding something gross vs thinking it's wrong or a sin or such are two different things

There are a lot of things I find gross about sex, I wouldn't find 2 300lb women having sex appealing either, for that matter a MF couple that are both 300lbs. But someone might.

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U seem to be back pedelling. Do you find female homosexuality gross, and take a stand against it?Do you find men dressing similar to women or degrees of effeminate overtones gross? and take a stand against it?

I also find 2 elephants mating gross, doesn't mean it's wrong, and need to take a stand against it.

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Of course u wouldn't be turned on at the ideal of 2 men having sex if you're heterosexual. But going to the lengths of taking a stand against it calls into question another issue.

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Reply #67 posted 02/08/14 2:35pm

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BobGeorge909 said:


I get the feeling from some that because I find gay male sex gross, this I also think gay males r goes in entirety. A person will tell u their sexuality doesn't define them as a whole...but when sexuality recievs a negative stand...they take it as a stand against them as a whole. This a little more clarifies what my earlier post said...which was a mischarterization.



Finding something gross vs thinking it's wrong or a sin or such are two different things



There are a lot of things I find gross about sex, I wouldn't find 2 300lb women having sex appealing either, for that matter a MF couple that are both 300lbs. But someone might.



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U seem to be back pedelling. Do you find female homosexuality gross, and take a stand against it?Do you find men dressing similar to women or degrees of effeminate overtones gross? and take a stand against it?


I also find 2 elephants mating gross, doesn't mean it's wrong, and need to take a stand against it.



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Of course u wouldn't be turned on at the ideal of 2 men having sex if you're heterosexual. But going to the lengths of taking a stand against it calls into question another issue.




If u wanna call it backpedaling...that's fine.

IMO...do Whatcha want..marry who u want....divorce who u want.

The word stand was poorply chosen in a poor sentence. I didn't mean it in the sense of taking a stand against something.

Yes...I do enjoy some lesbian sex...not all..but a good chunk of it. Most gay male sex turns me off...that's a fine and dandy.

The problem I have is with people who aren't like you. The people who think that because I think what they do with their willy is gross...that i think they're completely gross. Theres a portion of the gay population to where it seems unless ure all 'bout it 'bout it when it come to gay sex...ure anti gay. That's frustrating for someone who wishes them the best but because u think something gross,..they peg u as some gay basher.

That's all.
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Reply #68 posted 02/08/14 3:52pm

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BobGeorge909 said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

Finding something gross vs thinking it's wrong or a sin or such are two different things

There are a lot of things I find gross about sex, I wouldn't find 2 300lb women having sex appealing either, for that matter a MF couple that are both 300lbs. But someone might.

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U seem to be back pedelling. Do you find female homosexuality gross, and take a stand against it?Do you find men dressing similar to women or degrees of effeminate overtones gross? and take a stand against it?

I also find 2 elephants mating gross, doesn't mean it's wrong, and need to take a stand against it.

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Of course u wouldn't be turned on at the ideal of 2 men having sex if you're heterosexual. But going to the lengths of taking a stand against it calls into question another issue.

If u wanna call it backpedaling...that's fine. IMO...do Whatcha want..marry who u want....divorce who u want. The word stand was poorply chosen in a poor sentence. I didn't mean it in the sense of taking a stand against something. Yes...I do enjoy some lesbian sex...not all..but a good chunk of it. Most gay male sex turns me off...that's a fine and dandy. The problem I have is with people who aren't like you. The people who think that because I think what they do with their willy is gross...that i think they're completely gross. Theres a portion of the gay population to where it seems unless ure all 'bout it 'bout it when it come to gay sex...ure anti gay. That's frustrating for someone who wishes them the best but because u think something gross,..they peg u as some gay basher. That's all.

It's all about your choice of words I think.

Like when U said 'take a stand against

U also just said (even if u didn't mean it) that some gay male sex turns u on.

I really believe it could be the way you come across to them. How your picking your words

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Reply #69 posted 02/08/14 4:18pm

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OldFriends4Sale said:



BobGeorge909 said:


OldFriends4Sale said:




Finding something gross vs thinking it's wrong or a sin or such are two different things



There are a lot of things I find gross about sex, I wouldn't find 2 300lb women having sex appealing either, for that matter a MF couple that are both 300lbs. But someone might.



.


U seem to be back pedelling. Do you find female homosexuality gross, and take a stand against it?Do you find men dressing similar to women or degrees of effeminate overtones gross? and take a stand against it?


I also find 2 elephants mating gross, doesn't mean it's wrong, and need to take a stand against it.



.


Of course u wouldn't be turned on at the ideal of 2 men having sex if you're heterosexual. But going to the lengths of taking a stand against it calls into question another issue.





If u wanna call it backpedaling...that's fine. IMO...do Whatcha want..marry who u want....divorce who u want. The word stand was poorply chosen in a poor sentence. I didn't mean it in the sense of taking a stand against something. Yes...I do enjoy some lesbian sex...not all..but a good chunk of it. Most gay male sex turns me off...that's a fine and dandy. The problem I have is with people who aren't like you. The people who think that because I think what they do with their willy is gross...that i think they're completely gross. Theres a portion of the gay population to where it seems unless ure all 'bout it 'bout it when it come to gay sex...ure anti gay. That's frustrating for someone who wishes them the best but because u think something gross,..they peg u as some gay basher. That's all.


It's all about your choice of words I think.


Like when U said 'take a stand against


U also just said (even if u didn't mean it) that some gay male sex turns u on.


I really believe it could be the way you come across to them. How your picking your words


Oh...I meant it. A great bj is a great bj...lol. But seriously...I did phrase it that way on purpose. I seen a couple tranny porns to....whew...strange stuff..... :)

I'm sure it partly is how I'm picking my words. I sometims s am not good at the politically correct conga line.
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Reply #70 posted 02/11/14 6:36pm

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theblueangel said:

laurarichardson said:

Straight guys like looking at naked women they do not want to look at naked dudes ( or at least the private parts). I know this because over the years I have asked a lot of guys about this hyprocracy and they just do not see it this way.

Oh, well, if the very people who are being hypocritical don't see their own hypocrisy, then clearly it doesn't exist. That's entirely logical. rolleyes

It's not about whether or not straight guys "want to look at naked dudes (or at least the private parts)." Of course that wouldn't be sexually arousing to them. Duh.

But if they have an issue with gay men sleeping with each other while at the same time finding it hot when women do the same thing, then yes, that's hypocrisy, whether or not they (or you) see it that way.

Posts like this are kind of depressing because I tend to think that the world has come such a long way in terms of accepting something as normal as homosexuality, and then all you nutters come out of the woodwork and prove me wrong.

Fuck you first because I am not a nutter because I am stating what is true. It does not have to be logical it is what a lot of guys think. I do not know too many men that are not hypocrites when it comes to sex anyway. Straight guys do not want to see two dudes doing it and they like seeing woman because they like boobs and ass and they more they see the better. Some black men cannot stand white guys but will jump into bed with a white woman in a minute without hesitation. Some guys run around on their wives and girlfriends but do not expect their woman to run around on them. You guys do hypocritical and stupid stuff when it comes to sex. I am sorry you need to be told this on a message board. Get the fuck over it and deal with reality or just go somewhere and be depressed.

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Reply #71 posted 02/11/14 6:40pm

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OldFriends4Sale said:

laurarichardson said:

Was it really any of Wendy's business. Her sister seems intelligent she knew what she was getting into and if she did not she found out soon enough. Susan needed to make decision not Wendy. P was her boss and she was stepping way over the line. He snapped back her to say who are you to talk about my personal business. He has no more issue with homosexuals than anyone else as most people work and play with gays every day and her not out to burn anyone at the stake but you do not get a free pass just like everyone else. Every creed, sex and lifestyle have been put down and told off.

Yeah it was her business, she introduced them. They obviously got over it.

If you move a woman into your house and everyone knows there was some kind of engagement. Then certain changes are expected.

He got over it. He dropped Susan via a phone message and fired Wendy. He was a pimp and really wish some fans would see him for what he was back then and stop thinking he was some hippy dippy guy.

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Reply #72 posted 02/11/14 6:53pm

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laurarichardson said:

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Yeah it was her business, she introduced them. They obviously got over it.

If you move a woman into your house and everyone knows there was some kind of engagement. Then certain changes are expected.

He got over it. He dropped Susan via a phone message and fired Wendy. He was a pimp and really wish some fans would see him for what he was back then and stop thinking he was some hippy dippy guy.

lol naw he was a conflicted man

He didn't drop Susannah, she left him

He didn't want to be seen like that, and in a few 1985 interviews he definately didn't want to be portrayed that way

Also it took him a while to get over Susannah and the loose of his relationship with Wendy Lisa and the change of 1986 into 87

Wally Empty Room In This Bed I Scream

U better chalk up on your Princeology lessons lol

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Reply #73 posted 02/12/14 12:30am

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OldFriends4Sale said:

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Its almost to the point where someone has to enjoy getting buttfucked in order to not be homophobic.

I don't think all homo/bisexual mean are into that either so...

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When a man can get off on 2 women having homosex, but 'preach' against 2 men having homosex

then that's hypocracy and homophobia especially geared toward men.

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And yeah we are driving way off topic. But in adult films, (homosex) is a part of Str8 porn, accepted. Homosex that involves 2 women. But of course any kind of bisex that would involve men would not be a part of it...

You got that right. I've been out since 1990 and I ain't never had it up the ass and never will. Hell, I won't even let the doctor put his finger up my ass to do an exam. Every year at my annual physical exam, it's a fight with him. I know it's going to have to be done one day but I wish they would just put me to sleep when they finally do it. lol I'm not hung up on "losing my manhood" if it were to happen either. I just see the ass as an exit and not something to be entered and I associate it with extreme pain and I be damned if I'm going to go through pain like that so someone else can get pleasure. Hell, my dick is what has an orgasm, not my ass. Not only do I not get penetrated, but I don't penetrate other asses either. A dick turns me on, not an asshole and I see assholes as extremely gross and nasty. Plus, I couldn't penetrate anyone either. I would feel like I was abusing them because I know it would hurt like hell if I was the one being penetrated. I've never seen that attraction to anal sex. Hell, if I wanted to fuck something, I would just go ahead and get a woman. I'm strictly oral only, giving and getting, or mutual masturbation to each other.

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As for these pervert ass men wanting to watch two women but having a problem with two men and hating them for it, yes, that's totally hypicritical and I don't put up with it either. They live in a total fantasy world from watching porn and the real world is not like that at all. It is very rarely two beautiful lipstick lesbians eating each other out. It is usually a lipstick feminine lesbian and a butch bulldagger and there sure as hell ain't no joining in by a man going on. Oh yes, the assholes come out to the clubs and irritate the hell out of the lesbians all night long thinking they're going to fullfill that porn fantasy and be totally disrespectful to the lipstick lesbians' bulldagger lovers right in their face as if she wasn't even there. Just imagine if it were a straight situation and some man came up in some woman's face right in front of her boyfriend and tried to get her to sleep with him. It would be a fight from hell. But I tell my lesbian friends all the time how to stop that problem. Honey, tell them bastards...."So you wanna join in motherfucker? Well come on, we'll let you join in. And I'm gonna put this on this great big ole strap-on and see if I can rip a hole in your ass as big as the hole in your head. You ain't gonna fuck us honey, we're gonna fuck you.".....See, that's the way you gotta do it honey, and those bastards will leave you alone real quick. evillol

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Reply #74 posted 02/16/14 7:54am

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vainandy said:



OldFriends4Sale said:




BobGeorge909 said:


Its almost to the point where someone has to enjoy getting buttfucked in order to not be homophobic.

I don't think all homo/bisexual mean are into that either so...


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When a man can get off on 2 women having homosex, but 'preach' against 2 men having homosex


then that's hypocracy and homophobia especially geared toward men.


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And yeah we are driving way off topic. But in adult films, (homosex) is a part of Str8 porn, accepted. Homosex that involves 2 women. But of course any kind of bisex that would involve men would not be a part of it...




You got that right. I've been out since 1990 and I ain't never had it up the ass and never will. Hell, I won't even let the doctor put his finger up my ass to do an exam. Every year at my annual physical exam, it's a fight with him. I know it's going to have to be done one day but I wish they would just put me to sleep when they finally do it. lol I'm not hung up on "losing my manhood" if it were to happen either. I just see the ass as an exit and not something to be entered and I associate it with extreme pain and I be damned if I'm going to go through pain like that so someone else can get pleasure. Hell, my dick is what has an orgasm, not my ass. Not only do I not get penetrated, but I don't penetrate other asses either. A dick turns me on, not an asshole and I see assholes as extremely gross and nasty. Plus, I couldn't penetrate anyone either. I would feel like I was abusing them because I know it would hurt like hell if I was the one being penetrated. I've never seen that attraction to anal sex. Hell, if I wanted to fuck something, I would just go ahead and get a woman. I'm strictly oral only, giving and getting, or mutual masturbation to each other.


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As for these pervert ass men wanting to watch two women but having a problem with two men and hating them for it, yes, that's totally hypicritical and I don't put up with it either. They live in a total fantasy world from watching porn and the real world is not like that at all. It is very rarely two beautiful lipstick lesbians eating each other out. It is usually a lipstick feminine lesbian and a butch bulldagger and there sure as hell ain't no joining in by a man going on. Oh yes, the assholes come out to the clubs and irritate the hell out of the lesbians all night long thinking they're going to fullfill that porn fantasy and be totally disrespectful to the lipstick lesbians' bulldagger lovers right in their face as if she wasn't even there. Just imagine if it were a straight situation and some man came up in some woman's face right in front of her boyfriend and tried to get her to sleep with him. It would be a fight from hell. But I tell my lesbian friends all the time how to stop that problem. Honey, tell them bastards...."So you wanna join in motherfucker? Well come on, we'll let you join in. And I'm gonna put this on this great big ole strap-on and see if I can rip a hole in your ass as big as the hole in your head. You ain't gonna fuck us honey, we're gonna fuck you.".....See, that's the way you gotta do it honey, and those bastards will leave you alone real quick. evillol


Having chronic digestive issues...I cantbeven count how many fingers and cameras have been up my ass...and it sucked every time...lol. That's a no go zone for me as well. Especially if u have issues down there to begin with that have left it raw and sore..then some one wants to jam a finger, camera, barium enema bag up there....fuuuuk me mad (I ain't begging here)...pun intended. mad
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