NouveauDance said:

Tittypants said:

I personally feel that it shows a lack of maturity when you can only date [marry], & flirt with women that are young enough to be your daughter [or grand daughter], but hey, that's just me . I will admit that it is funny reading people's comments trying to defend Prince....for no reason as usual.

When you read the biogs, books and interviews with past lays a pattern emerges of younger, often 'barely legal' girls who are encouraged not to voice their own opinions or express their personalities, and basically dress, act and say whatever Prince wants them to - that is if they can talk at all, and not just smile meekly and stand there in a camisole.

Not sure Andy fits that role, only seen her once on that French TV show, but with all Prince band members, male or female - he's the boss, so any image or presence they have is largely there as a creation or a reflection of his.

It doesn't take Freud to psychoanalyse this, but I'm not going there, I've already said enough for the pitchfolks to come out.

Hey, what do you know...It's a pond now.

SodaShoes said:

Hey, what do you know...It's a pond now.

*splish splash*

Thanks for all of the responses so far. I'm going out for the evening...I hope that this conversation will spark more personal opinions about music and the emotional influence it has on your life.

SodaShoes said:

Tittypants said:

I personally feel that it shows a lack of maturity when you can only date [marry], & flirt with women that are young enough to be your daughter [or grand daughter], but hey, that's just me . I will admit that it is funny reading people's comments trying to defend Prince....for no reason as usual.

There are men that stay clear of the problems it causes with the women in their appropriate age group.

It's almost like you put up a barrier in your mind and you don't allow the thoughts to creep up on you.

I can't even fathom having sex with a man or boy, 30 years younger than I am. Even if it were just in my mind...I'm not gonna do it.

Well, I'm sorry to tell you. Porn is widespread and watched by a lot of men (and women). Porn doesn't exist of age apropriate couples, it's about young girls pretending to get sexually aroused by older men. The subject is very popular due to the demand by the public, aka the men.

It's not that I 'approve' or 'disapprove' of Prince being with a young girl. I just think it's hypocrit to sit on a 'spiritual' high horse, while 99% watches that kind of porn. Based on exploiting young girls.

bobbyperu said:

eros said:

bobbyperu said:

Seriously, now! The man and the music are two different things! Marvin Gaye fell in love and wrote a song about a teenage girl called Jan when he was in his thirties. He, just like Sly Stone and Keith Richards used tons of drugs. James Brown beat women. So did David Ruffin of the Temptations. Yet My Girl is one of the sweetest pieces of music ever. None of this ever stopped me from loving their music.u

Should the same liberties be give to a say.....R Kelly?

R. Kelly is a big star in the US isn't he? Eventhough his sexual preference for children is well known, right?

Whether Prince flirts or whatever he does with Andy, doesn't touch me, as long as both of them are "adults" as more than 18, and as long as they don't hurt anyone..

Andy needs Prince to grow into the music industry, she still needs to improve her skills, she's a beginner and she's not as talented as some other girls Prince has worked with in the past.

Andy is a kind of "protégée", and is lucky, may she get better while she gets along with Prince.

Beside his music, I don't care at all about his sexual "intercourses"; everyone is free to do whatever he wants with his "a.."..

Sometimes, thread here are sooooooooo uninteresting, I get bored and want to quit often!!

If only Prince could have his own website, once again, I'll quit here...

Pfffffffffffffffffffffff

Morality.............

NouveauDance said:

Tittypants said:

I personally feel that it shows a lack of maturity when you can only date [marry], & flirt with women that are young enough to be your daughter [or grand daughter], but hey, that's just me . I will admit that it is funny reading people's comments trying to defend Prince....for no reason as usual.

When you read the biogs, books and interviews with past lays a pattern emerges of younger, often 'barely legal' girls who are encouraged not to voice their own opinions or express their personalities, and basically dress, act and say whatever Prince wants them to - that is if they can talk at all, and not just smile meekly and stand there in a camisole.

Not sure Andy fits that role, only seen her once on that French TV show, but with all Prince band members, male or female - he's the boss, so any image or presence they have is largely there as a creation or a reflection of his.

It doesn't take Freud to psychoanalyse this, but I'm not going there, I've already said enough for the pitchfolks to come out.

It's a shock that you are actually giving some realistic responses outside of your normal "quips"....

langebleu said:

Given the Profound understanding that music listener's "Use," music as a tool in their own personal lives for sexual stimulation. ex: When a couple plans a romantic evening by the fireplace at home, someone is putting on their flavor of sound for the night.

I'm not sure this has anything to do with 'Profound understanding'.

Some people put some background music on to create a mood. There's nothing profound to understand.

I suspect most couples don't start getting unnecessarily concerned about whether or not the people who recorded the mood music where born thirty years apart and appear to have flirted with each other on stage. In my case, my mind is on other things. I don't suddenly turn around to my partner and say,

"I know this might sound selfish, darling, but can we please not dim the lights and use those candles you bought last week. I checked up and there are rumours going around that the CEO of that candlestick manufacturer might have been flirting with a woman who is thrty years younger than him. I'm concerned that lighting those candles might not be good for our spiritual growth"

Y'all remember Tame, right? That's who this person acts like,

babynoz said:

langebleu said:

I'm not sure this has anything to do with 'Profound understanding'.

Some people put some background music on to create a mood. There's nothing profound to understand.

I suspect most couples don't start getting unnecessarily concerned about whether or not the people who recorded the mood music where born thirty years apart and appear to have flirted with each other on stage. In my case, my mind is on other things. I don't suddenly turn around to my partner and say,

"I know this might sound selfish, darling, but can we please not dim the lights and use those candles you bought last week. I checked up and there are rumours going around that the CEO of that candlestick manufacturer might have been flirting with a woman who is thrty years younger than him. I'm concerned that lighting those candles might not be good for our spiritual growth"

Y'all remember Tame, right? That's who this person acts like,

bobbyperu said:

Seriously, now! The man and the music are two different things! Marvin Gaye fell in love and wrote a song about a teenage girl called Jan when he was in his thirties. He, just like Sly Stone and Keith Richards used tons of drugs. James Brown beat women. So did David Ruffin of the Temptations. Yet My Girl is one of the sweetest pieces of music ever. None of this ever stopped me from loving their music.u

I'm sorry I missed your post earlier. The music will always be wonderful in my "Mind."

There are different layers of a person. I can see that Andy is a pretty girl, I can hear that she has a beautiful voice. Prince is beautiful in this way too. Even standing next to eachother over the summer they took beautiful photo's together.

My heart thought the relationship was beautiful on the outside, and unattractive on the inside.

It doesn't give me a good feeling. I'll vent to you BobbyPeru for a minute cause I really like you.

What woman wants to see a man they love be "Smitten," with a girl 30 years younger. How can I take Prince seriously anymore?

I know I'm just one stupid girl that thought the world of Prince until the 17th of August. It was the first time in 30 years that I looked at him in a strange light. I thought, "What is he doing?"

[Edited 10/1/11 21:39pm]

bobbyperu said:

NouveauDance said:

My new years resolution is to pass by ridicu-creepy threads like this without making a snarky comment. Unfortunately, January is still a few months away.

Yeah! My new year's resolution is to stop making jokes about Soda & poor Andy. Hope the two of them never meet. Somebody might get hurt...

I have never been the type to fight with a girl... In fact I have befriended two girls that have had affairs with my 2 X-husbands. I just walk away from the man. And they miss me.

SometimesIwonder said:

Ah Sodashoes, please tell me what u wud do? U get a call outta the blue & it's the purple love of ur life on the blower asking if u wanna hang out. Do u go? Imagine for these purposes that u do..& u hit it off like a house on fire. U slowly inch ur way closer together on the afore said couch beside the fire. He asks if u wanna hear his new song- a slow, honey-dripping kisses, romantic number. Now please humour me here, but he leans in for a soft, gentle kiss- r u gonna turn round & holla "That better NOT be THAT Andy Allo singing wit u! Do u know what AGE she is?? I mean, would it spoil ur flow & make u storm out in disgust? Seriously though, get over it. No one really cares about the age gap. Andy Allo is YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL & mega TALENTED who may or may not have stolen the heart of ur ideal man. I'd love to hear the fruits of their collaboration!

You are damn right...I will not be sexually excited by her. I would not dance with or have sex with Prince to anything she did vocally.

SodaShoes said:

SometimesIwonder said:

Ah Sodashoes, please tell me what u wud do? U get a call outta the blue & it's the purple love of ur life on the blower asking if u wanna hang out. Do u go? Imagine for these purposes that u do..& u hit it off like a house on fire. U slowly inch ur way closer together on the afore said couch beside the fire. He asks if u wanna hear his new song- a slow, honey-dripping kisses, romantic number. Now please humour me here, but he leans in for a soft, gentle kiss- r u gonna turn round & holla "That better NOT be THAT Andy Allo singing wit u! Do u know what AGE she is?? I mean, would it spoil ur flow & make u storm out in disgust? Seriously though, get over it. No one really cares about the age gap. Andy Allo is YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL & mega TALENTED who may or may not have stolen the heart of ur ideal man. I'd love to hear the fruits of their collaboration!

You are damn right...I will not be sexually excited by her. I would not dance with or have sex with Prince to anything she did vocally.

Is that funny enough?

SodaShoes said:

SodaShoes said:

You are damn right...I will not be sexually excited by her. I would not dance with or have sex with Prince to anything she did vocally.

Is that funny enough?

Do you think Valerie Simpson would have let Nick out loose all over a girl 30 years younger than him with a big kiss waiting for him when he got home? I doubt it.

What about Tina Graham? Where is she when I need her? Would Tina let larry hang all over a girl 30 years younger? Would that be a big turn on?

dJJ said:

SodaShoes said:

There are men that stay clear of the problems it causes with the women in their appropriate age group.

It's almost like you put up a barrier in your mind and you don't allow the thoughts to creep up on you.

I can't even fathom having sex with a man or boy, 30 years younger than I am. Even if it were just in my mind...I'm not gonna do it.

Well, I'm sorry to tell you. Porn is widespread and watched by a lot of men (and women). Porn doesn't exist of age apropriate couples, it's about young girls pretending to get sexually aroused by older men. The subject is very popular due to the demand by the public, aka the men.

It's not that I 'approve' or 'disapprove' of Prince being with a young girl. I just think it's hypocrit to sit on a 'spiritual' high horse, while 99% watches that kind of porn. Based on exploiting young girls.

If ther is a high horse that's against it...I'm on it...riding high with my white flag.

ganesh said:

Whether Prince flirts or whatever he does with Andy, doesn't touch me, as long as both of them are "adults" as more than 18, and as long as they don't hurt anyone..

Andy needs Prince to grow into the music industry, she still needs to improve her skills, she's a beginner and she's not as talented as some other girls Prince has worked with in the past.

Andy is a kind of "protégée", and is lucky, may she get better while she gets along with Prince.

Beside his music, I don't care at all about his sexual "intercourses"; everyone is free to do whatever he wants with his "a.."..

Sometimes, thread here are sooooooooo uninteresting, I get bored and want to quit often!!

If only Prince could have his own website, once again, I'll quit here...

Pfffffffffffffffffffffff

There used to be bars for people 25 years and older because that was considered to be "More," of an adult.

Black thigh high boots and a purple shirt that doesn't cover her ass in Zurich, is not what an adult would wear...I'm sorry...not in my book.

I have to give it to you Sodashoes, without doubt one of the best posts i have ever read here...after a rather awful afternoon at work, i had a 2 hour break, read your post and returned to work up-lifted.

Anyway, thank you.

PS "Waking up today to see a Vintage 1973 Yellow Fender Stratocaster next to me... = Heaven" Andy Allo

SodaShoes said:

SometimesIwonder said:

Ah Sodashoes, please tell me what u wud do? U get a call outta the blue & it's the purple love of ur life on the blower asking if u wanna hang out. Do u go? Imagine for these purposes that u do..& u hit it off like a house on fire. U slowly inch ur way closer together on the afore said couch beside the fire. He asks if u wanna hear his new song- a slow, honey-dripping kisses, romantic number. Now please humour me here, but he leans in for a soft, gentle kiss- r u gonna turn round & holla "That better NOT be THAT Andy Allo singing wit u! Do u know what AGE she is?? I mean, would it spoil ur flow & make u storm out in disgust? Seriously though, get over it. No one really cares about the age gap. Andy Allo is YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL & mega TALENTED who may or may not have stolen the heart of ur ideal man. I'd love to hear the fruits of their collaboration!

You are damn right...I will not be sexually excited by her. I would not dance with or have sex with Prince to anything she did vocally.

I won't get over it. Prince threw one stupid fan away with his actions. No great loss for him.

Whitnail said:

I have to give it to you Sodashoes, without doubt one of the best posts i have ever read here...after a rather awful afternoon at work, i had a 2 hour break, read your post and returned to work up-lifted.

Anyway, thank you.

PS "Waking up today to see a Vintage 1973 Yellow Fender Stratocaster next to me... = Heaven" Andy Allo

I don't know what that means...I'm glad I uplifted you in some way...

SodaShoes said:

Whitnail said:

I have to give it to you Sodashoes, without doubt one of the best posts i have ever read here...after a rather awful afternoon at work, i had a 2 hour break, read your post and returned to work up-lifted.

Anyway, thank you.

PS "Waking up today to see a Vintage 1973 Yellow Fender Stratocaster next to me... = Heaven" Andy Allo

I don't know what that means...I'm glad I uplifted you in some way...

Andy Allo posted that today on her facebook page, which by all means would suggest that she sleeps alone...1+1+1=?

Prince...Just in case you read any of this, I'm gonna talk to you right now, heart 2 heart and look you square in the third eye...

You look like your playing, "David," and Andy Allo is "Lolita Goliath." I have never thought you looked so desperate for attention in all my 33 years of loving you.

If I ever wanted to smack a man across the face in my dreams...it's now.

dJJ said:

SodaShoes said:

There are men that stay clear of the problems it causes with the women in their appropriate age group.

It's almost like you put up a barrier in your mind and you don't allow the thoughts to creep up on you.

I can't even fathom having sex with a man or boy, 30 years younger than I am. Even if it were just in my mind...I'm not gonna do it.

Well, I'm sorry to tell you. Porn is widespread and watched by a lot of men (and women). Porn doesn't exist of age apropriate couples, it's about young girls pretending to get sexually aroused by older men. The subject is very popular due to the demand by the public, aka the men.

It's not that I 'approve' or 'disapprove' of Prince being with a young girl. I just think it's hypocrit to sit on a 'spiritual' high horse, while 99% watches that kind of porn. Based on exploiting young girls.

DJJ, I know alot of girls that love watching the porn you describe, so to be honest, that stereotype is dead as well, at least here in Europe...LOL, funny subject Porn, brings out the strangest of reactions...like religion!

And another thing Prince...

There was a possibility that I was the love of your life. And I'm no longer in the sea for you to catch...Hope ya had some fun...if not boo hoo...you had so many opportunities to call or write and you know that you did. Now that's "Yellow."

I said to a friend the other day that I felt like I had been married to an imaginary friend for years.

I said, I'm the cat chasing the dog, and I'll catch him, And when I do that dog is gonna chase me to the altar.

[Edited 10/1/11 22:12pm]

Whitnail said:

dJJ said:

Well, I'm sorry to tell you. Porn is widespread and watched by a lot of men (and women). Porn doesn't exist of age apropriate couples, it's about young girls pretending to get sexually aroused by older men. The subject is very popular due to the demand by the public, aka the men.

It's not that I 'approve' or 'disapprove' of Prince being with a young girl. I just think it's hypocrit to sit on a 'spiritual' high horse, while 99% watches that kind of porn. Based on exploiting young girls.

DJJ, I know alot of girls that love watching the porn you describe, so to be honest, that stereotype is dead as well, at least here in Europe...LOL, funny subject Porn, brings out the strangest of reactions...like religion!

In my opinion, if you don't mind me joining you guys here...(ha ha) Pornography is an interesting learning tool or fore-play enhancement thing when you are younger than I am now...But it leads to distraction in your intimate lives...not just the evening. It becomes completely unnecessary when two people are capable enough on their own to tease and love eachother.

SodaShoes said:

And another thing Prince...

There was a possibility that I was the love of your life. And I'm no longer in the sea for you to catch...Hope ya had some fun...if not boo hoo, right back at ya punk.

I said to a friend the other day that I felt like I had been married to an imaginary friend for years.

I said, I'm the cat chasing the dog, and I'll catch him, And when I do that dog is gonna chase me to the altar.

What did your friend say?

Whitnail said:

SodaShoes said:

I don't know what that means...I'm glad I uplifted you in some way...

Andy Allo posted that today on her facebook page, which by all means would suggest that she sleeps alone...1+1+1=?

That is nice...It must mean that Prince gave her that guitar as a gift. Very nice of him to do so, she is a very lucky girl.

SodaShoes said:

Whitnail said:

DJJ, I know alot of girls that love watching the porn you describe, so to be honest, that stereotype is dead as well, at least here in Europe...LOL, funny subject Porn, brings out the strangest of reactions...like religion!

In my opinion, if you don't mind me joining you guys here...(ha ha) Pornography is an interesting learning tool or fore-play enhancement thing when you are younger than I am now...But it leads to distraction in your intimate lives...not just the evening. It becomes completely unnecessary when two people are capable enough on their own to tease and love eachother.

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