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Thread started 07/06/11 5:04am

blackbob

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prince ignorance..how do you cope with it?

so when you mention prince has being one of your favourite artists...how do you cope with the frequent ignorant comments that you get back...like the old classic 'prince is gay' line mad ???....or one of the other put downs you get....the older i get...the more these things annoy me...if i dont know an artist very well..i keep my mouth shut...i wish these idiots would do the same mad

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Reply #1 posted 07/06/11 5:26am

MetalMonkey

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I tell them he's been with Carmen Electra and they soon shut up! haha who cares what ppl think?! Its his life and he can live it how he wants! u like listening. You could probably rip them about something else lol

I just listen to his music and don't have nothing to say about his Modus operandi.

Give what U can, all U can stand, and all of your life will be made!

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Reply #2 posted 07/06/11 5:36am

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i don't even respond to them mate. prince's track record with women and still folk think he's gay?? says more about them than prince. fuck 'em they're smallminded idiots who can't think outside of the box when it comes to sexuality. remember putting my lovesexy album cover poster on my bedroom wall when i was 17, people thought i was the only gay in the village. lol

don't play me...i'm over 30 and i DO smoke weed....
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Reply #3 posted 07/06/11 5:49am

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I think a lot of the ignorance comes from people misinterpreting him. The "Prince is gay" comment, 4 example, could be that people saw his outfits during the Lovesexy era and automatically assumed he was gay just from that. I know that when Prince said "The Internet is dead", all kinds of people took that the wrong way, like the WHOLE Internet is dead, as opposed 2 simply a means 2 distribute music. And of course, the name change gets people going every time....

There's this dude at my work that's always giving me shit about Prince. He's a huge Metallica fan, and he has said all kinds of crazy things from "Metallica started grunge" 2 "Prince obviously sucked at one form of music, so he tried another". Usually we're just joking around when we talk about this subject, but it does compel me 2 think about all the people out there who really do find a reason 2 talk trash about Prince. We need 2 remind them of how Prince has defied the conventions of pop music. We need 2 remind them that he didn't get into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame by luck. And we need 2 remind them of how multi-talented and hard-working this man is, and how much he has accomplished in his remarkable career.

Oh, by the way, I also reminded this dude that Prince placed #7 on VH1's Greatest Artists countdown while Metallica placed way below that. He was in disbelief. I just laughed.

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Reply #4 posted 07/06/11 5:51am

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blackbob said:

so when you mention prince has being one of your favourite artists...how do you cope with the frequent ignorant comments that you get back...like the old classic 'prince is gay' line mad ???....or one of the other put downs you get....the older i get...the more these things annoy me...

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I'm the opposite bob, the older I get the less I give a fuck what others think.

If they think he is shite, or is gay or whatever then that's fine, the days of me defending him from people like that are long gone, I know I like him and that's all that matters.

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Reply #5 posted 07/06/11 5:54am

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I tend to Ignore Ignorance of any kind, and this goes without saying when it pertains 2 my favorite artist(P) if someone wants 2 make judgements on someone without doing there homework, there not worth the trouble. *Imbecile* always comes to mind when they speak though lol

"How Can I Stand To..Stay Where I Am? Poor Butterfly Who..Dont Understand." P
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Reply #6 posted 07/06/11 5:56am

MrLee192

i laugh when they say hes gay because of the amount of women he has been with and that most of his songs are about fucking chicks.

Some people just dont get it. You need to be a person in the right mindset to dig on Princes back catalogue of outfits. I love androgyny, glam and provocative imagery, so to me.... Prince is REALLY cool.

But to my best mate who im in a band with "Prince is so camp, its not even funny". At least he digs Princes musical ability though. I remember putting Live in tokyo on at home infront of him and my guitarist (who is a HUGE fan also). Various comments were "oh shit, i just had a guitargasm!"

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Reply #7 posted 07/06/11 6:36am

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i find it interesting that when i say i like queen, no one says, BUT FREDDIE MERCURY WAS GAY!!

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Reply #8 posted 07/06/11 6:37am

thisisit

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voodoo lol

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Reply #9 posted 07/06/11 7:13am

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MetalMonkey said:

I tell them he's been with Carmen Electra and they soon shut up! haha who cares what ppl think?! Its his life and he can live it how he wants! u like listening. You could probably rip them about something else lol

I just listen to his music and don't have nothing to say about his Modus operandi.

He even named "Carmen Electra"

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Reply #10 posted 07/06/11 7:17am

Cravens

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I don't care really.

You see, if I allow them ignorance on Prince .. I can remain somewhat blissfully ignorant of Lady Gaga's1 oodles of "if-you-go-look-at-accustic-version-of-Gaga-Song-7-on-lubetube-you'll-see-she-got"-talent by saying: "Hey, I'm not preaching to you".

So you see, there's actually a benefit to "not care".

1NOT an attempt to bait with Gaga. That belongs here.

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Reply #11 posted 07/06/11 7:22am

carinemjj

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I ignore ignorance too.

And it's usually extremist catholics who believes in 'healing' homosexuality through gay bootcamp that asks me if he's gay.. doh!

Have a listen to Emancipation album, you can't fake a love so inspired.

And even if he was actually gay, why should they care, would his music be suddendly less great?

I say, if you aren't interested or informed enough on what the man gave us musically, you stay in your own ignorance and shut up until you've done your researches and have something valuable to say.

Yeah, I love Graffiti Bridge movie, so what? ''Oooooooooooh Montreal, say it!''
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Reply #12 posted 07/06/11 7:32am

Harlepolis

I don't.

I'm here for the music, fuck the rest.

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Reply #13 posted 07/06/11 7:38am

xLiberiangirl

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Oh well they can say what they want. But I tell them that he had many chicks. But still it doesn't really annoy me. It annoy me more when people say that Gaga her music is better than Prince his music as example./ lol

Everyone their own taste but, still it's stupid 2 say that. lol

I love Prince and if they don't , well they really miss something.

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Reply #14 posted 07/06/11 7:44am

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xLiberiangirl said:

It annoy me more when people say that Gaga her music is better than Prince

I would not even waste the breath on another sentence with anyone who thought that, even if they were 12.

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Reply #15 posted 07/06/11 7:56am

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TheDigitalGardener said:

xLiberiangirl said:

It annoy me more when people say that Gaga her music is better than Prince

I would not even waste the breath on another sentence with anyone who thought that, even if they were 12.

especially if they were 12, considering 12 year olds dont know very much about music

Bogey and Bacall, peanut butter and jelly, Wall being on fucking point, is "classic" dipshit. An iphone is top shelf technology. Get it straight. This thing is 4g. -Wall the great
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Reply #16 posted 07/06/11 7:57am

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uuhson said:

TheDigitalGardener said:

I would not even waste the breath on another sentence with anyone who thought that, even if they were 12.

especially if they were 12, considering 12 year olds dont know very much about music

I was being sarky.

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Reply #17 posted 07/06/11 7:59am

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TheDigitalGardener said:

uuhson said:

especially if they were 12, considering 12 year olds dont know very much about music

I was being sarky.

my bad brother

Bogey and Bacall, peanut butter and jelly, Wall being on fucking point, is "classic" dipshit. An iphone is top shelf technology. Get it straight. This thing is 4g. -Wall the great
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Reply #18 posted 07/06/11 8:00am

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uuhson said:

TheDigitalGardener said:

I was being sarky.

my bad brother

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Reply #19 posted 07/06/11 8:08am

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I weirdly DO get bothered, but I'm not sure why?? There's been so many times when I've mentioned I like Prince and I get this sort of sneer from the person I'm talking to. And they might say 'Really?' and I say 'Yes...' Thinking why are they asking me in the tone of voice. And I'll say 'Yes, he's great he's done blah, blah, blah and blah..' And then the eyebrow will raise and there will be a low. 'Hmm..' Like they are waiting for me to change the subject. So I'll say 'Don't you like him then?', and they'll say 'No, not really.' And that is it, end of discussion, and I get the feeling they don't ever want me to bring him up again. Lol..

Shut up already, damn.
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Reply #20 posted 07/06/11 8:25am

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Blackbob, did u stay at the Ramada and were you wearing a W2A shirt? thought I may have saw you when I was leaving. I try to keep my P-Love on the downlow. People at work just like your usual pop tripe and watch popstars idols etc - I'm in the closet really (though every now and again break the t-shirts out - and my ford fiesta sports a symbol. No one has said a word). You can kinda tell if someone's down or not, and a lot aren't! Their loss, and I ain't trying to convert no one. I don't diss Take That or whatever dross they're getting excited about, they don't get a sniff of the 3121.

Worse is the too kool for skoolers with their funny sunglasses, tight jeans and twatshirts who like him in a post ironic whatever way - don't get me started. Anyway, must go now and change my facebook status to a line from Laydown...

Comin str8 outta Preston...
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Reply #21 posted 07/06/11 8:31am

V10LETBLUES

Here is good link. It's the best I could do. But it's a start.

copingwithprinceignorance.edu

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Reply #22 posted 07/06/11 9:01am

blackbob

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Hi....yes that was me at the Ramada...sorry I didn't see you..25 pounds for a taxi...we spent a fortune on bloody taxis..... biggrin
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Reply #23 posted 07/06/11 9:22am

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I can't remember the last time this kind of thing happened. I'd say he's been around so long, even if someone might not know his music, they know he's a talented guy who's been around decades.

I guess you still get the name thing sometimes - there are people who are amazed when you say it's been a decade or more since he went back to Prince - I guess he still uses the symbol on stage etc, so maybe that confuses them?

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Reply #24 posted 07/06/11 9:27am

EyeJester7

I just learned 2 cite some of the many accomplishments Prince has done, which NO one else can simply do. My girlfriend "USE" (Now she kind of fell in love with the fact that he is killer with jazz..lol) Anyways, she use 2 hate me mentioning/listening/singing Prince, because she thought I was blinded 2 many other forms of music, since she listens 2 literally everything...BUT I just had 2 make it clear 2 her, it's because Prince could do so many forms of music..(YES, I can & DO listen 2 a bunch of other songs & artists, Prince is just one I listen 2 the most out of everyone else..)..While he may NOT utilize all genres successfully; the guy knows how to arrange a song with a beat that discards the whacky lyrics most of the time. Although I happen like his word play and lyrical suggestions! He's a genius & it's not only because he knows how to play multiple instruments; surely that cites to his genius on many levels. It's also the clear understanding in knowing WHERE HE IS, & that this is what he is made 2 do. I don't care what people ultimately have 2 say about him or his many eccentricities, he's shown himself within the span of his career to produce some level of genius in every product.

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Reply #25 posted 07/06/11 9:50am

MattyJam

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"Is he still going?" seems to be the only response I've gotten when I've mentioned Prince.

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Reply #26 posted 07/06/11 9:53am

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Harlepolis said:

I don't.



I'm here for the music, fuck the rest.


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Reply #27 posted 07/06/11 10:11am

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uuhson said:

TheDigitalGardener said:

I would not even waste the breath on another sentence with anyone who thought that, even if they were 12.

especially if they were 12, considering 12 year olds dont know very much about music

I'm Princefan since I was 13. I'm 16 now. Yes, most people of my age don't really know much about music. sadly.. Even some people in their twenties are like that....

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Reply #28 posted 07/06/11 10:22am

uuhson

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xLiberiangirl said:

uuhson said:

especially if they were 12, considering 12 year olds dont know very much about music

I'm Princefan since I was 13. I'm 16 now. Yes, most people of my age don't really know much about music. sadly.. Even some people in their twenties are like that....

im 20, and i have very very few friends that listen to anything other than the garbage mtv shovels into them

Bogey and Bacall, peanut butter and jelly, Wall being on fucking point, is "classic" dipshit. An iphone is top shelf technology. Get it straight. This thing is 4g. -Wall the great
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Reply #29 posted 07/06/11 10:28am

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uuhson said:

xLiberiangirl said:

I'm Princefan since I was 13. I'm 16 now. Yes, most people of my age don't really know much about music. sadly.. Even some people in their twenties are like that....

im 20, and i have very very few friends that listen to anything other than the garbage mtv shovels into them

neutral I'm 40 and I have a couple of friends who listen to all that stuff too. The others are into good stuff though (imo).

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