"(and remember, lesbians like girls, so there ya go)." So if you think this is the case Ernest then you must know he's not going to want you or any of your gay friends. Why do you have to act so spiteful?

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un called 4...

tis thread is about prince home gurl....not ernest

nyse said:[quote]

ernestsewell said:

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I think you are missing the point. I have read on some of your blogs. By some orgs that Prince is Gay. Straight Out Someone post ass in Prince face. That was not nice. All I'am saying "What would you think he is Gay?

nyse said:

Exactly.

boogiebear said:[quote]

nyse said:

I probly guess his dress code is the biggest reason. why folks think he is gay. and the lovesexy cover does not help

Prince might not be a homosexual, but he loves to play one on TV.

boogiebear said:

Not sure what you said there, and not sure what my blogs (I have more than one blog? News to me because I've always had one blog hub).

What did you mean with "By some orgs that Prince is Gay. Straight Out Someone post ass in Prince face."? Makes no sense to me, honestly. Can you clarify, if it's relative to this?

However, I think my answers have been made as to why people would think Prince is gay. I think sometimes it's just good gossip for people, but ultimately people have to be logical. If Prince was truly a pole smoker, it would have come out by now. All these girls he's had around him and bedded (let's go over THAT list sometimes) would have been revealed as decoys or facades and the scorned boylovers he's had would have come forward by now or the 411 somehow leaked. Yet at 51, what male has come forward to say "I fucked Prince"??? It's all nonsense really. The rest of my answer has already been said earlier.

nyse said:

Well being naked in a flower doesn't make a guy gay.....it's that tour programme that does! hahaha

theRight1 said:

Efan said:

eFan I thought about that the whole time I was writing my response earlier about "boy in a dress". The Nude Tour and the D&P tour had some gay ass moves in it. hahaha

Efan said:

WHAT was that all about??? please someone explain this to me... if you can!

nyse said:

I can ask. He usually goes all in-depth about himself and everything he's doing so I would like to know why so many of the gay guys go on and on about Prince supposedly being gay. Why is it uncalled for nyse..homeboy? The way some of these gay dudes go on about it you would swear they have been with Prince but now what I post is "uncalled for".

angelface22 said:

It was his appearance on The Aresnio Hall Show promoting Diamonds and Pearls or .

Efan said:

this is one thing that i can't defend...lol... but prince does have fun playing with his image.

^IMO Prince wanted to satisfy his gay audience. I love him. He's so considerate and unselfish.

ernestsewell said:

dude iz a lesbian...lol

theRight1 said:

You Got that RIGHT

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[Edited 1/15/10 12:48pm]

ernestsewell said:

i know, but why did he do this? we all know prince and his innuendos and symbolic actions... i dont think that was very mysterious.

quite blatant actually. im hoping there is some other underlying meaning, other than what it appears to be. my dreams will be crushed.

theRight1 said:

Contrary to the seemingly popular belief, not all gay men want to have sex with Prince. Sexuality is not this... CLUB where you have to recruit members to join! Do you really think that the whole gay Prince-fan community is just chomping at the bit to teach Prince the "handshake" and induct him into the "secret society"? I think not. The things that you say, serious or not, are offensive to a whole entire group of people. And that's coming from a straight-ish FEMALE.


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As for my opinion? Is he actually gay? Is he actually straight? Bisexual, maybe? What do I think? I think it doesn't matter, that's what I think.

Whether he's boning Apollonia or whether he's boning Jesse Johnson doesn't matter to me, nor is it really my business. I'm not laying down with the man (nice thought as that is). It doesn't change the music. It doesn't change the persona. It doesn't change PRINCE.

angelface22 said:

It was just a dance move. He was doing all sorts of physical "comedy" with those guys from the Nude Tour onward until he finally got rid of them. Think about him behind Jerome in the Hit N Run shows and being so close - crotch to butt. It's just a dance thing. It's not a gay interpretive dance or something.

I just have to chime in here on this topic as its an area I know a thing or 2 about. I think this contributes to the topic regarding Prince.

Just because a guy is in touch with his feminine side (clothes, make up, dance moves etc) DOES NOT mean that he is necessarily attracted to men sexually. There is nothing wrong with feminine type gay men, but ALL GAY MEN are not feminine. This is a major misconception in society. Gay men are a spectrum (rainbow if you will) of diversity. I think this is one reason why folks are confused, when they meet a 'so called straight acting gay man'. I know the gay community very well and I would estimate that the feminine types are only a small percentage of the gay population and there is a whole spectrum or range of every type imaginable. So please don't fall into the trap of thinking so simplistically if you see a guy who is in touch with his feminine side or who likes to dress in a different way or whatever, that this is linked to how he is as a sexual being. Same with women by the way, I know there is another stereo type that lesbians are all butch but they are not. So called 'lipstick lesbians are also out there and a whole range of other types of people.

People are intimidated by what they don't understand. People think gay people can 'recruit' people into being gay. Being gay is not a choice, choosing to live your life in the closet IS a choice. Belonging to a church IS a choice. I have nothing against people's choices, but you can't recruit someone into WHO THEY ARE. Thats why people (particularly in America) are intimidated by gay people who don't fit neatly into the stereotypes of either a feminine gay guy or butch lesbian. This is also a major reason why there are so many people still in the closet afraid to be themselves because they to are caught up with the stereotypes and they look at themselves and think 'hey i am attracted to the same sex but i am not Jack from Will and Grace, I am just like my buddies, what am i? What's wrong with me?' And they suppress themselves in an unhealthy way. Hell I have friends who are straight but are very comfortable with their feminine side and are not so insecure that they have to 'put on an act' to look tough. The best advice I could ever give anyway discovering themselves is BE YOURSELF.

For God's sake, don't reinforce the stereotypes. Be open to diversity in the true sense of the word. Even the gay community itself is jaded and non accepting of difference, if you don't fit the look, there is something wrong with you. Stop this and stop judging and compartmentalizing. Accept there is always someone out there who is different and thats okay. Gay/Straight isn't black and white, night and day. There are hundreds of 'shades of grey' in between. You don't have to understand them all, just accept, you don't have to be either way way or another. Its okay to be in the middle, be bi-sexual! This is one of the most misunderstood and unaccepted groups of all (from both men and women).

Back to Prince. Prince is in touch with both sides of himself. He is not afraid to go there. You are. You are uncomfortable and Prince is completely at ease. I think everyone should explore themselves, you never know what you may find, this is part of the human condition. Don't contribute to the stupidity of gay stereotypes. Open your mind.

I don't want to see or hear anymore references to the 'Gay Boy Dancer' moves, the Camille outfits or the Lovesexy album cover. None of these things make Prince gay. Prince is Prince and we love him for it. No more boundaries. Don't be afraid. Accept others for who they are. If you need to bitch and moan and worry, then look in the mirror.

ernestsewell said:

It was about Prince was sitting at a dinner table and a man butt was up in his face. And he had the look like he like it. (photoshop) And the guy that post it
was gay. Now if I announce that I was straight it would been a yelling match. I am just replying to earnests earlier comment

Acrylic said:

I know all gay men don't want Prince and I know what sexuality is. Have you been reading some of the threads around here lately Acrylic? Do you observe your surroundings to notice how many immature gays tend to feel it's always their duty to "out" somebody? Have you seen how there's a group of homosexuals aka "pole smokers" as one these gay man on this thread calls them, yet he called me homophobic, spiteful, and ridiculous?? This same gay man btw has a history of insulting the women who love Prince and aren't afraid to share their feelings here. Many in this homosexual group aka "gay mafia" (if he can call them pole smokers I can call it gay mafia) heavily post photoshopped images of Prince with men's asses all in his face, etc. I find them a juvenile bunch and very disrespectful towards Prince and many of his fans. Many people I hear don't even come here because of their offensiveness. NO, I don't think they are trying to teach him the "handshake..blah blah blah". I know what they are doing and I know what they are. There's a whole group of people who are mean, nasty, and offensive to another "whole entire group" of org members because they post stupid, very sexually suggestive photos and they make mean and spiteful comments to other members. I myself choose not to be offended so you may want to take a lesson from me if you've allowed yourself to be offended. Nobody was trying to offend you...Miss.

theRight1 said:

I didn't necessarily say that I was offended, just that it's an offensive statement. ... And I do read the threads, and I think that alot of the sexual innuendo coming from our gay members on the site is for the sake of humor... which I find funny most of the time. I don't think it's meant to be taken as literal.

Just my opinion.

Mmm..well I'm sure glad you and I have a different sense of humor. I laugh at funny shit.

boogiebear said:

There's more. Prince is beautiful, spiritual, handsome, and intelligent. Prince is fine, so talented and gifted. He's awesome. BAD! So electrifying. A Rock Star and he's a humble and giving person. Such an androgynous-like symbol of sexiness. And I heard him say, "I can get you what you want anything at all girl all you gotta say is please..." Now that's generous. Pretty please. I could go on and on. I wouldn't call Prince gay. He's a joy to many. Am I right or wrong boogiebear?
[Edited 1/18/10 4:25am]

A nonsense talk.

I am part of the Org gay mafia and I don't think Prince is gay, nor do I want him. I am curious as to how many people on this thread have judged people on "gayness" by looks alone though. People like Sisqo, Puff Daddy and others.

Even if Prince were gay, it would not matter to me. People like to use "gay" like it's some sort of negative.