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Reply #30 posted 01/11/10 1:51am

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NelsonR said:

cborgman said:


well, to use your marriage anology, there is such a thing as a battered spouse who continues to defend the abusive spouse, making all kinds of excuses for his abuse.

but to be less dramatic: even you, in a really non-commital way, are admitting that the way he treates his fans is very poor.

and as far as making it about his music... his last several albums have been pretty tepid. there are some gems, but there is an assload of filler. regardless of whether he burned people with his insane business choices doesn't really factor into the music being largely meh.

and he has every right to put out meh and to get every penny he can squeeze the fans for from it.

but he also then opens himself up to the comments he gets from the people he bleeds. he isn't being bullied.
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lol

interesting use of words and expression.

to be honest, i think he f'd up w/ his websites; we agree there, but i don't think that the website issue should be linked to all the other aspects of the man.

i also happen to be one of those who has really enjoyed the last few releases, with Musicology being the exception

*off topic, but i dig 'a million days' and the title track


add to the LF experience the crystal ball experience, the youtube experience, the numerous cease and desist letters, the dancing baby shenannigan, the npgmc fiasco...

the list goes on and on.
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Reply #31 posted 01/11/10 1:52am

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NelsonR said:

cborgman said:

not to mention the sheer aggression exhibited in recording songs like "no more candy for you" and that PFU one.

at best, it's passive-aggressive to record songs attacking your fans then claiming being bullied.


i think that's him being human though...reacting to negativity which he perceives to be coming from "fans"


so, it's an example of the chicken or the egg proverb.

either way, if it's bullying, it's from both sides.
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Reply #32 posted 01/11/10 1:56am

NelsonR

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NelsonR said:



lol

interesting use of words and expression.

to be honest, i think he f'd up w/ his websites; we agree there, but i don't think that the website issue should be linked to all the other aspects of the man.

i also happen to be one of those who has really enjoyed the last few releases, with Musicology being the exception

*off topic, but i dig 'a million days' and the title track


add to the LF experience the crystal ball experience, the youtube experience, the numerous cease and desist letters, the dancing baby shenannigan, the npgmc fiasco...

the list goes on and on.


the reality is that in certain instances, or most, Prince has not handled the web well; in other cases, he has used it well for marketing purposes; is it not about the controversy? look at how news spread when he released 3121 via the newspaper in the UK; it spread like fire...what about his "giving" a cd away w/ the Musicology tickets;

he has his strengths and weaknesses, but a part of me wishs he would take the web more seriously to appease hardcore fans who spend lots of time accessing music, etc online shrug
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Reply #33 posted 01/11/10 1:56am

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cborgman said:

NelsonR said:



i think that's him being human though...reacting to negativity which he perceives to be coming from "fans"


so, it's an example of the chicken or the egg proverb.

either way, if it's bullying, it's from both sides.



Which came first? The chicken or Crystal Ball?

The chicken 'cause Crystal Ball NEVER came!
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Reply #34 posted 01/11/10 2:01am

NelsonR

Mars23 said:

cborgman said:



so, it's an example of the chicken or the egg proverb.

either way, if it's bullying, it's from both sides.



Which came first? The chicken or Crystal Ball?

The chicken 'cause Crystal Ball NEVER came!


did it not come late? then again, songs like calhoun square and interactive and strays of the world are rather explosive wink
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Reply #35 posted 01/11/10 2:05am

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cborgman said:

NelsonR said:



lol

interesting use of words and expression.

to be honest, i think he f'd up w/ his websites; we agree there, but i don't think that the website issue should be linked to all the other aspects of the man.

i also happen to be one of those who has really enjoyed the last few releases, with Musicology being the exception

*off topic, but i dig 'a million days' and the title track


add to the LF experience the crystal ball experience, the youtube experience, the numerous cease and desist letters, the dancing baby shenannigan, the npgmc fiasco...

the list goes on and on.

For a guy who's been the recipient of Webby awards, Prince sure seems wholly tech UNsavvy. Don't get me wrong, I do think Our Hero is a first class dick, but I also think he just might not actually understand what an amazing tool the internet can be for him. He should be using this fantastic technology to his and his fanbase's advantage.
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Reply #36 posted 01/11/10 2:08am

NelsonR

meow85 said:

cborgman said:



add to the LF experience the crystal ball experience, the youtube experience, the numerous cease and desist letters, the dancing baby shenannigan, the npgmc fiasco...

the list goes on and on.

For a guy who's been the recipient of Webby awards, Prince sure seems wholly tech UNsavvy. Don't get me wrong, I do think Our Hero is a first class dick, but I also think he just might not actually understand what an amazing tool the internet can be for him. He should be using this fantastic technology to his and his fanbase's advantage.


Don't get me wrong, I do think Our Hero is a first class dick


coming from a true fan biggrin wink

He should be using this fantastic technology to his and his fanbase's advantage.[/


i think he's satisfied w/ where he's at now...selling out all those shows at the O2 or the Musicology tour are great examples of what he can with his own ideas
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Reply #37 posted 01/11/10 2:08am

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NelsonR said:

cborgman said:



add to the LF experience the crystal ball experience, the youtube experience, the numerous cease and desist letters, the dancing baby shenannigan, the npgmc fiasco...

the list goes on and on.


the reality is that in certain instances, or most, Prince has not handled the web well; in other cases, he has used it well for marketing purposes; is it not about the controversy? look at how news spread when he released 3121 via the newspaper in the UK; it spread like fire...what about his "giving" a cd away w/ the Musicology tickets;

he has his strengths and weaknesses, but a part of me wishs he would take the web more seriously to appease hardcore fans who spend lots of time accessing music, etc online shrug


Never mind the hardcore fans, the web is right now the best way to pick up NEW fans.

I can't even count the number of times I've tried to get someone into Prince but found I had no videos to show them, no website for them to access, nowhere for them to download his work....

There's a whole young generation of music fans tired of the crap on the radio who might otherwise seriously get into Prince's music that aren't because he's actively blocking the best means they have to do so.
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Reply #38 posted 01/11/10 2:10am

NelsonR

meow85 said:

NelsonR said:



the reality is that in certain instances, or most, Prince has not handled the web well; in other cases, he has used it well for marketing purposes; is it not about the controversy? look at how news spread when he released 3121 via the newspaper in the UK; it spread like fire...what about his "giving" a cd away w/ the Musicology tickets;

he has his strengths and weaknesses, but a part of me wishs he would take the web more seriously to appease hardcore fans who spend lots of time accessing music, etc online shrug


Never mind the hardcore fans, the web is right now the best way to pick up NEW fans.

I can't even count the number of times I've tried to get someone into Prince but found I had no videos to show them, no website for them to access, nowhere for them to download his work....

There's a whole young generation of music fans tired of the crap on the radio who might otherwise seriously get into Prince's music that aren't because he's actively blocking the best means they have to do so.


try this site:

http://new.music.yahoo.co...ce/videos/
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Reply #39 posted 01/11/10 2:14am

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NelsonR said:[quote]

meow85 said:



coming from a true fan biggrin wink

He should be using this fantastic technology to his and his fanbase's advantage.[/


i think he's satisfied w/ where he's at now...selling out all those shows at the O2 or the Musicology tour are great examples of what he can with his own ideas

That's a bad business model. An act can only rely on the original set of fans for so long if they want their music to have true longevity, and that's even more true now that Li'l Man has been in the game for more than 30 years. He needs to be angling toward young people more now. I don't mean the dumbfucks who think Lil Wayne and Beyonce are some kinds of musical geniuses, I mean those of us -and there are a lot of us -who actually care about and want to hear quality music. The internet is the best way to do that.

And yeah, I am a fan. A big one. I own nearly all of Her Highness' catalogue. But I am a fan of his music. From what I've heard from other fans, band members, exes, aquaintances, and other folks in the music industry, I am not a fan of the man. I'd like to be. I'd love to be able to say this guy whose career I follow and whose music I love is a nice guy. But unless everyone has been spreading malicious lies in some kind of bizarre conspiracy to tarnish his reputation, I can't.
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Reply #40 posted 01/11/10 2:16am

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NelsonR said:

meow85 said:



Never mind the hardcore fans, the web is right now the best way to pick up NEW fans.

I can't even count the number of times I've tried to get someone into Prince but found I had no videos to show them, no website for them to access, nowhere for them to download his work....

There's a whole young generation of music fans tired of the crap on the radio who might otherwise seriously get into Prince's music that aren't because he's actively blocking the best means they have to do so.


try this site:

http://new.music.yahoo.co...ce/videos/


Low quality, slow to load, and only a handful of vids. Yep, I'll send my music junkie-buddies there.
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Reply #41 posted 01/11/10 3:07am

TheVoid

I'm not 100% sure your definition of bully is the same as mine.

Most of those items you listed would apply to prince being a soft target for unsatisfied, mislead, or mistreated consumers. lol


I would venture to say that most of the 'bullies' who, for example, got a membership at lotusfailure.com, did so due to the fact Prince himself has generate a buzz about "having recorded every performance he's ever done live" or the hoopla surrounding how awesome the site was (remember the 3 orgers he paraded through his 3121 residence for the lotusfailure extravaganza? lol ).


Yeah, I'm not getting your definition of bully. So far, Prince fits my definition far more than his fans fit it.
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Reply #42 posted 01/11/10 4:32am

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meow85 said:

cborgman said:



add to the LF experience the crystal ball experience, the youtube experience, the numerous cease and desist letters, the dancing baby shenannigan, the npgmc fiasco...

the list goes on and on.

For a guy who's been the recipient of Webby awards, Prince sure seems wholly tech UNsavvy. Don't get me wrong, I do think Our Hero is a first class dick, but I also think he just might not actually understand what an amazing tool the internet can be for him. He should be using this fantastic technology to his and his fanbase's advantage.

eek "first class dick". I never heard our hero called that name before but from theRight1's perspective, it sounds good to me so today I'll be listening to "International Lover". lol This is an interesting thread. The bullies and Prince just need love. heart heart heart
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Reply #43 posted 01/11/10 4:53am

NelsonR

meow85 said:

NelsonR said:



i think he's satisfied w/ where he's at now...selling out all those shows at the O2 or the Musicology tour are great examples of what he can with his own ideas

That's a bad business model. An act can only rely on the original set of fans for so long if they want their music to have true longevity, and that's even more true now that Li'l Man has been in the game for more than 30 years. He needs to be angling toward young people more now. I don't mean the dumbfucks who think Lil Wayne and Beyonce are some kinds of musical geniuses, I mean those of us -and there are a lot of us -who actually care about and want to hear quality music. The internet is the best way to do that.

And yeah, I am a fan. A big one. I own nearly all of Her Highness' catalogue. But I am a fan of his music. From what I've heard from other fans, band members, exes, aquaintances, and other folks in the music industry, I am not a fan of the man. I'd like to be. I'd love to be able to say this guy whose career I follow and whose music I love is a nice guy. But unless everyone has been spreading malicious lies in some kind of bizarre conspiracy to tarnish his reputation, I can't.


if you think about how many people were exposed to Prince during the Musicology tour, as well as the O2 shows, surely you would have to agree that Prince was exposed to many new fans. and of that total sum of people between those two tours, surely the majority are not old school fans; prince has definitely attracted new listeners, and hardcore fans are usually referred to as the "few" faithful
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Reply #44 posted 01/11/10 4:58am

NelsonR

TheVoid said:

I'm not 100% sure your definition of bully is the same as mine.

Most of those items you listed would apply to prince being a soft target for unsatisfied, mislead, or mistreated consumers. lol


I would venture to say that most of the 'bullies' who, for example, got a membership at lotusfailure.com, did so due to the fact Prince himself has generate a buzz about "having recorded every performance he's ever done live" or the hoopla surrounding how awesome the site was (remember the 3 orgers he paraded through his 3121 residence for the lotusfailure extravaganza? lol ).


Yeah, I'm not getting your definition of bully. So far, Prince fits my definition far more than his fans fit it.


if you think about it, though...

should Prince's faith, approach to 'racial' identity, history, politics, his personal relationships - determine how consumers approach him. surely, the relationship between Prince and fans should revolve around his art, music, dancing and a diverse environment of people when he is seen live.

but if his music is approached from a political level, then it will also be natural that the issues mentioned in the first post will create antagonism between him and those who take different social/spiritual positions as he does

innocent
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Reply #45 posted 01/11/10 5:17am

PurpleMakaveli

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wave Prince! Nice to see you on the org.


Lol...i was thinkin the same thing
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Reply #46 posted 01/11/10 5:22am

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NelsonR said:

TheVoid said:

I'm not 100% sure your definition of bully is the same as mine.

Most of those items you listed would apply to prince being a soft target for unsatisfied, mislead, or mistreated consumers. lol


I would venture to say that most of the 'bullies' who, for example, got a membership at lotusfailure.com, did so due to the fact Prince himself has generate a buzz about "having recorded every performance he's ever done live" or the hoopla surrounding how awesome the site was (remember the 3 orgers he paraded through his 3121 residence for the lotusfailure extravaganza? lol ).


Yeah, I'm not getting your definition of bully. So far, Prince fits my definition far more than his fans fit it.


if you think about it, though...

should Prince's faith, approach to 'racial' identity, history, politics, his personal relationships - determine how consumers approach him. surely, the relationship between Prince and fans should revolve around his art, music, dancing and a diverse environment of people when he is seen live.

but if his music is approached from a political level, then it will also be natural that the issues mentioned in the first post will create antagonism between him and those who take different social/spiritual positions as he does

innocent


what?


I'm talking about releasing crappy music, overcharging for website subscriptions, and bad customer relations.
I could give fuckall if Prince wants to be Ghandi. lol
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Reply #47 posted 01/11/10 5:39am

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NelsonR said:

Forgive my musings for a moment, but let me reflect on the way we as fans, and those who are not but comment on Prince's art, treat the man himself.

Perhaps more than any other artist, here I stand to be corrected, Prince is critisised for almost everything he does by his own "fan" base. Some of these critiques include the following:

- he has the wrong faith
- his music lacks melodies
- his expression of black consciousness is out of sync with the digital garden
- he releases to0 little, or too much music
- he is not public enough about his personal relationships
- he does not take his website or customers seriously enough

The list is endless, but sometimes it is as if all of the above lend to feelings of great superiority of certain Prince fans over the man they are supposed to be a fan of.

Could it be, though, that the anonymity of the Internet has given these individuals a sense of boldness, so that what they perceive as weaknesses or negativity on the part of Prince, is so much more important than his many achievements or strengths...ex: lets rather discuss songs we dislike, or things about Prince that we do not like, than what attracted us to the man in the first place biggrin

Sometimes it appears as if individuals are trying to bully Prince...>>> rather be a Jew than a JW; rather sing like this than like that, rather play your guitar like this, than like that, rather date women who look like this, than...y'all know

What tickles me slightly...is that I see Prince as a person who feels his music deeply; I can picture him listening to a cd/song a million times before it is officially released. Even if we don't get into certain tunes as much as others, each of them are like children to him...he's doing his best and being himself...

is it worth trying to bully Prince

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l agree to somewhat point u made here
l am on the same wavelength at mr nelson too
as for myself l have been thru the same things with so called bullies....
tht why l deleted myself from one site.....
so l agree whats been said here
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Reply #48 posted 01/11/10 6:22am

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Just has Prince has never, ever taken personal responsibility for anything in his music, in real life, he continually acts the victim while perpetrating totally reprehensible behavior. It's such a scumbag move: Act terribly and then whine about how mean people are to you. I find that part of Prince just as obnoxious as the LF bullshit. If he's going to act this way, he should at least have the balls to own up to it. And like most bullies, Prince is a coward. Fans' reactions to that bullying does NOT make us the bullies or Prince a victim.
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Reply #49 posted 01/11/10 6:46am

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NelsonR said:

Forgive my musings for a moment, but let me reflect on the way we as fans, and those who are not but comment on Prince's art, treat the man himself.

Perhaps more than any other artist, here I stand to be corrected, Prince is critisised for almost everything he does by his own "fan" base. Some of these critiques include the following:

- he has the wrong faith
- his music lacks melodies
- his expression of black consciousness is out of sync with the digital garden
- he releases to0 little, or too much music
- he is not public enough about his personal relationships
- he does not take his website or customers seriously enough

The list is endless, but sometimes it is as if all of the above lend to feelings of great superiority of certain Prince fans over the man they are supposed to be a fan of.

Could it be, though, that the anonymity of the Internet has given these individuals a sense of boldness, so that what they perceive as weaknesses or negativity on the part of Prince, is so much more important than his many achievements or strengths...ex: lets rather discuss songs we dislike, or things about Prince that we do not like, than what attracted us to the man in the first place biggrin

Sometimes it appears as if individuals are trying to bully Prince...>>> rather be a Jew than a JW; rather sing like this than like that, rather play your guitar like this, than like that, rather date women who look like this, than...y'all know

What tickles me slightly...is that I see Prince as a person who feels his music deeply; I can picture him listening to a cd/song a million times before it is officially released. Even if we don't get into certain tunes as much as others, each of them are like children to him...he's doing his best and being himself...

is it worth trying to bully Prince

*thanks for reading if you got this far



Prince doesn't communicate with us, so how is anyone bullying him?
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Reply #50 posted 01/11/10 7:18am

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man, i miss the days when npgmc still existed


nod I 100% agree.
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Reply #51 posted 01/11/10 7:42am

nurseV

Prince is rich why the fuck should he care what folks say...he's laughing/singing all the way to the bank lol and I ain't mad at him lol
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Reply #52 posted 01/11/10 9:28am

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- he has the wrong faith .....who cares? For 10 years I had neighbors who were JW, they were very nice. We just agreed their friends at Kingdom Hall would not come knocking on our door.

- his music lacks melodies.....I don't like everything he's put out, but then who unconditionally appreciates everything one artist produces?

- his expression of black consciousness is out of sync with the digital garden... what?

- he releases too little, or too much music..... maybe too much all at once?

- he is not public enough about his personal relationships..... again, who cares?

- he does not take his website or customers seriously enough.... there is most probably an issue there he should address.



Prince has been in the public arena for 30 years, I'm inclined not to think he could be so naïve as to believe all his fans would bow in awe at his feet.
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Reply #53 posted 01/11/10 9:38am

Graycap23

A true artist remains TRUE 2 himself.
Prince is more than a success in that arena.
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Reply #54 posted 01/11/10 10:00am

2elijah

Graycap23 said:

A true artist remains TRUE 2 himself.
Prince is more than a success in that arena.


Agree. I wonder when folks on this site will stop analyzing him to the 1000th degree, like he's some sort of science project..
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Reply #55 posted 01/11/10 10:24am

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TheVoid said:

NelsonR said:



if you think about it, though...

should Prince's faith, approach to 'racial' identity, history, politics, his personal relationships - determine how consumers approach him. surely, the relationship between Prince and fans should revolve around his art, music, dancing and a diverse environment of people when he is seen live.

but if his music is approached from a political level, then it will also be natural that the issues mentioned in the first post will create antagonism between him and those who take different social/spiritual positions as he does

innocent


what?


I'm talking about releasing crappy music, overcharging for website subscriptions, and bad customer relations.
I could give fuckall if Prince wants to be Ghandi. lol


how can you call 'boom' crappy? the guitar is what we've been craving for years.
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Reply #56 posted 01/11/10 10:27am

NelsonR

TheVoid said:

I'm not 100% sure your definition of bully is the same as mine.

Most of those items you listed would apply to prince being a soft target for unsatisfied, mislead, or mistreated consumers. lol


I would venture to say that most of the 'bullies' who, for example, got a membership at lotusfailure.com, did so due to the fact Prince himself has generate a buzz about "having recorded every performance he's ever done live" or the hoopla surrounding how awesome the site was (remember the 3 orgers he paraded through his 3121 residence for the lotusfailure extravaganza? lol ).


Yeah, I'm not getting your definition of bully. So far, Prince fits my definition far more than his fans fit it.


mislead


U say u want a leader
But u can't seem 2 make up your mind
I think u better close it
And let me guide u 2 the purple rain
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Reply #57 posted 01/11/10 10:33am

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NelsonR I agree with what you have said here. It's slow in Prince land right now so the natives are restless. smile
Proverbs 23:9
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Reply #58 posted 01/11/10 10:39am

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This thread has now passed the acceptable level of famminess meaningful conversation can no longer be expected.

Your initial argument was muddy, but it was OK, but now you keep asking people to see your point while blindly dismissing all the counterpoints now resorting to the ultimate in famminess quoting Prince lyrics.

It was almost interesting while it lasted. Maybe I'll ask around Twitter to see if anyone thinks he's a bully.
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Reply #59 posted 01/11/10 10:59am

NelsonR

Mars23 said:

This thread has now passed the acceptable level of famminess meaningful conversation can no longer be expected.

Your initial argument was muddy, but it was OK, but now you keep asking people to see your point while blindly dismissing all the counterpoints now resorting to the ultimate in famminess quoting Prince lyrics.

It was almost interesting while it lasted. Maybe I'll ask around Twitter to see if anyone thinks he's a bully.


i have been addressing as many counter-points as possible. to y'all out there, if i have evaded your question please let me know and i will gladly take a step back.

to the person who said prince does not communicate with us, how can we bully him...well, sometimes i think that in the context of an internet forum, people take out their bad days on him using the issues mentioned above to almost defame his character.

this is not exactly fair seeing that the man is not here to defend himself, and ironically, some of us are here to celebrate his music; no one is suggesting we should praise everything prince does though
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