Tame said:

It's about him yes. Kristin Scott Thomas said that about Prince, the next line is, "Your words, not mine," showing it to be something she said.

I have to say something about comparing ourselves with others. There is only one reason why, we as individuals should never be intimidated by anyone else.

Beyond our gift of life and our relationship with God. That is, you can make mistakes when you are younger. U can learn anger and stupidity. As you get wiser you can learn to say you are sorry. You can learn 2 4give.

To have a wise spirit...is to be free of emotional clutter. Leave no stone unturned.

If you have to reach a declared state with someone else where U agree that U don't see eye 2 eye, due to misunderstanding. Keep it there open 4 a closer relationship...As long as U are reaching the best achieveable position with your family and friends...That is the honest place that U need to be.

iloveannie said:

I didn't forget the physical side but let's talk bout it now that you brought it up.
I can say that no one can really control who they find attractive...
but at the same time, you're right in that one shouldn't get themselves involved with children.
A woman in her 20s with a man in his 40s may be taboo but it can never be wrong. If it doesn't work for u then I can understand that.
The next factor is if they might want to reproduce. What if they both don't want to and they just wanna be with each other? Should age difference stop them still?

Men in general, are going 2 find women attractive.

Women in general, are going 2 find men attractive.

Let's face it...If U have sex with everyone that U find attractive in some way...You'll have a million notches on your belt or lipstick case.

Selection should be narrow, because U are bringing your past to your true love if U are fortunate to find them. If you don't think U could spend the rest of your life with someone...don't have sex with them either.