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Reply #120 posted 03/09/09 9:01am

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DevotedPuppy said:

Alexandernvrmind said:



yes I do think you are reading way too much into it

The term Baby Mama does not necesarily imply they are not married although I understand your point. Also given where Prince is now its pretty safe to assume hes talking about a woman he is in love with and wants to marry if hes not married to her already.

I'm just puzzeled how you can get a negative vibe out of that song. I think that your take on what a Baby Mama is is more a relection on you as opposed to Prince using the term. Refering to someone as a Baby Mama is not comparable to calling someone a beeotch, hooker or ho. Your comparison of them is absurd and insulting.

You dislike the chourus when he says you gotta bend in the wind but don't break? My lord have you ever been in a relationship let alone married?

You have to bend... when there are storms in ur relationships... he is singing about a woman who will be there through thick of thin and will not run off as soon as things get tough. Thats the kind of woman he has found! Your free will comments are... I'm sorry nuts. You have completely missed the boat on what this song is about

And again I think that says more about some personal hang-ups you have as opposed to actually understanding what Prince is saying in the song.

Click this link and read the lyrics and then go back and read what you posted... they aren't even close to being about the same things ==> http://www.metrolyrics.co...rince.html
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Firstly, I find your insinuation that my interpretation is solely a reflection of my personal relationships (and insinuated "hang ups") not only unnecessary, but patronizing and categorically false. My personal experiences are irrelevant to my reading/interpretation of the lyrics; and as such I analyzed Prince's appropriation of the term "future baby mama" based on its commonly accepted use and definition in American English vernacular. (See urbandictionary.com for examples.)

Secondly, I believe you misunderstood point number four. I was using the line from Days of Wild as an example of Prince speaking out against using derogatory words with which to refer to women. In my professional (n.b. not personal) opinion, this is a shift from the past. Specifically, Billy Jack Bitch is the only officially released song I can think of off the top of my head where he seemingly condones referring to a female as a bitch.

I'm presuming you're a male, so I wouldn't expect you to be able to fully empathsize with the sexual objectification women are subjected to on nearly a daily basis (whether in their personal lives or from American society/media); so your dismissiveness of an alternative point of view is not entirely surprising (unfortunately).

In conclusion, by stating that "And again I think that says more about some personal hang-ups you have as opposed to actually understanding what Prince is saying in the song. Click this link and read the lyrics and then go back and read what you posted... they aren't even close to being about the same things" you imply that there is only one correct interpretation of the lyrics -- yours. Surely you can see the fallacy of this? Unless you spoke with Prince personally regarding his exact meaning of the lyrics for Future Baby Mama (which I'm going to guess is not the case), then my interpretation is just as valid as yours, regardless of whether you believe it or not.

I could just as easily infer things about your personal relationships based on your response to mine, but I'll refrain and give you the benefit of the doubt. wink



as a male i totally get what ur saying and i agree with u 1000% about how this song is really a (pardon the pun) bitch slap 2 all women. it's like how chris rock said that women need 2 really listen 2 lyrics sometimes when someone is saying in a song "smack her with a dick" and then proclaim "HE AIN'T TALKING ABOUT ME!". Perhaps so, however ladies, it's still a diss 2 ur gender.

i do have other problems with this song besides the title of the song:

"i heard it say that all my lovers look alike...they were cool ..they had me fooled 4 minute then i saw the truth.." okay his previous wife was having his child and un4tunately the baby passed away. is that her fault? and what i take from this lyric alone, in regards 2 his past relationships, he's not acknowledging his own hand in the destruction of his marriages. it goes 2 the same old rhetoric in his songs where it's always the woman's fault and not his. yeah right! a step in being a adult is acknowleding when u fuck up and take responsibilty 4 that and prince doesn't take that step.

the other problem i have with this song, is the music itself, the linn drum sounds HELLA LAME! the spoken bridge is horrendous and just because this song won a grammy says NOTHING. remember the grammy's awarded JETHRO TULL as a best heavy metal act!!! nutty
man, he has such an amazing body of music that it's sad to see him constrict it down to the basics. he's too talented for the lineup he's doing. estelle 81
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Reply #121 posted 03/09/09 9:02am

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Alexandernvrmind said:

stanleylieber said:



i think it's reasonable to enjoy the song if you like it. i also think it's reasonable to interpret the lyrics as we see them. if you disagree with my interpretation, that's (obviously) fine. i'm not sure our personal experiences have any bearing on what prince meant when he wrote the song, but obviously we're free to make of it what we like.

(alexander: is this really so hard)

i think the "theocratic order" is hogwash. anti- freedom propaganda. i do believe every stitch of prince's lyrics for almost a decade now have intentionally tried to further that agenda, but it's cool if people can like his new music for their own reasons.



Again... you know what the problem is here. Your interpretation of the song has more to do with your issues with Prince's religion as opposed to what the song is actually about. That is now perfectly clear to me. Just as I said earlier people bring their own bagage into the song.

hilarious!
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the only thing that is clear in this thread is that you think your opinions are more important than anyone else's.

i'm starting to think you might be prince. biggrin
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Reply #122 posted 03/09/09 3:02pm

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stanleylieber said:

Alexandernvrmind said:




Again... you know what the problem is here. Your interpretation of the song has more to do with your issues with Prince's religion as opposed to what the song is actually about. That is now perfectly clear to me. Just as I said earlier people bring their own bagage into the song.

hilarious!
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the only thing that is clear in this thread is that you think your opinions are more important than anyone else's.

i'm starting to think you might be prince. biggrin


The lyrics aren't a matter of opinion.... what most disagree with is your goofy interpretation of them eek As I have said several times you can have the opinion that the lyrics are negative all you want. It doesn't make you correct.
Its good to have an informed opion. Your obviously isn't
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Reply #123 posted 03/09/09 3:20pm

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Alexandernvrmind said:

stanleylieber said:



the only thing that is clear in this thread is that you think your opinions are more important than anyone else's.

i'm starting to think you might be prince. biggrin


The lyrics aren't a matter of opinion.... what most disagree with is your goofy interpretation of them eek


not only is this wrong, your supporting argument contradicts your thesis. if the lyrics aren't a matter of opinion, then the majority/minority interpretation is irrelevant. the reason this dialogue is breaking down is that you insist you know what goes on in prince's mind -- that you know what his intent was.

so, has prince told you what he was thinking? if so, do you believe he told you the truth?

you can't win this point because, unless you're prince, you simply don't have access to the truth. even if prince told you directly he could still be lying. this probably seems like belaboring an obvious point, but you don't seem to get it.

if you'd just admit that your interpretation is simply that: your interpretation, we'd have no disagreement.
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Reply #124 posted 03/09/09 5:44pm

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stanleylieber said:

Alexandernvrmind said:



The lyrics aren't a matter of opinion.... what most disagree with is your goofy interpretation of them eek


not only is this wrong, your supporting argument contradicts your thesis. if the lyrics aren't a matter of opinion, then the majority/minority interpretation is irrelevant. the reason this dialogue is breaking down is that you insist you know what goes on in prince's mind -- that you know what his intent was.

so, has prince told you what he was thinking? if so, do you believe he told you the truth?

you can't win this point because, unless you're prince, you simply don't have access to the truth. even if prince told you directly he could still be lying. this probably seems like belaboring an obvious point, but you don't seem to get it.

if you'd just admit that your interpretation is simply that: your interpretation, we'd have no disagreement.


Did Prince have to tell me what he was thinking when he wrote Sign of the Times?? Oh I get it he had to call you up personally to break that one down to you! lol!!!

You are absolutley hilarious!!! LMAO!!!
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Reply #125 posted 03/09/09 5:55pm

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Rename the title of this thread to Future Baby Mama Drama, please?

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Reply #126 posted 03/09/09 7:33pm

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lol

Actually, I just heard this song on the radio about an hour ago. It was followed by a song by Marva.
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Reply #127 posted 03/09/09 7:40pm

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I love Future Baby Mama, love I was even willing to become Prince's but now it's too late. hmph! lol
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Reply #128 posted 03/09/09 8:33pm

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all this talk over this song..



out of all his of catalog, this is the song that deserves such debate?
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Reply #129 posted 03/09/09 8:39pm

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Reply #131 posted 03/09/09 8:41pm

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lol lol
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Reply #132 posted 03/10/09 3:17am

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Alexandernvrmind said:

purplecam said:


Now I can agree with you completely on that one. nod


Shoe is an amazing song... Shoe and FBM are the only songs I listen to from that disc




totally agree with u on this on

s.h.o.e. is a beautiful song...real amazing l love it so so much..
make me cry this song too personal for me wink
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Reply #133 posted 03/10/09 3:23am

piccolo7

mmmm l love future baby mama too.....

dont knw why everyone goes on abt this song so much ????
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lm happy for him and proud of him to win this award for this song.....

its a good song ..... wink
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Reply #134 posted 03/10/09 7:46am

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Sdldawn said:

all this talk over this song..



out of all his of catalog, this is the song that deserves such debate?


again ur opinion...that ought to tell you something. While you long for Prince to do only rock records (as if hes ever done that) Many people love a song that you consider insignificant. Also you admit that you feel that way because of the title and not the lyrics.... yet I have a sneaky suspicion that you have no problem with songs titled Irresistable Bitch, Pussy Control or Scarlet Pussy. Then again you probably don't like those either because they are R&B type records eek
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Reply #135 posted 03/10/09 11:22am

Sdldawn

get



the



fuck



over


it


pleaseeeee



lol lol lol lol lol
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Reply #136 posted 03/10/09 12:15pm

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Sdldawn said:

get



the



fuck



over


it


pleaseeeee



lol lol lol lol lol
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stop being so lazy lol
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Reply #137 posted 03/10/09 4:05pm

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piccolo7 said:

Alexandernvrmind said:



Shoe is an amazing song... Shoe and FBM are the only songs I listen to from that disc


totally agree with u on this on

s.h.o.e. is a beautiful song...real amazing l love it so so much..
make me cry this song too personal for me wink


.... kiss that song made me cry too! hug
..mzsexybaby lips
..She's Just A Baby..but she's my lady..my loveR..my only friend!..true love that will last!..PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND..WHAT SHE SEES IN AN OLDER MAN..they never stop 2 think that maybe i'm what she's looking 4..THEY NEVER TAKE THE TIME..2 look in her mind
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Reply #138 posted 03/11/09 6:16am

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mzkqueen03 said:

piccolo7 said:



totally agree with u on this on

s.h.o.e. is a beautiful song...real amazing l love it so so much..
make me cry this song too personal for me wink


.... kiss that song made me cry too! hug
..mzsexybaby lips




yeah !!!! tht song is special to me to in my heart heart

kiss hug lips wink
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Reply #139 posted 03/11/09 6:31am

piccolo7

piccolo7 said:

mzkqueen03 said:



.... kiss that song made me cry too! hug
..mzsexybaby lips




yeah !!!! tht song is special to me to in my heart heart

kiss hug lips wink




l wish tht man knw tht she heart is so in love with him wink
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Reply #140 posted 03/11/09 1:22pm

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KidaDynamite said:

I love Future Baby Mama, love I was even willing to become Prince's but now it's too late. hmph! lol

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