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PrintableFlowerz said: here it is .. article on Mayte .. http://prince.org/msg/7/260126 she talks about their marriage
Ahhh okay....  well the not being able to call him bit is odd, but we all have our quirks 
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To be Prince's wife is probably only half as glorious as people might think.
He tends to flaunt his women in public like arm candy. For his women the pressure is always on to look beautiful, young, and happy. He always wants to impress with his young beautiful women. This kind of behavior has absolutely nothing to do with real love but rather him stroking his own ego. I find the fact that you never see him with an average woman a bit shallow. He only seems to be able to fall in love with beauties that are half his age or even younger. Once his chosen one gets a little older he replaces her for a younger model. I wouldn't make the cut because I couldn't stand the pressure to look forever young and beautiful plus I would be more comfortable if I get to stay behind the scene. I would have a problem believing, that a man who constantly feels the need to flaunt me really loves me. I'd rather have a man with more substance, a man who is able to love the essence of me and not just the outer layer! love the one who is Love! | |
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GiGi319 said: To be Prince's wife is probably only half as glorious as people might think.
He tends to flaunt his women in public like arm candy. For his women the pressure is always on to look beautiful, young, and happy. He always wants to impress with his young beautiful women. This kind of behavior has absolutely nothing to do with real love but rather him stroking his own ego. I find the fact that you never see him with an average woman a bit shallow. He only seems to be able to fall in love with beauties that are half his age or even younger. Once his chosen one gets a little older he replaces her for a younger model. I wouldn't make the cut because I couldn't stand the pressure to look forever young and beautiful plus I would be more comfortable if I get to stay behind the scene. I would have a problem believing, that a man who constantly feels the need to flaunt me really loves me. I'd rather have a man with more substance, a man who is able to love the essence of me and not just the outer layer! Like father, like son. His mother was 16 years younger than his dad. Doesn't mean he didn't love her. I have a tendency to date older men who are shorter than me, just like my mom. My first boyfriend was six years older, the next thirteen. I had a friend who was twenty five years older. Age ain't nothing but a number. I would date Prince even though he is twenty three years ahead of me. I don't care. I LOVE HIM!!!!  | |
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mayebelle81 said: GiGi319 said: To be Prince's wife is probably only half as glorious as people might think.
He tends to flaunt his women in public like arm candy. For his women the pressure is always on to look beautiful, young, and happy. He always wants to impress with his young beautiful women. This kind of behavior has absolutely nothing to do with real love but rather him stroking his own ego. I find the fact that you never see him with an average woman a bit shallow. He only seems to be able to fall in love with beauties that are half his age or even younger. Once his chosen one gets a little older he replaces her for a younger model. I wouldn't make the cut because I couldn't stand the pressure to look forever young and beautiful plus I would be more comfortable if I get to stay behind the scene. I would have a problem believing, that a man who constantly feels the need to flaunt me really loves me. I'd rather have a man with more substance, a man who is able to love the essence of me and not just the outer layer! Like father, like son. His mother was 16 years younger than his dad. Doesn't mean he didn't love her. I have a tendency to date older men who are shorter than me, just like my mom. My first boyfriend was six years older, the next thirteen. I had a friend who was twenty five years older. Age ain't nothing but a number. I would date Prince even though he is twenty three years ahead of me. I don't care. I LOVE HIM!!!! If age is nothing but a number, why doesn't he date older women then? Trust me, age does matter to Prince, the younger the better! What matters even more to him is beauty. If you're young, but anything less than gorgeous you don't stand a chance to be seen with him in public. He might have had a few average looking women, but always kept them out of the spot light. If that isn't shallow I don't know what is. If a women choses to exclusively date younger men she is perceived as a craddle robber and most people will question her mental status. I think in most cases age does matter. If the age gap is too big, there is not much compatibility. Beauty and youth is not a foundation for a lasting relationship, if that's all there is. Prince's failed relationships are proof of that. love the one who is Love! | |
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chillichocaholic said: Flowerz said: here it is .. article on Mayte .. http://prince.org/msg/7/260126 she talks about their marriage
Ahhh okay.... well the not being able to call him bit is odd, but we all have our quirks
Being told what to wear would piss me off well i want u in that sexy lingerie and those sneakers   man, he has such an amazing body of music that it's sad to see him constrict it down to the basics. he's too talented for the lineup he's doing. estelle 81 | |
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GiGi319 said: If age is nothing but a number, why doesn't he date older women then? Trust me, age does matter to Prince, the younger the better! What matters even more to him is beauty. If you're young, but anything less than gorgeous you don't stand a chance to be seen with him in public. He might have had a few average looking women, but always kept them out of the spot light. If that isn't shallow I don't know what is.
If a women choses to exclusively date younger men she is perceived as a craddle robber and most people will question her mental status. I think in most cases age does matter. If the age gap is too big, there is not much compatibility. Beauty and youth is not a foundation for a lasting relationship, if that's all there is. Prince's failed relationships are proof of that. .. right on target...you said it all right there.. finding a chick that's 'into' what he's into and compatible....beauty is not a factor with compatibility .. really he should find another 'musician' to date, cause that's his speed... i never understood why he didnt marry Sheila, she's on his level .. | |
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chillichocaholic said: aubergine said: I don't know anything, it's just my opinion If u say so, but it almost seemed as if u were trying to speak for him based on what u think he thinks, thats all. And yes, u are entirely entitiled to ure opinion the samw as anyone else  I think that's only what you thought | |
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chillichocaholic said: So, I know that many of the Ladies on here dream of being Married to Prince, or at least being his girl and say that the could handle his personality, moods etc....
Lets just set aside the fact that really none of us know what he is like behind closed doors.... What Im wondering is that, were any one of u to miraculously become his wife, how do U think U would handle the fame??? Just remember, there are many females all over the world who adore this man and think that they are in love with him, that they are the ones destined to be with him.... How would u take the Humpalinas of this world pouncing all over ure man while he was on stage? The women who make it obvious they want him even with u in the room? Remember that as women some of us can be very jealous and catty creatures ( I said many, not ALL) Then there is the whole thing of cameras being in ure face, reporters following u around and writing crap about u and ure realitonship and fans talking smack about u and waht a Cow u are on fansites....and comparing u to his ex wifes/girlfriends DO u seriously think u could cope with all of that when there are enough things to deal with in a marraige already? Hi Chilli, to answer your question. I couldn’t handle all the obligations. To be (obliged) present at parties where rich superficial people pretend to be the creme de la creme would make me puke severely. Also the expectation people would have of me being the wife of a public person to say something in public would wear me out big time. I don’t know how I would handle the Humpalinas and the jealous creatures. I think I wouldn’t mind but that would depend a lot on how P. behaved around them and the feeling he gave me. If I would sincerely feel that he loved me, they could pull the nastiest shit and I wouldn’t care. The pressure of cameras flashing and reporters following would also annoy me since I’m a very private person. I have a normal life and when I go home after a day working with loud and difficult people I’m such a happy person. When I notice one of my neighbours on my driveway I can get really pissed off although we really get along very well. I just don't feel like talking many times. Imagine if there would be reporters following us day and night, trust me, Sean Penn would look like a toddler sucking his thumb. I know that we wouldn’t match at all. I’m very attracted by his discretion and his expression but I have this feeling that he’s emotionally somewhat cold, distant, compared to me, I can be such a bore sometimes. And I’m only into some good oldfashioned love making with him, with lots of love, fantastic feelings and kissing. So I wouldn’t have to worry about the above anyway  | |
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CJanssen said: chillichocaholic said: So, I know that many of the Ladies on here dream of being Married to Prince, or at least being his girl and say that the could handle his personality, moods etc....
Lets just set aside the fact that really none of us know what he is like behind closed doors.... What Im wondering is that, were any one of u to miraculously become his wife, how do U think U would handle the fame??? Just remember, there are many females all over the world who adore this man and think that they are in love with him, that they are the ones destined to be with him.... How would u take the Humpalinas of this world pouncing all over ure man while he was on stage? The women who make it obvious they want him even with u in the room? Remember that as women some of us can be very jealous and catty creatures ( I said many, not ALL) Then there is the whole thing of cameras being in ure face, reporters following u around and writing crap about u and ure realitonship and fans talking smack about u and waht a Cow u are on fansites....and comparing u to his ex wifes/girlfriends DO u seriously think u could cope with all of that when there are enough things to deal with in a marraige already? Hi Chilli, to answer your question. I couldn’t handle all the obligations. To be (obliged) present at parties where rich superficial people pretend to be the creme de la creme would make me puke severely. Also the expectation people would have of me being the wife of a public person to say something in public would wear me out big time. I don’t know how I would handle the Humpalinas and the jealous creatures. I think I wouldn’t mind but that would depend a lot on how P. behaved around them and the feeling he gave me. If I would sincerely feel that he loved me, they could pull the nastiest shit and I wouldn’t care. The pressure of cameras flashing and reporters following would also annoy me since I’m a very private person. I have a normal life and when I go home after a day working with loud and difficult people I’m such a happy person. When I notice one of my neighbours on my driveway I can get really pissed off although we really get along very well. I just don't feel like talking many times. Imagine if there would be reporters following us day and night, trust me, Sean Penn would look like a toddler sucking his thumb. I know that we wouldn’t match at all. I’m very attracted by his discretion and his expression but I have this feeling that he’s emotionally somewhat cold, distant, compared to me, I can be such a bore sometimes. And I’m only into some good oldfashioned love making with him, with lots of love, fantastic feelings and kissing. So I wouldn’t have to worry about the above anyway I can't handle the superficial side to it either. And I like what you said (what I wanted to say), that IF I SINCERELY FELT THAT HE LOVED ME, THEN I COULD PUT UP WITH THE GOOD AND THE BAD. But I'd have to FEEL it first, guys are so messed up now, it's hard to find a good and trustworthy man. I do believe that love can overcome anything, but for that to work, both need to have real love equal to or greater, not infatuation or obsession because that ain't love. I will put in my whole life, heart, tears, whatever into it if I felt it was a relationship worth investing in. If not, then all the love I have for this person is not going to cut it, I think that if anyone would settle for anything less, is cheating themselves.  it's just my opinion - as opinionated as I am. | |
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wildgoldenhoney said: CJanssen said: Hi Chilli, to answer your question. I couldn’t handle all the obligations. To be (obliged) present at parties where rich superficial people pretend to be the creme de la creme would make me puke severely. Also the expectation people would have of me being the wife of a public person to say something in public would wear me out big time. I don’t know how I would handle the Humpalinas and the jealous creatures. I think I wouldn’t mind but that would depend a lot on how P. behaved around them and the feeling he gave me. If I would sincerely feel that he loved me, they could pull the nastiest shit and I wouldn’t care. The pressure of cameras flashing and reporters following would also annoy me since I’m a very private person. I have a normal life and when I go home after a day working with loud and difficult people I’m such a happy person. When I notice one of my neighbours on my driveway I can get really pissed off although we really get along very well. I just don't feel like talking many times. Imagine if there would be reporters following us day and night, trust me, Sean Penn would look like a toddler sucking his thumb. I know that we wouldn’t match at all. I’m very attracted by his discretion and his expression but I have this feeling that he’s emotionally somewhat cold, distant, compared to me, I can be such a bore sometimes. And I’m only into some good oldfashioned love making with him, with lots of love, fantastic feelings and kissing. So I wouldn’t have to worry about the above anyway I can't handle the superficial side to it either. And I like what you said (what I wanted to say), that IF I SINCERELY FELT THAT HE LOVED ME, THEN I COULD PUT UP WITH THE GOOD AND THE BAD. But I'd have to FEEL it first, guys are so messed up now, it's hard to find a good and trustworthy man. I do believe that love can overcome anything, but for that to work, both need to have real love equal to or greater, not infatuation or obsession because that ain't love. I will put in my whole life, heart, tears, whatever into it if I felt it was a relationship worth investing in. If not, then all the love I have for this person is not going to cut it, I think that if anyone would settle for anything less, is cheating themselves. it's just my opinion - as opinionated as I am. | |
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CJanssen said: wildgoldenhoney said: I can't handle the superficial side to it either. And I like what you said (what I wanted to say), that IF I SINCERELY FELT THAT HE LOVED ME, THEN I COULD PUT UP WITH THE GOOD AND THE BAD. But I'd have to FEEL it first, guys are so messed up now, it's hard to find a good and trustworthy man. I do believe that love can overcome anything, but for that to work, both need to have real love equal to or greater, not infatuation or obsession because that ain't love. I will put in my whole life, heart, tears, whatever into it if I felt it was a relationship worth investing in. If not, then all the love I have for this person is not going to cut it, I think that if anyone would settle for anything less, is cheating themselves. it's just my opinion - as opinionated as I am.
Got myself all worked up right now, (personal reasons) that I'm lashing out and making demands now!!!! 
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aubergine said: chillichocaholic said: If u say so, but it almost seemed as if u were trying to speak for him based on what u think he thinks, thats all. And yes, u are entirely entitiled to ure opinion the samw as anyone else I think that's only what you thought Intresting PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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wildgoldenhoney said: Now it's gonna take a miracle.
I believe in miracles Where you from You sexy thing I believe in miracles Since you came along You sexy thing Miracles right before my eyes You sexy thing got me hypnotised Don't stop what ya' doing What ya' doing to me My angel from above lying next to me How did ya' know that I'd be the one Been a long time coming only just begun Doing all the things that makes my heart sing Keep doing what you're doing you sexy thing How did ya' know I needed you so badly How did ya' know I gave my heart gladly Yesterday I was one of a lonely people Now you're lying next to me Making love to me I believe in miracles Where you from You sexy thing You sexy thing I believe in miracles Since you came along You sexy thing Only yesterday I was on my own Just another day later my mind was blown You sexy thing come into my life Forever and a day it feels so right How did ya' know that I'd be the one Been a long time coming only just begun Doing all the things that makes my heart sing Keep doing what you're doing you sexy thing How did ya' know I needed you so badly How did ya' know I gave my heart gladly Yesterday I was one of a lonely people Now you're lying next to me Making love to me I believe in miracles Where you from You sexy thing You sexy thing I believe in miracles Since you came along You sexy thing Kiss me baby You sexy thing You sexy thing Touch me baby You sexy thing You sexy thing You sexy thing ~hot chocolate lol my innocence raped my trust betrayed my mind deceived my heart in smitherines and u've got the gall to breathe. | |
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chillichocaholic said: Flowerz said: here it is .. article on Mayte .. http://prince.org/msg/7/260126 she talks about their marriage
Ahhh okay.... well the not being able to call him bit is odd, but we all have our quirks
Being told what to wear would piss me off If Prince told me to wear thigh highs and a skimpy top with something fringy and a wig...I'd be fine...If Prince told me to wear a plaid bra with purple feathers on my skirt...we'd be on the way to the courthouse. "The Lion Sleeps Tonight... | |
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Tame said: chillichocaholic said: Ahhh okay.... well the not being able to call him bit is odd, but we all have our quirks
Being told what to wear would piss me off If Prince told me to wear thigh highs and a skimpy top with something fringy and a wig...I'd be fine...If Prince told me to wear a plaid bra with purple feathers on my skirt...we'd be on the way to the courthouse.  PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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Hmmm... It's interesting how you and some other posters here would go about this. I would personally expect things to happen the other way round: FIRST I would put in the hard work, make all the sacrifices needed, put up with all the bad/difficult things in this nascent relationship - as a way of showing my love for him, and THEN I would expect that maybe he will start feeling the same towards me, and that pure, true, real love may slowly develop between us.
It's funny how some people expect pure, perfect love to be already present, already existing, before investing themselves and putting in the efforts in the relationship. I tend to see true, real love as something that builds up, has to be developed, not as something that's ready-made from the start and is delivered on a silver plate. In short, if you want to feel that Prince [or any other person] sincerely loves you, give him/that person a good reason to do so - by putting in the efforts and showing him devotion/love/support first yourself. Just some thoughts... just my 'love recipe' 
wildgoldenhoney said: CJanssen said: Hi Chilli, to answer your question. I couldn’t handle all the obligations. To be (obliged) present at parties where rich superficial people pretend to be the creme de la creme would make me puke severely. Also the expectation people would have of me being the wife of a public person to say something in public would wear me out big time. I don’t know how I would handle the Humpalinas and the jealous creatures. I think I wouldn’t mind but that would depend a lot on how P. behaved around them and the feeling he gave me. If I would sincerely feel that he loved me, they could pull the nastiest shit and I wouldn’t care. The pressure of cameras flashing and reporters following would also annoy me since I’m a very private person. I have a normal life and when I go home after a day working with loud and difficult people I’m such a happy person. When I notice one of my neighbours on my driveway I can get really pissed off although we really get along very well. I just don't feel like talking many times. Imagine if there would be reporters following us day and night, trust me, Sean Penn would look like a toddler sucking his thumb. I know that we wouldn’t match at all. I’m very attracted by his discretion and his expression but I have this feeling that he’s emotionally somewhat cold, distant, compared to me, I can be such a bore sometimes. And I’m only into some good oldfashioned love making with him, with lots of love, fantastic feelings and kissing. So I wouldn’t have to worry about the above anyway I can't handle the superficial side to it either. And I like what you said (what I wanted to say), that IF I SINCERELY FELT THAT HE LOVED ME, THEN I COULD PUT UP WITH THE GOOD AND THE BAD. But I'd have to FEEL it first, guys are so messed up now, it's hard to find a good and trustworthy man. I do believe that love can overcome anything, but for that to work, both need to have real love equal to or greater, not infatuation or obsession because that ain't love. I will put in my whole life, heart, tears, whatever into it if I felt it was a relationship worth investing in. If not, then all the love I have for this person is not going to cut it, I think that if anyone would settle for anything less, is cheating themselves. it's just my opinion - as opinionated as I am. | |
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Flo6 said: Hmmm...
It's interesting how you and some other posters here would go about this. I would personally expect things to happen the other way round: FIRST I would put in the hard work, make all the sacrifices needed, put up with all the bad/difficult things in this nascent relationship - as a way of showing my love for him, and THEN I would expect that maybe he will start feeling the same towards me, and that pure, true, real love may slowly develop between us.
It's funny how some people expect pure, perfect love to be already present, already existing, before investing themselves and putting in the efforts in the relationship. I tend to see true, real love as something that builds up, has to be developed, not as something that's ready-made from the start and is delivered on a silver plate. In short, if you want to feel that Prince [or any other person] sincerely loves you, give him/that person a good reason to do so - by putting in the efforts and showing him devotion/love/support first yourself. Just some thoughts... just my 'love recipe'
wildgoldenhoney said: I can't handle the superficial side to it either. And I like what you said (what I wanted to say), that IF I SINCERELY FELT THAT HE LOVED ME, THEN I COULD PUT UP WITH THE GOOD AND THE BAD. But I'd have to FEEL it first, guys are so messed up now, it's hard to find a good and trustworthy man. I do believe that love can overcome anything, but for that to work, both need to have real love equal to or greater, not infatuation or obsession because that ain't love. I will put in my whole life, heart, tears, whatever into it if I felt it was a relationship worth investing in. If not, then all the love I have for this person is not going to cut it, I think that if anyone would settle for anything less, is cheating themselves. it's just my opinion - as opinionated as I am.  PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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Hope I didn't sound patronizing?..' cause that wasn't the point!..
chillichocaholic said: Flo6 said: Hmmm...
It's interesting how you and some other posters here would go about this. I would personally expect things to happen the other way round: FIRST I would put in the hard work, make all the sacrifices needed, put up with all the bad/difficult things in this nascent relationship - as a way of showing my love for him, and THEN I would expect that maybe he will start feeling the same towards me, and that pure, true, real love may slowly develop between us.
It's funny how some people expect pure, perfect love to be already present, already existing, before investing themselves and putting in the efforts in the relationship. I tend to see true, real love as something that builds up, has to be developed, not as something that's ready-made from the start and is delivered on a silver plate. In short, if you want to feel that Prince [or any other person] sincerely loves you, give him/that person a good reason to do so - by putting in the efforts and showing him devotion/love/support first yourself. Just some thoughts... just my 'love recipe'
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Flo6 said: Hope I didn't sound patronizing?..' cause that wasn't the point!..
chillichocaholic said: It's okay, I got where u were ging with that PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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Flo6 said: Hmmm...
It's interesting how you and some other posters here would go about this. I would personally expect things to happen the other way round: FIRST I would put in the hard work, make all the sacrifices needed, put up with all the bad/difficult things in this nascent relationship - as a way of showing my love for him, and THEN I would expect that maybe he will start feeling the same towards me, and that pure, true, real love may slowly develop between us.
It's funny how some people expect pure, perfect love to be already present, already existing, before investing themselves and putting in the efforts in the relationship. I tend to see true, real love as something that builds up, has to be developed, not as something that's ready-made from the start and is delivered on a silver plate. In short, if you want to feel that Prince [or any other person] sincerely loves you, give him/that person a good reason to do so - by putting in the efforts and showing him devotion/love/support first yourself. Just some thoughts... just my 'love recipe'
wildgoldenhoney said: I can't handle the superficial side to it either. And I like what you said (what I wanted to say), that IF I SINCERELY FELT THAT HE LOVED ME, THEN I COULD PUT UP WITH THE GOOD AND THE BAD. But I'd have to FEEL it first, guys are so messed up now, it's hard to find a good and trustworthy man. I do believe that love can overcome anything, but for that to work, both need to have real love equal to or greater, not infatuation or obsession because that ain't love. I will put in my whole life, heart, tears, whatever into it if I felt it was a relationship worth investing in. If not, then all the love I have for this person is not going to cut it, I think that if anyone would settle for anything less, is cheating themselves. it's just my opinion - as opinionated as I am.Of course Flo but this is a forum, we're speaking hypothetically since none of this is true. I have already skipped the part you're talking about. We're talking here about being married, not? So the earning the love part has been months or years ago. We have now the being married status and then you will meet the Humpalinas and jealous creatures on a regular basis and of course you get to know Prince for real. I know the recipe. If you want to be with somebody you have to put in a lot of effort and work hard, both sides or else it just doesn't work. If I would notice that Prince's attention would get distracted because of some hot chicks hanging around him I would sincerely feel that he didn't love me as much as I loved him, you understand? | |
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Tame said: chillichocaholic said: Ahhh okay.... well the not being able to call him bit is odd, but we all have our quirks
Being told what to wear would piss me off If Prince told me to wear thigh highs and a skimpy top with something fringy and a wig...I'd be fine...If Prince told me to wear a plaid bra with purple feathers on my skirt...we'd be on the way to the courthouse.  | |
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Tame said: chillichocaholic said: Ahhh okay.... well the not being able to call him bit is odd, but we all have our quirks
Being told what to wear would piss me off If Prince told me to wear thigh highs and a skimpy top with something fringy and a wig...I'd be fine...If Prince told me to wear a plaid bra with purple feathers on my skirt...we'd be on the way to the courthouse. as Tora said ... now put that suitcase down, go in there put on that wig i bought cha'.. no,no...no,no.. the reddish-brown one.. lol | |
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Thanks for bringing me back to earth, CJanssen, sometimes I do forget I'm in a forum and take things too seriously!
I see your point, and I totally agree that the work & efforts have to come from both sides, I just think each individual has to take the initiative, do the work, without waiting for the other to start. Also, I don't think the jealousy issue will pop up only once you are married to him, as if overnight. Envy/jealousy [the Humpalinas & the like] will appear from day one, from the first second you stand by his side. Imagine if he invited you - a stranger - for a very first meeting with him, say just for coffee. It's extremely likely that any girls/women in the vicinity who would witness this would feel and maybe express envy. I think you would have to be prepared to deal with this from day one. I also understand that you may start doubting his feelings for you if his eyes stray - it'd be tough to deal with - but as I mentioned earlier, I personally wouldn't feel theatened by it and I certainly wouldn't want him to spend his life wearing blinkers. CJanssen said: Flo6 said: Hmmm...
It's interesting how you and some other posters here would go about this. I would personally expect things to happen the other way round: FIRST I would put in the hard work, make all the sacrifices needed, put up with all the bad/difficult things in this nascent relationship - as a way of showing my love for him, and THEN I would expect that maybe he will start feeling the same towards me, and that pure, true, real love may slowly develop between us.
It's funny how some people expect pure, perfect love to be already present, already existing, before investing themselves and putting in the efforts in the relationship. I tend to see true, real love as something that builds up, has to be developed, not as something that's ready-made from the start and is delivered on a silver plate. In short, if you want to feel that Prince [or any other person] sincerely loves you, give him/that person a good reason to do so - by putting in the efforts and showing him devotion/love/support first yourself. Just some thoughts... just my 'love recipe'
Of course Flo but this is a forum, we're speaking hypothetically since none of this is true. I have already skipped the part you're talking about. We're talking here about being married, not? So the earning the love part has been months or years ago. We have now the being married status and then you will meet the Humpalinas and jealous creatures on a regular basis and of course you get to know Prince for real. I know the recipe. If you want to be with somebody you have to put in a lot of effort and work hard, both sides or else it just doesn't work. If I would notice that Prince's attention would get distracted because of some hot chicks hanging around him I would sincerely feel that he didn't love me as much as I loved him, you understand? | |
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Flo6 said: Thanks for bringing me back to earth, CJanssen, sometimes I do forget I'm in a forum and take things too seriously!
I see your point, and I totally agree that the work & efforts have to come from both sides, I just think each individual has to take the initiative, do the work, without waiting for the other to start. Also, I don't think the jealousy issue will pop up only once you are married to him, as if overnight. Envy/jealousy [the Humpalinas & the like] will appear from day one, from the first second you stand by his side. Imagine if he invited you - a stranger - for a very first meeting with him, say just for coffee. It's extremely likely that any girls/women in the vicinity who would witness this would feel and maybe express envy. I think you would have to be prepared to deal with this from day one. I also understand that you may start doubting his feelings for you if his eyes stray - it'd be tough to deal with - but as I mentioned earlier, I personally wouldn't feel theatened by it and I certainly wouldn't want him to spend his life wearing blinkers. Flo, I have that too sometimes. I get into a thread, see something that makes my hair rise and I start typing, then suddenly I cancel the response because I notice that I'm taking it much too far, it's only a forum for fun. I also understand what you say. You wouldn't feel threatened by envious girls because you are confident with yourself and your relationship with P. It's a good thing, in any relationship. But I do think that this confidence would crumble all by itself if you would notice that the man you love dearly isn't that interested in you anymore and maybe trying to get some Humpalina in your bed. I also wouldn't want Prince to wear blinders all his life, one should be able to look at other people and maintain relationships but as soon as flirting would become more serious you know that the love is fading away. Time to quit I would say. I'm not talking about some personal issues, that can be worked out but really noticing that he doesn't care that much about you anymore. Then I would be concerned about them Humpalinas. Being confident wouldn't help anymore I guess. Would you want to be married to him? Hypothetically speaking?  | |
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I think CJanssen that we are now touching upon the very personal/individual topic of what each one of us seeks in a loving relationship - every word you say makes sense and I believe you when you say this is what would work for you.
But people have different tolerance levels. Personally, it's not just the straying eye that I wouldn't feel threatened by, but also the flirting you describe. Loving Prince would mean for me to give him first of all my heart and mind. And my feelings of love and support for him would be strong, stable, well-established enough on some deeper level that it's not a bit of physical fun on the side that's going to shake them. It would take more than that. So I am ready to close my eyes on such ['lighter' imo] things. A lot of people in loving, long-lasting relationships do. Dali [the painter] and his wife Galia both had affairs on the side throughout their marriage, but at the end of their lives they were still together. I can cite plenty of such cases. But I realize it's not for everybody, as said, each one of us is ready for different things. As for your question - one of the toughest I've been asked on the Org:) - hypothetically, if given the chance, YES, I would want to be married to him [gasp, I said it!  ]. I would be ready to do the work and make the necessary adjustements.
Being born on June 6 also makes me fantasize that we would have more than a few things in common, but again, that wouldn't be my strongest point. It would be the fact that my love for him is so strong that I could close my eyes on just about anything. [Obviously speaking hypothetically, since I don't really know the guy:) - it's based only on what I see and hear about him & his own music]. CJanssen said: Flo6 said: Thanks for bringing me back to earth, CJanssen, sometimes I do forget I'm in a forum and take things too seriously!
I see your point, and I totally agree that the work & efforts have to come from both sides, I just think each individual has to take the initiative, do the work, without waiting for the other to start. Also, I don't think the jealousy issue will pop up only once you are married to him, as if overnight. Envy/jealousy [the Humpalinas & the like] will appear from day one, from the first second you stand by his side. Imagine if he invited you - a stranger - for a very first meeting with him, say just for coffee. It's extremely likely that any girls/women in the vicinity who would witness this would feel and maybe express envy. I think you would have to be prepared to deal with this from day one. I also understand that you may start doubting his feelings for you if his eyes stray - it'd be tough to deal with - but as I mentioned earlier, I personally wouldn't feel theatened by it and I certainly wouldn't want him to spend his life wearing blinkers. Flo, I have that too sometimes. I get into a thread, see something that makes my hair rise and I start typing, then suddenly I cancel the response because I notice that I'm taking it much too far, it's only a forum for fun. I also understand what you say. You wouldn't feel threatened by envious girls because you are confident with yourself and your relationship with P. It's a good thing, in any relationship. But I do think that this confidence would crumble all by itself if you would notice that the man you love dearly isn't that interested in you anymore and maybe trying to get some Humpalina in your bed. I also wouldn't want Prince to wear blinders all his life, one should be able to look at other people and maintain relationships but as soon as flirting would become more serious you know that the love is fading away. Time to quit I would say. I'm not talking about some personal issues, that can be worked out but really noticing that he doesn't care that much about you anymore. Then I would be concerned about them Humpalinas. Being confident wouldn't help anymore I guess. Would you want to be married to him? Hypothetically speaking? | |
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