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Reply #30 posted 04/22/08 5:05pm

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KidaSaurusRx said:

ooooohhhhh, I WANT TO MARRRRRIIIIIEEEEEDDDDD!!!!!

...WWWHHHHHOOOOO, I WAAAAANT TO BE MAAAAARRRRRIIIIIEEEEED.....





...SERIOUSLY FOLKS.

The question is....does anyone want to be married to u, u maniac lol
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Reply #31 posted 04/22/08 5:30pm

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wildgoldenhoney said:

wildgoldenhoney said:


Hi Red,
Yeah, I'm just messing around.
But yeah, I think that for someone to be married in the first place, it takes a lot of sacrifice, forgiveness and adaptability.
Actually to tell the truth, I would be sort of afraid to get into a relationship at this point because I feel as if I would fail,
and that I wouldn't have any of the qualities to keep the marriage strong and functioning.
For me to know what it takes, and to actually know that I qualify, is completely different, I would need to know that I can be
sacrificing, flexible, forgiving, etc... and sometimes I don't know if I can, maybe it's just nervousness about being in a relationship
since I haven't had such good experiences.
Being married to a musician (and one that women desire) has it's own set of problems as well.
And like you said, there may be times where he will be apart from his wife, and for me ( confused ) that is something I won't be able to handle.
Maybe it's a fear of being abandoned, rejected, and other circumstances that I've had to go through that imposed this fear on me.
If I was a lot more sure of myself and the love of my man, then I might not have this overwhelming fear of being left, whether in a physical sense,
or emotionally.
I know there is no way to foresee what will happen in a marriage, but it takes a healthy amount of love and trust for one (speaking for myself)
to get into a relationship again.
Strange, this has been one of the things on my mind lately.

Think I'll go cry myself to sleep now.
cry

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[Edited 4/22/08 4:28am]



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Reply #32 posted 04/22/08 5:32pm

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KidaSaurusRx said:

ooooohhhhh, I WANT TO MARRRRRIIIIIEEEEEDDDDD!!!!!

...WWWHHHHHOOOOO, I WAAAAANT TO BE MAAAAARRRRRIIIIIEEEEED.....





...SERIOUSLY FOLKS.



If you want to marry him without meeting... then he will think you just want his loot lol

... another thing he won't want to marry a dinosaur lol
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Reply #33 posted 04/22/08 5:34pm

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pplrain said:

lottielooloo1968 said:

prince is only good 4 one or 2 things - & it ain't marriage wink



I think Prince would agree to this too, he is not marriage material. I think this could be said of most musicians.. it really is difficult for them.
[Edited 4/22/08 10:05am]


Prince may not want to agree to it because he is on the eternal search of true love and he passionately wants it. I really think it makes him sad.
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Reply #34 posted 04/22/08 5:37pm

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See ...now people are assuming that they know Prince, and they know what he would think rolleyes
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Reply #35 posted 04/22/08 5:45pm

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chillichocaholic said:

See ...now people are assuming that they know Prince, and they know what he would think rolleyes


I don't know anything, it's just my opinion
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Reply #36 posted 04/22/08 5:48pm

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aubergine said:

chillichocaholic said:

See ...now people are assuming that they know Prince, and they know what he would think rolleyes


I don't know anything, it's just my opinion

If u say so, but it almost seemed as if u were trying to speak for him based on what u think he thinks, thats all.
And yes, u are entirely entitiled to ure opinion the samw as anyone else biggrin
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Reply #37 posted 04/22/08 5:51pm

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If you married Prince believe me he would have everything under control lol Ya'll seen how he handles the press. The chicklets are part of it, the real crazy ones... he has people for that lol . He's a big boy he can handle himself and very professionally to say the least, girls or not. If you trust in him then you'll have no problems. He knows more about his world than any of us do. He keeps drama down to a minimum. He'd take great care of any of us. It's a big change. You have to be up for it and really really love the guy otherwise you're toast!!! lol
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Reply #38 posted 04/22/08 6:14pm

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Don't want to be married to him-his track record isn't that good lol Sorry Prince heart
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Reply #39 posted 04/22/08 6:23pm

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nurseV said:

Don't want to be married to him-his track record isn't that good lol Sorry Prince heart

spit There is that as well
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Reply #40 posted 04/22/08 6:53pm

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chillichocaholic said:

nurseV said:

Don't want to be married to him-his track record isn't that good lol Sorry Prince heart

spit There is that as well



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Reply #41 posted 04/22/08 7:42pm

Madison88

Ya'll haven't gotten to know him....and they said it wouldn't be fair for us tabloids and all.....poor guy..he doesn't have a chance lol you already wrote him off....Don't you think he deserves a chance????? lol
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Reply #42 posted 04/22/08 7:47pm

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Madison88 said:

Ya'll haven't gotten to know him....and they said it wouldn't be fair for us tabloids and all.....poor guy..he doesn't have a chance lol you already wrote him off....Don't you think he deserves a chance????? lol

Baby brother has had BUCKETS of chances, bless his heart.
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Reply #43 posted 04/22/08 11:16pm

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ToraToraDreams said:

Madison88 said:

Ya'll haven't gotten to know him....and they said it wouldn't be fair for us tabloids and all.....poor guy..he doesn't have a chance lol you already wrote him off....Don't you think he deserves a chance????? lol

Baby brother has had BUCKETS of chances, bless his heart.

lol WHo wrote him off?? U all are missing the point Im trying to make here lol
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Reply #44 posted 04/23/08 12:12am

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I'm not the jealous type at all [it's rather the opposite - I'm thinking more along the lines of 'the more the merrier' wink], so I wouldn't mind the hordes of admirers and female fans. And I don't care about what people think of me, whether small or big, so I believe I could cope with the media scrutiny.
I have a pretty crazy sked myself, and I'm an incurable night owl, so in those areas I think I would be up to P standards:)

What might be a problem though - and strangely it hasn't been mentioned by anybody here so far - is that I would worry to death for him before each one of his concerts/public appearances.
Mostly I would have butterflies in my stomach for him, especially as we get closer to a concert date. Like Coachella now: I wouldn't sleep until April 25 and start breathing after it's all over on the 26th! And the hot iron mark of June 16 would already feel like burning somewhere at the back of my mind...
I don't know if he has butterflies, but that's how I expect I would feel and I'm not sure I would get used to it. I've performed onstage before and I always had them.

As for what it takes for a loving, committed, long-term relationship with him, I see a lot of the things here mentioned, by redpumps and others, such as devotion, support, sacrifices, loss of control and of part of one's personal life, etc., as part and parcel of ANY loving, committed, long-term relationship.

In loving sb, one always has to surrender part of oneself. Loving is about giving after all. The trick is to be able to obey all his rules and still be oneself. Someone who truly loves him and is mature enough to have a well-formed personality/sense of identity is not going to lose that identity in her love and relationship with him. She should be able to surrender while keeping her own self stable. Didn't he sing about a love that can 'bend in the wind but don't break'?smile..

And the final note: that love should be 100% unconditional - sticking with him through thick and thin, no matter what.
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Reply #45 posted 04/23/08 12:25am

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U know something, I hear people all the time saying they could handle the fame ,even if they were simply the partner of the famous person, in the case Prince, they could handle their partners fame and the scruitny and the barrage of press and fans.....
but, I bet u would find if u spoke to any of these people down the track who either became famous, or married a famous person, I can garuntee they would be telling u a different story, about how much pressure it is on them personally and on the realtionship
Yes, love should endure above all....of course it should nod but more often than not that is not the case. Ask any ex partner of any famous person about the outside pressures and how the public eye made them feel
Strong person or not, u can only take so much BS and putdowns when the whole world is watching u
I think its truly amazing how Prince and others like him have endured through the pressures of fame, but dont tell me there arent nights when Prince has not broken down and cried in his pillow....now u might laugh at that but think about it, he is Human after all nod
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Reply #46 posted 04/23/08 7:27am

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We are all designed for marriage, that is natural. Prince will remarry when He has the trust...If Prince is looking for someone he met 7 thousand years ago, and lost in Egypt 2 thousand years ago...I'm right here... cool
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Reply #47 posted 04/23/08 2:54pm

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Tame said:

We are all designed for marriage, that is natural. Prince will remarry when He has the trust...If Prince is looking for someone he met 7 thousand years ago, and lost in Egypt 2 thousand years ago...I'm right here... cool

giggle U're funny lol
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Reply #48 posted 04/23/08 5:01pm

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So, I know that many of the Ladies on here dream of being Married to Prince, or at least being his girl and say that the could handle his personality, moods etc....
Lets just set aside the fact that really none of us know what he is like behind closed doors....
What Im wondering is that, were any one of u to miraculously become his wife, how do U think U would handle the fame???
Just remember, there are many females all over the world who adore this man and think that they are in love with him, that they are the ones destined to be with him....
How would u take the Humpalinas of this world pouncing all over ure man while he was on stage? The women who make it obvious they want him even with u in the room? Remember that as women some of us can be very jealous and catty creatures ( I said many, not ALL)
Then there is the whole thing of cameras being in ure face, reporters following u around and writing crap about u and ure realitonship and fans talking smack about u and waht a Cow u are on fansites....and comparing u to his ex wifes/girlfriends
DO u seriously think u could cope with all of that when there are enough things to deal with in a marraige already?



i have thought about this a lot. i know for certain i wouldn't like the cameras in my face or interviews. I know i wouldn't ever come back on the org if we were married i'd be cussing everybody out lol i don't know how it would work because i am such a private person and can't stand for people at work to be in my business, much less the whole world. maybe i'll just lock him up in a room forever and we can play house. wink
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Reply #49 posted 04/23/08 6:11pm

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does it even matter? i imagine it wouldnt if u were in love. i think the more pertinent question would be if he could stand being separated from her.
my innocence raped my trust betrayed my mind deceived my heart in smitherines and u've got the gall to breathe.
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Reply #50 posted 04/23/08 6:18pm

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Prince has created something much bigger than his 5ft something that has reach around the world and back. That's the business/image part of what he is....There are two things (my impression) that are going on....business and Prince as a person. There isn't a sole on here that knows him 1/2 as much as they think they might... they can only guess...wonder.....create what they want.... Prince's mystique is to keep everyone guessing....it keeps our attention. It doesn't mean we have a clue about him as a person, the non-business person..there is one... or am I just taking you guys literally and we are playing pretend..... lol
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Reply #51 posted 04/23/08 6:33pm

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superkiss said:

does it even matter? i imagine it wouldnt if u were in love. i think the more pertinent question would be if he could stand being separated from her.

I do believe that love overcomes all sorts of obstacles,
from outside sources or even
my own fears and insecurities, (I just need time to give it a chance).
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With love, the relationship will grow,
but it must be worked on together.
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Reply #52 posted 04/23/08 6:47pm

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I'm calling Dr. Phil lol
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Reply #53 posted 04/23/08 6:52pm

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Madison88 said:

Prince has created something much bigger than his 5ft something that has reach around the world and back. That's the business/image part of what he is....There are two things (my impression) that are going on....business and Prince as a person. There isn't a sole on here that knows him 1/2 as much as they think they might... they can only guess...wonder.....create what they want.... Prince's mystique is to keep everyone guessing....it keeps our attention. It doesn't mean we have a clue about him as a person, the non-business person..there is one... or am I just taking you guys literally and we are playing pretend..... lol

It's whatever you want to comment on.
No hardset rules here.
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Reply #54 posted 04/23/08 7:43pm

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wildgoldenhoney said:

Madison88 said:

Prince has created something much bigger than his 5ft something that has reach around the world and back. That's the business/image part of what he is....There are two things (my impression) that are going on....business and Prince as a person. There isn't a sole on here that knows him 1/2 as much as they think they might... they can only guess...wonder.....create what they want.... Prince's mystique is to keep everyone guessing....it keeps our attention. It doesn't mean we have a clue about him as a person, the non-business person..there is one... or am I just taking you guys literally and we are playing pretend..... lol

It's whatever you want to comment on.
No hardset rules here.
smile

What WIld said, people have gotten slightly off track with this anyway lol Because I was not really talking in the sense of Prince and his personality, or whether someone loves him or not, but how U personally think u would deal with the fame side of things all that goes with that .....
but being a person who is notrotious for going of a a tangent about something far removed from the orgigional topic....
Go for ure life lol
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Reply #55 posted 04/23/08 8:05pm

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chillichocaholic said:

wildgoldenhoney said:


It's whatever you want to comment on.
No hardset rules here.
smile

What WIld said, people have gotten slightly off track with this anyway lol Because I was not really talking in the sense of Prince and his personality, or whether someone loves him or not, but how U personally think u would deal with the fame side of things all that goes with that .....
but being a person who is notrotious for going of a a tangent about something far removed from the orgigional topic....
Go for ure life lol

lol
The only one who seriously needs to consider this is the one that will be married to Prince.
And for any of us on here, that would be a miracle (like chili said).
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Reply #56 posted 04/23/08 8:18pm

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my innocence raped my trust betrayed my mind deceived my heart in smitherines and u've got the gall to breathe.
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Reply #57 posted 04/23/08 8:48pm

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wildgoldenhoney said:

chillichocaholic said:


What WIld said, people have gotten slightly off track with this anyway lol Because I was not really talking in the sense of Prince and his personality, or whether someone loves him or not, but how U personally think u would deal with the fame side of things all that goes with that .....
but being a person who is notrotious for going of a a tangent about something far removed from the orgigional topic....
Go for ure life lol

lol
The only one who seriously needs to consider this is the one that will be married to Prince.
And for any of us on here, that would be a miracle (like chili said).
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Then after that, my advice to her would be
to never again visit the org,
cause we (speaking for myself) will be talking crap about her.
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Reply #58 posted 04/23/08 9:18pm

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chillichocaholic said:

So, I know that many of the Ladies on here dream of being Married to Prince, or at least being his girl and say that the could handle his personality, moods etc....
Lets just set aside the fact that really none of us know what he is like behind closed doors....
What Im wondering is that, were any one of u to miraculously become his wife, how do U think U would handle the fame???
Just remember, there are many females all over the world who adore this man and think that they are in love with him, that they are the ones destined to be with him....
How would u take the Humpalinas of this world pouncing all over ure man while he was on stage? The women who make it obvious they want him even with u in the room? Remember that as women some of us can be very jealous and catty creatures ( I said many, not ALL)
Then there is the whole thing of cameras being in ure face, reporters following u around and writing crap about u and ure realitonship and fans talking smack about u and waht a Cow u are on fansites....and comparing u to his ex wifes/girlfriends
DO u seriously think u could cope with all of that when there are enough things to deal with in a marraige already?



ya know honestly Chilli, the fame, the media and other women wouldnt be the problem to me.. none of that would really phase me (it wouldnt) i would laugh @ some of it actually, it would be my relationship with him that would concern me.. .. the interview Mayte gave about their marriage was 'disturbing'.... she talked about 'restrictions' in their marriage (she couldnt call him).. there is a thread around here giving the whole story
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Reply #59 posted 04/23/08 9:33pm

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here it is .. article on Mayte .. http://prince.org/msg/7/260126 she talks about their marriage
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