So, I know that many of the Ladies on here dream of being Married to Prince, or at least being his girl and say that the could handle his personality, moods etc....
Lets just set aside the fact that really none of us know what he is like behind closed doors....
What Im wondering is that, were any one of u to miraculously become his wife, how do U think U would handle the fame???
Just remember, there are many females all over the world who adore this man and think that they are in love with him, that they are the ones destined to be with him....
How would u take the Humpalinas of this world pouncing all over ure man while he was on stage? The women who make it obvious they want him even with u in the room? Remember that as women some of us can be very jealous and catty creatures ( I said many, not ALL)
Then there is the whole thing of cameras being in ure face, reporters following u around and writing crap about u and ure realitonship and fans talking smack about u and waht a Cow u are on fansites....and comparing u to his ex wifes/girlfriends
DO u seriously think u could cope with all of that when there are enough things to deal with in a marraige already?

as fine as he is i really don't want to marry him..lol
he'd be a good friend to have fo sho, but
i dont see myself marrying him...

but if i were to... im not typically a jealous
person so that part wouldnt bother me. i would
enjoy seeing him 6 out of the 7 days of the week tho lol

Marriage? Nooo.
A slap on the ass would suffice.


I'm just having fun here.


Edit: And there are too many gossiping chickens here.
[Edited 4/21/08 22:40pm]

ToraToraDreams said:

U know u would do more than slap it

emilia1 said:

Im not a jealous person by any means either, but I think one of the hardest things would have to be people talking crap about u all the time. I dont care how tough u are, at the end of the day it gets to u. Even seasoned famous people like our man get affected by talk like that after a while.
I would imagine it must have gotten to both of his ex wifes at some point

chillichocaholic said:

ooh i didnt really think about that..
i 'm a confronting person lol, so when shits
talked i like to get shit settled...that would be
my downfall lol we cant all be perfect dammit!

emilia1 said:

It doesn't help that we'd KNOW half the people talking crap about us because they'd be on THIS website.

ToraToraDreams said:

this is true! it'd make it easier in finding the people tho!

chillichocaholic said:

Please ! I think most of the time it is Prince doing the pouncing... LOL!

emilia1 said:

U may not see him 6 days out, of 7 days, he maybe at the studio,
or show & events, not saying that U wouldn't be there with him, but just imagine, he is always on the go, and when he's not most likely, is working
musing, with his, mind guitar. cool, what u said about not, being jealous that
would be a quaitly much need'd specially, with all the goergous , women, all over this earth.



One good thing is, not really wanting to be in the face, of the camaras, even if U were a camara person b4 U got with him, it's P's fame so at this time, One may have 2 step back, However if P would do things 2gather in public place with this person is cool, yet her main goal would have 2 be, being there to walk, behide him, support, him. Yet, it would be work. with him, being on the go , & dealing with that is, alot on a woman always wanting, time with a man, thats how we, are needing that touch closeness physical, enbrace, comforting, however P being a musician 2 his heart.

One would truly have to have something, they really, njoy, doing so that while he is spending time, doing his thing, he loves most they can, feel filling .& fullfilled.
While he's away. Or maybe in the same place, but musing, to himself. I guess, (God) would have to be this(woman's)main strength- & passion, cause, he's the only one, that could perpare a woman, to be able, to live their life, in the life, of someone like, Prince. Truly one would not be living their own life, U are now living his. stay (behide the man) support him, not try & run him. I do think, he would need a strong women, that will, be truthful, with him, as well, have something to say an opinion, not just a yes, person & someone that really, be there 2 love him at all times, as well, as keep herself togather.
don't care about, the mass's & rumors, gossip ect... just there, to be his help mate , i guess the most important thing, is (Prince) though he'd have 2 really respect this, woman & love her, from the inside, 1st then outside. she gonna have to be his best friend

chillichocaholic said:

* That's funny - miraculously...
# Now that one would be kind of tough, I would have to show lots and lots of restraint, may just have to excuse myself from the situation if someone did this in front of me... hey, I'm only human.
@ I don't like my picture taken and when I see a camera, I always make ugly faces - all the time...
^ I'd preach to them
% I wouldn't visit the org anymore

redpumps said:

Well, why be married if you can't see the person everyday?
In this case, I would decline marriage...

I'd definitely grin and bear it.Putting myself in those fanz' shoez,I could understand better than anybody y my husband would b so incredibly desirable 2 them.As 4 cameraz,Prince doez a great job of getting around all that,so that wouldn't b a problem.I'm used 2 people saying mean thingz about me all the time here at the org,so that wouldn't bother me either.The ex'z r in the past,so again,what folx say about them wouldn't bug me.All thingz considered,as long as he came home 2 me at the end of the day,I could tolerate most anything!

sexxydancer said:

You are incredible.
You deserve him.

sexxydancer said:

I think thats actually really a smart way to look at it


U've really thought about this haven't u sexxydancer?


Oh and

chillichocaholic said:

Wish I could be as gracious.

hi, sweetie -N- response 2 wildgoldenhoney

there are lots people married whom, do too life styles careers, don't get to see one another everyday, though this is not what u may want , sometimes u have to come to the realization that this, could happen, not saying there's isn't phones, text, vid camara on computer, and email, just saying , be real an know that sometimes, though one wants that it may not always, happen. it's a beautiful, gift is it does, we would all like that, yet we talking about a (Man)
-N- love with his (guitar) his work, his very soul, dripping with music, his spirit drench with melodies, just grasping , reaching to sound it's self to the world, he live 2 play eat, breaths wakes , sleeps when he does it's
still music 2 do! make Music- I would say like a poety is comsume'd by the paper & pen... he comsume'd by the studio & his gift talent'd, composer compell'd 1st 2 be l(Music & Musician) Genius performer, This is his life, if because one don't see their mate everyday, u would decline, marriage then, i guess in that
case P wouldn't be the one 4 U, however if U can deal, with his life, style then cool, do U, it's worth the times U have to wait on ure man 2 come, home and play catch up. I'm sure there will be times of calm when one will, spend much time 2 gather, however, the key in my opinion, is knowing there also, could be times, only one can be spirtiually, 2gather & not physically, when work, is in high demand- love is still, love 2gather or apart

love is limitless, the soul hopeful yet, flesh temporal, so I'll be the evelasting spiritual- saying yes 2 perpetual

:luv:doveluv 2 u

redpumps said:

Hi Red,
Yeah, I'm just messing around.
But yeah, I think that for someone to be married in the first place, it takes a lot of sacrifice, forgiveness and adaptability.
Actually to tell the truth, I would be sort of afraid to get into a relationship at this point because I feel as if I would fail,
and that I wouldn't have any of the qualities to keep the marriage strong and functioning.
For me to know what it takes, and to actually know that I qualify, is completely different, I would need to know that I can be
sacrificing, flexible, forgiving, etc... and sometimes I don't know if I can, maybe it's just nervousness about being in a relationship
since I haven't had such good experiences.
Being married to a musician (and one that women desire) has it's own set of problems as well.
And like you said, there may be times where he will be apart from his wife, and for me ( ) that is something I won't be able to handle.
Maybe it's a fear of being abandoned, rejected, and other circumstances that I've had to go through that imposed this fear on me.
If I was a lot more sure of myself and the love of my man, then I might not have this overwhelming fear of being left, whether in a physical sense,
or emotionally.
I know there is no way to foresee what will happen in a marriage, but it takes a healthy amount of love and trust for one (speaking for myself)
to get into a relationship again.
Strange, this has been one of the things on my mind lately.

wildgoldenhoney said:

Think I'll go cry myself to sleep now.


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[Edited 4/22/08 4:28am]

wildgoldenhoney said:

Oh, and one more thing, as far as the lifestyle and his business life goes, the girl would be stepping into his world for sure,
and I'm sure it would be tough and demanding, it's not like a regular 9-5 job that her husband would be going to.
So definitely she needs to be very supportive of him.
My former manager's husband himself is a musician and she says that their schedules are opposite, that he works at nights
while she works during the days so they hardly get to see each other and I can imaging with Prince, might be even harder since
he seems to be a very busy person.
But if they wanted their marriage to work, I think some time needs to be put into it, otherwise, it's doomed to fail.
Ok, now I'm going to sleep.
[Edited 4/22/08 4:41am]

wildgoldenhoney said:

lovely1 yes, this is truth, it can't work if there's not some good, quality time, spend togather, & i could, only imagine, not even truly know, how much strength, this woman would have 2 possess. Strong enough of a woman, 2 keep all things in herself & the marriage running smooth, it's okay to have some concerns, u are human, yet try not to fear, if it's meant the fear will, be conquer'd & over come by realness, & love.

I seen this posted at another thread,.... couldn'd fit any better.....

Whitewidow: said



No man is worth your tears.....and the one who is would NEVER make you cry!


worth every tear... if u know what Love is..

To exercise your True Will, is the Perfect Freedom.
[Edited 4/22/08 6:45am]

I would only want to be Prince's wife if he was happy with me..

True love can survive anything. The conditions of being married to Prince should be realized from the beginning. If you are an artist of some kind, you understand the quiet relationship with GOD, that inspires you as God's instrument to filter love through a medium...Canvas...Paper..A guitar...etc.
I wouldn't want Prince over my shoulder if I was in a creative mood...His good looks would be distracting.
We would have three bedrooms that's for sure...His. Mine. and Ours. Prince's wife needs other skills besides looking pretty...She needs to be an old fashioned wife, in a new world. She has to be secure with his decisions, and patient with the time that is at the end of this life's journey...If she wants to die in his arms...she better understand precision thinking...being fifty years old, is not being seventy, is what I mean by that.
Standard marriage vows contain a lot more than most people prepare for...A mutual understanding about what those vows mean. I know for sure, that if Prince being chased by women was intimidating to her, she should not wear an armour of retaliation. If the relationship ended for some reason unexpected, she should live the rest of her life in celebacy...I would.
Her ability to dance would be a plus.

prince is only good 4 one or 2 things - & it ain't marriage

lottielooloo1968 said:

I think Prince would agree to this too, he is not marriage material. I think this could be said of most musicians.. it really is difficult for them.
[Edited 4/22/08 10:05am]

wildgoldenhoney said:

Awww,thanx!

chillichocaholic said:

chillichocaholic said:

Imho, if the word is true that Prince is a J.W., that alone says much about miracles and a working marriage. True dat we all have a past&the past is the past, yet some of those things make for a future. That being said, it's not always about just "one" mate in a marriage matters not who(m) one is married to. Love,trust,maturity,support and respect for each other covers a wide range. If Prince were to ever remarry in this system, it would truly mean both involved as one yet not lose their identity in making it work.Still having fun together&learn from the past and not live in it.Just my worth.Have a nice day and be Wild, just a lil.

chillichocaholic said:

i would add consider that he's NOT 25 anymore and he's old enough 2 b someone's father on this site

wildgoldenhoney said:

ALl I can say is that u are worthy of alot more than u think u are

ooooohhhhh, I WANT TO MARRRRRIIIIIEEEEEDDDDD!!!!!

...WWWHHHHHOOOOO, I WAAAAANT TO BE MAAAAARRRRRIIIIIEEEEED.....





...SERIOUSLY FOLKS.