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Thread started 02/18/08 12:30pm

xpertluva

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Prince, Sex, and Relationships

I was talking about relationships with a friend and I found that Prince's lyrics echo a lot of feelings I have about women. It's no secret that a reoccurring theme in Prince's music is his role as the martyr, the victim of a unfaithful or uncaring lover. Songs such as "When U were Mine", "Darling Nikki", "Last Heart", "One of your Tears" and many others exemplify this theme perfectly. However, from how he's portrayed in real life, this doesn't seem to be the whole story.

My question is what does this say about how Prince sees himself and how he views women, or is there something much deeper behind the words?
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Reply #1 posted 02/18/08 12:37pm

NastradumasKid

xpertluva said:

I was talking about relationships with a friend and I found that Prince's lyrics echo a lot of feelings I have about women. It's no secret that a reoccurring theme in Prince's music is his role as the martyr, the victim of a unfaithful or uncaring lover. Songs such as "When U were Mine", "Darling Nikki", "Last Heart", "One of your Tears" and many others exemplify this theme perfectly. However, from how he's portrayed in real life, this doesn't seem to be the whole story.

My question is what does this say about how Prince sees himself and how he views women, or is there something much deeper behind the words?



I always wondered when dude lost his virginity lurking
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Reply #2 posted 02/18/08 12:44pm

Anji

As a victim, would you feel the experiences have been out of your control? If the experiences were hurtful, what might you do to avoid such pain in the future?

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[Edited 2/18/08 12:45pm]
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Reply #3 posted 02/18/08 3:22pm

Stereo

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dont worry baby, aint nuthin new, thats just love sneakin up on you ~ bonnie rait
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Reply #4 posted 02/18/08 5:23pm

Jeffiner

Anji said:

As a victim, would you feel the experiences have been out of your control? If the experiences were hurtful, what might you do to avoid such pain in the future?

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[Edited 2/18/08 12:45pm]


Bingo!
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Reply #5 posted 02/18/08 5:24pm

Jeffiner

NastradumasKid said:

xpertluva said:

I was talking about relationships with a friend and I found that Prince's lyrics echo a lot of feelings I have about women. It's no secret that a reoccurring theme in Prince's music is his role as the martyr, the victim of a unfaithful or uncaring lover. Songs such as "When U were Mine", "Darling Nikki", "Last Heart", "One of your Tears" and many others exemplify this theme perfectly. However, from how he's portrayed in real life, this doesn't seem to be the whole story.

My question is what does this say about how Prince sees himself and how he views women, or is there something much deeper behind the words?



I always wondered when dude lost his virginity lurking


I think he was REALLY young, at least that's what he said somewhere, 11? maybe, but dating a much older girl 17? Don't quote me on it, but that's what I read somewhere - wink
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Reply #6 posted 02/18/08 5:43pm

ToraToraDreams

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Jeffiner said:

NastradumasKid said:




I always wondered when dude lost his virginity lurking


I think he was REALLY young, at least that's what he said somewhere, 11? maybe, but dating a much older girl 17? Don't quote me on it, but that's what I read somewhere - wink

11?!? That's a baby!! :-O
And what kind of 17 year old would bang a kid?

Anyway, on topic, bitching about women is a veeery common theme in music.
[Edited 2/18/08 17:47pm]
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Reply #7 posted 02/19/08 12:38am

purplepolitici
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NastradumasKid said:

xpertluva said:

I was talking about relationships with a friend and I found that Prince's lyrics echo a lot of feelings I have about women. It's no secret that a reoccurring theme in Prince's music is his role as the martyr, the victim of a unfaithful or uncaring lover. Songs such as "When U were Mine", "Darling Nikki", "Last Heart", "One of your Tears" and many others exemplify this theme perfectly. However, from how he's portrayed in real life, this doesn't seem to be the whole story.

My question is what does this say about how Prince sees himself and how he views women, or is there something much deeper behind the words?



I always wondered when dude lost his virginity lurking

(Schoolyard)

I was only 16 and her name was Carrie
She was the number one little girl I wanted 2 marry me
She was only 14, but she had the major body
Yeah, this girl was mean
Me and Ace picked Carrie up from school one day
We took her 4 a ride in Ace's car, the music started 2 play
We sat real close, both nervous
Lookin' at each other not knowin' what 2 say

Carrie was a sister
But her eyes kinda made her look Japanese
Her short cut afro, shiny and soft
Her clothes fit 2 please
Ace was a real fast driver
With every turn, Carrie fell in my lap
He asked us where we wanted 2 go
I said "Yeah right, like U need a map!"

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard
With a wink and a nod we were off 2 Ace's pod
Like peas who's hangin' 4 a knife

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard
We never want it 4 the children of our own
We all pray better seeds we have sown
But one story that is most commonly known
Is gettin' it on in the schoolyard

(Schoolyard)

Ace's girl showed up, that's when the party started jumpin'
Tower Of Power's "Squib Cakes" steady humpin'
I said "Carrie, hmm, do U wanna dance?"
She said "Uh hmm, yeah, like later man, first let me smoke this weed"
I said "Damn, my cologne ain't sayin' shit if this is what she needs"

Yeah, before I knew it, Carrie was seein' double
That's when me and her got into trouble
So much 4 the dance
I started takin' off Carrie's pants

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard

(Hey hey.. hey!)

And now boys and girls 4 the graphic part
Close your ears if U ain't got a nasty heart
The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Here we go
Now take a glove, fill it with hot baby lotion and slip it on (Well)
Pull it tight, that's what Carrie was like
One stroke and I was gone
Gone I was, it's true
The schoolyard, the schoolyard

When your schoolyard baby comes home
And it's all that's on their mind
Try 2 remember how U felt your very first time.. oh!

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Gettin' it on)
We never want it 4 the children of our own
We all pray better seeds we have sown
But one story that is most commonly known
Is gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Gettin' it on, oh)

(Well, gettin' it on.. heh, heh)

The schoolyard (Schoolyard), the schoolyard (Schoolyard)
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Boy, U're gettin', yeah)
The schoolyard, the schoolyard (Schoolyard)
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Gettin' it on, get.. get.. gettin' it on, yeah)
(Hey!)


don't know if it's true, but cool song though. thumbs up!
For all time I am with you, you are with me.
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Reply #8 posted 02/19/08 7:27am

Jeffiner

ToraToraDreams said:

Jeffiner said:



I think he was REALLY young, at least that's what he said somewhere, 11? maybe, but dating a much older girl 17? Don't quote me on it, but that's what I read somewhere - wink

11?!? That's a baby!! :-O
And what kind of 17 year old would bang a kid?

Anyway, on topic, bitching about women is a veeery common theme in music.
[Edited 2/18/08 17:47pm]


Sorry, looks like I was wrong on this - see thread 'Rolling Stone 1990' he does state in there, that he was 16 when he lost his virginity! Much better! Great article btw.

I don't know where I got the above info from, but I definitely remember reading it somewhere, probably made up by someone! confused SORRY!
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Reply #9 posted 02/19/08 7:28am

Jeffiner

purplepolitician said:

NastradumasKid said:




I always wondered when dude lost his virginity lurking

(Schoolyard)

I was only 16 and her name was Carrie
She was the number one little girl I wanted 2 marry me
She was only 14, but she had the major body
Yeah, this girl was mean
Me and Ace picked Carrie up from school one day
We took her 4 a ride in Ace's car, the music started 2 play
We sat real close, both nervous
Lookin' at each other not knowin' what 2 say

Carrie was a sister
But her eyes kinda made her look Japanese
Her short cut afro, shiny and soft
Her clothes fit 2 please
Ace was a real fast driver
With every turn, Carrie fell in my lap
He asked us where we wanted 2 go
I said "Yeah right, like U need a map!"

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard
With a wink and a nod we were off 2 Ace's pod
Like peas who's hangin' 4 a knife

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard
We never want it 4 the children of our own
We all pray better seeds we have sown
But one story that is most commonly known
Is gettin' it on in the schoolyard

(Schoolyard)

Ace's girl showed up, that's when the party started jumpin'
Tower Of Power's "Squib Cakes" steady humpin'
I said "Carrie, hmm, do U wanna dance?"
She said "Uh hmm, yeah, like later man, first let me smoke this weed"
I said "Damn, my cologne ain't sayin' shit if this is what she needs"

Yeah, before I knew it, Carrie was seein' double
That's when me and her got into trouble
So much 4 the dance
I started takin' off Carrie's pants

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard

(Hey hey.. hey!)

And now boys and girls 4 the graphic part
Close your ears if U ain't got a nasty heart
The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Here we go
Now take a glove, fill it with hot baby lotion and slip it on (Well)
Pull it tight, that's what Carrie was like
One stroke and I was gone
Gone I was, it's true
The schoolyard, the schoolyard

When your schoolyard baby comes home
And it's all that's on their mind
Try 2 remember how U felt your very first time.. oh!

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Gettin' it on)
We never want it 4 the children of our own
We all pray better seeds we have sown
But one story that is most commonly known
Is gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Gettin' it on, oh)

(Well, gettin' it on.. heh, heh)

The schoolyard (Schoolyard), the schoolyard (Schoolyard)
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Boy, U're gettin', yeah)
The schoolyard, the schoolyard (Schoolyard)
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Gettin' it on, get.. get.. gettin' it on, yeah)
(Hey!)


don't know if it's true, but cool song though. thumbs up!


You're right purplepolitician! wink
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Reply #10 posted 02/19/08 12:16pm

mayebelle81

NastradumasKid said:

xpertluva said:

I was talking about relationships with a friend and I found that Prince's lyrics echo a lot of feelings I have about women. It's no secret that a reoccurring theme in Prince's music is his role as the martyr, the victim of a unfaithful or uncaring lover. Songs such as "When U were Mine", "Darling Nikki", "Last Heart", "One of your Tears" and many others exemplify this theme perfectly. However, from how he's portrayed in real life, this doesn't seem to be the whole story.

My question is what does this say about how Prince sees himself and how he views women, or is there something much deeper behind the words?



I always wondered when dude lost his virginity lurking


when he was 13 a reference was made to it in the song my stick too it's on one of the times albums
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Reply #11 posted 02/19/08 12:23pm

xpertluva

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mayebelle81 said:

NastradumasKid said:




I always wondered when dude lost his virginity lurking


when he was 13 a reference was made to it in the song my stick too it's on one of the times albums


Wasn't "The Stick" written by Lisa?
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Reply #12 posted 02/19/08 12:25pm

1sexymf

ToraToraDreams said:

Jeffiner said:



I think he was REALLY young, at least that's what he said somewhere, 11? maybe, but dating a much older girl 17? Don't quote me on it, but that's what I read somewhere - wink

11?!? That's a baby!! :-O
And what kind of 17 year old would bang a kid?

Anyway, on topic, bitching about women is a veeery common theme in music.
[Edited 2/18/08 17:47pm]


Both Mani and Mayte were young while he was banging them.
Mayte lost her virginity to him and if I had to guess so did Mani.
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Reply #13 posted 02/19/08 2:33pm

purplepolitici
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Jeffiner said:

purplepolitician said:


(Schoolyard)

I was only 16 and her name was Carrie
She was the number one little girl I wanted 2 marry me
She was only 14, but she had the major body
Yeah, this girl was mean
Me and Ace picked Carrie up from school one day
We took her 4 a ride in Ace's car, the music started 2 play
We sat real close, both nervous
Lookin' at each other not knowin' what 2 say

Carrie was a sister
But her eyes kinda made her look Japanese
Her short cut afro, shiny and soft
Her clothes fit 2 please
Ace was a real fast driver
With every turn, Carrie fell in my lap
He asked us where we wanted 2 go
I said "Yeah right, like U need a map!"

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard
With a wink and a nod we were off 2 Ace's pod
Like peas who's hangin' 4 a knife

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard
We never want it 4 the children of our own
We all pray better seeds we have sown
But one story that is most commonly known
Is gettin' it on in the schoolyard

(Schoolyard)

Ace's girl showed up, that's when the party started jumpin'
Tower Of Power's "Squib Cakes" steady humpin'
I said "Carrie, hmm, do U wanna dance?"
She said "Uh hmm, yeah, like later man, first let me smoke this weed"
I said "Damn, my cologne ain't sayin' shit if this is what she needs"

Yeah, before I knew it, Carrie was seein' double
That's when me and her got into trouble
So much 4 the dance
I started takin' off Carrie's pants

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard

(Hey hey.. hey!)

And now boys and girls 4 the graphic part
Close your ears if U ain't got a nasty heart
The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Here we go
Now take a glove, fill it with hot baby lotion and slip it on (Well)
Pull it tight, that's what Carrie was like
One stroke and I was gone
Gone I was, it's true
The schoolyard, the schoolyard

When your schoolyard baby comes home
And it's all that's on their mind
Try 2 remember how U felt your very first time.. oh!

The schoolyard, the schoolyard
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Gettin' it on)
We never want it 4 the children of our own
We all pray better seeds we have sown
But one story that is most commonly known
Is gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Gettin' it on, oh)

(Well, gettin' it on.. heh, heh)

The schoolyard (Schoolyard), the schoolyard (Schoolyard)
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Boy, U're gettin', yeah)
The schoolyard, the schoolyard (Schoolyard)
Gettin' it on in the schoolyard (Gettin' it on, get.. get.. gettin' it on, yeah)
(Hey!)


don't know if it's true, but cool song though. thumbs up!


You're right purplepolitician! wink

aren't i always, though? lol wink
For all time I am with you, you are with me.
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Reply #14 posted 02/19/08 5:18pm

ToraToraDreams

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Jeffiner said:

ToraToraDreams said:

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11?!? That's a baby!! :-O
And what kind of 17 year old would bang a kid?

Anyway, on topic, bitching about women is a veeery common theme in music.
[Edited 2/18/08 17:47pm]


Sorry, looks like I was wrong on this - see thread 'Rolling Stone 1990' he does state in there, that he was 16 when he lost his virginity! Much better! Great article btw.

I don't know where I got the above info from, but I definitely remember reading it somewhere, probably made up by someone! confused SORRY!

Oh...
That just really grossed/freaked me out. disbelief
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Reply #15 posted 02/19/08 5:29pm

1999dontyouwan
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What album is Schoolyard on?
I like girly guys....
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Reply #16 posted 02/19/08 5:32pm

ToraToraDreams

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1999dontyouwannago said:

What album is Schoolyard on?

Bootleg. Its unreleased
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Reply #17 posted 02/22/08 11:47am

mayebelle81

xpertluva said:

mayebelle81 said:



when he was 13 a reference was made to it in the song my stick too it's on one of the times albums


Wasn't "The Stick" written by Lisa?


i thought he wrote but i can check though i thought i read in vibe or guitar magazine that i bought a long time ago that he lost it at 13 too
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Reply #18 posted 02/22/08 2:22pm

Jeffiner

mayebelle81 said:

xpertluva said:



Wasn't "The Stick" written by Lisa?


i thought he wrote but i can check though i thought i read in vibe or guitar magazine that i bought a long time ago that he lost it at 13 too


Hmmm... looks like he's re-written history a few times on this one wink
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Reply #19 posted 02/23/08 1:22pm

CJanssen

ToraToraDreams said:

1999dontyouwannago said:

What album is Schoolyard on?

Bootleg. Its unreleased



The Jewel Box or The Work 4.

I don't like that song.
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Reply #20 posted 02/23/08 2:40pm

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something much deeper behind the words.
quite frankly.
And if you were with me tonight,
I'd sing to you just one more time.
A song for a heart so big,
god wouldn't let it live.
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