Vashti said: how am I trivializing anything?!?! and I'm not generalizing your responses..im simply making a point... We should never be silent and allow prosecution, harm or restraint of any minority...but, in America at least people are allowed the God given freedom to feel what they want and say what they want...If someone is a racist and wants to speak up...they can.. Words by themselves do not oppress me. I will not be silenced when I am harmed...But these idiots are not harming me by posting stupid threads...In fact, they make me stronger...They allow me to understand how intelligent *I* am...And how much better a person *I* am... For me, responding shows that I am weak. These people dont want to debate anything. They just want to show their stupidity...So in this case, just like in the case of the black kids who were forced to walk through mobs of angry stupid white people, silence is the best policy... | |
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add a big IMHO to that last post. | |
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SkletonKee said: To all those who screamed "Racism should not be ignored"..
Well, what were all the kids who were bused to schools doing when they walked into class while white people screamed and yelled at them? Exercising their God-given human/civil rights. Sometimes a silent protest is much more effective...Expecially on an open forum like this...
It depends on the individual and the situation. The successful methods of one isn't exactly the successful method for all. There are different ways to get things done for different people. Depending on the method, one can be just as valid as another. This post not for the wimp contingent. All whiny wusses avert your eyes. | |
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I've refrained from commenting on this topic because I'm in disbeleif that Prince fans are this fucking stupid.
If the site does go away where will all the intelligent people go? (org note me plz) | |
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XtrueX said: Aaron, you can't possibly tell me that you like all the bitching & negativity that runs rampant around here! But then again, some people do & I guess that's what they come here for. Who knows! As I'm responsible for about 75% of it, I don't think I'm the person you're looking for with this one... | |
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Like i posted last week sometime lets call these people out | |
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Sistah ...
What the fuck happened up in here while I was busy makin love ? Daynm ! Look simple as this we use the report to mediator thingie with out adding a single line of response to the shit so it one gets off the home page faster I hope and 2 gets deleted to hell ... And calling the folks out no need for callin out names and givin these people the attention they wnt but perhaps make the wating period for postting longer and Please Protect our chat room too ! Lawd I miss our old orgie now ! | |
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2the9s said: I agree. Ever since Oceana left this site has gone to shit.
ahahahahahahaha,..!!! true so true at least the negativity had a place 2 go... | |
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I just checked out the thread entitled "She Loves Me 4 Me Debuts..." It was posted Friday, August 9th. There have been 2 responses to this reasonably interested Prince-related topic (I'm going to add a comment now, so there will be THREE!!).
The lack of responses to legitimate Prince-related threads should tell us all something about this site. Yes, we all love his music, but we gravitate more to the topics that represent the events in our lives that are influenced by our shared musical interest. For some, his music means religious expression (yawn). For others, the music inspires discussion of racism (there is absolutely no justification for the hateful post from earlier today). Somehow, others find that the music inspires analysis of one's political views. Strangely, we rarely find popular threads devoted simply to the music or the artist. I truly hope that a few bad, worm-ridden apples don't ruin the site for the rest of us. Yes, I was appalled to see the racist post from earlier today, but it was equally appalling to see other angered orgers accusing Ben of being racist as well, simply because the thread got started! Finally, let me say that the "old org" was no bastion of good manners. If I had the time, I'd chronicle some of the horrible chat behavior from that site as well. But there was one important difference: New topics had to be approved. It didn't necessarily curtail rude behavior in the responses, but at least the topics had been screened. So before Ben decides to do away with the discussion forums altogether, I hope he will consider a process whereby new topics are screened prior to inviting comments. I could live with that. Could anyone else? ___ "When they tell me 2 walk a straight line, I put on crooked shoes" | |
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TheMax-
Thanks for providing a peaceful and sensible response. flirtE (new+member) "have you had your + sign today?" | |
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Hey The Name jocker has a few points there !
No we never realy did behave "properly" round here and discussions in chat did get raw there have always beenthe flame wars and "Characters" folks ceated for whatever mindgames they like to play have always existed among the members of our community . But things have gotten way wy out of hand and WE need to behave responsably and help the guys clean up this mess that has taken over our beautiful site in part by looking at and resopnding to more of the Prince /music topics and so rather tan contributting to the populartiy of those eh things that make our blood boil But I still over all do think we would do good to go back to something closer to the old org than what we have today ! Just my opinion ... | |
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WOW! Looks like I missed all the excitement today.
What's the scoop on this "offensive thread"? Who started it? | |
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look at all the locked threads on the next page,you will see what you missed. | |
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Zandi said: What the fuck happened up in here while I was busy makin love ? Daynm ! That's what I'm talkin' 'bout?! Except I was working instead of gettin' some... | |
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Supernova said: DrLoveSexy, where ya been hiding at?
I've been an orger since '98 but I don't post too much basically because English is not my first language and I can't express what I wanna say as exactly as I desire. Maybe is I keep on posting someone create a Devote-a-thread:DoctorLoveSexy | |
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we are all a part of the same damn race THE HUMAN RACE. nothing is different about us but the way we think. modern man is presently having a rendezvous with chaos and hate. not merly because of human badness, but also because of human stupidity. the only thing that can put out the flame of hate and racisim is is buckets of love. its much easier 2 love than hate, try it. stickman | |
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joelmarable said: we are all a part of the same damn race THE HUMAN RACE. nothing is different about us but the way we think. modern man is presently having a rendezvous with chaos and hate. not merly because of human badness, but also because of human stupidity. the only thing that can put out the flame of hate and racisim is is buckets of love. its much easier 2 love than hate, try it.
joelmarable, Very true. The world and the worlds that exist within our world are in a continuous vicious circle of HATE. Let's get out the BUCKETS and POUR out that LOVE! | |
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DoctorLoveSexy said: Supernova said: DrLoveSexy, where ya been hiding at?
I've been an orger since '98 but I don't post too much basically because English is not my first language and I can't express what I wanna say as exactly as I desire. You've always done just fine as far as I've known. Hey, Shaq is supposed to have surgery soon. I don't know if by him waiting this long is good or bad. Maybe is I keep on posting someone create a Devote-a-thread:DoctorLoveSexy
I don't doubt it. It's probably bound to happen. This post not for the wimp contingent. All whiny wusses avert your eyes. | |
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