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Printablexplnyrslf said: sacredwarrior said: a married woman who cheats is not a woman but a girl a married man who cheats is not a man but a boy when ur life-long partner, to whom you have committed yourself whole-heartedly, wants to be childish..... you dont let it turn you into a child too. " boo hoo u cheated on me ur an asshole bitch get out! " please if ur lifelong partner wants to leave you for someone else, you hold ur head high and let them, but you dont leave them, you let them leave you. there is more to life than who's fucking who, and what will you do if he's fucking her or she's fucking him people who indulge in those trivial childish games should be treated as children and depending on what kind of parent you are, some say, Love is the best medicine that Love comes in many forms, primarily self-respect, and i dont think self-respect has so much to do with how you allow someone to treat you, but more to do with how you respond to life's challenges, in this case the challenge of MARRIAGE which is not to be entered into lightly on a whim cuz i feel so good when i'm with him and she just loves me for me. i've seen this so-called 'game' played over and over, in the hearts of many many people. it always ends in heartbeak because to these many, love and marriage is about what u can get from someone or how they make you feel or how they and they alone can turn ur frown into a smile..... 2 incomplete people do not make one whole. we arent put here to torture each other to emotional death with our insecurities and tiny little apathetic needs.... and whilst relationships in general are good grounds for growth, marriage is a serious commitment, an Ethic, a standard of Spiritual Regal Integrity, that is 'supposed' to be respected, no matter who does what. all imo  I agree with you on some points but beg to differ on others; Infidelity alone is not cause to dissolve a marriage. "I'm sorry, I won't do it again" goes a long way. Then the guilty party needs to live up to it. Trust gets lost with infidelity and it takes work to get it back and willingness of both parties to do so. No one with self respect would tolerate a continuously philandering spouse. There's a lack of ethics which include lying, deceit, self indulgance. "What if we all behave this way?" is my rule of thumb.(Kant,Immanuel) So much for family life. The behavior is flat out wrong. How would you feel if you contracted a disease such as herpes, HIV, hepatitis, as a result of the irresonsible behavior of your partner? Martyrdom should only go so far. [Edited 8/2/06 22:27pm] [Edited 8/2/06 22:30pm] [i]to me its about honoring the contract one makes BEFORE GOD if the partner wants to sleep around thats on them their pitiful behaviour would NEVER make me BETRAY my agreement WITH GOD and never was it said that one should continue to have sex with a partner who sleeps around - i wouldnt "oh but what if u didnt know?" if i wasnt capable of instantly smelling secret infidelity, then i wouldnt know my husband very well would i, and more fool me for hypothetically marrying someone i dont know very well in the first place.
but it still wouldnt make me disrespect the marriage contract by being the one to request an anullment. the partner who breaks the contract should be the one to file for divorce - imo. " the embassy shut to keep the fools out " - as above, so below. | |
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sacredwarrior said:[quote] MickG said: but they dont create life, they seed it, then the woman does the work. the egg is in the woman. the tadpole is merely a necessity intresting discussion. x In my believes does The Creator the Work. But anyone can believve what they want to, of course I respect. | |
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sacredwarrior said: xplnyrslf said: I agree with you on some points but beg to differ on others; Infidelity alone is not cause to dissolve a marriage. "I'm sorry, I won't do it again" goes a long way. Then the guilty party needs to live up to it. Trust gets lost with infidelity and it takes work to get it back and willingness of both parties to do so. No one with self respect would tolerate a continuously philandering spouse. There's a lack of ethics which include lying, deceit, self indulgance. "What if we all behave this way?" is my rule of thumb.(Kant,Immanuel) So much for family life. The behavior is flat out wrong. How would you feel if you contracted a disease such as herpes, HIV, hepatitis, as a result of the irresonsible behavior of your partner? Martyrdom should only go so far. [Edited 8/2/06 22:27pm] [Edited 8/2/06 22:30pm] [i]to me its about honoring the contract one makes BEFORE GOD if the partner wants to sleep around thats on them their pitiful behaviour would NEVER make me BETRAY my agreement WITH GOD and never was it said that one should continue to have sex with a partner who sleeps around - i wouldnt "oh but what if u didnt know?" if i wasnt capable of instantly smelling secret infidelity, then i wouldnt know my husband very well would i, and more fool me for hypothetically marrying someone i dont know very well in the first place.
but it still wouldnt make me disrespect the marriage contract by being the one to request an anullment. the partner who breaks the contract should be the one to file for divorce - imo. :love:okay...so I am no offical expert on marriage, cause this is personally my 3rd., but I would never, ever do anything especially cheat on my husband, regardless of what he does to me..I agree that the marriage vows are not to be taken lightly..my first 2 husbands didn't feel the same, and that's okay, it's led me to a MUCH happier union where I am. We ( my hubby & I ) are best friends and have the utmost respect for one another. So much as to he won't even go do things with his brothers..etc.., if for whatever reason I can't go ( keep in mind I DO not forbid him doing anything...at all) , we just keep in mind that we don't do anything that we wouldn't want the other to do. And with Prince., I know his wives have been slightly younger than he, are they money hungry?? I can't answer that..I have no idea, but marriage is about LOVE NOT MONEY...yes money can help in numerous situations, however the real test is when the $$ isn't there., if 2 ppl really love each other they will work the rest out., unless infidelity is the issue..I myself wouldn't stand for that...not even if they had " a moment of weakness" or whatever else EXCUSE they could come up with.! God Bless Everyone...  Because of God..we 2 r 1~~Darren & Suzyn forever
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sacredwarrior said: Emotions said: It doesn't matter how old the woman is, a prick will always be a prick
LMAO!!!!! very true... but, u dont leave a guy like prince. u just dont. when u really love someone, ur supposed to know they're a prick b4 u marry them it aint like he hits women and u cant be possessive with a man like that either he's special, no matter how much of a prick he can be when ur a strong mature woman u allow ur husband some faults and address them intelligently if u think those faults r causing serious damage even infidelities if that be the case, u allow thats what Queens do they love their husbands 4 better, or 4 worse.   .....exactamundo ~ that is what Queens do 
now Heaven up above ~ it gave this heart an unending LOVE.... my Spirit does regret....while  can 4give can not 4get...
....while its true love unconditionally...its been a Huge undertaking N my earthwalk reality!!!
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theoriginalQueenB said: sacredwarrior said: LMAO!!!!! very true... but, u dont leave a guy like prince. u just dont. when u really love someone, ur supposed to know they're a prick b4 u marry them it aint like he hits women and u cant be possessive with a man like that either he's special, no matter how much of a prick he can be when ur a strong mature woman u allow ur husband some faults and address them intelligently if u think those faults r causing serious damage even infidelities if that be the case, u allow thats what Queens do they love their husbands 4 better, or 4 worse. .....exactamundo ~ that is what Queens do
now Heaven up above ~ it gave this heart an unending LOVE.... my Spirit does regret....while can 4give can not 4get...
....while its true love unconditionally...its been a Huge undertaking N my earthwalk reality!!!
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