meow85 said:[quote] CalhounSq said: I really do wanna know -why don't black people with non-black ancestry acknowledge it? "Black" in the US isn't an ethnic cateory.. is SOCIAL racial category... meaning Anglo-caucasians called all descendants from African "black" regardless of how many times their ancestors had been mixed with other things or what type of black person they are... so african american people today still deny the diversity of their ethnicity because history dictates that thats what one should do... and no one bothers to question it. I think all that will change as America continues to become more ethnically diverse, and more young mixed people come to accept both or all sides of their heritage. Change it one more time.. | |
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CalhounSq said: This thread is a rehash of a rehash of a rehash - and all the rehashes are comprised of such utter bullshit
I love that the author thinks she's original w/ this shit... I love the "Prince ain't just Black!!!" comments, or should I call them "cries" I love the notion that P purposely stays out of the sun to keep from getting dark Keep it going Org - all the dumb shit you can muster, lets keep it going. We've only had many years worth of this exact discussion. Let's enlighten each other... with our bullshit Well said. | |
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meow85 said: CalhounSq said: I love the "Prince ain't just Black!!!" comments, or should I call You coulda answered my question.... I really do wanna know -why don't black people with non-black ancestry acknowledge it? Umm, many Black people are DYING to acknowledge what else is in them I don't think that's the issue at all. The problem is when you elevate everything else you are BUT the Black part. There's a lot of people stuck on that & until shit balances out (which it likely never will, sadly) I'm really not trippin'. African Americans are mixed w/ all kinds of stuff, it all goes way back & runs through all of us - so what is there really to acknowledge? Should there be no more Black people in the US b/c all of us are this & this & that? At the end of the day I'm BLACK - that's how I see myself, how the world sees me, that's my reality. And what's wrong w/ that? And why can't some people embrace Prince as a Black man? Why is that an actual issue with some folks? I didn't even know his ethnicity was being debated until I came on this board It wouldn't even come up if people didn't feel so fiercely that "he is NOT Black"!!! Why does he have to be something else just b/c folks want him to be? If he was just a dude working @ the grocery store, what would he be to you all? (and don't give me that "his eyes!! his complexion!!" bull b/c you just ain't seen enough Black folks if that's your argument ).. Would folks be fighting over his ethnicity then? BEGGING & pleading for others to recognize what else he is or what else they think he is? Would they care if he was just some dude w/ an afro & corns on his feet from those damn heels? What about his siblings? (let's conveniently forget that both of his parents are Black people ) - do any of them look "just Black"? Are they not born of the same mother & father? What would make Prince different from them? His fondness for perms? What about people who LOOK "just Black" but are mixed - does anybody make banners about their ethnic roots or is it just b/c Prince looks a certain way? I'm just trying to understand the absolute NEED to highlight the other. I know why I'm certain that he's Black - why are others so certain that he's not? Take Lenny Kravitz for example - it's common knowledge that his parents are of two different races. But if you just saw Lenny walking down the street digging in his ass, what race would you think he was? In fact, who looks MORE Black - Lenny or Prince?? Yet, who's really mixed? They are who they are, right? It's all so fucking goofy, but I don't hear anyone crying over Lenny considering himself a Black man in the rock music world... maybe that's lurking on a Lenny board somewhere The politics of being Black in this country are just too difficult, too sensitive, too washed in blood & death to be dismissed just b/c it makes some folks more comfortable. And when people can't fathom that someone who looks like Prince is "just Black"... acts like Prince & is "just Black"... I find it irritating. In how many different ways should I stand to hear that "just Black" isn't good enough? Is undesirable? Is "please GOD, don't let them say that about Prince!! I love him too much!!!" Nah, not trying to hear that at all. I dig anybody who can say I'm this & I'm that & NOT put one down while elevating the other or feel any shame or try to run from who they are. Let's get there first, b/c we're far from that... There's just too much junk in the water. I know who he is... he knows it too... y'all can take it or leave it... . [Edited 12/29/05 4:02am] | |
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You know what? This all seems very simple to me, and it's nothing to do with race! I don't do blonds. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with blond haired men with blue eyes etc, and i'm not saying that I could never ever fall for one, but what I am saying is that as a general rule the type of man that catches my eye so too speak is those that are dark haired with dark eyes and usually olive skin. I couldn't give a damn what race or religion they are, I just notice that sort or man before any other, and when I look at my past dates they have all pretty much fallen into this mould without me realising it. I'm guessing that the same goes for Prince. I'm sure he doesn't sit at home thinking "hmm which Latino shall I go for next?" he probably just finds those characteristics in a woman attractive so is automatically drawn to them. I can't count the number of men that have told me they prefer blondes over brunettes! | |
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Hey,ya'll dont go forgetting that he was infatuated with EGYPT for awhile. & | |
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Kitten said: You know what? This all seems very simple to me, and it's nothing to do with race! I don't do blonds. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with blond haired men with blue eyes etc, and i'm not saying that I could never ever fall for one, but what I am saying is that as a general rule the type of man that catches my eye so too speak is those that are dark haired with dark eyes and usually olive skin. I couldn't give a damn what race or religion they are, I just notice that sort or man before any other, and when I look at my past dates they have all pretty much fallen into this mould without me realising it. I'm guessing that the same goes for Prince. I'm sure he doesn't sit at home thinking "hmm which Latino shall I go for next?" he probably just finds those characteristics in a woman attractive so is automatically drawn to them. I can't count the number of men that have told me they prefer blondes over brunettes!
Yeah I'm going to agree with this. Alot of his girlfriends kinda had a similar "exotic" look but I don't think he puts alot of thought into that. It's not like that is the only thing he likes. | |
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CherrieMoonKisses said: Hey,ya'll dont go forgetting that he was infatuated with EGYPT for awhile.
Really? funny! | |
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TheCatWoman said: CherrieMoonKisses said: Hey,ya'll dont go forgetting that he was infatuated with EGYPT for awhile.
Really? funny! Remember how he kept marketing that Mayte was an Egyptian princess? CRAPPOLA. [Edited 12/29/05 9:37am] & | |
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meow85 said: CalhounSq said: I love the "Prince ain't just Black!!!" comments, or should I call You coulda answered my question.... I really do wanna know -why don't black people with non-black ancestry acknowledge it? and yet what is wrong with just saying you're black. I swear sometimes ppl act like saying you're black is an insult or some silliness. Most black folks in america have some non black ancestry but we self identify with the culture. You will always hear black folks say "Oh my great grand-mother was native american" Or "my great great great grandmother was raped by her slave owner". We do acknowledge it all the time. So I guess we all have to walk around saying..."my great great great grandfather was something...white or native" when MANY of us don't know our complete ancestry. Hell I produced a yella ass child so I know something is mixed in my PAST so do I know have to start calling myself "multicultural". Nope, I'm not. Its just silly that I have to now stop being "black" because in 2005 ppl are now embracing multiculturalism. Big up to all of those of immediate mixed hertiage but I think its really silly to reach back to 1802 to identify with ONE or two ppl in my ancestry. (and I have no idea what really happened in 1802....but whatever....lol) And I do think its interesting how ppl who say their bi-racial will then say they are black when something jumps off. Lenny will talk about how his bi-racial one minute and then his a "black man" when they think he's up to shit. Naima from ANTM was sooooo multicultural but she was JUST BLACK when Kenya's dumb ass was saying she didn't have any right to open Mandela's cell. I couldn't care less what ppl call themselves but don't deny me the same right to self indentify as well. Its interesting how history changes. Once upon a time one drop you're black...and nowadays, one drop, you're anything but..... catwoman is just baiting with some of the silly remarks (tanning and hair straightening...lawd)..... and calhoun girl.. | |
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CherrieMoonKisses said: TheCatWoman said: Really? funny! Remember how he kept marketing that Mayte was an Egyptian princess? CRAPPOLA. I was not a FAN back then, I use to be a strong person ya know .. anyway, so Mayte was an Egyptian princess? interesting | |
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lezama said:[quote] meow85 said: CalhounSq said: I really do wanna know -why don't black people with non-black ancestry acknowledge it? "Black" in the US isn't an ethnic cateory.. is SOCIAL racial category... meaning Anglo-caucasians called all descendants from African "black" regardless of how many times their ancestors had been mixed with other things or what type of black person they are... so african american people today still deny the diversity of their ethnicity because history dictates that thats what one should do... and no one bothers to question it. I think all that will change as America continues to become more ethnically diverse, and more young mixed people come to accept both or all sides of their heritage. Isn't it up too ANYBODY to say who, or what they are... You don't have to justify having ginger hair or freckles so why the colour of your skin or your ethnic background. No-one is responsible for their birth or WHO their parents are so why should it be anyone else's business unless the person themselves wishes to discuss it. Some people might not even know their ethnic background, or might only know a bit of it. Some people see it as important and others couldn't care less. It's up to the individual IF it is important to them. Shut up already, damn. | |
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TheCatWoman said: CherrieMoonKisses said: Remember how he kept marketing that Mayte was an Egyptian princess? CRAPPOLA. I was not a FAN back then, I use to be a strong person ya know .. anyway, so Mayte was an Egyptian princess? interesting Yes,Mayte was an Egytian princess who rolled quarters on her belly. And, Prince said in many interviews around the time he married her, "I feel like she and I have met somewhere before...like in Egypt." He said he felt like they were brother and sister before. Egypt is in Africa. I always spell that daggone word wrong EDIT!! [Edited 12/29/05 14:45pm] & | |
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CalhounSq said: meow85 said: You coulda answered my question.... I really do wanna know -why don't black people with non-black ancestry acknowledge it? Umm, many Black people are DYING to acknowledge what else is in them I don't think that's the issue at all. The problem is when you elevate everything else you are BUT the Black part. There's a lot of people stuck on that & until shit balances out (which it likely never will, sadly) I'm really not trippin'. African Americans are mixed w/ all kinds of stuff, it all goes way back & runs through all of us - so what is there really to acknowledge? Should there be no more Black people in the US b/c all of us are this & this & that? At the end of the day I'm BLACK - that's how I see myself, how the world sees me, that's my reality. And what's wrong w/ that? And why can't some people embrace Prince as a Black man? Why is that an actual issue with some folks? I didn't even know his ethnicity was being debated until I came on this board It wouldn't even come up if people didn't feel so fiercely that "he is NOT Black"!!! Why does he have to be something else just b/c folks want him to be? If he was just a dude working @ the grocery store, what would he be to you all? (and don't give me that "his eyes!! his complexion!!" bull b/c you just ain't seen enough Black folks if that's your argument ).. Would folks be fighting over his ethnicity then? BEGGING & pleading for others to recognize what else he is or what else they think he is? Would they care if he was just some dude w/ an afro & corns on his feet from those damn heels? What about his siblings? (let's conveniently forget that both of his parents are Black people ) - do any of them look "just Black"? Are they not born of the same mother & father? What would make Prince different from them? His fondness for perms? What about people who LOOK "just Black" but are mixed - does anybody make banners about their ethnic roots or is it just b/c Prince looks a certain way? I'm just trying to understand the absolute NEED to highlight the other. I know why I'm certain that he's Black - why are others so certain that he's not? Take Lenny Kravitz for example - it's common knowledge that his parents are of two different races. But if you just saw Lenny walking down the street digging in his ass, what race would you think he was? In fact, who looks MORE Black - Lenny or Prince?? Yet, who's really mixed? They are who they are, right? It's all so fucking goofy, but I don't hear anyone crying over Lenny considering himself a Black man in the rock music world... maybe that's lurking on a Lenny board somewhere The politics of being Black in this country are just too difficult, too sensitive, too washed in blood & death to be dismissed just b/c it makes some folks more comfortable. And when people can't fathom that someone who looks like Prince is "just Black"... acts like Prince & is "just Black"... I find it irritating. In how many different ways should I stand to hear that "just Black" isn't good enough? Is undesirable? Is "please GOD, don't let them say that about Prince!! I love him too much!!!" Nah, not trying to hear that at all. I dig anybody who can say I'm this & I'm that & NOT put one down while elevating the other or feel any shame or try to run from who they are. Let's get there first, b/c we're far from that... There's just too much junk in the water. I know who he is... he knows it too... y'all can take it or leave it... . [Edited 12/29/05 4:02am] I know there's a huge and unpleasant history behind it all, but the fact that people are letting society define who they are doesn't make any sense to me. You look black so you ARE black and just that? Nevermind your Cherokee grandma or your white great-grandpa or your Hispanic dad? Sorry, can't wrap my head around that. It just doesn't make any sense to me to let people label you a certain way because of your looks. On the other hand, I do understand that there are some who try to play up their other blood and downplay their blackness. That's also the wrong approach, IMO. We should be proud of everything we are; and fuck how we're told to feel about it. After all, in this day and age it's increasingly rare to find anyone, especially in North America, who's pure anything. If we're not all mixed now, we all will be sooner or later. And that's not a bad thing. I wonder what we'll find to fight about once the world is populated by halfbreeds? Here in Canada there's a lot of racial problems between Natives and Whites. It's so bad that a lot of mixed people with Native blood deny or downplay it because Natives are thought of and treated as lesser by society. I'm mixed Native and white, but for all appearances look purely European.(red hair, grey eyes, pale, freckled skin) People assume I'm white and treat me as if I am. But I still tell people I'm mixed, even though I know it will change the way some treat me. Why? Because it's honest. I'm not going to let my appearance and how other's see me define what I am, even though if I did I know I'd never been referred to as a squaw or a stupid redskin. Probably never have been singled out by my 3rd grade teacher as retarded either. But that's okay. I'd rather be hated for what I am (Cree Metis) than loved for what I am not.(white) Asd for what Prince is: Don't know, don't care. Like you, I wasn't even aware it was a matter of debate until I came to the Org. Ah, the Internet. [Edited 12/29/05 13:47pm] "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Prince is African American, period. | |
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JonnyApplesauce said: Prince is African American, period.
Cool! What part of Africa was he born in? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: JonnyApplesauce said: Prince is African American, period.
Cool! What part of Africa was he born in? Shut up already, damn. | |
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CalhounSq said: meow85 said: You coulda answered my question.... I really do wanna know -why don't black people with non-black ancestry acknowledge it? Umm, many Black people are DYING to acknowledge what else is in them I don't think that's the issue at all. The problem is when you elevate everything else you are BUT the Black part. There's a lot of people stuck on that & until shit balances out (which it likely never will, sadly) I'm really not trippin'. African Americans are mixed w/ all kinds of stuff, it all goes way back & runs through all of us - so what is there really to acknowledge? Should there be no more Black people in the US b/c all of us are this & this & that? At the end of the day I'm BLACK - that's how I see myself, how the world sees me, that's my reality. And what's wrong w/ that? And why can't some people embrace Prince as a Black man? Why is that an actual issue with some folks? I didn't even know his ethnicity was being debated until I came on this board It wouldn't even come up if people didn't feel so fiercely that "he is NOT Black"!!! Why does he have to be something else just b/c folks want him to be? If he was just a dude working @ the grocery store, what would he be to you all? (and don't give me that "his eyes!! his complexion!!" bull b/c you just ain't seen enough Black folks if that's your argument ).. Would folks be fighting over his ethnicity then? BEGGING & pleading for others to recognize what else he is or what else they think he is? Would they care if he was just some dude w/ an afro & corns on his feet from those damn heels? What about his siblings? (let's conveniently forget that both of his parents are Black people ) - do any of them look "just Black"? Are they not born of the same mother & father? What would make Prince different from them? His fondness for perms? What about people who LOOK "just Black" but are mixed - does anybody make banners about their ethnic roots or is it just b/c Prince looks a certain way? I'm just trying to understand the absolute NEED to highlight the other. I know why I'm certain that he's Black - why are others so certain that he's not? Take Lenny Kravitz for example - it's common knowledge that his parents are of two different races. But if you just saw Lenny walking down the street digging in his ass, what race would you think he was? In fact, who looks MORE Black - Lenny or Prince?? Yet, who's really mixed? They are who they are, right? It's all so fucking goofy, but I don't hear anyone crying over Lenny considering himself a Black man in the rock music world... maybe that's lurking on a Lenny board somewhere The politics of being Black in this country are just too difficult, too sensitive, too washed in blood & death to be dismissed just b/c it makes some folks more comfortable. And when people can't fathom that someone who looks like Prince is "just Black"... acts like Prince & is "just Black"... I find it irritating. In how many different ways should I stand to hear that "just Black" isn't good enough? Is undesirable? Is "please GOD, don't let them say that about Prince!! I love him too much!!!" Nah, not trying to hear that at all. I dig anybody who can say I'm this & I'm that & NOT put one down while elevating the other or feel any shame or try to run from who they are. Let's get there first, b/c we're far from that... There's just too much junk in the water. I know who he is... he knows it too... y'all can take it or leave it... . [Edited 12/29/05 4:02am] Whew! Sure is hot it here ain't it. Thanks Calhoun. For the benefit of Meow, one of the reasons we emphasize our black heritage is because it was so violently and brutally taken away from us and to deny it would be to dishonor all the people who suffered, sacrificed and died in our struggle to be acknowleged as human beings. We didn't start this race controversy y'know. The attitude that black is somehow negative still exist even though it is much less obvious these days. That's why we, (Prince and Lenny included), will continue to affirm it regardless of who might feel uneasy about it. Additionally, It really is our choice and that should be good enough. Unless you have lived our experience I'm not sure you can understand the complex dynamics involved. Someone who chooses to assimilate so much of the dominant culture, a la Condi Rice may make life more comfortable for themselves but ultimately will not be embraced by either group. For instance, I have some Scottish blood. So when I show up at the next Campbell family gathering in Scotland to claim my birthright it's all good, right?? Dream on. Prince has identified himself as a black man. That should be enough. It is irksome when people imply that other aspects of his heritage must be responsible for his genius because that's what is being implied, however subtly, not necessarily by Meow, but it is implied nonetheless. I've heard it said many times that he can't possibly be "all black".....why not? As for Prince's apparent interest in Latin culture, maybe he just likes the Latin flavor or maybe he's color-struck or both. I have loved all things Egyptian and East Indian since I was a small child, but I ain't trying to be anything but.....Black. And a homogenized, color-blind society is not the answer either because it suggests too much sublimination of our identity to the dominant culture. If we identify ourselves as human beings who happen to be black, we should be accepted and acknowledged on those terms and so should anybody of any other race. Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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meow85 said: JonnyApplesauce said: Prince is African American, period.
Cool! What part of Africa was he born in? That's it in a nutshell. Because of the brutality of our enslavement, Prince and most African Americans will never know our origins in Africa. We should just suck it up and forget about it, right? I'm sure it's not your intention to belittle our experience, but I do encourage you to take a second and think about the ramifications of your statement. I'm trying very hard not to be overly sensitive about it and I ain't picking on you Meow. I just want you to try and look at it from another perspective, that's all. Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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i prefer saying that i am black- american. i could not tell you who in my family actually came from africa. since my great-great grandparents were born and raised here- i feel like that's far back enough to prove that i am black yes- and american.
i can not tell you how i hate it when all "dark skin" curly hair, etc, people are immediately thought of as being african- american what about the africans?? haitans, peurto ricans, etc..- america has become a melting pot of sorts and it's truly difficult to label people LOVE HARD. | |
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babynoz said: meow85 said: Cool! What part of Africa was he born in? That's it in a nutshell. Because of the brutality of our enslavement, Prince and most African Americans will never know our origins in Africa. We should just suck it up and forget about it, right? I'm sure it's not your intention to belittle our experience, but I do encourage you to take a second and think about the ramifications of your statement. I'm trying very hard not to be overly sensitive about it and I ain't picking on you Meow. I just want you to try and look at it from another perspective, that's all. It's definitely not my intention. If I said anything off, feel free to point it out. I just don't get it. I'd never tell someone else they should just "suck it up" because my people, both Native and Metis (mixed) get that same message all the time. I know the frustration it brings up when we're told just to forgive and forget. I happen to be proud that I'm mixed. I guess I just don't understand why anyone would want to deny any part of their heritage that they're aware of. By the same logic that's applied when saying a person is black because they look it and people treat them as such, I'd have to call myself white. But that would be a lie, and IMO would be as good as saying I'm ashamed of the part of me that's not obviously visible. [Edited 12/29/05 23:00pm] "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: babynoz said: That's it in a nutshell. Because of the brutality of our enslavement, Prince and most African Americans will never know our origins in Africa. We should just suck it up and forget about it, right? I'm sure it's not your intention to belittle our experience, but I do encourage you to take a second and think about the ramifications of your statement. I'm trying very hard not to be overly sensitive about it and I ain't picking on you Meow. I just want you to try and look at it from another perspective, that's all. It's definitely not my intention. If I said anything off, feel free to point it out. I just don't get it. I'd never tell someone else they should just "suck it up" because my people, both Native and Metis (mixed) get that same message all the time. I know the frustration it brings up when we're told just to forgive and forget. I happen to be proud that I'm mixed. I guess I just don't understand why anyone would want to deny any part of their heritage that they're aware of. By the same logic that's applied when saying a person is black because they look it and people treat them as such, I'd have to call myself white. But that would be a lie, and IMO would be as good as saying I'm ashamed of the part of me that's not obviously visible. [Edited 12/29/05 23:00pm] Meow, I appreciate that you always speak from the mixed perspective you know it first hand & the history of your ethnic makeup is difficult too I also think it's interesting that you appear White & make sure to mention your Native heritage. I think I understand why you do that, which makes it even more interesting that in a way you're "asking" Black folks to do the opposite. I dunno, maybe it's strictly from a "celebrate all that you are" standpoint but I wonder if you'd be so eager to mention your White heritage if your apppearance was more Native American. Maybe so... But like Rhonda & I have said it's kind of silly to reach back generations & generations to claim all the things that we are (as Black people) b/c we're many things. It's about more than just a look that a person has or doesn't have - for me it's a realistic sense of who I am. It just doesn't make sense for me to go around claiming Native American & White - if I did it would only be b/c I insisted on people knowing that... & what would be my reason for wanting people to know that SO BAD when it's already implied simply by my being born Black in America It's been said many times that Blacks in this country are all mixed somewhere along the way anyway Obviously you're doing what makes you comfortable (i.e. your parents are either both White or both Native American & your mix comes from a grand parent or further back) & that's cool. For me it's not practical, the mix is more than a generation back - I'm Black. Black is good enough for me | |
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meow85 said: JonnyApplesauce said: Prince is African American, period.
Cool! What part of Africa was he born in? that's sorta unfunny and I'm one that doesn't even care for term..... Let's not start mockin' each other meow.....k. | |
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CalhounSq said: Meow, I appreciate that you always speak from the mixed perspective you know it first hand & the history of your ethnic makeup is difficult too I also think it's interesting that you appear White & make sure to mention your Native heritage. I think I understand why you do that, which makes it even more interesting that in a way you're "asking" Black folks to do the opposite. I dunno, maybe it's strictly from a "celebrate all that you are" standpoint but I wonder if you'd be so eager to mention your White heritage if your apppearance was more Native American. Maybe so... Even if it was reversed and I looked Native I'd still tell people I was half-white. I'd still be proud of what I am, regardless of my looks. It wouldn't be the same as it is now though. Now, telling people that I'm mixed lowers some people's opinion of me, but if I looked Native and told people I had white in me, some would think better of me. But like Rhonda & I have said it's kind of silly to reach back generations & generations to claim all the things that we are (as Black people) b/c we're many things. It's about more than just a look that a person has or doesn't have - for me it's a realistic sense of who I am. It just doesn't make sense for me to go around claiming Native American & White - if I did it would only be b/c I insisted on people knowing that... & what would be my reason for wanting people to know that SO BAD when it's already implied simply by my being born Black in America It's been said many times that Blacks in this country are all mixed somewhere along the way anyway Obviously you're doing what makes you comfortable (i.e. your parents are either both White or both Native American & your mix comes from a grand parent or further back) & that's cool. For me it's not practical, the mix is more than a generation back - I'm Black. Black is good enough for me My mom is white and my dad is Cree Metis. The part that cracks me up? My dad's mom (white) was racist. She came from a small, rural town. Granny was kinda crazy, and her best friend/rival for years was a woman named Jennie Thurston who was arguably even more racist than she was. So when a Cree drifter came into town, Granny went out drinking with him and got herself pregnant out of wedlock on purpose. All so she could have a "darkie" child to piss off Jennie Thurston. Well, it worked. Jennie never spoke to her again, and my dad was the first coloured resident in the history of the town. I never said it was a proud family history. [Edited 12/30/05 13:19pm] "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Rhondab said: meow85 said: Cool! What part of Africa was he born in? that's sorta unfunny and I'm one that doesn't even care for term..... Let's not start mockin' each other meow.....k. Sorry about that. It was bad humour. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: CalhounSq said: Meow, I appreciate that you always speak from the mixed perspective you know it first hand & the history of your ethnic makeup is difficult too I also think it's interesting that you appear White & make sure to mention your Native heritage. I think I understand why you do that, which makes it even more interesting that in a way you're "asking" Black folks to do the opposite. I dunno, maybe it's strictly from a "celebrate all that you are" standpoint but I wonder if you'd be so eager to mention your White heritage if your apppearance was more Native American. Maybe so... Even if it was reversed and I looked Native I'd still tell people I was half-white. I'd still be proud of what I am, regardless of my looks. It wouldn't be the same as it is now though. Now, telling people that I'm mixed lowers some people's opinion of me, but if I looked Native and told people I had white in me, some would think better of me. But like Rhonda & I have said it's kind of silly to reach back generations & generations to claim all the things that we are (as Black people) b/c we're many things. It's about more than just a look that a person has or doesn't have - for me it's a realistic sense of who I am. It just doesn't make sense for me to go around claiming Native American & White - if I did it would only be b/c I insisted on people knowing that... & what would be my reason for wanting people to know that SO BAD when it's already implied simply by my being born Black in America It's been said many times that Blacks in this country are all mixed somewhere along the way anyway Obviously you're doing what makes you comfortable (i.e. your parents are either both White or both Native American & your mix comes from a grand parent or further back) & that's cool. For me it's not practical, the mix is more than a generation back - I'm Black. Black is good enough for me My mom is white and my dad is Cree Metis. The part that cracks me up? My dad's mom (white) was racist. She came from a small, rural town. Granny was kinda crazy, and her best friend/rival for years was a woman named Jennie Thurston who was arguably even more racist than she was. So when a Cree drifter came into town, Granny went out drinking with him and got herself pregnant out of wedlock on purpose. All so she could have a "darkie" child to piss off Jennie Thurston. Well, it worked. Jennie never spoke to her again, and my dad was the first coloured resident in the history of the town. I never said it was a proud family history. [Edited 12/30/05 13:19pm] But let's say your mix was a generation or two back - would you still be so adamant about stating your mix? Just curious | |
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CalhounSq said: meow85 said: My mom is white and my dad is Cree Metis. The part that cracks me up? My dad's mom (white) was racist. She came from a small, rural town. Granny was kinda crazy, and her best friend/rival for years was a woman named Jennie Thurston who was arguably even more racist than she was. So when a Cree drifter came into town, Granny went out drinking with him and got herself pregnant out of wedlock on purpose. All so she could have a "darkie" child to piss off Jennie Thurston. Well, it worked. Jennie never spoke to her again, and my dad was the first coloured resident in the history of the town. I never said it was a proud family history. [Edited 12/30/05 13:19pm] But let's say your mix was a generation or two back - would you still be so adamant about stating your mix? Just curious Yep, cuz no matter how far back, it's still there. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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CALHOUN!
see signature below, knuckleheadz I'm sick and tired of the Prince fans being sick and tired of the Prince fans that are sick and tired! | |
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Krystal666 said: Kitten said: You know what? This all seems very simple to me, and it's nothing to do with race! I don't do blonds. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with blond haired men with blue eyes etc, and i'm not saying that I could never ever fall for one, but what I am saying is that as a general rule the type of man that catches my eye so too speak is those that are dark haired with dark eyes and usually olive skin. I couldn't give a damn what race or religion they are, I just notice that sort or man before any other, and when I look at my past dates they have all pretty much fallen into this mould without me realising it. I'm guessing that the same goes for Prince. I'm sure he doesn't sit at home thinking "hmm which Latino shall I go for next?" he probably just finds those characteristics in a woman attractive so is automatically drawn to them. I can't count the number of men that have told me they prefer blondes over brunettes!
Yeah I'm going to agree with this. Alot of his girlfriends kinda had a similar "exotic" look but I don't think he puts alot of thought into that. It's not like that is the only thing he likes. Exactly! Kim Basinger doesn't look like a Latino, and neither does Susannah. It's not like he has only ever dated Latino looking women. He may be drawn to that "type" more than any other, but like I said before, how come so many men will admit to being into "blondes" (usually the blue eyed top-heavy sort!) but no-one ever really bats an eyelid at that? I think a few people are taking this thead way to seriously - this ain't a race or religion issue, it's just a case of what charactertistics one individual finds attractive in the opposite sex. Everyone has personal preferences don't they? | |
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