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Reply #30 posted 05/08/18 12:32pm

Krystalkisses

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cloveringold85 said:



malbena said:


Disturbing! I am worried about her mental health. Needs professional counsel and very possibly medication.

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I agree; it's not a healthy way to live your life. Someone at her age should not be so angry and miserable. She needs to direct her pain/emotions/anger in a more positive way. If she's not already in therapy, she really needs to do so!! If you do not let go of anger, it will destroy you.


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It's one thing to express yourself and be vocal about it, but it's entirely another thing when you are hurting yourself and taking others down with you.






Yeah , I agree. She is coming off like a rageaholic.
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Reply #31 posted 05/08/18 3:21pm

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Whatever her "problem" is, it is up to her to deal with it however she wants to. If people have so many issues with her, why do you all continue to look at her social media? Is it just to have something to pick about?

I am not a big fan of Jill, but I don't have any issues with her. My stance remains the same, she can do whatever she wants, people can look or not, but it's her social media to do with as she likes.

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Reply #32 posted 05/08/18 6:53pm

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Mumio said:

Whatever her "problem" is, it is up to her to deal with it however she wants to. If people have so many issues with her, why do you all continue to look at her social media? Is it just to have something to pick about?

I am not a big fan of Jill, but I don't have any issues with her. My stance remains the same, she can do whatever she wants, people can look or not, but it's her social media to do with as she likes.

Yes, I don't go to her page, anything I read is here. And I hope to hear better things.

But also remember she has been pointed to the org and attacked individuals and members as a whole.

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Reply #33 posted 05/08/18 7:44pm

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OldFriends4Sale said:

Mumio said:

Whatever her "problem" is, it is up to her to deal with it however she wants to. If people have so many issues with her, why do you all continue to look at her social media? Is it just to have something to pick about?

I am not a big fan of Jill, but I don't have any issues with her. My stance remains the same, she can do whatever she wants, people can look or not, but it's her social media to do with as she likes.

Yes, I don't go to her page, anything I read is here. And I hope to hear better things.

But also remember she has been pointed to the org and attacked individuals and members as a whole.


I wasn't replying to you specifically, I just don't get the mindset. I do know that she has not been very good to the fans, but my comment was more related to what she can do on her own social media platforms. I'm not gonna pursue the other stuff lol , that's a whole other ballgame.

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Reply #34 posted 05/08/18 11:05pm

malbena

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Mumio said:



NotACleverName said:


Mumio said:

She's angry. That's fine, it's her platform and she can say whatever she wants. I may not always agree with what she says, but I do admire that she is no shrinking violet. Strong women are all that and then some nod



I agree that it is her platform and how she uses her voice is her choice; however, there are ways to present a strong presence w/o coming across as angry (which she does, imo). There are plenty of examples of strong women who get their point across, affect change, etc. w/o offending or shaming.

So what???? She IS angry so why is it wrong that she is coming across as such???? There is nothing wrong with expressing passion for what you feel!


Passion and anger are two different emotions, Mumio.

Maybe it's just me, but when someone is coming from a place of anger, I tend to discount anything they say and will choose not to listen. Could be that I might be missing some valuable information. Might be worthwhile to consider the following approach:

Proverb

"you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar"

It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity



Agreed!!!
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Reply #35 posted 05/08/18 11:06pm

malbena

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It's her social media account, so she can say what she wants to say. Crazy how others seek out someone's words just to criticize them.


No, don't do that. Don't put on purple sunglasses and glaze over the obvious in lieu of a filtered view of things. This is not one of those rainbows and unicorn moments.

What you said is simply untrue. No one is seeking out words just for the sake of criticizing them. When someone puts out such consistent vitriol and a public forum then it has to be critiqued like anything else in the public. If she didn't want her shit gone over, don't put it out in public, or lock down the Twitter account to private. It's like walking outside naked, then being upset because you either get arrested or pointed at and laughed at for it. Don't fucking do it.

Folks can be in the exact same situation but have a totally different experience. Sort of like being in a car crash. 4 people in the car, all got t-boned by a drunk driver. One died, one is paralyzed, one is in a coma and one walks away with some bruises. Same situation, different experiences. This is true about anyone around Prince. Jill's anger is hers to own, though. Instead of just having a difference of opinion, she attacks on such a personal level, dismissing people's almost-lifelong ability to play music, work with Prince, or whatever.

Jill comes across as a very angry person. She's gone in on Susannah, members of the Revolution and anyone else who does not fit her idea of what Prince was as a person. Granted, she had a lot of access to him, probably fucked him for a while, and was maybe even in love with him. But she comes out of the gates like an angrier version of Sheila E. She's a know-it-all and anyone that disagrees with her is just wrong (comparing how Sheila sometimes comes across as the default "I knew him best" spokesperson). The fact is everyone that worked with Prince has their version of reality because their experience with him was different. Of course, there are commonalities.

Jill's problem is that she can't challenge a situation without making so incredibly personal. She can't own her shit from the past, and maybe - just maybe - she has regrets about some things and is now lashing out to distract from it. Maybe she's suffering trauma from something else and it is playing out in some other way on Twitter. I don't know. I hope she finds the help and comfort she needs to rise above it and find the other side of peace and happiness.



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Reply #36 posted 05/08/18 11:12pm

malbena

Mumio said:



OldFriends4Sale said:




Mumio said:


Whatever her "problem" is, it is up to her to deal with it however she wants to. If people have so many issues with her, why do you all continue to look at her social media? Is it just to have something to pick about?

I am not a big fan of Jill, but I don't have any issues with her. My stance remains the same, she can do whatever she wants, people can look or not, but it's her social media to do with as she likes.




Yes, I don't go to her page, anything I read is here. And I hope to hear better things.



But also remember she has been pointed to the org and attacked individuals and members as a whole.




I wasn't replying to you specifically, I just don't get the mindset. I do know that she has not been very good to the fans, but my comment was more related to what she can do on her own social media platforms. I'm not gonna pursue the other stuff lol , that's a whole other ballgame.



Obviously, you are on your own on this one. People on here have all right to express their opinion just like you defend Jill for doing so.
Classic "she can do whatever the hell she wants won't change how the vast majority of people feel about her. So repeat yourself all you want, people have clearly expressed how Jill presents herself.
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Reply #37 posted 05/09/18 12:50am

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malbena said:

Disturbing! I am worried about her mental health. Needs professional counsel and very possibly medication.

The comment suggesting the medication of another human being is absolutely reprehensible. Furthermore, the medication comment is presumptuous and inappropriate. Clearly lacking self respect as it relates to respect for the personal boundaries of others. Practice respect and grace. Please check youself and stay in your own lane.

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Reply #38 posted 05/09/18 4:35am

malbena

gwiliandre said:



malbena said:


Disturbing! I am worried about her mental health. Needs professional counsel and very possibly medication.



The comment suggesting the medication of another human being is absolutely reprehensible. Furthermore, the medication comment is presumptuous and inappropriate. Clearly lacking self respect as it relates to respect for the personal boundaries of others. Practice respect and grace. Please check youself and stay in your own lane.

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Oh get a life! I will say whatever the fuck I want.
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Reply #39 posted 05/09/18 4:38am

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Yeah Jill rants about Prince fans, and then turns to Prince fans to help support her, someone even set up an account that we can donate to, to help pay her medical bills. rolleyes

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Reply #40 posted 05/09/18 5:48am

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malbena said:

gwiliandre said:



malbena said:


Disturbing! I am worried about her mental health. Needs professional counsel and very possibly medication.



The comment suggesting the medication of another human being is absolutely reprehensible. Furthermore, the medication comment is presumptuous and inappropriate. Clearly lacking self respect as it relates to respect for the personal boundaries of others. Practice respect and grace. Please check youself and stay in your own lane.

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Oh get a life! I will say whatever the fuck I want.



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Reply #41 posted 05/09/18 6:51am

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SNIP - racist/nasty/flame bait post - OF4$

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Reply #42 posted 05/09/18 6:57am

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malbena said:

Mumio said:


I wasn't replying to you specifically, I just don't get the mindset. I do know that she has not been very good to the fans, but my comment was more related to what she can do on her own social media platforms. I'm not gonna pursue the other stuff lol , that's a whole other ballgame.

Obviously, you are on your own on this one. People on here have all right to express their opinion just like you defend Jill for doing so. Classic "she can do whatever the hell she wants won't change how the vast majority of people feel about her. So repeat yourself all you want, people have clearly expressed how Jill presents herself.



I don't care if I am on my own, I don't need anyone to agree with me on this, especially you lol Jill didn't post here nor did she ask anyone here to go to her accounts looking to cause trouble, so people are clearly looking to create drama. I'd say the same damn thing for any of them...okay, MOST of them.


Welcome to "the org", Mumio…they can have you, but I'll have your love in the end nod
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Reply #43 posted 05/09/18 7:33am

malbena

Mumio said:[quote]



malbena said:


Mumio said:



I wasn't replying to you specifically, I just don't get the mindset. I do know that she has not been very good to the fans, but my comment was more related to what she can do on her own social media platforms. I'm not gonna pursue the other stuff lol , that's a whole other ballgame.



Obviously, you are on your own on this one. People on here have all right to express their opinion just like you defend Jill for doing so. Classic "she can do whatever the hell she wants won't change how the vast majority of people feel about her. So repeat yourself all you want, people have clearly expressed how Jill presents herself.



I don't care if I am on my own, I don't need anyone to agree with me on this, especially you lol Jill didn't post here nor did she ask anyone here to go to her accounts looking to cause trouble, so people are clearly looking to create drama. I'd say the same damn thing for any of them...okay, MOST of them.


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]So contradictory from previous statements of yours. You don't care what I have to say yet you don't miss any opportunity to respond or support statements. How hypoctical!
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Reply #44 posted 05/09/18 11:09am

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Image result for dorinda real housewives of new york gif

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lol lol

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Reply #45 posted 05/09/18 11:15am

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So what else is new? shrug

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Reply #46 posted 05/09/18 11:19am

malbena

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So what else is new? shrug

Clover is drunk lol...that is what's new LOL.

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Reply #47 posted 05/09/18 11:30am

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cloveringold85 said:

Image result for dorinda real housewives of new york gif

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lol lol

lol when her head knocks back as she turns to get up lol

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Reply #48 posted 05/09/18 11:44am

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OldFriends4Sale said:

cloveringold85 said:

Image result for dorinda real housewives of new york gif

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lol lol

lol when her head knocks back as she turns to get up lol

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I love Dorinda (RHONYC); she cracks me up!! lol

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Reply #49 posted 05/09/18 11:45am

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malbena said:

Genesia said:

So what else is new? shrug

Clover is drunk lol...that is what's new LOL.

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martini beer drink dancing jig nod

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Reply #50 posted 05/09/18 11:46am

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cloveringold85 said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

lol when her head knocks back as she turns to get up lol

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I love Dorinda (RHONYC); she cracks me up!! lol

LOL she's making me dizzy

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Reply #51 posted 05/09/18 11:54am

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OldFriends4Sale said:

cloveringold85 said:

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I love Dorinda (RHONYC); she cracks me up!! lol

LOL she's making me dizzy

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I was trying to lighten the mood a bit. I do not promote alcohol abuse. wink biggrin

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Reply #52 posted 05/09/18 12:28pm

malbena

cloveringold85 said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

LOL she's making me dizzy

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I was trying to lighten the mood a bit. I do not promote alcohol abuse. wink biggrin

Oh you're fine, hun!

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Reply #53 posted 05/09/18 12:29pm

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malbena said:

cloveringold85 said:

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I was trying to lighten the mood a bit. I do not promote alcohol abuse. wink biggrin

Oh you're fine, hun!

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wink

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Reply #54 posted 05/09/18 12:49pm

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cloveringold85 said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

LOL she's making me dizzy

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I was trying to lighten the mood a bit. I do not promote alcohol abuse. wink biggrin

that is not abuse that is 'tipsy'

it made me thirsty for a semi sweet Riesling white

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Reply #55 posted 05/09/18 2:58pm

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Jill should plan a tour with a reunited Apollonia 6.The four ladies could focus on Vanity 6/Apollonia 6 songs and Jill's solo album....plus throw in other songs that Prince gave to female artists ("Sugar Walls","Yo Mister",etc)....basically,a celebration of the songs that Prince gave to women.Call it something like "The Paisley Princesses Tour" hmmm

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Reply #56 posted 05/09/18 3:16pm

endiadj

gwiliandre said:



malbena said:


Disturbing! I am worried about her mental health. Needs professional counsel and very possibly medication.



The comment suggesting the medication of another human being is absolutely reprehensible. Furthermore, the medication comment is presumptuous and inappropriate. Clearly lacking self respect as it relates to respect for the personal boundaries of others. Practice respect and grace. Please check youself and stay in your own lane.

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👏 This goes over the heads of many though... sad
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Reply #57 posted 05/09/18 6:33pm

malbena

endiadj said:[quote]

gwiliandre said:



malbena said:


Disturbing! I am worried about her mental health. Needs professional counsel and very possibly medication.



The comment suggesting the medication of another human being is absolutely reprehensible. Furthermore, the medication comment is presumptuous and inappropriate. Clearly lacking self respect as it relates to respect for the personal boundaries of others. Practice respect and grace. Please check youself and stay in your own lane.

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👏 This goes over the heads of many though... sad[/quote
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Reply #58 posted 05/09/18 6:38pm

malbena

malbena said:[quote]

endiadj said:

gwiliandre said:



malbena said:


Disturbing! I am worried about her mental health. Needs professional counsel and very possibly medication.



The comment suggesting the medication of another human being is absolutely reprehensible. Furthermore, the medication comment is presumptuous and inappropriate. Clearly lacking self respect as it relates to respect for the personal boundaries of others. Practice respect and grace. Please check youself and stay in your own lane.

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👏 This goes over the heads of many though... sad[/quote
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Party poopers. Just for the pleasure of breaking a good succession of funny posts, and for the obsessive need to start some drama shit.

I'm choosing to stick with Clover and OF4S. Pass the bottle Clover.
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Reply #59 posted 05/10/18 7:34am

margi

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NotACleverName said:


Passion and anger are two different emotions, Mumio.

Maybe it's just me, but when someone is coming from a place of anger, I tend to discount anything they say and will choose not to listen. Could be that I might be missing some valuable information. Might be worthwhile to consider the following approach:

Proverb

"you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar"

It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity


Agreed!!!

Jill has never got over the fact Prince and others at the time found her too much hard work. Prince never had time for opinionated women trying to advise on every aspect of his life including music. He stopped working with her and waited till she finally left him alone. He never contacted her again and only by him going to the Funeral of Denise did they see each other again. AND... what did she do? She announced to the world he was on something and needed feeding and told him that she should come back into his life to make him happier. Interfering and too much hard work to put up with
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