anangellooksdown said:

PennyPurple said:

Why do you make a statement, then delete your posts?

Because I want to have others to talk with about something and then I realize that sometimes I go too far and am being unfair to Prince, who was private.

Oh no, don't ever feel that way. You aren't being unfair to Prince. This is a place for discussion.

PennyPurple said:

anangellooksdown said:

PennyPurple said:

Oh no, don't ever feel that way. You aren't being unfair to Prince. This is a place for discussion.

...said the devil.

???Well so much for being nice....delete away.

People change and change their minds. He also matured and grew spiritually. It can't be said that he didnt feel differently about the situation over time in his heart and mind and chose to leave the situation as it was. As in why stir the pot? Perhaps not having contact with her was his peace with the situation and vice versa. Best for both to leave it alone. We don't know how he felt. As the RS magazine last interview article said about him and forgiveness, he may have forgiven Mayte and himself for his part by then.

joytotheworld said:

joytotheworld said:

People change and change their minds. He also matured and grew spiritually. It can't be said that he didnt feel differently about the situation over time in his heart and mind and chose to leave the situation as it was. As in why stir the pot? Perhaps not having contact with her was his peace with the situation and vice versa. Best for both to leave it alone. We don't know how he felt. As the RS magazine last interview article said about him and forgiveness, he may have forgiven Mayte and himself for his part by then.

Also to add, when you go through what they went through, loss of their child, you just don't cut your feelings off, they are still human and it is natural. Doesn't mean that the feelings were romantic.

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Missmusicluver72 said:

joytotheworld said:

PennyPurple said:

journalism16 said:

PennyPurple, I know they had not spoken since the divorce, but like I said, times change, and people change their minds about how they feel about other people. How she feels about him now, is her business, and no one can tell her any different; how he felt about her recently, does not mean he could not stand her now. I am sure he felt like he would always love her, even though they never spoke or got back together in recent years. Again, like I said, just because they did not speak since their divorce does not mean he can't change his mind about how he feels about her now, as opposed to how he felt twenty years ago. He changed his mind about how he felt, and that is the end of this discussion; as I have stated my opionion about it, just as you have stated yours. You believe what you want, and I will believe what I want, but just the same, given the very sad circumstances, she forgave him for what happened between them.

It might be the end of your discussion on this matter, but it certainly isn't the end of my discussion on this matter. Just because she may have forgiven him, doesn't mean he forgave her. I think if he'd changed his mind where Mayte is concerned, he would've have contacted her. And that Never happened.

nah...you can forgive and not contact. Mayte was so very young during all of that messiness. Prince seemed to be very unforgiving about the death of his child and the miscarriage. The weight of forgiveness did fall on him. That doesn't mean Mayte was wrong or deserved to be ignored by Prince.

I remember those days and I remember that their breakup was a bit nasty in hindsight. I don´t want to post any negative stuff here because she obviously forgave him and he is dead but most of you know that their breakup phase was pretty ugly in terms of what they both did to each other.

The annulment was a bit weird, I wonder how Mayte felt about it afterwards.

But, despite their arguments and Mayte trying to find happiness with Joaquin Cortes and Tommy Lee, remember that Prince still reached out to them and even wanted to convince both of them to join the JWs...so I guess they were still on speaking terms long after their breakup.

There´s a video series on Youtube about Prince and Vanity...some of the chronology is a bit off and the videos are a bit ....strange....because they mention some paranormal activities...but those of you who want to refresh their memories regarding that phase should check out some parts of it.

loveandkindness said:

NotACleverName said:

journalism16 said:

NotACleverName said:

journalism16 said:

NotACleverName said:

lollipop2 said:

ksl1974 said:

Just been thinking lately, why didn't he just do a divorce? Why an annulment? I could be totally wrong on this, but I thought an annulment would usually only be granted in extreme cases, (fraud, etc). I hadn't thought about it till now, but wonder why he went that route!?

I thought it was a divorce....he did try to get back with her. He said there wasnt any guile in here. She would cook for him, they had a green house at PP when they grew veggies. He was really acting like a married man expecting his first child. I am going to say this one last time...the wiles and ways of a woman, Manny

I'd like to add the 85% of marriages end in divorce after child loss.

This is because no 2 people grieve the same way and there are 5 stages of grief. What if you are stuck in denial while the other one lives in anger? Or throwing yourself into work but mom is drying up milk with cabbage leaves. Child loss is just a huge painful nope.

When I lost my husband, there is no grief causeing usto drift. He was just gone an I got to go through mourning alone.

I got to grieve how I was going to with no consideration for anyone else. Theres not that many consequences when you greive alone.

Throw in a new religion as a crutch or wondering why some people seem to have it together and you don't. Wife refusing to use a new religion as a crutch and a lady-in-waiting willing and able to study the new translation.

It almost reminded me of King Henry VIII and Catherine of Aragon and Anne Boylen. Mayte is the Catherine. Thats how I see it.

It sucks.

tigerlilyluv said:

loveandkindness said:

loveandkindness said:

NotACleverName said:

journalism16 said:

So do I, and I preordered her book as well.

Great! We can discuss as we read!

I'd love to discuss with you guys. I pre-ordered it as well. When I was talking with Mayte about it in MPLS after the tribute concert, she said it's a story of female empowerment and a love story. There's no "tell-all" about it. It was very clear that she never stopped loving him and had no resentment or animosity toward him. I told her I always believed they were soulmates and she nodded and quietly said she did too. Unfortuntely, soulmates don't always end up together forever in this world. I believe they both understood that eventually.

anangellooksdown said:

rkayla said:

journalism16 said:

rkayla said:

I'd love to discuss with you guys. I pre-ordered it as well. When I was talking with Mayte about it in MPLS after the tribute concert, she said it's a story of female empowerment and a love story. There's no "tell-all" about it. It was very clear that she never stopped loving him and had no resentment or animosity toward him. I told her I always believed they were soulmates and she nodded and quietly said she did too. Unfortuntely, soulmates don't always end up together forever in this world. I believe they both understood that eventually.

Maybe we can do this as a sort of virtual book club. I agree with you, wholeheartedly. Do you mind if I add you to my buddy list.

sounds cool.... be sure to add "the beautiful ones" by Prince to that list because when it comes out it will be sure to refute a lot of what's in Mayte's book can't wait to read that one.

by the way I love fan fiction

https://embed.wattpad.com...gersNelson

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KoolEaze said:

I remember those days and I remember that their breakup was a bit nasty in hindsight. I don´t want to post any negative stuff here because she obviously forgave him and he is dead but most of you know that their breakup phase was pretty ugly in terms of what they both did to each other.

The annulment was a bit weird, I wonder how Mayte felt about it afterwards.

But, despite their arguments and Mayte trying to find happiness with Joaquin Cortes and Tommy Lee, remember that Prince still reached out to them and even wanted to convince both of them to join the JWs...so I guess they were still on speaking terms long after their breakup.

There´s a video series on Youtube about Prince and Vanity...some of the chronology is a bit off and the videos are a bit ....strange....because they mention some paranormal activities...but those of you who want to refresh their memories regarding that phase should check out some parts of it.

That Youtube series is a bunch of hocus pocus lol :lol he reached out to them? When did that happen? because as early as 2012 Mayte stated in an interview with NBC that she has not spoken with Prince since the divorce

and I quote:

Garcia, who says she hasn’t told Prince about her role on the two reality shows and hasn’t spoken to him since the divorce, explains that when it comes to the entertainment business, she’s still auditioning for projects that allow her to pursue her passion – dance. She’s in the process of auditioning for a new dance-themed flick starring “Dancing with the Stars” alum William Levy.

Here is the link

http://nbclatino.com/2012...lity-show/

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violectrica said:

journalism16 said: