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Thread started 10/14/16 1:36pm

purplerabbitho
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Larry Graham's absence

I was (perhaps) unfairly bitching about the Revolution's non-involvement or acknowledgment of current tributes. But more unforgivable (IMO) is larry Graham's (after all, his influence might have alienated Prince from certain earlier associates). Where the hell is he? Or is he such a pariah that he was simply not invited. he was at the funeral with another currently absent associate--Sheila E. But very little has been seen of him. His facebook page is all self-promotion with a brief mention of a concert tribute he did to Prince in September. Or maybe, he doubts the sincerity of the tributes like other previous associates? Then, again, it should not be about what you think others are doing but about doing what is right to honor P himself.

Also, another question. I wonder what Graham and the JW's thought about his overdose. They probably forgive the 'sinner' but not the 'sin' kind of thing.

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Reply #1 posted 10/14/16 1:53pm

Superfan1984

I was recently thinking about Larry Graham. Where IS he? Also, does anyone know how they were in recent years? I don't think I saw much of him in past 4-5 years but I could be wrong. Does anyone know?

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Reply #2 posted 10/14/16 1:57pm

Rev

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I for one, grew to resent their friendship/ bond. The JW experience was very uncomfortable for enjoying the music. Musically The Rainbow Children was a masterful. The over the top religous dogma was so heavy handed..some songs are unlistenable.

Larry Graham has talent and has accomplishments. I would imagine like the other splintered groups, those weren't his peeps.

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Reply #3 posted 10/14/16 2:21pm

ladygirl99

I hope people will have a mature conversation without getting this thread close due to religion bashing.

I wonder too what happen to Larry Graham and wonder if the family is now distancing themselves from him?

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Reply #4 posted 10/14/16 2:37pm

purplerabbitho
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Me too. I am pretty much a secularist/deist..I believe there is probably some kind of "God" but I don't buy into organized religion. I am also very liberal socially. That being said, I also grew up in the bible belt and understand that people are rarely consistent in terms of her hearts and heads. I also don't think that the JW's are worse than other religious groups (except for maybe their exclusiveness). So, slamming on the JW's to prop up traditional Christianity doesn't sit well with me and oversimplifying P's long time relationships with people like Larry, Lisa and Wendy doesn't seem fair or particularly insightful either.

ladygirl99 said:

I hope people will have a mature conversation without getting this thread close due to religion bashing.

I wonder too what happen to Larry Graham and wonder if the family is now distancing themselves from him?

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Reply #5 posted 10/14/16 2:50pm

morningsong

Is he sick?

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Reply #6 posted 10/14/16 5:35pm

anangellooksdo
wn

I've seen at least one interview with Larry since 4/21 and he seemed extremely sad.
I know Prince expanded his religion into welcoming spirituality in the last 4-5 years or so. I also wonder what their relationship was like during those last years.
As for why he wasn't at the Tribute, maybe others around P were intolerant of his religious ideas, or maybe it's that Sly & the Family Stone were an influence rather than protégés, or maybe Larry just doesn't want to deal with the criticism his religious beliefs can bring sometimes.
[Edited 10/14/16 17:36pm]
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Reply #7 posted 10/14/16 7:48pm

rogifan

It is an interesting question. Even though the Rev didn't play at the tribute concert Bobby Z was there and spoke. It's possible he's taken P's passing really hard and doesn't want to be involved with anything right now.

Sheila is a bit more disappointing because she seems to be doing her own thing and not acknowledging what anybody else is doing. She never tweeted or facebooked about the Rev tribute shows nor did she acknowledge the official tribute show, other than a statement to say she wouldn't be performing. Heck even Apollonia tweeted congrats to everyone who performed. It's just weird.
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Reply #8 posted 10/14/16 8:00pm

VYM0313

morningsong said:

Is he sick?

I've wondered where Larry G is since April, as well. I checked his website, he's been touring as recently as Sept., but not weekly. My guess is the poor guy's just sad as sad can be. I think they were brothers/father/son and respected each other as artists. His absence in the media and at tributes, perhaps, is just a function of the depth of his grief. I hope he's ok.

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Reply #9 posted 10/14/16 9:36pm

Superfan1984

This does seem sad sad I hope he's okay as well. We all bitch about how everyone is coming across so grubby with all these t-shirts and books and shows--- Maybe Larry was Prince's one true friend. sad

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Reply #10 posted 10/14/16 10:59pm

purplerabbitho
le

Maybe. I hope not his one true friend.

Superfan1984 said:

This does seem sad sad I hope he's okay as well. We all bitch about how everyone is coming across so grubby with all these t-shirts and books and shows--- Maybe Larry was Prince's one true friend. sad

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Reply #11 posted 10/15/16 2:41am

wildgoldenhone
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purplerabbithole said:



Also, another question. I wonder what Graham and the JW's thought about his overdose. They probably forgive the 'sinner' but not the 'sin' kind of thing.



King David's sin was worthy of death but forgiven because God knew that deep down he was a man of integrity and worshipped with full godly devotion. He was also an imperfect man and prone to make mistakes.

Same as Prince.
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Reply #12 posted 10/15/16 4:20am

anangellooksdo
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i don't think Prince and Larry were close over the last 4-5 years, but I'm not sure. Prince branched out from straight religion to opening his path up
much broader, hence the third eye etc.
It seems some religious ideas he did keep though.

On a separate note, I feel Sheila and Prince's family might have had some sort of difference in opinion for her not to be at the Tribute. And no, she didn't say anything that I saw about the Tribute on that day or evening, she just posted video of herself warming up for her own concert.
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Reply #13 posted 10/15/16 5:21am

rogifan

This is what Prince told Ebony magazine in 2015 about why he chose to work with Joshua Welton:

EBONY: You’ve never had a producer. What made you choose Joshua Welton for Hit N Run: Phase One?

Prince: His faith in God really struck a nerve. And you know how you can just feel that something’s gonna work and it feels right, it’s a good fit? I knew the band was going to work, I knew the relationship with him was gonna work. I check people out now to see how faith-based they are and how real they are about it. That goes a long way, I gotta tell you. Because I can trust them. I can give him the key and don’t have to worry.


And this is what Joshua told the BBC about his first encounter with Prince:

So how did you meet Prince?

It was actually through my wife Hannah, who drums for 3rdEyeGirl. The first time I came out [to Minneapolis], Prince was rehearsing at a sound stage in Paisley Park. Now, rehearsal is a time when you get things locked in tight, and you perfect what you're working on but Prince goes, "on the one" and the whole band stops. Then he literally jumps up - because he's on the keyboards - and he goes "Joshua!", runs off the stage and gives me a big hug. And I'm thinking to myself, I really enjoy this guy already! Literally, right after that, we had this two-hour conversation about Jesus. And that was, for nine months, our relationship. I didn't do any music. I was really just supporting my wife. That was my main goal, making sure that I was there for her.


I don't think Prince ever really strayed from his faith.
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Reply #14 posted 10/15/16 8:58am

purplerabbitho
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No one said he did. Straying from hard-line Jehoviah Witness doctrine is not the same thing as swaying from his faith. Two hour conversations about faith, I imagine, usually indicate an examination of one's faith. Hardline doctrine doesn't usually allow any room for interpretation.

rogifan said:

This is what Prince told Ebony magazine in 2015 about why he chose to work with Joshua Welton:
EBONY: You’ve never had a producer. What made you choose Joshua Welton for Hit N Run: Phase One? Prince: His faith in God really struck a nerve. And you know how you can just feel that something’s gonna work and it feels right, it’s a good fit? I knew the band was going to work, I knew the relationship with him was gonna work. I check people out now to see how faith-based they are and how real they are about it. That goes a long way, I gotta tell you. Because I can trust them. I can give him the key and don’t have to worry.
And this is what Joshua told the BBC about his first encounter with Prince:
So how did you meet Prince? It was actually through my wife Hannah, who drums for 3rdEyeGirl. The first time I came out [to Minneapolis], Prince was rehearsing at a sound stage in Paisley Park. Now, rehearsal is a time when you get things locked in tight, and you perfect what you're working on but Prince goes, "on the one" and the whole band stops. Then he literally jumps up - because he's on the keyboards - and he goes "Joshua!", runs off the stage and gives me a big hug. And I'm thinking to myself, I really enjoy this guy already! Literally, right after that, we had this two-hour conversation about Jesus. And that was, for nine months, our relationship. I didn't do any music. I was really just supporting my wife. That was my main goal, making sure that I was there for her.
I don't think Prince ever really strayed from his faith.

[Edited 10/15/16 9:01am]

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Reply #15 posted 10/15/16 10:41am

tmo1965

anangellooksdown said:

i don't think Prince and Larry were close over the last 4-5 years, but I'm not sure. Prince branched out from straight religion to opening his path up much broader, hence the third eye etc. It seems some religious ideas he did keep though. On a separate note, I feel Sheila and Prince's family might have had some sort of difference in opinion for her not to be at the Tribute. And no, she didn't say anything that I saw about the Tribute on that day or evening, she just posted video of herself warming up for her own concert.

Sheila was doing a show in Westbury, NY, on Oct 13. That's the reason she was not at the tribute. I'm not making a whole lot out of Larry not being there either. He did attend the service at PP 2 days after Prince died and the JW service. He was very close to Prince and he may be having a difficult time dealing with the situation.

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Reply #16 posted 10/15/16 11:07am

tmo1965

purplerabbithole said:

No one said he did. Straying from hard-line Jehoviah Witness doctrine is not the same thing as swaying from his faith. Two hour conversations about faith, I imagine, usually indicate an examination of one's faith. Hardline doctrine doesn't usually allow any room for interpretation.

rogifan said:

This is what Prince told Ebony magazine in 2015 about why he chose to work with Joshua Welton: I don't think Prince ever really strayed from his faith.

[Edited 10/15/16 9:01am]

So what religious denomination is Joshua?

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Reply #17 posted 10/15/16 11:23am

rogifan

tmo1965 said:


So what religious denomination is Joshua?


Evangelical though I'm not sure which denomination.
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Reply #18 posted 10/15/16 11:35am

rogifan

purplerabbithole said:

No one said he did. Straying from hard-line Jehoviah Witness doctrine is not the same thing as swaying from his faith. Two hour conversations about faith, I imagine, usually indicate an examination of one's faith. Hardline doctrine doesn't usually allow any room for interpretation.


I guess I was referring more to people who wondered if perhaps he was exploring outside his Christian faith. I don't think so. But you could be right that he maybe had strayed from hard line JW doctrine. I always got the feeling Prince didn't really want to have conversations about his faith with reporters because it's hard to have a deep discussion about that in a typical interview. But with someone like Josh Welton who is very religious they could have more meaningful discussions.

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Reply #19 posted 10/15/16 11:53am

anangellooksdo
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tmo1965 said:



anangellooksdown said:


i don't think Prince and Larry were close over the last 4-5 years, but I'm not sure. Prince branched out from straight religion to opening his path up much broader, hence the third eye etc. It seems some religious ideas he did keep though. On a separate note, I feel Sheila and Prince's family might have had some sort of difference in opinion for her not to be at the Tribute. And no, she didn't say anything that I saw about the Tribute on that day or evening, she just posted video of herself warming up for her own concert.

Sheila was doing a show in Westbury, NY, on Oct 13. That's the reason she was not at the tribute. I'm not making a whole lot out of Larry not being there either. He did attend the service at PP 2 days after Prince died and the JW service. He was very close to Prince and he may be having a difficult time dealing with the situation.



Sheila was playing in west-who-gives-a-darn NY?? And that was more important than rescheduling to be with all those other artists who rescheduled to be in MN for the Tribute? I'm just not buying it. I think there was another reason she wasn't there. I'm not saying it was her fault or anyone else's, I'm saying it seems personalities might be involved.
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Reply #20 posted 10/15/16 12:06pm

anangellooksdo
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rogifan said:

This is what Prince told Ebony magazine in 2015 about why he chose to work with Joshua Welton:

EBONY: You’ve never had a producer. What made you choose Joshua Welton for Hit N Run: Phase One?

Prince: His faith in God really struck a nerve. And you know how you can just feel that something’s gonna work and it feels right, it’s a good fit? I knew the band was going to work, I knew the relationship with him was gonna work. I check people out now to see how faith-based they are and how real they are about it. That goes a long way, I gotta tell you. Because I can trust them. I can give him the key and don’t have to worry.


And this is what Joshua told the BBC about his first encounter with Prince:

So how did you meet Prince?

It was actually through my wife Hannah, who drums for 3rdEyeGirl. The first time I came out [to Minneapolis], Prince was rehearsing at a sound stage in Paisley Park. Now, rehearsal is a time when you get things locked in tight, and you perfect what you're working on but Prince goes, "on the one" and the whole band stops. Then he literally jumps up - because he's on the keyboards - and he goes "Joshua!", runs off the stage and gives me a big hug. And I'm thinking to myself, I really enjoy this guy already! Literally, right after that, we had this two-hour conversation about Jesus. And that was, for nine months, our relationship. I didn't do any music. I was really just supporting my wife. That was my main goal, making sure that I was there for her.


I don't think Prince ever really strayed from his faith.


Prince never strayed from Truth. In other words, although an imperfect human, he knew who he wanted around him which is why he would have long conversations with EVERY potential associate, friend, etc.
He HAD to have people around him who could be trusted because of everything he owned and hard built and even would leave for us.
Many people have described this, that Prince would call for the first time and there woild be a conversation about things unrelated to music especially, like family. That was a big one for him because our upbringing tells someone a lot about who we are, especially younger people. I think he was very wise to know this and have those talks with people.

If someone was religious or spiritual he probably felt he could trust them even more.

He spoke once about creating our own universe then inviting those into it who
should be there.
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Reply #21 posted 10/15/16 12:08pm

anangellooksdo
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anangellooksdown said:

rogifan said:

This is what Prince told Ebony magazine in 2015 about why he chose to work with Joshua Welton:



I don't think Prince ever really strayed from his faith.


Prince never strayed from Truth. In other words, although an imperfect human, he knew who he wanted around him which is why he would have long conversations with EVERY potential associate, friend, etc.
He HAD to have people around him who could be trusted because of everything he owned and hard built and even would leave for us.
Many people have described this, that Prince would call for the first time and there woild be a conversation about things unrelated to music especially, like family. That was a big one for him because our upbringing tells someone a lot about who we are, especially younger people. I think he was very wise to know this and have those talks with people.

If someone was religious or spiritual he probably felt he could trust them even more.

He spoke once about creating our own universe then inviting those into it who
should be there.


He was vetting people and protecting himself. good for him.
[Edited 10/15/16 12:27pm]
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Reply #22 posted 10/15/16 2:45pm

AnnaSantana

I don't care if I never see or hear from Larry Graham ever again.

I don't argue with people about my opinions. Scram. I said what I said.
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Reply #23 posted 10/15/16 4:41pm

rogifan

anangellooksdown said:

tmo1965 said:



anangellooksdown said:


i don't think Prince and Larry were close over the last 4-5 years, but I'm not sure. Prince branched out from straight religion to opening his path up much broader, hence the third eye etc. It seems some religious ideas he did keep though. On a separate note, I feel Sheila and Prince's family might have had some sort of difference in opinion for her not to be at the Tribute. And no, she didn't say anything that I saw about the Tribute on that day or evening, she just posted video of herself warming up for her own concert.

Sheila was doing a show in Westbury, NY, on Oct 13. That's the reason she was not at the tribute. I'm not making a whole lot out of Larry not being there either. He did attend the service at PP 2 days after Prince died and the JW service. He was very close to Prince and he may be having a difficult time dealing with the situation.



Sheila was playing in west-who-gives-a-darn NY?? And that was more important than rescheduling to be with all those other artists who rescheduled to be in MN for the Tribute? I'm just not buying it. I think there was another reason she wasn't there. I'm not saying it was her fault or anyone else's, I'm saying it seems personalities might be involved.

No way do I buy a scheduling conflict. If it was just that she would have at least acknowledged the event. She didn't outside of saying she wouldn't be there.
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Reply #24 posted 10/15/16 4:54pm

OldFriends4Sal
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anangellooksdown said:

tmo1965 said:

Sheila was doing a show in Westbury, NY, on Oct 13. That's the reason she was not at the tribute. I'm not making a whole lot out of Larry not being there either. He did attend the service at PP 2 days after Prince died and the JW service. He was very close to Prince and he may be having a difficult time dealing with the situation.

Sheila was playing in west-who-gives-a-darn NY?? And that was more important than rescheduling to be with all those other artists who rescheduled to be in MN for the Tribute? I'm just not buying it. I think there was another reason she wasn't there. I'm not saying it was her fault or anyone else's, I'm saying it seems personalities might be involved.

Sheila E makes connections with the people who are excited to see her, I don't think it would be a good move to cancel a show because it's not somewhere with a spotlight on it. Every place matters, all the people matter. She did the right move.

Image result for Sheila E nycb theater westbury

Sheila E. at NYCB Theatre at Westbury

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Reply #25 posted 10/15/16 7:04pm

purplerabbitho
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Come on OldFriends4Sale, must you always defend every 1980's Prince associate...LOL. Kidding.

You do have a point that every venue counts. But not offering good wishes to the public memorial does seem odd. But we don't know her motives. I think you made the point that many of her current shows were already scheduled. I am not big on her selling t-shirts and cruises but as long as it goes to charity than that is fine.

Question: How many of her Prince tributes/products are going to charity and how many are just for profit? Or are they partially a way to make a living and for charity?

BTW, I don't have a problem with the tribute being for profit as long as that profit goes toward the continued upkeep of Paisley, his catalogue and the distribution of Prince's music.

OldFriends4Sale said:

anangellooksdown said:

tmo1965 said: Sheila was playing in west-who-gives-a-darn NY?? And that was more important than rescheduling to be with all those other artists who rescheduled to be in MN for the Tribute? I'm just not buying it. I think there was another reason she wasn't there. I'm not saying it was her fault or anyone else's, I'm saying it seems personalities might be involved.

Sheila E makes connections with the people who are excited to see her, I don't think it would be a good move to cancel a show because it's not somewhere with a spotlight on it. Every place matters, all the people matter. She did the right move.

Image result for Sheila E nycb theater westbury

Sheila E. at NYCB Theatre at Westbury

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Reply #26 posted 10/15/16 7:49pm

OldFriends4Sal
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Sheila E has always been big on raising money for charities. She usually gives the information for the shows she is doing the charities on. All her shows are not for charity, even though she may donate money to a charity. She still has a to live and pay her musicians singers etc

The cruise was already in place before Prince died though.

purplerabbithole said:

Come on OldFriends4Sale, must you always defend every 1980's Prince associate...LOL. Kidding.

You do have a point that every venue counts. But not offering good wishes to the public memorial does seem odd. But we don't know her motives. I think you made the point that many of her current shows were already scheduled. I am not big on her selling t-shirts and cruises but as long as it goes to charity than that is fine.

Question: How many of her Prince tributes/products are going to charity and how many are just for profit? Or are they partially a way to make a living and for charity?

BTW, I don't have a problem with the tribute being for profit as long as that profit goes toward the continued upkeep of Paisley, his catalogue and the distribution of Prince's music.

OldFriends4Sale said:

Sheila E makes connections with the people who are excited to see her, I don't think it would be a good move to cancel a show because it's not somewhere with a spotlight on it. Every place matters, all the people matter. She did the right move.

Image result for Sheila E nycb theater westbury

Sheila E. at NYCB Theatre at Westbury

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Reply #27 posted 10/16/16 11:20am

FunkOnTheOne

Clearly I've missed something. Larry attended the Funeral and performed twice in the Autism Rocks tribute shows shortly afterwards. He was actually one of the first associated artists along with Morris to do so.
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Reply #28 posted 10/16/16 11:53am

Purplebflogirl

There is so much speculation.. The problem is..we don't know.
We " heard" Larry was basically living off Prince,In one of his houses? Prince helped him because he hasn't been successfully performing( making great money, big tours etc) ..We heard Prince asked him to come to MN?
We know Prince said in his Hall of fame speech that mentors shouldn't be on your payroll..The rest is speculation..
Until the end of time
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Reply #29 posted 10/22/16 6:19pm

Nooriginaluser
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FunkOnTheOne said:

Clearly I've missed something. Larry attended the Funeral and performed twice in the Autism Rocks tribute shows shortly afterwards. He was actually one of the first associated artists along with Morris to do so.

Yes, but he has practically disappeared since. No mention of him during the process of the Tribute concert and he didn't appear. He has been suspiciously absent and even more interesting, not even mentioned by the circle and associates. Makes me wonder.

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