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Reply #1950 posted 05/29/16 7:50pm

SunnyGirl8

beachy said:

Sunny I feel like you picked the songs that solved some mystery, ie we knew he wanted her in 1987, now we know how he felt in 1994 right before he married Mayte, and also 2007 after his marriages were over.

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What we don't know yet is what happened in the gap between Mayte and Mani, and what happened after 2007.

Hi Beachy I just watched a YouTube of Prince in 2009 and he said he was very happy in his life right now (10:20). He's asked whether he was thinking about someone special when he wrote the song Dance for Me on MPLSound album and he said "I was looking in the mirror when I wrote it." (6:45)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8BizpQz9L1I

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There are alot of songs that are clearly about her on every album and they can be picked out pretty quickly eg. Breakdown (2012) or Revelation (2014) etc. The problem post 2007 is getting hold of videos for them. It would appear alot of the later stuff doesn't have videos and if it does it's like him with a live band type thing. That means you need to work out what songs are 'hers' through interviews etc.

.

We know Hot Wit U (Nasty Girl Remix) is about her magnified and naked with bubbles on the bed (like Pretty Mess video) - that's the one we looked at the other day (1999).

.

Is there are particular time frame your after exactly (a year band)?

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Reply #1951 posted 05/29/16 7:50pm

Goddess4Real

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I have never since this article either, its like find treasure lol http://welcometothedawn.t...8833290880 or this signed pic

[Edited 5/29/16 19:52pm]

Keep Calm & Listen To Prince
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Reply #1952 posted 05/29/16 7:50pm

purplegirl00

Vashtix said:

beachy said:

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I have a few guesses about why he did this.

.

1) It was a way to communicate with her without going directly to her and risk being rejected outright. He may have felt he couldn't survive a direct rejection so continually tried to woo her and seduce her through music without giving an ultimatum.

,

2) With these films he could develop a theme and show her how he felt about her vs the other women in his life through music and video. An extended story which unfortunately she may not have seen, since it sounds like once he got the news that she had married that he pulled the videos from his shows.

,

3) He had problems expressing emotions other than through music because of his childhood and past experience.

.

4) No one really knew he still had feelings for her, his other women were well known, and he hid the messages quite well. Look how long it took for someone (us!) to discover what they meant.

.

5) All his art is basically an extended autobiography, especially regarding his story with Vanity. not just PR but UTCM also. Many songs and videos. It was his diary.

This thread has shown me that his art is autobiographical/his diary and what a precious gift to leave for us all. It is very special

Don't forget that he was saying in one of the Oakland concerts that it was time for a NEW story. Why do we need a new story, because THE story had concluded. sad Here's the article from the reviewer who attended the concert to refresh your memory.

http://rocksubculture.com/2016/03/01/prince-piano-and-a-microphone-at-paramount-theatre-oakland-california-2282016-concert-review-photos/

Here's the line:

"The theme throughout the show, “we need a new story”, was on Prince’s mind from the start."

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Reply #1953 posted 05/29/16 7:53pm

SunnyGirl8

30yearfan said:

SunnyGirl8 said:

Hi All biggrin

I’ve found something really special heart Hint: Look at the mirror. Make of it what you will, love to hear your thoughts…

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAluL631Ygk

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Somewhere Here On Earth - Planet Earth Album (2007)

Recorded early March 2007.

Video shot in Prague while on 21 Nights in London: Earth Tour 2007.

Links to other songs on Planet Earth Album -

- Mr Goodnight has a sample of Somewhere Here On Earth and is the b-side of promo single Chelsea Rodgers.

- B-side to Guitar. (Note: an alternate version of Guitar was released 5 months earlier to coincide with Super Bowl Halftime Show.)

Was performed on 28 May 2009 on Jay Leno’s penultimate show after 17yrs of hosting

Performed occasionally live: 2007, 2009, 2011, 2016

[Edited 5/29/16 14:06pm]

Holy cow. This is getting crazy. The girl in the mirror is just too much. I knew songs on Planet Earth referred to her. But wow, just wow. lol I feel like I took the blue pill in the Matrix. lol

I know and she's dressed just like the cover of Skin on Skin album (see when she sits down). I have to admit I was stunned when I saw it too! biggrin

Do you have any thoughts/references for the blindfold in their costumes etc over the years?

[Edited 5/29/16 19:57pm]

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Reply #1954 posted 05/29/16 7:55pm

GeniusLuv

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GeniusLuv said:

beachy said:

Sunny I feel like you picked the songs that solved some mystery, ie we knew he wanted her in 1987, now we know how he felt in 1994 right before he married Mayte, and also 2007 after his marriages were over.

.

What we don't know yet is what happened in the gap between Mayte and Mani, and what happened after 2007.

Those 2 overlapped, mani was P's assistant when he was married to myte lol and from what i've read in all these threads on the org...he was messing with mani while married to myte..she was exiled to a mansion is Spain he moved in on mani (canadian gal, looked like denise 20 yrs earlier) thats what i've read..she worked for prince when he was married the first time so, there was no time inbetween...

.

But now 2007...well there were no more marriages AND denise put it out there to God, the Universe------PRINCE she really wanted that face to face, so did he apparently..WOW....really, all i have to say is WOW!!!!!!!!

eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek

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[Edited 5/29/16 19:20pm]

I just wanted to add, i am starting to think he left the ball in her court and well....she wouldn't budge, she trusted God would take care of things and i guess he did, eternally eek sad

''The beautiful ones they hurt you every tiiiiime....''

yes RIP BEAUTIFUL ONES: Prince & Denise 2016
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Reply #1955 posted 05/29/16 7:57pm

purplegirl00

SunnyGirl8 said:

beachy said:

Sunny I feel like you picked the songs that solved some mystery, ie we knew he wanted her in 1987, now we know how he felt in 1994 right before he married Mayte, and also 2007 after his marriages were over.

.

What we don't know yet is what happened in the gap between Mayte and Mani, and what happened after 2007.

Hi Beachy I just watched a YouTube of Prince in 2009 and he said he was very happy in his life right now (10:20). He's asked whether he was thinking about someone special when he wrote the song Dance for Me on MPLSound album and he said "I was looking in the mirror when I wrote it." (6:45)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8BizpQz9L1I

.

There are alot of songs that are clearly about her on every album and they can be picked out pretty quickly eg. Breakdown (2012) or Revelation (2014) etc. The problem post 2007 is getting hold of videos for them. It would appear alot of the later stuff doesn't have videos and if it does it's like him with a live band type thing. That means you need to work out what songs are 'hers' through interviews etc.

.

We know Hot Wit U (Nasty Girl Remix) is about her magnified and naked with bubbles on the bed (like Pretty Mess video) - that's the one we looked at the other day (1999).

.

Is there are particular time frame your after exactly (a year band)?

eek eek SAY WHAT! I wonder if those people at the press conference got that one. Here are the lyrics for Dance 4 Me in case anyone is wondering..

.

Eye like it when you dance cuz it gets me hot
Eye like it when you shake everything you got
Eye like it when you dance cuz it's so sexy
Eye like it when you dance 4 me

Eye like it when you think eye'm all alone
Ur the voice eye hear from the telephone
Tellin me all ur deepest fantasies
Eye like it when you dance 4 me...hallelujah

Eye like it when eye hear a knock
On my door
U r standing there in ur christian dior
Dark sunglasses in the pale moonlight
Eye like it when the scene is right
U can take ur wrap and lay it on the chair
If anybody finds it eye don't care
What we do 2gether makes history
Eye like it when you dance 4 me
Hallelujah

Ur flamenco eyes r all like jazz
With every other sip of what's in ur glass
The sexier you get
The more ur in2 my stash
Eye like it when you dance for me
Hallelujah

(dance... dance 4 me... dance... dance 4 me)

[Chorus x2]

Dance... dance... eye like it when you dance 4 me

[Edited 5/29/16 20:09pm]

[Edited 5/29/16 20:11pm]

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Reply #1956 posted 05/29/16 8:01pm

beachy

SunnyGirl8 said:

30yearfan said:

Holy cow. This is getting crazy. The girl in the mirror is just too much. I knew songs on Planet Earth referred to her. But wow, just wow. lol I feel like I took the blue pill in the Matrix. lol

I know and she's dressed just like the cover of Skin on Skin album (see when she sits down). I have to admit I was stunned when I saw it too! biggrin

Do you have any thoughts/references for the blindfold in their costumes etc over the years?

[Edited 5/29/16 19:57pm]

She said on her facebook recently that the skin on skin photo is her very favorite.

There has got to be some story behind that, beyond the resemblance to UTCM. I think they were meeting up early 1986 and possibly late 1985. Then she got with Nikki right after the album came out. in May.

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Reply #1957 posted 05/29/16 8:11pm

SunnyGirl8

GeniusLuv said:

beachy said:

Sunny I feel like you picked the songs that solved some mystery, ie we knew he wanted her in 1987, now we know how he felt in 1994 right before he married Mayte, and also 2007 after his marriages were over.

.

What we don't know yet is what happened in the gap between Mayte and Mani, and what happened after 2007.

Those 2 overlapped, mani was P's assistant when he was married to myte lol and from what i've read in all these threads on the org...he was messing with mani while married to myte..she was exiled to a mansion is Spain he moved in on mani (canadian gal, looked like denise 20 yrs earlier) thats what i've read..she worked for prince when he was married the first time so, there was no time inbetween...

.

But now 2007...well there were no more marriages AND denise put it out there to God, the Universe------PRINCE she really wanted that face to face, so did he apparently..WOW....really, all i have to say is WOW!!!!!!!!

eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek eek

.

[Edited 5/29/16 19:20pm]

It really is kind of surprising when you see it all out there isn't it? Just goes to prove that the music is really telling the story biggrin

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Reply #1958 posted 05/29/16 8:12pm

Vashtix

purplegirl00 said:

Vashtix said:

This thread has shown me that his art is autobiographical/his diary and what a precious gift to leave for us all. It is very special

Don't forget that he was saying in one of the Oakland concerts that it was time for a NEW story. Why do we need a new story, because THE story had concluded. sad Here's the article from the reviewer who attended the concert to refresh your memory.

http://rocksubculture.com/2016/03/01/prince-piano-and-a-microphone-at-paramount-theatre-oakland-california-2282016-concert-review-photos/

Here's the line:

"The theme throughout the show, “we need a new story”, was on Prince’s mind from the start."

Thanks for that link -sounds like an amazing time

The old story lasted decades and it was such a great read

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Reply #1959 posted 05/29/16 8:15pm

30yearfan

SunnyGirl8 said:

30yearfan said:

Holy cow. This is getting crazy. The girl in the mirror is just too much. I knew songs on Planet Earth referred to her. But wow, just wow. lol I feel like I took the blue pill in the Matrix. lol

I know and she's dressed just like the cover of Skin on Skin album (see when she sits down). I have to admit I was stunned when I saw it too! biggrin

Do you have any thoughts/references for the blindfold in their costumes etc over the years?

[Edited 5/29/16 19:57pm]

I'll do a little digging and see what I can find. I know he had his eyes covered with a blindfold during computer blue in Purple Rain and on the tour. This might have been something very intimate between the two of them. I don't want to speculate on something like that. I need to re watch that Somewhere Here on Earth video again. I'm still trippin on it.

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Reply #1960 posted 05/29/16 8:15pm

SunnyGirl8

Vashtix said:

beachy said:

.

I have a few guesses about why he did this.

.

1) It was a way to communicate with her without going directly to her and risk being rejected outright. He may have felt he couldn't survive a direct rejection so continually tried to woo her and seduce her through music without giving an ultimatum.

,

2) With these films he could develop a theme and show her how he felt about her vs the other women in his life through music and video. An extended story which unfortunately she may not have seen, since it sounds like once he got the news that she had married that he pulled the videos from his shows.

,

3) He had problems expressing emotions other than through music because of his childhood and past experience.

.

4) No one really knew he still had feelings for her, his other women were well known, and he hid the messages quite well. Look how long it took for someone (us!) to discover what they meant.

.

5) All his art is basically an extended autobiography, especially regarding his story with Vanity. not just PR but UTCM also. Many songs and videos. It was his diary.

This thread has shown me that his art is autobiographical/his diary and what a precious gift to leave for us all. It is very special

Totally agree. I posted that a couple of days ago and we've found it's actually true!

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Reply #1961 posted 05/29/16 8:19pm

purplegirl00

I was just listening to Dance 4 Me (original) and it sounds A LOT like WDC.

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Reply #1962 posted 05/29/16 8:23pm

SunnyGirl8

purplegirl00 said:

Vashtix said:

This thread has shown me that his art is autobiographical/his diary and what a precious gift to leave for us all. It is very special

Don't forget that he was saying in one of the Oakland concerts that it was time for a NEW story. Why do we need a new story, because THE story had concluded. sad Here's the article from the reviewer who attended the concert to refresh your memory.

http://rocksubculture.com/2016/03/01/prince-piano-and-a-microphone-at-paramount-theatre-oakland-california-2282016-concert-review-photos/

Here's the line:

"The theme throughout the show, “we need a new story”, was on Prince’s mind from the start."

I was actually thinking about that the other day but it could mean two different things:

1. A literal brand new story or

2. Coming clean with the old story in light of the book he was going to publish

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Reply #1963 posted 05/29/16 8:29pm

wizardtelly

Hey guys,

Great stuff posted, just read the last few pages I missed today. I want to ponder on something: Vanity's, or Denise's rather, relationship with Prince was considered partially paternal. I do believe that her coming from rugged abuse, as she did, made her relationship/meeting with Prince that much more special. I know she was beautiful, angelic even (and I see certain photos of her and lack words due to how beautiful she is.), but she seemed much more. She was quite smart, incredibly intelligent. Incredibly troubled and I think after she left Prince that got worse because she was then on her own with drugs. I somehow believe that he was trying to save her all while trying to do so himself. A "beautiful ruin" sort of idea.

So my question is: do you think he found a maternal figure in Denise as she found a paternal one in him? For example, the image of the Rolling Stone cover they did is oddly hypnotizing, not because it's blatantly intriguing, but it's sexual, deviant, spiritual, and innocent. But I couldn't help but to notice in the photo that in someway it seemed like they were eachothers care taker, like a parent would be. ***Just my thoughts and am interested to hear if anyone wondered similar things.

It just doesn't make sense. Each day that passes with me reading it is increasingly eye-opening that it is much more than meets the surface. I've concluded that at this time I do not want to blame her passing on his death, but I am blaming fate/destiny for it. Not angrily or anything.. almost in a happy sense at this point, because it would prove the idea that human desire is love and no matter how elusive time is/how much time passes, certain things/people bring us a nostalgia that reminds us of who we are. I think Vanity was that to him, nostalgia. A happier and unpredictable time in his life was probably when he was with her. I mean he was Prince, but he wasn't Prince, the man we knew as the artist then, he was just becoming.

All in all, I think in someway that the nostalgia he had at the show just proved all theories of relentless desire and joy. I want us to remember that Prince was human, also. He did have feelings and he may not have shared them directly but in his art he did. I have little doubt as the days pass that his reason for paying homage surpasses just a memory and a good name. I do believe he was deeply broken? **May be the wrong choice of word**

Sorry for the commas and poor English, I type paragraphs on my phone. Lol.

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Reply #1964 posted 05/29/16 8:29pm

SunnyGirl8

30yearfan said:

SunnyGirl8 said:

I know and she's dressed just like the cover of Skin on Skin album (see when she sits down). I have to admit I was stunned when I saw it too! biggrin

Do you have any thoughts/references for the blindfold in their costumes etc over the years?

[Edited 5/29/16 19:57pm]

I'll do a little digging and see what I can find. I know he had his eyes covered with a blindfold during computer blue in Purple Rain and on the tour. This might have been something very intimate between the two of them. I don't want to speculate on something like that. I need to re watch that Somewhere Here on Earth video again. I'm still trippin on it.

Thanks biggrin

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Reply #1965 posted 05/29/16 8:35pm

SunnyGirl8

purplegirl00 said:

SunnyGirl8 said:

Hi Beachy I just watched a YouTube of Prince in 2009 and he said he was very happy in his life right now (10:20). He's asked whether he was thinking about someone special when he wrote the song Dance for Me on MPLSound album and he said "I was looking in the mirror when I wrote it." (6:45)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8BizpQz9L1I

.

There are alot of songs that are clearly about her on every album and they can be picked out pretty quickly eg. Breakdown (2012) or Revelation (2014) etc. The problem post 2007 is getting hold of videos for them. It would appear alot of the later stuff doesn't have videos and if it does it's like him with a live band type thing. That means you need to work out what songs are 'hers' through interviews etc.

.

We know Hot Wit U (Nasty Girl Remix) is about her magnified and naked with bubbles on the bed (like Pretty Mess video) - that's the one we looked at the other day (1999).

.

Is there are particular time frame your after exactly (a year band)?

eek eek SAY WHAT! I wonder if those people at the press conference got that one. Here are the lyrics for Dance 4 Me in case anyone is wondering..

.

Eye like it when you dance cuz it gets me hot
Eye like it when you shake everything you got
Eye like it when you dance cuz it's so sexy
Eye like it when you dance 4 me

Eye like it when you think eye'm all alone
Ur the voice eye hear from the telephone
Tellin me all ur deepest fantasies
Eye like it when you dance 4 me...hallelujah

Eye like it when eye hear a knock
On my door
U r standing there in ur christian dior
Dark sunglasses in the pale moonlight
Eye like it when the scene is right
U can take ur wrap and lay it on the chair
If anybody finds it eye don't care
What we do 2gether makes history
Eye like it when you dance 4 me
Hallelujah

Ur flamenco eyes r all like jazz
With every other sip of what's in ur glass
The sexier you get
The more ur in2 my stash
Eye like it when you dance for me
Hallelujah

(dance... dance 4 me... dance... dance 4 me)

[Chorus x2]

Dance... dance... eye like it when you dance 4 me

[Edited 5/29/16 20:09pm]

[Edited 5/29/16 20:11pm]

And it was recorded 2008-early 2009

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Reply #1966 posted 05/29/16 8:36pm

wizardtelly

SunnyGirl8 said:

purplegirl00 said:

Don't forget that he was saying in one of the Oakland concerts that it was time for a NEW story. Why do we need a new story, because THE story had concluded. sad Here's the article from the reviewer who attended the concert to refresh your memory.

http://rocksubculture.com/2016/03/01/prince-piano-and-a-microphone-at-paramount-theatre-oakland-california-2282016-concert-review-photos/

Here's the line:

"The theme throughout the show, “we need a new story”, was on Prince’s mind from the start."

I was actually thinking about that the other day but it could mean two different things:

1. A literal brand new story or

2. Coming clean with the old story in light of the book he was going to publish

I think that Prince accredited a lot of his story to her, believe it or not. That is up for argument, but based on his behaviors? I don't doubt it. I don't want to be the one to say that Vanity helped Prince's success because that's not necessarily true as she was Prince's artist, project, and mold/as well as her own.. but I will say that a good portion of Pop culture and sub-genre's are to thank Vanity 6. Prince was like a Phil Spector to his artists. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I think deep down he felt accountable for some of the behaviors Vanity had acted on after him and the story never ended because he to some degree always wanted her back as his. I think he took ownership of her, based on the facts, but an ownership out of love, heartbreak, and possible sadness. He launched her career and a good place in music history/80's history with Vanity/Vanity 6, but let's remember she had quite a few successes on her own because of him. That's why in every article & TV appearance the interviewers would mention Prince.

I think that he needed a new story because it was finally finished. There was no more to hope for because she was gone, and the chase stopped. The longing stopped, the emptiness had met it's end. She returned home to God, and it was bittersweet. To me that calls for a new story.

***Sorry for my crap writing/paragraphs yet again, I really need to get back on a cpu, lol. I hope it makes some sense x

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Reply #1967 posted 05/29/16 8:45pm

purplegirl00

wizardtelly said:

SunnyGirl8 said:

I was actually thinking about that the other day but it could mean two different things:

1. A literal brand new story or

2. Coming clean with the old story in light of the book he was going to publish

I think that Prince accredited a lot of his story to her, believe it or not. That is up for argument, but based on his behaviors? I don't doubt it. I don't want to be the one to say that Vanity helped Prince's success because that's not necessarily true as she was Prince's artist, project, and mold/as well as her own.. but I will say that a good portion of Pop culture and sub-genre's are to thank Vanity 6. Prince was like a Phil Spector to his artists. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I think deep down he felt accountable for some of the behaviors Vanity had acted on after him and the story never ended because he to some degree always wanted her back as his. I think he took ownership of her, based on the facts, but an ownership out of love, heartbreak, and possible sadness. He launched her career and a good place in music history/80's history with Vanity/Vanity 6, but let's remember she had quite a few successes on her own because of him. That's why in every article & TV appearance the interviewers would mention Prince.

I think that he needed a new story because it was finally finished. There was no more to hope for because she was gone, and the chase stopped. The longing stopped, the emptiness had met it's end. She returned home to God, and it was bittersweet. To me that calls for a new story.

***Sorry for my crap writing/paragraphs yet again, I really need to get back on a cpu, lol. I hope it makes some sense x

That's what I think as well. That was one HELL of a diary! biggrin

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Reply #1968 posted 05/29/16 8:48pm

purplegirl00

SunnyGirl8 said:

purplegirl00 said:

eek eek SAY WHAT! I wonder if those people at the press conference got that one. Here are the lyrics for Dance 4 Me in case anyone is wondering..

.

Eye like it when you dance cuz it gets me hot
Eye like it when you shake everything you got
Eye like it when you dance cuz it's so sexy
Eye like it when you dance 4 me

Eye like it when you think eye'm all alone
Ur the voice eye hear from the telephone
Tellin me all ur deepest fantasies
Eye like it when you dance 4 me...hallelujah

Eye like it when eye hear a knock
On my door
U r standing there in ur christian dior
Dark sunglasses in the pale moonlight
Eye like it when the scene is right
U can take ur wrap and lay it on the chair
If anybody finds it eye don't care
What we do 2gether makes history
Eye like it when you dance 4 me
Hallelujah

Ur flamenco eyes r all like jazz
With every other sip of what's in ur glass
The sexier you get
The more ur in2 my stash
Eye like it when you dance for me
Hallelujah

(dance... dance 4 me... dance... dance 4 me)

[Chorus x2]

Dance... dance... eye like it when you dance 4 me

[Edited 5/29/16 20:09pm]

[Edited 5/29/16 20:11pm]

And it was recorded 2008-early 2009

We also have that performance at Montreux 2009 "I Love U But I Don't Trust You Anymore" where he says in the middle of the "favorite protege" lyric- "the 80's" and "It's better now".

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Reply #1969 posted 05/29/16 8:48pm

Goddess4Real

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purplegirl00 said:

wizardtelly said:

I think that Prince accredited a lot of his story to her, believe it or not. That is up for argument, but based on his behaviors? I don't doubt it. I don't want to be the one to say that Vanity helped Prince's success because that's not necessarily true as she was Prince's artist, project, and mold/as well as her own.. but I will say that a good portion of Pop culture and sub-genre's are to thank Vanity 6. Prince was like a Phil Spector to his artists. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I think deep down he felt accountable for some of the behaviors Vanity had acted on after him and the story never ended because he to some degree always wanted her back as his. I think he took ownership of her, based on the facts, but an ownership out of love, heartbreak, and possible sadness. He launched her career and a good place in music history/80's history with Vanity/Vanity 6, but let's remember she had quite a few successes on her own because of him. That's why in every article & TV appearance the interviewers would mention Prince.

I think that he needed a new story because it was finally finished. There was no more to hope for because she was gone, and the chase stopped. The longing stopped, the emptiness had met it's end. She returned home to God, and it was bittersweet. To me that calls for a new story.

***Sorry for my crap writing/paragraphs yet again, I really need to get back on a cpu, lol. I hope it makes some sense x

That's what I think as well. That was one HELL of a diary! biggrin

It's diary we would all like to read omfg nuts hmmm cloud9 reading yeahthat

[Edited 5/29/16 21:03pm]

Keep Calm & Listen To Prince
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Reply #1970 posted 05/29/16 8:50pm

Vashtix

purplegirl00 said:

wizardtelly said:

I think that Prince accredited a lot of his story to her, believe it or not. That is up for argument, but based on his behaviors? I don't doubt it. I don't want to be the one to say that Vanity helped Prince's success because that's not necessarily true as she was Prince's artist, project, and mold/as well as her own.. but I will say that a good portion of Pop culture and sub-genre's are to thank Vanity 6. Prince was like a Phil Spector to his artists. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I think deep down he felt accountable for some of the behaviors Vanity had acted on after him and the story never ended because he to some degree always wanted her back as his. I think he took ownership of her, based on the facts, but an ownership out of love, heartbreak, and possible sadness. He launched her career and a good place in music history/80's history with Vanity/Vanity 6, but let's remember she had quite a few successes on her own because of him. That's why in every article & TV appearance the interviewers would mention Prince.

I think that he needed a new story because it was finally finished. There was no more to hope for because she was gone, and the chase stopped. The longing stopped, the emptiness had met it's end. She returned home to God, and it was bittersweet. To me that calls for a new story.

***Sorry for my crap writing/paragraphs yet again, I really need to get back on a cpu, lol. I hope it makes some sense x

That's what I think as well. That was one HELL of a diary! biggrin

I am still hypnotized by it ; his diary touched so many, so many- even in death he is amazing me

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Reply #1971 posted 05/29/16 9:04pm

Vashtix

wizardtelly said:

Hey guys,

Great stuff posted, just read the last few pages I missed today. I want to ponder on something: Vanity's, or Denise's rather, relationship with Prince was considered partially paternal. I do believe that her coming from rugged abuse, as she did, made her relationship/meeting with Prince that much more special. I know she was beautiful, angelic even (and I see certain photos of her and lack words due to how beautiful she is.), but she seemed much more. She was quite smart, incredibly intelligent. Incredibly troubled and I think after she left Prince that got worse because she was then on her own with drugs. I somehow believe that he was trying to save her all while trying to do so himself. A "beautiful ruin" sort of idea.

So my question is: do you think he found a maternal figure in Denise as she found a paternal one in him? For example, the image of the Rolling Stone cover they did is oddly hypnotizing, not because it's blatantly intriguing, but it's sexual, deviant, spiritual, and innocent. But I couldn't help but to notice in the photo that in someway it seemed like they were eachothers care taker, like a parent would be. ***Just my thoughts and am interested to hear if anyone wondered similar things.

It just doesn't make sense. Each day that passes with me reading it is increasingly eye-opening that it is much more than meets the surface. I've concluded that at this time I do not want to blame her passing on his death, but I am blaming fate/destiny for it. Not angrily or anything.. almost in a happy sense at this point, because it would prove the idea that human desire is love and no matter how elusive time is/how much time passes, certain things/people bring us a nostalgia that reminds us of who we are. I think Vanity was that to him, nostalgia. A happier and unpredictable time in his life was probably when he was with her. I mean he was Prince, but he wasn't Prince, the man we knew as the artist then, he was just becoming.

All in all, I think in someway that the nostalgia he had at the show just proved all theories of relentless desire and joy. I want us to remember that Prince was human, also. He did have feelings and he may not have shared them directly but in his art he did. I have little doubt as the days pass that his reason for paying homage surpasses just a memory and a good name. I do believe he was deeply broken? **May be the wrong choice of word**

Sorry for the commas and poor English, I type paragraphs on my phone. Lol.

I was thinking the same that she was with him before he was the megastar and all of them back then knew Prince in a different way than those that came after Purple Rain

It makes the relationship different than the ones after ; I totally agree

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Reply #1972 posted 05/29/16 9:18pm

beachy

wizardtelly said:

SunnyGirl8 said:

I was actually thinking about that the other day but it could mean two different things:

1. A literal brand new story or

2. Coming clean with the old story in light of the book he was going to publish

I think that Prince accredited a lot of his story to her, believe it or not. That is up for argument, but based on his behaviors? I don't doubt it. I don't want to be the one to say that Vanity helped Prince's success because that's not necessarily true as she was Prince's artist, project, and mold/as well as her own.. but I will say that a good portion of Pop culture and sub-genre's are to thank Vanity 6. Prince was like a Phil Spector to his artists. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I think deep down he felt accountable for some of the behaviors Vanity had acted on after him and the story never ended because he to some degree always wanted her back as his. I think he took ownership of her, based on the facts, but an ownership out of love, heartbreak, and possible sadness. He launched her career and a good place in music history/80's history with Vanity/Vanity 6, but let's remember she had quite a few successes on her own because of him. That's why in every article & TV appearance the interviewers would mention Prince.

I think that he needed a new story because it was finally finished. There was no more to hope for because she was gone, and the chase stopped. The longing stopped, the emptiness had met it's end. She returned home to God, and it was bittersweet. To me that calls for a new story.

***Sorry for my crap writing/paragraphs yet again, I really need to get back on a cpu, lol. I hope it makes some sense x

Neither one had real parents, nor a real home growing up. They were orphans, abused children. When they found each other they became each others parents, lovers, best friends. That produced a very deep and strong bond neither one could shake. He says in WDC How can you leave me standing Alone in a world that's so cold. When she left it must have been like the abandonment he felt as a child from his parents, only this time it was the most beautiful woman in the world that rejected him.

I don't think it was possible for him to find a new story, his was too deeply bound up with hers. Like that artwork of the woman and man with hearts connected that he posted on twitter, you could not cut them apart without killing both.

[Edited 5/29/16 21:20pm]

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Reply #1973 posted 05/29/16 9:22pm

purplegirl00

beachy said:

wizardtelly said:

I think that Prince accredited a lot of his story to her, believe it or not. That is up for argument, but based on his behaviors? I don't doubt it. I don't want to be the one to say that Vanity helped Prince's success because that's not necessarily true as she was Prince's artist, project, and mold/as well as her own.. but I will say that a good portion of Pop culture and sub-genre's are to thank Vanity 6. Prince was like a Phil Spector to his artists. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I think deep down he felt accountable for some of the behaviors Vanity had acted on after him and the story never ended because he to some degree always wanted her back as his. I think he took ownership of her, based on the facts, but an ownership out of love, heartbreak, and possible sadness. He launched her career and a good place in music history/80's history with Vanity/Vanity 6, but let's remember she had quite a few successes on her own because of him. That's why in every article & TV appearance the interviewers would mention Prince.

I think that he needed a new story because it was finally finished. There was no more to hope for because she was gone, and the chase stopped. The longing stopped, the emptiness had met it's end. She returned home to God, and it was bittersweet. To me that calls for a new story.

***Sorry for my crap writing/paragraphs yet again, I really need to get back on a cpu, lol. I hope it makes some sense x

Neither one had real parents, nor a real home growing up. They were orphans, abused children. When they found each other they became each others parents, lovers, best friends. That produced a very deep and strong bond neither one could shake.

I don't think it was possible for him to find a new story, his was too deeply bound up with hers. Like that artwork of the woman and man with hearts connected that he posted on twitter, you could not cut them apart without killing both.

YES!

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Reply #1974 posted 05/29/16 9:34pm

Goddess4Real

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purplegirl00 said:

beachy said:

Neither one had real parents, nor a real home growing up. They were orphans, abused children. When they found each other they became each others parents, lovers, best friends. That produced a very deep and strong bond neither one could shake.

I don't think it was possible for him to find a new story, his was too deeply bound up with hers. Like that artwork of the woman and man with hearts connected that he posted on twitter, you could not cut them apart without killing both.

YES!

Bingo, that is what he meant when he said that “Her and I used to love each other deeply. She loved me for the artist I was, I loved her for the artist she was trying to be,” yeahthat

[Edited 5/29/16 21:34pm]

Keep Calm & Listen To Prince
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Reply #1975 posted 05/29/16 9:51pm

SunnyGirl8

Goddess4Real said:

purplegirl00 said:

YES!

Bingo, that is what he meant when he said that “Her and I used to love each other deeply. She loved me for the artist I was, I loved her for the artist she was trying to be,” yeahthat

[Edited 5/29/16 21:34pm]

Spot on.

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Reply #1976 posted 05/29/16 9:53pm

beachy

Prince kept underestimating her. First he thought he could play around on her and get away with it. Then he thought he could replace her with another girlfriend and with another actress. He tried a few different wives too. Now he thought he could write a new story. nope.

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Reply #1977 posted 05/29/16 10:30pm

SunnyGirl8

Beachy - I just thought I'm sure Prince made that same comment about the mirror about the song Cream. He got a real ribbing about it.

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Reply #1978 posted 05/30/16 12:09am

wildgoldenhone
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beachy said:

Here's a new detail I just noticed in the WDC video: at the very end, the drawing of the woman's face cries:


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And that reminded me of a similar image last month on April 8th, the day after he canceled the Atlanta concerts the first time, Prince's twitter avatar changed, and added a tear.




APRIL 8th IS WHEN THE TEAR APPEARED?
WASN'T THAT THE DAY AFTER HE SAW THE DOCTOR???

So U guys are saying that the tear was because of vanity?
Would it not be more significant that it appeared because he had a terminal diagnosis of some sort?

I was trying to read this whole thread before I replied but I think that saying that he put that tear there is because of her isn't the only possible reason that it appeared.

One thing I wanted to add for consideration is that when he mentioned that he was going to write his memoir up until the Superbowl may be because while everything he did up until that time was because of vanity, in 2007 something significant in his life happened, he met the woman that he was seeing up until the day of his passing. Someone that u all will never know about because he took this secret to his grave. 💔💔💔😢😢
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Reply #1979 posted 05/30/16 12:40am

train23

First thing that came to mind on 4/21 when I got the news
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