let me try this again...I guess I'll sum up what I said before.
I think it's stupid to accept all of these friends knowing that the majority of them are requesting your FB friendship because of your Prince connection then to be shocked or upset when they get upset at something you said about Prince. I mean DER!
it would be like me saying something about my sister-in-law (for example) on my FB page. Where some of my "friends" may only be my friends because we have a mutual friend or family member. her friends and family would jump all over me if I said something about her problems or issues (no matter how disguised they might be) on FB even if my intention was concern.
I understand her concern but what she wrote came off as condescending.
and for the record, the name calling and nasty comments are totally uncalled for, rude and childish. get a grip people. "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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VERY! "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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You're right in that I don't have definitive inside knowledge about Prince and Jill's relationship. However, she was never a woman that he was public with. She herself has admitted that they were romantically involved, but others who were around them always said that she was one of the several other women he was seeing at the time. In short, she was the side chick.
Now to address your issue with the fact that "I care." I am not personally offended. I have not gone to her FB page and directly replied to this rant. However, I do have an opinion, I saw this thread and I posted my opinion here. If you don't like it (or the thread) you have the choice to not participate. In fact, you didn't even have to click on the thread since the thread title clearly indicates the subject matter, and as you so eloquently put it, "I could care less what she posts on HER facebook site."
Thus your only motive in your reply is to judge me. And I CAN definitely assure you that I can CARE LESS what you think of me. Have a great day! | |
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Another thought. Somebody maybe noted this already, but she (nor anyone else) has the right to judge what makes another person happy. If playing 10 hours non-stop would not satisfy her expectations of life, fine. But if it satisfies Prince, fine. We have to give people the space to be who they are, and let God deal with them on their values. We just can't assume that one person's value system is superior to another's. | |
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Where are we now? When go 2 a Prince concert or related event it's all up in the house but when log onto this site and the miasma of bitchiness is completely overwhelming! | |
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Ah, so its HER fault that obsessive fanatics deceptively apply to be facebook friends with her in hopes of getting some Prince info instead of genuinely being interested in her projects. I see. Well, thanks for clearing that up.
Look, most artists accept social media connections unconditionally. That's the way it is. MySpace made that the standard. Its not up to her to decide who is sincere or insincere or who is there under false pretenses. Nutjobs often disguise themselves as the friendliest people. These knuckleheads seem to have this self-motivated, self-imposed authority that leads them to believe that they are guardians of all that is Prince and he is going to reward them one day for defending him on a messageboard or social network. Its all self-delusional. Prince don't know these fools. He does kow Jill. Jill does know him. From what I have read here, her quote seemed to be her feeling a little sorry for him; perhaps because of something he told her in the past or derived from what she knows about him. In the mind of a fanatic who deems everyone else an enemy when it comes to Prince or a pawn to be used to get info/get closer to him, it doesn't matter what she says. She could have said "That is a very gold suit he's wearing" and it would be blown out of proportion and twisted into whatever that person sees.
Bottom line: Its HER facebook page. That's like her little apartment on the web. She can say what she wants. If people don't like what she has to say, they can "un-friend" her or whatever. If all of the Prince fanbots leave and she's left with only people who are interested in what she is doing, then its better for her. Right? Of course. [Edited 5/18/11 11:13am] | |
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No....I didn't say it was her fault. You say "deceptively" but it's not like you have to request her friendship with reason....no one's being "deceptive" All I'm saying is she has, at the very least got to realize that the majority of her FB friends are Prince fans and not be so surprised when they come to his defense.
Then you go off on your high horse claiming to know the mindset of these so called "nutjobs" well...I'm no nutjob so I really don't know if what you say their motives are, are true. Perhaps you speak from experience? IDK
Yes, it's her facebook page but she chooses to keep it a PUBLIC page, so NO, it's not like her little apartment on the web. Yes, she can say what she wants but so can all the "friends" in response. She can unfriend all she wants, but she doesn't. Right? Of course. "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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exactly!
PurpleChi...you'll notice I said you "guys" I just happened to tack it onto your post because of the comment that made it sound like you had insider info. I was making a comment about the volume of people who APPEAR to take it personally from their responses. I did not mean to single you out. And yeah- the interesting part of READING these threads is not so much what someone associated with Prince says, it's to witness some of (not specifically you) amazing reactions form people on the board. No I don't always look, but sometimes the wreck on the side of the road calls and I do. That's how most of these topics end up and i admit that sometimes I slow down to see what happened. My only REAL intent was calling you out on whether you had some sort of personal knowledge of their relationship...which you have addressed. | |
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I have been saying this for years now Jill is very bitter and blames Prince for why her music career was on standstill.
I also said in the past maybe she should had gone under Teena Marie and Rick James. I dont get it why she didn't. Shoot her own mother was Teena Marie manager? Why couldnt her mother use that advantage to help Jill gotten a career outside of Prince . Teena Marie also produce for other artists and Rick James had success with Mary Jane Girls. And Teena Marie and Jill Jones were close and remain that way until her ultimely death last December.
Strange she solely relied on Prince to get her solo career going and look what happened. She should had gotten a clue when Prince didnt do much with the Family and his other proteges outside the Time. Even Sheila was smart enough to not solely relied on Prince producing music for others and she is very successful. Jill Jones should blame herself for signed a lousy contract. She mixed business with pleasure with Prince and that cause her had bad results. [Edited 5/18/11 12:35pm] | |
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Did SHE post 4 Lust or did she just linked a post by someone else? A COMPREHENSIVE PRINCE DISCOGRAPHY (work in progress ^^): https://sites.google.com/...scography/ | |
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i get what your saying but why every time she brings his name up on fb she's always talking shit it's never nothing good it's always something negative .... | |
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Maybe she simply feels sorry for him, or she’s being a vindictive bitch. We don’t know. Yes she knows Prince but that doesn’t automatically make her an angel in her intentions either. The bottomline is that when you post comments in a public forum without the details and two sides to the story people are going to have something to say about it regardless. That is the nature of the beast and to expect anyone to not say anything, well that aint gonna happen in the real world. Its funny, I bet if we were all trashing Prince and agreeing with her that wouldn’t have bothered some of you one bit. I think it gets under some people’s skin here when anyone don’t automatically bash Prince and instead offer a different opinion in contrast to what an associated artists says. [Edited 5/18/11 13:06pm] | |
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Yep. Jill definitely should take a lesson from you on How To Stay Classy on the Internet. | |
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Certain obsessives here and other places need to bear this wisdom in mind when they start chiming in on who Prince "should be with" romantically, or how he soooo needs to "get married and have babies!".
What Jill posted does seem a bit none-of-her-businessy...but OTOH, if folks around here feel enabled to post the critiques and opinions that they do on Prince's personal life, state of mind and heart, and other aspects of his life of which they are not privvy to the gory details, why can't she voice her thoughts on him? If it goes past the line and makes her look bad, well, she'll have to deal with that and go from there. But what she wrote seems less ridiculously judgey and weird than a huge percentage of the crazy posts on P:M&M spouting off about what Prince "needs" in his life, or "should" do, etc etc. There sure are a lot of hypocrites on this site. [Edited 5/18/11 13:21pm] | |
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Bingo.
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oh how sweet of you! | |
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Certain obsessives here and other places need to bear this wisdom in mind when they start chiming in on who Prince "should be with" romantically, or how he soooo needs to "get married and have babies!".
What Jill posted does seem a bit none-of-her-businessy...but OTOH, if folks around here feel enabled to post the critiques and opinions that they do on Prince's personal life, state of mind and heart, and other aspects of his life of which they are not privvy to the gory details, why can't she voice her thoughts on him? If it goes past the line and makes her look bad, well, she'll have to deal with that and go from there. But what she wrote seems less ridiculously judgey and weird than a huge percentage of the crazy posts on P:M&M spouting off about what Prince "needs" in his life, or "should" do, etc etc. There sure are a lot of hypocrites on this site. [Edited 5/18/11 13:21pm] I get your point. I think she is certainly entitled to express her opinion and others are entitled to have their views on what she says. I just get tired of being called excessive or a Princebot if you agree with or defend Prince, or being called a basher if you disagree with or say something against Prince. Some of us are just normal folks with opinions. | |
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okay i admit i do have a potty mouth ..i can't help it lol ...but i still dont like her | |
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I guess that was my point. | |
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Can you sign up for that here on the ORG? When go 2 a Prince concert or related event it's all up in the house but when log onto this site and the miasma of bitchiness is completely overwhelming! | |
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"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato
https://youtu.be/CVwv9LZMah0 | |
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Why do you guys care so damn much that she has an opinion? It's not her who is in the wrong here. It's the creepy people who feel they have the right to judge. He who hasn't sinned cast the first stone. Buncha jealous, triflin hoodrats up in heah. | |
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Hmm... I kinda don't want to read this thread but her comment got me to thinking, what does she perceive as a person being happy? And why does she not think he is happy?
:shrug:
That's all! | |
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Someone orgnote me with her FB address, I can't find her. |
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CO-FING-SIGN.
and then just to add my little two cents unlike everyone here on the Org, Jill actually KNOWS THE MAN and has had a friendship/relationship with him. so, if you had a friend that regardless of their career was always working and didn't seem to take the time to do anything else, would YOU not be concerned for their happiness and well-being? what the fuck is so "insulting" about that?
calm down, Org-nuts. http://www.facebook.com/p...111?ref=ts
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I guess some people just don't buy that she's concerned for Prince's happiness and well-being, and is just a bitter old ex. Just like Manuela posted that "caring" fb status not too long ago shortly after she and Eric Benet got shut out that awards party. When I used to have myspace Jill JOnes had responded to a message I sent her questioning another negative comment she made about Prince on her page. It was a very negative and volatile comment about Prince, so it is just my opinion that anything she post is out of plain bitterness and unhappiness with her career, even if she may be right or has a point. That's just me. Do I care what she post no, does it offend, fuck no , but just as Prince has some issues I feel she does too. AGain, that's just me. I don't care for insulting comments calling her names, but we all have a right to offer an opinion. I find this "its okay to to trash Prince left and right but don't say nothing bad about any former associates policy funny with some people around here. [Edited 5/19/11 6:29am] | |
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yes I'd be concerned. Putting it on facebook is what's insulting about that. DER! do people even get that part? if I had a "friend" that I was concerned about....I'd call them, or send them some flowers or a note....NOT put how I feel sad for them that they don't have happiness in their life on facebook. [Edited 5/19/11 6:40am] "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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