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I guess it comes with the territory, but am I the only one sick and tired of trying to sift through and read threads littered with lame-ass personal attacks made by grown-ass adult men and women?

For the love of God/dog!

Wouldn't it be nice if we posted on an ideal org where people figured out their problems with one another and let dumb shit die? It's like these people WANT to be miserable. Everyone here is capable of rising above the BS and brushing the chips off their shoulders... but regardless of that fact, we're still all in this sandbox dodging rocks. It's extremely lame. I realize negativity exists everywhere you go, but I figured hey- if they can "vent", so can I.

I don't hate anyone here and since day one I've tried my best to stay neutral through all the "battles" (please don't think I'm trying to be self-righteous), but sometimes it just makes me sick.

You know what I say to all of it and those heavily involved? Get a friggin' life.





What do you think? Does it get on your nerves?


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Well said. I can understand a debate getting heated, but grown men acting like brats, restating the same tedious squabbles day in and day out? These people must have a lot of free time on their hands. It's pathetic for an adult male to behave in that way, in my opinion.

However, we moderators are here to take action and ensure that the actions of a handful of selfish individuals does not ruin the site for everyone else. So no complaints when accounts get deactivated - it is for the good of the vast majority of people who just want to enjoy the site and don't care about such petty nonsense.

It does get on my nerves, even when I'm part of it.

But you know, life is life, and not everyone gets along, and not everyone is nice to each other.


But what brings it up now? Things have been relatively quiet for the last several days.

AaronMaximus said:

nevermind. i found it

beautifully stated and very true

U ain't the only one, Insatiable!

It's beautiful and true said. I wish the ppl posting here would get a grib and be a little bit more serious.

thank you!

reason #453 why I love Insatiable

endorphin74 said:

Thanks, sweetheart. I guess I was needy to get that off my chest. Not that it made any kind of difference.

I've never heard INSATIABLE let off steam like that.

FROM NOW ON "BATTLES" SHOULD BE DEALT WITH IN RHYMING FASHION! :NOD: OPEN MIC FORUM PLEASE

althom said:

I was cowering in the corner while she did it!

I know how U feel. Its pathetic, it really is. The voting of threads down really irritates me and little snidy remarks so that moderators cant act on what they've said cuz it doesnt appear as a flame.

I dont envy the moderators at all, it must be an arduous task.

AnotherLoverToo said:

It's been a big week for her! First she had the "sneeze thread". That made for interesting talk about snot flying out of her nose and now this.

She's moving up in the world I tell you.

interesting that some of those who "play" are now acting like saints...


and this isnt towards aaron cause he outed himself...

sosgemini said:

I really hope you're not talking about me, Kee. I'm a lover, not a fighter.

INSATIABLE said:

INSATIABLE said:

only when i say so...only when i say...into the light...there is peace and sirenity...in the light...




seriously though..i wasnt thinking of you..but if you have anything you'd like to share with us im all ears!



ifikissyoutherewillyoukissmeback edit!!
[This message was edited Sun Oct 5 21:37:49 PDT 2003 by sosgemini]

heres what i say,... if people dont take it personally it does not give it power.shit i admit i have started crap and been the victim of Org Drama, and for those i pissed off and offended and disrespected in the past and present i apologize.

but i took me a long hard lesson to understand life is too short to even give bullshit and drama on a website any kind of power.if you disregard it as bullshit and laugh at it. it doesnt overpower your spirit. but if you do take it serious u will succumb to being in a downward spiral of constant drama. and who needs that. so heres the trick,take it with a grain of salt and laugh at it. trust me you will live a much more healthier balanced life that way.


my 2 cents

Essence never mean to cause yous any sorrows! Hes never means to cause you pains! He only wanted one time to sees you thinking! Only wanted to sees you in the Purple Rains! It true. He gone now! Me too.

What did I miss???

DAMMIT!! I can't wait till I get all moved and stuff

Nikster said: