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Reply #90 posted 01/01/06 3:47am

Teacher

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Teacher said:




Actually, there are several teenagers that I know about that frequent this site because they like Prince and/or his music. Jus' saying shrug



I know of a few too nod


I think people like to think that Prince gets no new fans cos it's another way to put him down (I can't believe that I said that falloff ). However, there's a small bunch of especially chatters who're under age by more than a couple years, I think that it's easier to sneak into the chat than have the guts to post in the forums. Not all teens are as outgoing as GG. I have long felt that it's totally inappropriate for this site not to have either an age limit or harsher rules on what it's ok to post. I'm also hearing what Dawntreader says about the Prince sex threads, they suck ass for real and I'm not even trying to be funny with that. neutral
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Reply #91 posted 01/01/06 4:57am

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My neice, who is 13, spends time on this site. She visits and lets my brother know what is happening with Prince. I don't think she is allowed in the chat room.
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Reply #92 posted 01/01/06 10:12am

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Teacher said:

luv4u said:




I know of a few too nod


I think people like to think that Prince gets no new fans cos it's another way to put him down (I can't believe that I said that falloff ). However, there's a small bunch of especially chatters who're under age by more than a couple years, I think that it's easier to sneak into the chat than have the guts to post in the forums. Not all teens are as outgoing as GG. I have long felt that it's totally inappropriate for this site not to have either an age limit or harsher rules on what it's ok to post. I'm also hearing what Dawntreader says about the Prince sex threads, they suck ass for real and I'm not even trying to be funny with that. neutral


TESTIFY! highfive


jbchavez said:

My neice, who is 13, spends time on this site. She visits and lets my brother know what is happening with Prince. I don't think she is allowed in the chat room.


So do you think it's appropriate to allow the type of threads as mentioned in my main post on a site like this? It's now time to find some suitable middle ground, or lay down some stricter guidlines to what is appropriate and what is considered INappropriate.
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Reply #93 posted 01/02/06 7:08pm

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XxAxX said:

great topic. preach it BananaCologne!!!!!

it bothers me that there are so many sophomoric threads about 'butt, dick, pussy, cum', etc. here too.


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Reply #94 posted 01/10/06 9:18am

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I'm digging the idea of an 18 & Over forum for a bunch of reasons that have pretty much already been posted, so I won't rehash.

But I will give my twocents on the Love, Sex and Relationships forum (LSR) and one reason it may not have worked out: the name. Clearly what we're trying to deal with here is not an avalanche of threads regarding love and relationships per se. I think it sounded really nice to call it LSR as opposed to the Dick, Cunt and Ass forum, and that makes sense. But I do think it contributed to confusion. Was anyone really going over there to ask for advice on marital tension or the true nature of love? An 18 & Over forum would make it clear that this is where the NSFW topics go, guys.
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Reply #95 posted 01/10/06 9:22am

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XxAxX said:

i also agree with Zelaira that Prince has always attracted the 'quirky' types and that letting them roam free on this site in all their unmedicated glory is a 'good' thing.



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Reply #96 posted 01/16/06 3:27pm

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MOST DEFINITELY NOT!!! I WAS SO HAPPY THE DAY THAT FORUM CLOSED. IT CAUSED SO MUCH TROUBLE AND WAS SEEDY, IRRESPONSIBLE, PEOPLE GOT THEIR KICKS OUT OF HOW FAR THEY COULD GO AND THEREFORE WAS VERY DIFFICULT TO MODERARE.

IF IT WAS DECIDED TO BRING IT BACK, I WOULD DEFINITELY START A PETITION TO HAVE IT REMOVED AGAIN.

I HOPE BEN STICKS WITH HIS WORD AND KEEPS IT CLOSED FOR GOOD!


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Reply #97 posted 01/16/06 3:29pm

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OH, AND IF IT GOES AHEAD THAT THERE WILL BE SUCH A FORUM, THEN THERE MUST BE SOME KIND OF STRICT POLICY THAT ORGERS JOINING, OR HAVE JOINED MUST BE 18+

AGAIN, BEN SAID IT IS TOO DIFFICULT TO MONITOR

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Reply #98 posted 01/18/06 11:54pm

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REDBABY said:

OH, AND IF IT GOES AHEAD THAT THERE WILL BE SUCH A FORUM, THEN THERE MUST BE SOME KIND OF STRICT POLICY THAT ORGERS JOINING, OR HAVE JOINED MUST BE 18+

AGAIN, BEN SAID IT IS TOO DIFFICULT TO MONITOR




I could be a 12 year old who clicks on the button claiming to be 18,whose to know, right?
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Reply #99 posted 01/19/06 3:06pm

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BananaCologne said:

...Would YOU want it back? I can't even believe i'm saying this, but I think it's time it was resurrected - considered at least.

Why? Well, personally speaking, I am SO sick and tired of seeing the forums littered (and that's an entirely apt word in this instance) with adult-orientated threads containing in many cases graphic photographs or links.

Now, those of you that know me, know I am FAR from prudish, but this past year (the previous six months in particular) have just seen the forums go from bad, to worse, to frankly...downright shitty. Any sense of right and wrong is rapidly flying out of the Org's windows, and what we're being left with isn't that attractive - hell, it isn't even that entertaining. Whereas the Org could be something classy and somewhere people actually want to visit, it's now the equivilent of some run-down seedy motel in a 'baaad part o' town'.

What it boils down to is a handful of Orgers with a penchant for creating highly sexualised threads and a ravenous hunger for sensationalism - not to mention titles containing swearing. Let's take a look at some of them over the past few weeks shall we? Come, take a walk with me...

Does It Bother You When Someone Says Prince Is Gay? Should Being Gay Be Considered An INSULT?

How FAR WOULD YOU Go TO BE In BED With PRINCE?

Do You Think Prince Has Limited His Chances In The Past At Meeting Cool Women Cause Of Security And SHYNESS?

LESBIAN VAMPIRES!!

can men be raped?

david fuckin blaine!

Are You A Dominant Or A Submissive Type?

Are you offended by the word...(cunt)

tongue kissing after oral sex--yay or nay?

I feel like shit

do you masturbate to ....

BIG Assholes

What Type Of Lover Is Prince? Slow Groove Romantic.....??? S and M Freakazoid Man.....Rough Thuggin?

What animal are you hung like?

Im going to have sex tonight!!

Should i take the virginity of a 23 yr old away!!

If You Get Married Or Are In A Relationship Would Ya Swing

king size bed

Even More What the Fuck News

Boys & Girls the HOTTEST GD topic... Grower or Shower!? (SUN UPDATE- HOT GAY MUD WRESTLING!) (NSFW)

If A Gay Man Is Short and Has a Small Penis Does He Have Trouble Dating? Gay Men ANSWER This...

Show Your Titties!!!

Oh, for fuck's sake...

What kind of Porn turns you on?

New BESTIALITY movie



to the downright rude:
My Make A Wish For Christmas.....Prince Get DIVORCED.....Be Single Again....

Italian Homophobes

Prince! Tis the season Bitch!



I've been wondering whether or not to make a thread about this for sometime now, and have held off because I don't want to be tainted as a party pooper - hell, I like a laugh and a joke too y'know, but have we gone BEYOND that, are we risking losing something by doing so? Like our (the Org's) integrity maybe? *stop sniggering at the back there*

My thing is this, let's say, (hypothetically speaking) that a 13 year old boy has been given 'Musicology' for Christmas. He's really dug it, he's checked out npgmc, but he's got no membership. So he searches google - and the first site at the top of that list is?

US.

He joins up, and he browses through the main forum (Prince: Music & More) first, before venturing deeper into the site. He avoids the politics and religion forum entirely because that stuff holds no interest for him, and goes to GD. Now, ok - I KNOW what the defense arguments will be, I'm not daft - but what IF his mother came in, and looks over his shoulder and see the title of a thread called: New BESTIALITY movie staring back at her? What is she gonna do? How is she gonna react? WHat is she going to do to that 13 year old kid for 'looking at such filth' - ignoring his protestations that it 'was just a Prince website Mom'. What then?

I know many of you will more than likely find my comments pathetic, and self-rightous. No, I FIRMLY DO NOT believe we are anything like NPGMC - not even remotely, despite rumours to the contrary of 'intensive moderating styles'. I just believe in my heart that we ALL have a responsibility to be RESPONSIBLE for what we do here. The rules state quite plainly: You're responsible for what you write. This is no big clean-up campaign by the 'Org police' - I'm all for free speech within the remit of the sites rules, and I just think with a little help and understanding from all parties concerned those 'parties' can continue unabated with their own area where they can be as freaky as they wanna be.

THESE are the reasons I feel that we should now look into bringing 'THAT' forum - I'm not speaking for any other mod here, and it hasn't been discussed either but personally, I think it's time. I wouldn't call it the 'Sex' forum I'd call it: '18 & Over' tease I would also fully endorse it to be a NON-MODERATED forum, whatever happens in there is at your own risk etc. This way, it would not only 'clean up' the other forums of the proverbial litter, but also it would be interesting to see what all those people who complain about mod styles and desicions think about how things work in there. NO RULES (within the parameters of the law of course). NOTHING would be viewable in this forum unless you were a signed up member of the site. Maybe even an entrance page to that forum could be added where you electronically 'sign in' to acknowledge the content of the forum you are entering of your own accord. I think it's previous incarnation was FAR too obvioous, and that is why the majority of people hated it with such a passion. I think with enough discussion, we could work through all that and make it work to the Org's positive advantage.

So in the meantime, how about just a small modicum of decency? How about ensuring that your thread title does not have obsenities in it like shit, fuck, cunt, bastard etc? How about placing a simple *NSFW* at the end of your thread title prior to posting? ...call me crazy, but how about thinking of OTHER people for a change?

2006 is fast approaching... we could turn this place around, I don't like the Org being looked upon with disdain, and referred to as 'that site'. There IS a lot going for us, but let's not lie to ourselves any longer - the Org is not the place it once was, and is in many peoples eyes, a laughing stock.

We may be disfunctional at times, we may get laughed at, but hey - it's home.

So what are YOU gonna do to help?

- BananaCologne
(26th December 2005)


*'Oh the humanity of it all!' Edit*

hrmph
[Edited 12/28/05 11:10am]


Hey, I loved some of those threads! lol
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Reply #100 posted 01/19/06 5:14pm

LleeLlee

And where do you draw the line on explicitness? I think it would be a nightmare to moderate and if posts and pictures are going to be snipped it would defeat the whole purpose.

There are plenty of websites out there for people to satisfy their desire for adult material.

It is impossible to verify a members age and there might be under 18s visiting that forum.


I think it would put off a lot of people from visiting this site. A site which is primarily about an artist.


Those orgers with a penchant for creating highly sexualised threads ought to stop talking about it and start doing it..just a thought smile

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Reply #101 posted 01/19/06 5:21pm

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LleeLlee said:

And where do you draw the line on explicitness? I think it would be a nightmare to moderate and if posts and pictures are going to be snipped it would defeat the whole purpose.

There are plenty of websites out there for people to satisfy their desire for adult material.

It is impossible to verify a members age and there might be under 18s visiting that forum.


I think it would put off a lot of people from visiting this site. A site which is primarily about an artist.


Thoser orgers with a pechant for creating highly sexualised threads ought to stop talking about it and start doing it..just a thought smile

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Reply #102 posted 01/19/06 5:50pm

LleeLlee

Regarding the explicit threads in the G.D, I dont think they pose a big enough problem at the present time to warrant starting a separate forum. A lot of them are humourous for the most part and light hearted. People are responsible for themselves and if they have a problem moderating what they post than they should think about that...a lot of it is about pushing the envelope. But do you need to prove yourself on a Prince Website? okay i'm going off into a whole other realm here.

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Reply #103 posted 01/19/06 10:19pm

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luv4u said:

REDBABY said:

OH, AND IF IT GOES AHEAD THAT THERE WILL BE SUCH A FORUM, THEN THERE MUST BE SOME KIND OF STRICT POLICY THAT ORGERS JOINING, OR HAVE JOINED MUST BE 18+

AGAIN, BEN SAID IT IS TOO DIFFICULT TO MONITOR




I could be a 12 year old who clicks on the button claiming to be 18,whose to know, right?


A small fee by credit card would make it a helluva lot better. smile
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Reply #104 posted 01/20/06 5:46pm

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Teacher said:

luv4u said:




I could be a 12 year old who clicks on the button claiming to be 18,whose to know, right?


A small fee by credit card would make it a helluva lot better. smile



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Reply #105 posted 01/23/06 1:39pm

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Teacher said:

luv4u said:




I could be a 12 year old who clicks on the button claiming to be 18,whose to know, right?


A small fee by credit card would make it a helluva lot better. smile


These days a credit card is pretty much worthless as proof of age, unfortunately. Anyone with cash can purchase a prepaid Visa.
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Reply #106 posted 01/23/06 2:00pm

BananaCologne

I have absolutely no idea where this thread has gone, some seem to have missed the point entirely, some have gotten the wrong end of the proverbial stick, and some have used it for witty punchlines.

Well, the line has been drawn, and I know which side of it I'm standing on.

So orgers, fear not... Ogres - run for your lives, and prepare to meet: The Banananator cool
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Reply #107 posted 01/24/06 10:51pm

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BananaCologne said:

I have absolutely no idea where this thread has gone, some seem to have missed the point entirely, some have gotten the wrong end of the proverbial stick, and some have used it for witty punchlines.

Well, the line has been drawn, and I know which side of it I'm standing on.

So orgers, fear not... Ogres - run for your lives, and prepare to meet: The Banananator cool


I'm standing with you. Should we picket? lol
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Reply #108 posted 01/25/06 10:30am

BananaCologne

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BananaCologne said:

I have absolutely no idea where this thread has gone, some seem to have missed the point entirely, some have gotten the wrong end of the proverbial stick, and some have used it for witty punchlines.

Well, the line has been drawn, and I know which side of it I'm standing on.

So orgers, fear not... Ogres - run for your lives, and prepare to meet: The Banananator cool


I'm standing with you. Should we picket? lol


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Reply #109 posted 01/29/06 11:56pm

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Don't ever bring it back. It was part of the reason I left for over a year.
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Reply #110 posted 01/31/06 9:46pm

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Where can I read those threads? Where they deleted? If so, why?
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Reply #111 posted 02/02/06 2:28pm

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I asked over two years ago for a "Health & Beauty" forum. Surely "love, sex and relationships" would fall under the remit of "health"? You wouldn't have to call it "Health & Beauty" - just call it "Wellbeing" or something tastefully new-age.

I think it's odd that people state there's no place on a Prince fansite for a separate forum dealing with sexual topics, when there's an equally non-Prince-themed forum dedicated to politics and religion.

I believe that having sexually-themed topics within a forum containing serious topics on mental and physical health would elevate the sexual content above adolescent smirking.
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