i'm curious as to what you all think.

was glenn close's character (alex) really that crazy?

granted, there are degrees of crazy. but who of us has not felt that way at one time or another? i know i have. i haven't acted on it in the way she did (bunny stew) but i still felt that way.

who of us hasn't wanted to call the significant other? and who of us have?

and who think it was all michael douglas' (dan's) fault in the first place?

She is one scary lady..she still freaks me out

she was that crazy.

that's the all-important difference. plenty of people may have felt like that, but it's the acting on it which makes it crazy, not the thought.

and it wasn't dan's fault.

though he was a naughty boy.

She was crazy. And women like her do exist...

I was a victim of one...

REDFEATHERS said:

tell me you haven't felt like you were going crazy over a man.

She was the classic Borderline Personality.

I've never felt that way. I don't allow a man to make me feel that desperate, EVER.

And there's no point in calling the significant other, because you shouldn't be going out with married men EVER.

And yeah, it was Dan's fault for being a slimeball in the first place.

TheFrog said:

ahh, froggy. i think i remember a time when you thought she wasn't that crazy.

i think adrian lyne has a thing for fidelity. he did unfaithful, too.

sag10 said:

do you blame her or your partner?

starkitty said:

In my and mind but I havent done anything like she did.

starkitty said:

yeah, but i've discussed it with the lads over , and it's now clear to me she was bonkers.

gemini13 said:

never? you've never had that awkward period when he stops calling, and you wonder if you should call, should you leave it alone, did you do something wrong, is he acting weird, is it you...

PanthaGirl said:

i think i've learned through time and experience not to judge people as much as i used to.

i also think, naively or not, that it is the married party's responsibility to his/her union. i don't blame the 'other person' so much. unless he or she is like, a relative or something.

REDFEATHERS said:

hence the levels of crazy.

i have a friend who perfected the 'drive-by'. she had the routine all planned, many a night i rode with her.

enter development, lights off. ride around the back of the house where she could see inside, ride around the front of the house to check out the car situation.

starkitty said:

see that seems hardcore to me.

serious trust issues there.

though quite exciting and Columbo-esque all the same.

sag10 said:

Yep my family had to deal with one too. Only my father ended up marrying her

It was so bad...she even called my brother when he was 10 to tell him she's pregnant and that she needs to have an abortion. Not to mention the sympathy card she sent to my mother saying "So sorry your marriage isn't working out well". I hate her.

starkitty said:

I understand your viewpoint star but personally my opinion is based on the reality rather then judgement.

PanthaGirl said:

well put, PanthaGirl!!

REDFEATHERS said:

Thanks babes!

i'm kind of going through that fatal attraction thing myself right now,only i'm the one whose married and he's not what do i do?????

cammille said:

Hide in a cupboard, and dont come out until your juices have dried up..

sag10 said:

and starkitty is admittedly one of them.

tried that!

cammille said:

i think you should shower him with gifts.

dumbass said:

thats not very nice

TheFrog said:

That will prolly work...

btw, how are you, cammille, sweetie?

mmm would that make him want me?
what kind of gifts?

REDFEATHERS said:

one might almost think it was said by a dumbass...

cammille said:

depends what he's like. try a new car, and then move on from there.