Reflection said:

Sloppy research--you need to go back to the coal mine and keep digging.
I see BabyCakes everyday and I can verify that it's her.
Seems you may have issues with the way YOU look,and if that's the case,you should address that instead of coming to false conclusions and accusing folks of lying.

That's Babycakes in her avatar?
Damn,ya def. got it going on girl.

The dog in me just had to come sniffing this thread....

If your horny and you know it clap your hands... clap clap

BabyCakes said:

hehehe not looking for problems or to start nothing here....just keeping it real. Unlike yourself of course. Fess up already. I'm an avid collector of mens mag's from all over the world. Since I do have my facts right about the euro chick in the photo (from euro mens mag) why don't U just shut it now!

Velvetroper
MBGTW
Luv4thepurple1
Nessone are def. up there on the charts

Reflection said:

no one seems to have called your bluff yet.

link it.

The orgs bout ta start ww3.
Brace for tha hits.....

at this entire thread

This brings up the old thing about identities on the org. I have no idea if that is her or not. I've tried not to see peoples' pics when I've interacted with them. I don't want it to influence my opinion of them since all it is after all is a picture.

Ultimately u have to be quite vain to choose a picture of yourself like that as your avatar. Depends what u seek I guess. I did used to have a pic of my wife on here and that was a mistake I learned.

Famboozled said:

it could be vanity, or it could be a strength and a love and a freedom with her physical being. it could be pride, maybe she worked really hard to get that way. it could not even be her altogether. who knows.

i'm a little puzzled by your post though, because you have posted pictures of yourself here.

starkitty said:

I can believe you're puzzled. However, did you notice the nature of my pics? Just simple holiday pics, me sitting on a train, clothed, not in underwear etc.

Famboozled said:

lol.


as you were.

Famboozled said:

anyways fam, this was the point i was talking about... but you made me laugh so it didn't matter.

starkitty said:

I know what u're saying about pride, although pride is not usually a good thing unless you're from a big, obnoxious country where patriotism is unquestioningly seen as a good thing. There's nothing wrong with looking good though. We all get old and we only have a short time to really look our best. It's something nice to look back on too, when we looked young and beautiful and full of vitality. That's why it's good to have pics of ourselves at our best. They help our self-esteem too, if we are a little deficient in this area. There is a time and a place however. The love and freedom thing is a nice idea, but the more likely theory is either vanity or insecurity or a weird combination of the two. I don't know this to be true of course. It's my speculative opinion.

starkitty said:

Do u do the same? I am curious to see the people behind the posts, but usually I like to see them after I've read their posts and got to know them a little bit. Many orgers I do not even know the sex of. That can lead to some interesting mistakes.

good point.

i am vain and insecure at times myself. but i wonder if that is inherent of women.

(still starkitty here)
[This message was edited Wed Jun 23 20:47:32 2004 by vanillachild]

I just snapped a shot with a webcam n thought nothing of it.
Maybe it's a little different for women?

Famboozled said:

yeah, i tend to want to put a face with a (screen)name.

i know this sounds shallow, but i'll say it anyway. if i dig that person's style, and they are attractive or in someway physically appealing, that's icing on the cake. if you are witty and funny, i dig you no matter what you look like.

but you know. it can be a bonus.

Crackin up over "vanillachild"

vanillachild said:

I think we all are at times. It's a human trait and I doubt there is anyone who doesn't share it. I sure feel better when I look at a good picture of myself. Probably not much harm in that. There's probably no real harm in being very vain most of the time - only that it could be a waste of energy and ultimately leads to unhappiness. I guess we have to be confident about our appearance, but a secure person would probably not need to put such a pic up. That's why I tend not to consider the whole freedom, pride thing. Beauty doesn't really need to try does it?

wHiTEgIRlCrAzY said:

how you doin'?

Famboozled said:

you bettah work with yo bad self. preach on!

damn.

that is my new mantra.

"Beauty doesn't really need to try."

but on the real, honey, i put on makeup and do my hair everyday.

vanillachild said:

Doin just fine baby.

vanillachild said

about Famboozled:

Now u've made me go over my posting limit.

Hmm, I'll gladly take this comment above out of context for the benefit of my self-esteem.



Yeah, did get preachy there didn't I? Shoulda seen me on msserendipity's thread yesterday. I was going for it!

vanillachild said:

U see, that's where u and I differ. I never put on makeup. That's probably a deep-seated psychological difference.

fauxnewbie said:

damn, i thought that was you (when i saw the avatar).

i'm the one who ragged you about posting pics in the first place.

vanillachild said:

I remember that. I posted 4 because I never had photobucket before and you said 'enough already' or something to that effect.

Why I oughta...

I didn't take it seriously at the time of course, although deep down it probably has affected me quite, quite terribly.

Here's a style question for u - does my afro look good on me?

fauxnewbie said:

i thought you did, and i felt terribly about it. not so terribly after the comment you made in the hottest female thread, but eh. life goes on.

the afro suits you.