Do you think it is hypocritical to be friends with someone whom you would in no way endorse to the opposite sex? You know, the whole, "I'm friends with him, but I wouldn't let my sister date him" mentality, whethe it be male or female based on what you know of them. How principled should we be in the company we keep?

You are the company you keep

Good point.

bkw? You're cut loose.

Idiot said:

Hey!

bkw said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

Double time

althom said:

JDINTERACTIVE said:

nah i dont think its hypocritical at all. Simply cause i don't reckon u can 'wreck da same havoc' in a friendship, for example, i have one friend who kinda went around if ya know what i mean...some say she was seekin attention..maybe who knowz, but i'm not friendz wif her cause of dat, cause she's a kewl gal to hang with n be spastic with. I'm not gonna not be her friend, because she is human, and although i disagree with her wayz, i could never abandon a friend

SexLovely said:

I fancy your sister. he he!

No, it was just a general question really. I had a situation where my sister really liked one of my friends. I can honestly say I wouldn't of minded if they got together despite me knowing his faults. However, it's a thorny issue in case sister/brother is hurt by your friend.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Trust me dude....U dont fancy her!! I wouldnt let U do that to yrself.

I see. Well i think any1 deserves 2 know the flaws of sum1 they may start dating...its just whether or not yr gonna have the balls 2 tell em yrself or let em get on with it.

Funny that, I dont know if I have told you this story before, JD, or not, but when I finished my university degree, oh hell, that was about 11 years ago, I went back home to my parents and my brother got me a job in the local pub to tide me over with money for a bit.

Well I hadnt been back to this small town in so long, so all the guys were like.. *Hmm hubba hubba who is this new sexy girl behind the bar?*

Anyway, that first night, men swooped up to the bar, chatting me up, buying me drinks, asking me out and stuff, believe you me, I got a whole heap of attention from the opposite sex when I first started. It was nice, I was flattered, and alot of them seemed really nice and kind (even though they were letching after me ) LOL

Anyway, a while later, one evening, they all kept away, hardly said much to me that evening, ordered their drinks and left the bar.. *I was thinking WTF is going on here? Have I got spinach in my teeth or something?*

Just so happens, my brother has a lot of respect around here, and told these guys/friends....*Hey, thats my little sister behind the bar, leave her alone*

So they did as they were told, and left me alone..
Guess my bro thought I was too good for them...



My love life was killed for that summer in an instant!


Big Brothers!

REDFEATHERS said:

No you didn't and I can imagine if I ever impeded on my sister's social life I'm sure she wouldn't like it like you did. Of cause I'd have to say something to her if I thought someone was a bad egg but at the end of the day it's up to her.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Yeah, but these are big butch northern men and he knew what they must have been like from drinking with them before

JDINTERACTIVE said:

I think we look for different qualities between our friends and our mates. We get different things from different people. I won't cut one of my good friends off because she may be psychotic in a relationship, but I won't set her up with any male friends, either. Who needs that headache?