I only ever seem to attract Sugar Granddaddies or Sugar Great Granddaddies!

I've been offered 3 times in my life to be "kept". Basically paid and taken care of in return for sex. I could not take the offer, even though I could have had $$$, clothes, cars and toys. Each of these guys were seriously ancient (I love older guys but there is a limit) and they all were sort a close to lookin like Jabba The Hut.

Have you ever been kept? Was it worth the trade off, sex with an ugly guy to get money and stuff?

"Kept"??...Blech..

I'd rather "keep" myself...

Byron said:

I mean it wouldn't be so bad if I was even remotely attracted to the man but I'm telling you, I could not fuck for the cash if I'm not at all attracted to that person. If I'm totally turned off, which is the case with each of these guys, I cannot force my way through the experience. The money simply wouldn't be worth it.

And it's more my nature to be independent and earn my own way. But not to have to struggle and bang someone I'm attracted to and get paid for it. Well, then I'd feel like the average American Housewife

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

The, uh, "chips & whips" don't mean all that much to me...and if/when they do, I can provide them for myself.. So...I guess I don't really put intimacy and money within the same sentence, so to speak...then again I've never been asked...

Being a kept man would only make you lazy.

Be proud.








And let's go to Mas A Choo Cets. Fuck the damn spelling of that.

Never have been but have been offered. And, like you, I couldn't do it. I will admit that when times are really rough, I wonder why I can't be a person that could handle doing something like that... but, am always happy that I didn't do it.

gooeythehamster said:

Is that a propsal

I fuckin wish!!

Hmm,,Ive never been a "kept" woman,,But money is a powerful aphrodesiac..(sp)

Just do what makes ya happy~

I got diamond earrings....

But that was from an ex who I already had sex with. So that doesn't count!

Richard... I have no idea (none)... all I can see is a beautiful man when I see you. All I feel/felt was a beautiful soul/man when I met you. Truly.

I am very serious. I was going over all my long neglected papers the other day (bills, school documents etc.) and I ran across your letter you wrote me in expression/reflection to music and your soul. Touching it was... all over again.

Thank you.

"If you got some Sugar for me, Sugar Daddy bring it home"!!!

I don't know, my friend -- maybe we should go hunting
together, cuz I wouldn't mind a Sugardaddy myself!!!

SexLovely said:

So you're saying I need to skank it up and not wash my hair and dress in rags???

SexLovely said:

Please! that's like telling the sun not to shine --
he can't NOT be Sexy. That's who he is!!!

madartista said:

First a marriage proposal and now this....

dude, youre too awesome to whore yourself. the idea of someone "keeping" someone else is really creepy. don't lower yourself, since youre one of the cooolest people on here!

I always wanted a Sugar Daddy!

But then I couldn't stand the idea of being a kept woman..

Now, I play like my boyfriend is my sugar daddy!
[This message was edited Tue May 18 13:00:05 2004 by sag10]

Being "kept" is actually a big fantasy of mine.

Not for the money at all, but for the idea that this person would see me and use me in a purely sexual way. The simplicity of the whole thing is very exciting.

Ashtheking said:

You know what? I've never ever seriously considered it. My independent streak runs too deep. With that said, once in a while (mostly while I'm struggling) I have entertained the idea of having a man I'm incredibly in love with who just happens to be loaded in more than just his pants

I have watched many aquaintences do this and many of them tried convincing me to do the same thing. But the trade off never seemed worth it, despite the ease of not having to worry about where your money is going to come from.

Now if Kevin Spacey came along and made this proposal.....

Ashtheking said:

Totally agree here
Be proud, take care of yourself, much more rewarding!
You're way to lovely to do someting like that

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I wouldnt go that far. Just maybe wear rags 4 a month.....

Hey U may attract a smelly guy with a year old untrimmed beard, but at least he'll be younger.

SexLovely said:

I have no problem with older guys, prefer them actually. But these offers came from Father time's Father!!!!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Eeeeeesh Nasty.

ok, well why not skank it up, dont wash yr hair, wear rags and that way U wont attract any more toothless, smelly old horny men.


...full of great ideas me.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Co-sign. I know exactly what you're saying. Having been self-sufficient for so long, I know that I can take care of myself. And I think there is actually a strength in acknowledging that I would LIKE to be taken care of -- not because I need it, but because I want it.

Like you, I'm definitely too independent to be completely "kept", but I wouldn't mind a "helping hand."

madartista said:

This thought has probably crossed many a single persons mind...

Boo.

Get kept. They gon' die soon, and you'll be in the mothafuckin' will! What more do you need?

vanillachild said:

I tried to be a kept woman once. The man had buttloads of money, wanted to buy me everything, and fawned over me like a lovesick puppy. I couldn't take it.

I was in my early twenties, and he was about ten years older than I. This is going to sound really awful, but it's the truth. He was deaf in one ear, and had that certain deaf person's "accent". Superficial, I realize, but I wasn't too keen on listening to him talk because he sounded like he was stupid because of that accent.

I could've lived very comfortably, but chose not to because he sounded like a moron.

HAHAHAHA I'm a bad, bad girl.