and I know it's for the better but is it supposed to hurt like this?
Because my lover's heart is broken, my heart is broken

marcdeondotcom said:

Aw man, don't ya hate doin that??

I just had to end my previous relationship about a month ago, and it hurt like hell to see him cry.

But then a week after, I hooked up again!

I'm sorry... and yes, it's gonna hurt.

Can I offer you a

thanks sag10.

no hooking up for me though kiss85.

and yes pook. i finally did it.

Sounds corny, but time's a great healer.

Make some time for yourself, do stuff you really enjoy this weekend - see a film, eat out, go for a drive, whatever.

If it's for the best, then it had to be done, for you both.

you guys are the bestest.

thanks for the advice 1p1p1i3. it feels like stomach acids are eating away at my heart. i think i'll do all of the above.

Bless you for taking care of yourself in the long run. This life is just too short to be miserable.

I think sometimes it's harder to be the dumper than the dumpee, because at least when you get dumped, all your friends get to tell you what a jerk your ex was for breaking it off. When you're the dumper all you get is hang-up calls and horse heads snuck on your pillow in the middle of the night, sigh.

you'll be happier, later. small consolation right now i know. trust me.. ..

From one BayNPGer to another...This, too, shall pass...

Go get a tattoo.

Or shave your head!

F'real, man. Hang in there. Look past the discomfort of change, and take solace in the fact that it was the best decision.

Peace.

marcdeondotcom said:

You're such a sweetheart... although you did just DUMP somebody...

lol, J/k sweetie... Write a song about it... Pour your heart out.

You guys rock.

I think I'll pass on that tattoo though
and I pretty much keep my head shaved but good advice nonetheless... go out and do something radical.

The song is already written Vina. I began work on it after an upset late last year. Orgnote me your address and I will send you a CD.

so how long was the relationship?

keep yourself occupied. Go out, have fun keep close company with friends, or loved ones. Only time will heal the pain. LOTS of time. As time passes, you will begin to feel better, and realize that things happen for a reason.

The pain is only temporary.....unless you are me then you are tormented for life....in the great words of Pac.

"Keep yo head"

That sucks, how you feel better. I guess things were not working out.

All tings for the best mon.
It was a rough first weekend. Saturday, I went out and purchased In Living Color Season 1 on DVD. Kim Wayans is the bOmb. Sunday, I prepared a gourmet meal complete with desert and finished it off with a bottle of wine. I've been hesitant about getting in the studio as I want to shake these vibes... who wants another Pretty Hate Machine or Jagged Little Pill

Anyhoo, thank you all for your kind words and support.

marcdeondotcom said:

I would!

VinaBlue said:

Too funny... well, we'll see what happens.

The fact that you prepared a gourmet meal for yourself, tells me that you are on your way...