So, let's say you're in your mid-thirties, have had a couple of kids, and
the "pooch" is starting to happen...ever so slightly. Do u consider wearing
a girdle? Some of the latest ones don't appear to be too bulky, and
look like they'd do wonders for the figure...
I'm not talking about wearing them everyday, but maybe with a dress
or those spandex pants.

"This guy I know" is apprehensive about how to broach the subject with his
girl. Should this be brought up at all? Or is this one of those personal
decisions that's better left unapproached? Would the latest model be an
appropriate gift? Is he just being insensitive? Help me help him.

BTW, we like hearty girls...it's just a question about appearance.

Revolution said:

Ohh touchy subject, be careful. I think this is a choice she should make. A man should always accept his women for who she is and no for what he wants her to be.

A little meat on a women never hurt nobody.....maybe she feels comfortable with herself. Self confidence is priceless

I agree, self confidence is key, she's got no problem with that, but
she complains about the pooch...I think of it as a way to mask the
problem until she commits herself to losing it.
(I guess the cats out of the bag).

Revolution said:

Let her decide for herself. Sometimes buying a "beauty product" for your women may not be the right thing to do. She may take offense to it. Making a women mad, may lead to getting less or no KITTY, KITTY for a while

TaraPatrick said:[quote]

Revolution said:

Ohh touchy subject, be careful. I think this is a choice she should make. A man should always accept his women for who she is and no for what he wants her to be.

Co-sign

No man should ever, EVER buy a girdle for his woman.

However, a sexy corset could be fun.

Thanks Google


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CarrieMpls said:

That sounds like a good solution to me If you buy her a girdle she's gonna punch yo ass out BUT if it's something sexy for the bedroom & she's into it, maybe she'll see how flattering her figure can be w/ something like that on & she'll be encouraged to enhance it in clothes as well.

Although, if she cared you'd think she'd already wear the damn thing I dunno, you might still get knocked the fuck out Good luck! When you go to buy the corset pick up a mouth guard

CarrieMpls said:

CalhounSq said:

buying her a girdle or even mentioning the word girdle is a bad idea. she will hate you. if she brings it up just shrug your shoulders and make some noncommital man sound. If the "pooch" is bothering her enough, she'll take care of it herself. just love her.

I'm a lady.

JasmineFire said:

I agree, John.

She most likely wants to know that her man loves her and thinks she's sexy regardless of the tummy. The best thing is to help her feel confident and loved...an offer of a girdle FOR SURE will NOT do that.

Oh wow.

Yeah hon, do not mention it. That's a no-win.

Maybe she's been thinking about buying her man a girdle, did that thought even cross his mind!!!? Perhaps they could get his n hers girdles?

You know men wear them too nowadays, just ask Cloudbuster!!!!

Yeah, if he has a tummy himself he is in no position to make any comment himself - my husband has learned that very quickly (his is much bigger than mine and I'm pregnant!).

charlottegelin said:

sometimes men depress me with their physical standards. especially when they don't hold themsleves to the same ones.

JasmineFire said:

AMEN to that!!!!